Marriage of Greatness Podcast

Evan and Susan Money

The best sex of your life awaits! Now that we have your attention, the Marriage of Greatness Podcast is for growth minded couples that want to go from Good to Great in their Marriages. Evan and Susan Money are on a journey to have 100 weddings by the time Evan is 100 years old! Think about how much you can learn from them. Warning! This is not for the 99% that want to settle for good enough. It's for the select few that want greatness in all areas of life. Enjoy weekly episodes as Evan and Susan share amazing lessons and stories within each episode.

  1. 6d ago

    143: Do You Need Help, A Hug, Or To Be Heard?

    A simple question can transform your relationship: "Do you need help, a hug, or to be heard?" In this energizing episode, Evan and Susan Money explore how this formula—borrowed from a powerful TED Talk—can unlock deeper connection in marriage. Discover why asking the right question in the right moment can reassure your partner, help you navigate emotional needs, and make both of you feel truly seen and valued. The Moneys share practical tips, insightful examples from their own relationship, and actionable takeaways you can implement today, including the game-changing power of clarifying what your partner actually heard you say. 00:00 Welcome and Marriage of Greatness mindset01:32 Inspiration behind the episode: Charles Duhigg's TED Talk02:15 Applying "help, hug, or heard" in marriage03:27 The magic statement: "Tell me more"04:13 Recognizing needs you didn't know you had05:45 Everyone wants to be seen, heard, and recognized06:15 The importance of asking for help and noticing when it's needed07:33 How destructive behavior is often a hidden cry for help08:27 The healing power of a hug09:24 Releasing shame around tears and breakthrough moments in sports11:07 The sacredness of not letting go during a hug13:03 The art of being heard, not just listened to14:39 Using "What did you hear me say?" for clear communication16:20 The importance of matching wavelengths and slowing down17:26 Practicing active listening and closing the loop17:56 Challenge: Applying the episode’s lessons in your relationship18:07 Wrap-up and next steps

  2. Sep 22

    142: How To Align Your Past, Present & Future

    When you choose to view your past as a teacher—not a prison—you unlock the freedom to become your best self. How do you truly let go of hurt, embrace the present, and stay open to whatever the future brings? In this heartfelt episode, Evan Money and Susan Money share practical wisdom on aligning your past, present, and future. From letting go of toxic memories through forgiveness to being intentional in the moment and flexible with tomorrow’s plans, you’ll hear adaptable strategies to bring more peace and purpose into your marriage—and life. Highlights include personal stories of healing, powerful questions to reframe limiting beliefs, and a liberating take on happiness as a daily choice rather than a destination. Episode Overview 00:00 How to align your past, present, and future 00:30 Welcoming listeners and setting the tone 02:34 Discussion of Marriage of Greatness book 03:09 James Clear’s “forgive, be strict, be flexible” quote 03:32 Releasing the past and learning to forgive 04:36 Evan Money shares personal forgiveness story 05:07 Forgiveness as healing—not forgetting 06:14 Connecting with others through shared scars 07:25 Embracing the present and treating it as a gift 08:34 Changing your personal narrative and mindset 09:56 Susan Money on parenting and telling better stories 12:19 Choosing a better present story is work 13:20 Letting go of “destination disease” and being happy now 15:11 Happiness is a present-tense choice 15:53 Joy in the journey, not just the destination 17:05 Planning for the future—why flexibility matters 18:03 God writes the best stories for our lives 18:21 3 key truths to remember 19:37 Enjoy becoming, not just arriving 20:01 Final encouragements and challenge to take action 20:34 Outro and next steps

  3. Sep 8

    140: The Art of Exceptional Living

    Happiness isn’t a destination—it’s a daily choice! What if the secret to an exceptional life is found not in grand achievements, but in infusing ordinary moments with care, attention, and gratitude? In this inspiring episode of the Marriage of Greatness Podcast, Susan Money and Evan Money share personal stories and key lessons inspired by Jim Rohn, revealing how focusing on who you are becoming leads to lasting fulfillment in marriage, parenting, and beyond. Discover why “there is no there”—only the growth of today—and how simple shifts in perspective can transform your everyday life. Key highlights include: Insights from Evan Money’s journey from stumbling upon a pirated Jim Rohn tape to personal and professional transformation Susan Money’s reflections on parenting, savoring childhood moments, and letting go of the “destination disease” Practical tips to turn ordinary experiences—meals, walks, conversations—into extraordinary opportunities for growth and connection Timeless quotes and actionable wisdom from Jim Rohn and John Wooden to guide your path Episode Overview: 00:01 What is the art of exceptional living?00:30 The Marriage of Greatness Podcast introduction00:43 Greatness through consistent habits, not perfection01:34 Roots of the episode—Jim Rohn’s influence02:06 Evan Money’s life-changing experience with personal growth audio03:24 Growth is a journey, not an overnight leap03:48 Susan Money shares her introduction to personal growth04:44 Embracing a new model for a life well-lived06:08 Debunking the “destination disease”: start exceptional living now07:10 Bringing extraordinary care to ordinary moments08:28 The myth of “there” and the power of presence09:00 Parenting intentionally and savoring childhood10:08 Letting go of the need for order, embracing the present12:00 Creating extraordinary moments in marriage13:24 Savoring the simple things and practicing daily gratitude14:18 “Extraordinary” is just a little extra above ordinary14:26 Jim Rohn’s core lesson: it’s about who you become15:16 Growth over stagnation—why life is never static16:05 Susan Money: Choosing to become happier, day by day17:00 John Wooden’s wisdom on choices shaping who we are17:20 Taking action: putting today’s lessons into practice17:35 Closing and next steps for listeners

  4. Sep 1

    139: Weddings #38 and #39 Italy & Switzerland - Part 2

    Choosing love again and again is where the real magic happens—could a hundred weddings hold the key to keeping romance alive? In this episode, the Marriage of Greatness Podcast continues its globe-trotting journey with Part two of weddings #38 and #39 in the breathtaking landscapes of Italy and Switzerland. From a Star Wars-themed vow exchange on Lake Como to a picturesque ceremony overlooking the Matterhorn (complete with goat parades, ziplining adventures, and some unforgettable French toast), learn how Evan and Susan’s commitment to writing new vows each time keeps their marriage fresh and extraordinary. Featuring heartwarming stories, practical romance insights, and a sneak peek at their next wedding, this episode will inspire every couple to turn ordinary habits into extraordinary love. Timestamped Overview [00:00:00] Weddings 38 & 39: Italy & Switzerland—Introduction[00:01:23] Welcome, Romantic Inspirations, and Shoutouts[00:03:04] Recap of Lake Como Wedding & Lake Adventures[00:03:30] Defining Terms: Why Write New Vows?[00:04:11] Arrival in Zermatt, Matterhorn Magic, Disney Backstory[00:05:02] Zermatt’s Charm: No Cars, Goats, Ski Town Vibe[00:06:29] Goat Parade Experience & Town Atmosphere[00:07:04] High-End Meets Alps Country Charm[00:07:48] Ziplining and (Attempted) Paragliding Fun[00:09:02] Unique Zipline Obstacle Course in the Trees[00:09:31] Over Rivers, Soccer Fields, and the Town[00:10:12] Go-at-Your-Own-Pace Adventures & Mishaps[00:11:06] Culinary Highlights: French Toast and Kiwi Surprises[00:12:13] Swiss Bread, Spa, and Pool Experiences[00:13:30] Planning the Matterhorn Wedding & Dress Decisions[00:15:07] Tracksuit Wedding: The Adidas Inspiration[00:16:51] Journey Up the Mountain: Weather and Group Dynamics[00:17:39] The Ceremony: Magic, Bouncers, and Vows[00:20:02] The Gornergrat Railway & Chapel Details[00:21:25] Planning Wedding #40: Chicago Teaser[00:22:45] What Inspired You? Call to Action[00:24:56] Closing & Podcast Info

  5. Aug 25

    138: Weddings #38 and #39 in Italy & Switzerland

    Join the Marriage of Greatness podcast for an unforgettable journey as the hosts celebrate weddings number 38 and 39 in spectacular style—this time in Italy and Switzerland! The conversation focused on their mission to reach 100 weddings by their 100th birthday, sharing the inspiration and planning behind each unique ceremony. One concept discussed was how they choose to create brand-new vows for each wedding, embracing growth and new commitments rather than simply renewing old promises. A key theme that emerged was the transformative power of travel and adventure in keeping romance alive. The discussion explored their dream destinations, including the influence of friends’ travel stories and iconic films like The Sound of Music and Star Wars. Several points were raised, including the challenges of planning multi-country trips, their dynamic as a visionary-detail-oriented couple, and the game-changing decision to book an Adventures by Disney tour, with shoutouts to phenomenal guides Sylvia and Colin. Highlights include a magical Star Wars-themed wedding at Lake Como, ziplining at the Matterhorn, culinary adventures in Venice, and unforgettable moments in Milan’s grand train station. The episode wraps up with a heartfelt reading of their bonding ceremony vows, inspired by favorite authors and films, encouraging listeners to intentionally invest in their own marriages. Don’t miss this episode packed with inspiration, travel tips, and a celebration of love, adventure, and intentional growth in marriage!

  6. Aug 18

    137: Behavior is a Language

    Taking responsibility in your marriage isn’t just admirable—it's contagious. What if the true language of love isn’t spoken, but shown through your everyday actions? In this episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money uncover the powerful idea that "behavior is a language." Inspired by a quote from John Delony and a championship mindset lesson from Tom Brady, they explore how couples can transform their relationships by ending the blame game, consistently showing up with love, and making intentional choices every day. Discover how the “ultimate team sport” of marriage thrives on selflessness, practical daily habits, and a commitment to positive, repeatable actions. Tune in for actionable tips, real-life stories, and an inspiring look at the simple habits that build marriages of greatness. Timestamped Overview [00:00] Behavior is a language—episode introduction[00:28] Meet Evan and Susan; the power of habits over hype[01:22] Shoutouts, inspiration source, and John Delony’s quote[02:11] Championship mindset and accountability—insights from Tom Brady[03:35] Translating sports teamwork to marriage[04:21] Why blame never works and the value of responsibility[06:17] Self-reflection questions for a marriage of greatness[07:50] Love language in action—practical daily habits[09:04] The wisdom of dogs—showing up with presence[10:05] The power of full attention and intentional presence with loved ones[11:01] What language is your marriage speaking?[11:34] Call to action and signing off[12:05] Show credits and follow information

  7. Aug 11

    136: What Are Your Marriage Values? Lessons from Steve Kerr & Pete Carrol

    When you define your marriage values, you don’t just set a direction—you establish a legacy. What are the beliefs guiding the choices, actions, and happiness in your marriage? In this episode, Susan Money and Evan Money draw from NBA coach Steve Kerr and NFL’s Pete Carroll to reveal why values—not strategy—build greatness in marriage and life. The hosts share their step-by-step journey to narrowing down their core values, the importance of intentional living, and how joy becomes a daily, practical discipline. You’ll hear candid stories, valuable definitions, actionable health wisdom, and a powerful challenge to declare your own marriage values—before culture or circumstance decides for you. Timestamped Overview 00:00 Defining Marriage Values—The Big Question01:16 Shout Outs & Introduction of Core Topic01:37 The Steve Kerr/Pete Carroll Coaching Story03:33 Shaping Personal & Nonprofit Values04:11 What Are Values? Defining the Core Compass05:02 The Values List Exercise06:01 Revealing the Four Values: Joy, Intentionality, Responsibility, Integrity07:03 Practicing Joy—Real-Life Examples & Insights09:18 Living Intentionally: Health, Habits, & Feedback from Friends13:02 Unpacking Responsibility: Ownership Over Excuses13:47 Integrity—Doing Right When No One Is Watching15:42 Surprise Reveal: Distilling Four Values Down to Two16:24 Why You Must Choose (Not Default) Your Marriage Values17:18 The Power of Values in Shaping Legacy and Daily Life18:40 Take Action—Have the Conversation and Live Out Your Values19:09 Closing & Where to Find More

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The best sex of your life awaits! Now that we have your attention, the Marriage of Greatness Podcast is for growth minded couples that want to go from Good to Great in their Marriages. Evan and Susan Money are on a journey to have 100 weddings by the time Evan is 100 years old! Think about how much you can learn from them. Warning! This is not for the 99% that want to settle for good enough. It's for the select few that want greatness in all areas of life. Enjoy weekly episodes as Evan and Susan share amazing lessons and stories within each episode.

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