Sister-in-Law

Briana Steel and Cambria Steel

Not everyone gets lucky enough to have the best sister-in-law ever — someone you can laugh with, vent to, and shamelessly overshare with. That’s where we come in. We’re Briana and Cambria Steel, two women in tech, and if it wasn't obvious, sisters-in-law. We may have been brought together by a man, but we sure as hell aren’t reliant on one. Think of us as your coven as we navigate life — the good, the messy, the meaningful, and all the cringe-worthy moments in between. Through honest conversations, we’ll share our different perspectives, learn and grow right alongside you, and dive into the topics that matter most — from finance and career to fashion, women’s health, and everything in between. At the heart of it, this is about expanding our knowledge, finding connection, and tackling the chaos of life while laughing the whole way through.

  1. Truths About Egg Freezing

    3d ago

    Truths About Egg Freezing

    Episode 13 opens with tacos, a baby shower on the horizon, and Bri gushing about the magic of being surrounded by women — which leads to a relatable bit about having absolutely nothing to say to men unless soccer stats are on the table. Then it's straight into the main event: a candid, no-filter conversation about egg freezing that neither of them got to have when they actually needed it. Cambria shares her full experience — how she only discovered she had severe endometriosis and an endometrioma that had overtaken her right ovary when she went in for egg freezing at 36. How she'd been living with debilitating migraines and pain her entire life and simply assumed that was just how periods worked. How her AMH score came back at 0.5 when a healthy score is a 2. And how nobody — not a single doctor across decades of annual pap smears — had ever thought to offer her an ultrasound or an AMH test before she started asking questions herself. Bri, 27 weeks pregnant at the time of recording, adds her own perspective: she was over a 2 on her AMH and still had no idea what that test even was until recently. Together they make the case that the information gap between "how to prevent pregnancy" and "how to preserve fertility" is enormous, frustrating, and completely fixable — if women are given earlier access to the right questions. Cambria walks through the full egg freezing process — the hormone phase, the injections, the bloating, the emotional chaos, the retrieval procedure itself (easy, apparently, especially with fentanyl) — and then brings it home with something genuinely surprising: Costco now offers egg freezing medication packages that can cut costs by up to 80%. They close with a practical guide for what younger women — or anyone who loves a younger woman — should know and ask. What We Cover Baby shower weekend incoming and the comfort of being surrounded by womenWhy Cambria didn't discover her endometriosis until she was 36 — and why that's a systemic failure, not a personal oneWhat endometriosis actually is and how common it is (1 in 10 women)The AMH test: what it is, what a healthy score looks like, and why most women have never heard of itWhy the gap between "preventing pregnancy" education and "preserving fertility" education is so wideThe fertility cliff: what it is, when it happens, and why it's not as predictable as you thinkFor the first time this year, women in their 40s are outpacing teen pregnancy ratesWhat Cambria's egg freezing process actually looked like: hormones, injections, bloating, and the retrievalWhy she cried at work four times in two weeks (hormones) and why that is completely validWhat 14 eggs vs. 7 eggs means and why quality matters as much as quantityCostco's egg freezing medication packages: up to 80% savings on fertility medsWhat to ask your doctor, your mom, and yourself if this topic has ever crossed your mind Timestamps 00:00 – Intro, tacos, baby shower prep, and the art of talking to men03:30 – Introducing today's topic: egg freezing and why we need to talk about it05:00 – Cambria's endometriosis diagnosis and what it means for fertility08:30 – The AMH test: what it is and why nobody told us about it11:30 – The information gap: preventing pregnancy vs. preserving fertility14:00 – What egg freezing actually looks like: hormones, injections, and the process18:30 – The retrieval procedure and recovery21:00 – Cambria's results: 7 eggs, what comes next, and waiting on new AMH scores23:00 – The cost conversation and the Costco egg freezing revelation25:30 – What Cambria would tell younger women (and what you should tell the ones in your life)27:30 – Wrap up and sign off

    29 min
  2. Is the Male Loneliness Epidemic Real?

    Jun 18

    Is the Male Loneliness Epidemic Real?

    Bri kicks things off with a pregnancy update straight from her OB — at 27 weeks, baby Cade is measuring ahead of schedule, which means a few extra pounds of "the math has to math" given Clay's 6'6" frame. Then it's the long-awaited Summer House reunion part three breakdown: the porn confessional nobody talks about, Amanda and Kyle's stunning four-year intimacy gap, the reactive abuse theory floating around (shoutout to Luzma on Carlos King's podcast), and a surprisingly tender moment of empathy for Kyle despite everything. Then the real meat of the episode: Bri has been on her own research journey into the male loneliness epidemic, and she brings Cambria along for it. Is this actually a crisis, or just internet noise? They dig into the real stats (spoiler: it's both less and more complicated than the discourse suggests), unpack whether men are falling behind or women are simply catching up after generations of structural inequality, and walk through a sobering timeline of how recent women's rights actually are — bank accounts in the 60s, credit cards without a male co-signer until 1974, marital rape only criminalized nationwide in 1993. They get into the manosphere, the pipeline from lonely young men to red-pill content, and the very real political consequences of figures like Joe Rogan reaching audiences that are 80%+ male. It's a thoughtful, research-backed conversation that resists easy answers from either side — and lands on a simple, actionable takeaway: check in on the men in your life. What We Cover Pregnancy update: big baby, big appetite adjustments, and saying goodbye to saltSummer House reunion part three: West's porn confessional, Amanda and Kyle's four-year dry spell, and the reactive abuse theoryFeeling for Jesse Solomon and the messy timeline revealClarifying what beta blockers actually do (hint: not what reality TV has you believing)Is the male loneliness epidemic real, or just a hot internet topic?The actual stats: loneliness across genders, and why young American men specifically stand outWhy the friendship gap has grown since 1990 — and what changedAre men falling behind, or are women just catching up? Unpacking both at onceA women's rights timeline: bank accounts, equal pay, credit access, and Roe v. WadeWhat the manosphere actually is and how the radicalization pipeline worksJoe Rogan's reach and measurable political impact among young menWhat men can do individually: friendships, therapy, and watching what you consumeWhat the rest of us can do: checking in, not dismissing, and holding space without taking sidesWhy this conversation doesn't have to be political — and shouldn't be Timestamps 00:00 – Intro and pregnancy update: big baby, big adjustments03:15 – Summer House reunion part three recap11:00 – Feeling for Jesse Solomon and the reactive abuse theory14:30 – Clearing up the beta blockers misconception16:15 – Introducing today's topic: is the male loneliness epidemic real?18:00 – The actual stats: loneliness by gender, age, and country22:30 – The friendship gap and what changed since 199025:00 – Are men falling behind or are women catching up?29:45 – Women's rights timeline: bank accounts to Roe v. Wade33:30 – What the manosphere is and how the pipeline works36:15 – Joe Rogan, reach, and political impact38:00 – What men can do: friendships, therapy, and content awareness39:30 – What we can all do: checking in without judgment40:30 – Closing thoughts and sign-off

    41 min
  3. Talking to Your Parents About Money, Aging, & Healthcare

    Jun 4

    Talking to Your Parents About Money, Aging, & Healthcare

    The conversation your family keeps putting off — and why having it now is one of the most loving things you can do. Episode Summary Episode 11 opens with Bri sick — courtesy of Clay's British co-worker in Greece who kissed her on the cheek while actively ill, cultural norms be damned — and a glowing recap of Kelly's bachelorette trip in Loreto, Mexico, which may be the most slept-on beach destination just a short flight from Southern California. Catamaran, dolphin sightings, Gatorade-blue water, and zero waves. Consider this your sign to book it. Then it's Summer House reunion territory — the first reunion episode just dropped and Bri and Cambria have a lot to say. Amanda's energy walking into that stage, West and what he's done to what was genuinely a great season, Mia being the undefeated all-star, and Ciara holding her ground in a way neither of them expected. They get into it. But the heart of this episode is the main topic: planning for your parents' future before you have to. Cambria recently had a vulnerable, courageous conversation with her mom Lauren about finances, retirement, and what happens when things get hard — and she's bringing that experience to the pod. Bri and Cambria walk through why these conversations are so hard to start (shame, generational taboos, the fact that women couldn't get a credit card without a male co-signer until 1974), why avoiding them only makes the hard things harder, and exactly how to open the door with your own parents. With starter questions, key stats, and a lot of heart, this one is a genuine resource — not just a conversation. What We Cover Bri's Greece sick saga and the cheek kiss heard round the worldLoreto, Mexico: the two-hour direct flight bachelorette destination you need to know aboutSummer House reunion episode 1 breakdown: Amanda, Wes, Sierra, and MiaWhy our parents' generation wasn't set up for financial literacy — and why that's not their faultWomen couldn't get a credit card or mortgage without a male co-signer until 1974Cambria's conversation with her mom Lauren — and what it actually looked likeConverting a traditional IRA to a Roth and why it matters for your familyThe sandwich generation: caring for aging parents and your own kids at the same timeKey stats: 43% of households ages 55–64 have zero retirement savings; assisted living averages $74K/year; 66% of Americans don't have a willWills, trusts, healthcare directives, and power of attorney — what you actually needThe "I never want to be in a home" conversation and how to handle it honestlyStarter questions to open the conversation with your parentsWhy planning for hard things is one of the most loving things you can doShoutout to producer Pat Swoboda! Timestamps 00:00 – Intro, Bri is sick, and the Greece cheek kiss incident03:15 – Loreto, Mexico bachelorette recap — the underrated destination breakdown06:30 – Summer House reunion episode 1: all the thoughts14:45 – Transitioning to today's main topic: planning for your parents' future16:00 – Why our parents' generation wasn't taught financial literacy18:30 – Cambria's conversation with her mom Lauren and what made it work21:00 – Meeting with a financial advisor together — the IRA to Roth example23:15 – The key stats you need to hear25:30 – Wills, trusts, healthcare directives, and power of attorney27:45 – The "I don't want to be in a home" conversation29:30 – How to start the conversation: starter questions for every scenario32:00 – The overall message: plan now, don't react later33:30 – Shoutout to producer Pat's Wabota and sign off

    35 min
  4. Interview Tips & The Right Exercise for You

    May 21

    Interview Tips & The Right Exercise for You

    The career prep, promotion strategy, and workout reality check every woman needs. Episode Summary In Episode 10, Bri and Cambria kick things off with a Friend Offsite update — including travel safety, Facebook Marketplace luxury hacks, LA mayoral candidates, the history of accents, and martinis — before diving into the Summer House audio leak drama. Amanda, West, and Ciara become the jumping-off point for a bigger conversation about accountability, friendship, attraction vs. action, and why “you can’t help who you fall for” is not a defense in this situation. Then Cambria gets into the career advice that has helped her stand out in competitive corporate environments, especially in interviews. Her philosophy: you don’t have to be the smartest person in the room if you are the most prepared. From listening to earnings calls to building a 30/60/90 plan, creating a story bank, and sending quarterly “report card” recaps to your boss, she breaks down the exact tactics that help you interview better, control your narrative, and make promotions easier for your manager to advocate for. Bri closes the episode with a practical and refreshingly honest conversation about exercise — especially for women whose bodies, schedules, hormones, or life stages are changing. She walks Cambria through a workout personality quiz, then breaks down strength training, HIIT, Pilates, walking, cardio, cortisol, cycle syncing, and why the best workout plan is the one your actual life and body can stick with. What We Cover Friend Offsite: what it is, how it started, and what’s on the agenda this quarterThe Summer House audio leaks and why accountability isn’t landingCambria’s “be the most prepared” career philosophyWhy you should listen to a company’s earnings call before an interviewThe 30/60/90 plan that helps you stand out in panel interviewsBuilding a “story bank” so you’re ready for situational interview questionsQuarterly report cards: how to track your goals and help your boss promote youWhy you should take recruiter calls even when you’re happy in your jobBri’s workout quiz: what kind of exercise routine actually works for youStrength training, bone density, metabolism, and why women shouldn’t fear “bulking”HIIT, cortisol, Pilates, walking, cardio, and cycle syncingWhy adjusting your workouts to your body is not laziness — it’s strategy Timestamps 00:00 – Intro and excitement for Friend Offsite00:44 – What Friend Offsite is and this quarter’s agenda02:58 – Summer House audio leaks: Amanda, Wes, Sierra, and accountability09:20 – Cambria’s career topic: how to get ahead at work10:00 – Imposter syndrome, Twitter, and deciding to be the most prepared11:16 – Interview tip 1: listen to the company’s earnings call12:37 – What to do if the company is private and has no earnings call13:36 – Interview tip 2: create a 30/60/90 plan15:04 – Interview tip 3: build a story bank before panel interviews17:16 – Promotion tip: send quarterly report cards to your boss19:40 – Bri’s lesson from boss turnover and outdated goals21:01 – How to scale the prep when you’re interviewing at multiple companies21:50 – Take every recruiter call and keep the interview muscle warm23:12 – Bri’s exercise topic and why her routine is changing during pregnancy24:17 – Workout quiz: where, why, and how do you actually exercise?28:42 – Quiz results: trainer, gym, joy-first movement, or intensity management29:13 – Strength training, metabolism, bone density, and longevity31:37 – HIIT, cortisol, and why more intensity isn’t always better32:07 – Pilates, Lagree, sciatica, and the “hot girl workout” reality34:30 – Walking as the most underrated cortisol reset35:02 – Cardio, cycling, cortisol, and hormone considerations35:57 – Matching workouts to stress response, body type, and recovery36:42 – Cycle syncing and giving yourself grace37:50 – Final takeaway: get the job, then get moving

    38 min
  5. SIL's Top Travel Hacks

    May 7

    SIL's Top Travel Hacks

    The carry-on essentials, airport shortcuts, and little-known tricks that actually make travel better. Episode Summary In Episode 9, Bri and Cambria are fresh off a string of trips — Costa Rica for brother Matt and Madie's wedding, Nicaragua with sister Cory, and a bachelorette trip to Mexico on the horizon — so travel is very much top of mind. Before diving in, Bri shares a quick pop culture moment about trusting your gut, using the Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson situation as a jumping-off point for a genuinely useful framework: if your internal thought about a person ends in a question mark, that's anxiety — if it ends in a statement, that's your gut. Then it's straight into the hacks. From the obvious-but-necessary (TSA PreCheck, Global Entry, credit card portals) to the ones you haven't thought of yet (hotel slippers on the plane, a pre-packed pharmacy bag, a packing spreadsheet that tells you how packed you are), Bri and Cambria trade their best travel tips with the energy of two people who have genuinely learned these lessons the hard way. Cambria forgot her entire makeup bag for a wedding weekend in Costa Rica. Bri's husband Clay got free doubles the whole flight after a goodie bag for the flight attendants. These are real-life tested hacks, not just things they read online. What We Cover Trusting your gut: the anxiety vs. intuition framework from Hannah BernerTSA PreCheck vs. Global Entry — what's the difference and do you need both?Which credit cards cover the Global Entry and TSA PreCheck feesAirTagging everything — and why the passport holder is the one non-negotiableGoodie bags for flight attendants and why it works especially well in economyHotel slippers + compression socks: the long-haul flight combo you didn't know you neededPacking a travel pharmacy bag so you never have to hunt down a foreign CVSThe TikTok packing checklist spreadsheet that tells you exactly how packed you areDownloading Google Maps offline before you leave homeYouTubing the airport before you fly — especially for connections and rideshare pickupAirPod Max 2s with real-time language translation: the future is hereLeaving a backup credit card at the hotel — and the passport safety debateOvernight face masks on flights and why planes are destroying your skin Timestamps 00:00 – Intro, halfway through pregnancy update, and non-stop travel in 202602:45 – Pop culture: Megan Thee Stallion, Klay Thompson, and trusting your gut06:10 – Hack 1: TSA PreCheck vs. Global Entry — and which cards cover the fee09:30 – Hack 2: AirTag everything, especially your passport12:15 – Hack 3: Goodie bags for flight attendants (Clay's free doubles story)15:00 – Hack 4: Hotel slippers + compression socks on the plane17:45 – Hack 5: Packing a travel pharmacy bag20:10 – Hack 6: The TikTok packing checklist spreadsheet22:30 – Hack 7: Download Google Maps offline before you leave24:15 – Hack 8: YouTube the airport before you fly26:00 – Hack 9: AirPod Max 2s and real-time language translation27:30 – Hack 10: Leave a backup credit card at the hotel29:10 – Hack 11: Overnight face mask on the plane30:20 – Wrap up and happy travels

    31 min
  6. Apr 23

    Attachment Types & Stress Reduction

    What your attachment style says about you, and why your cortisol might be running the whole show. Episode Summary Episode 8 kicks off with a couple of quick follow-ups — turns out there are seven sisters planning the baby shower (not six), and Captain Bill, Brie's father-in-law, tuned in and wants to know if magnesium works for guys too. Spoiler: it does. Then Bri and Cambria get into something that's been consuming their group chat: the Summer House reunion and the Ciara situation. Bri, who grew up half black in primarily white spaces, brings a personal and nuanced lens to what it means to be the only black person in the room — how you're perceived, how you're allowed to act, and what it feels like to watch that play out on a national stage. It's one of the more real and thoughtful conversations they've had on the pod. From there, Bri takes the wheel with attachment styles — the psychology of how we connect, pull away, or quietly spiral in our close relationships. She runs Cambria through a five-question quiz (secure, anxious, or avoidant?), and the results spark a genuinely honest conversation about therapy, past relationships, and why most people are actually a blend of all three. Then Cambria breaks down cortisol — what it actually is, why it's not the villain TikTok makes it out to be, and what chronic stress is really doing to your body and your relationships. From morning routines to fake urgency to magnesium, it's a practical and surprisingly reassuring look at why your nervous system is just trying to keep you alive. What We Cover Seven sisters, not six — and a quick shoutout to Captain BillMagnesium: yes, it works for men tooThe Summer House reunion, the Ciara situation, and what it means to be the only black person in a white spaceAttachment styles 101: secure, anxious, and avoidantThe five-question attachment style quiz (take it yourself!)Why most people are a blend — and why that changes depending on the relationshipHow therapy can move you from anxious to avoidant to secureWhat cortisol actually is and why it's not the enemyChronic cortisol vs. acute cortisol — and what modern life is doing to bothHow to fix your morning to fix your cortisol curveReducing fake urgency: notifications, email, and the Instagram problemWhy sleep is your biggest lever for stressSafety signals: laughing, nature, slow mornings, and doing nothing without guilt Timestamps 00:00 – Intro, seven sisters correction, and Captain Bill's magnesium question02:30 – Summer House, Ciara, and being the only black person in white spaces10:15 – Wrapping the Bravo talk and transitioning to attachment styles11:45 – What are attachment styles? Secure, anxious, and avoidant explained13:20 – The five-question attachment style quiz20:10 – Tallying results and what they actually mean24:00 – Cortisol 101: what it is and why it exists26:30 – What happens when cortisol stays chronically high28:45 – How to lower your cortisol: morning routines, walks, and reducing fake urgency32:00 – Sleep, magnesium, and safety signals34:10 – The real takeaway: regulate your nervous system first

    36 min
  7. Apr 9

    Surprise! Bri's Pregnant!

    Bri's pregnant! The SILs break down pregnancy icks, and how best to support your pregnant family members & friends. Episode Summary In this episode of Sister-in-Law, Bri finally shares the news she's been keeping since her honeymoon — she's pregnant with a baby boy! She and Cambria walk through the whole story: the fertility planning, the empty pregnancy test box in Thailand, the 7-Eleven run on a scooter, and the faint second line that confirmed everything on the last day of the trip. Now 16 weeks in and firmly in her second trimester, Bri gets real about what the first trimester actually felt like — the all-day nausea, the exhaustion, the Taco Bell diet, and the mental toll of feeling unproductive for months. From there, the conversation shifts into something more practical and deeply thoughtful: what does real support look like for a new mom? Bri opens up about being bad at asking for help, and together she and Cambria dream up a postpartum binder — a room-by-room guide for anyone coming to help so Bri doesn't have to explain where the dish soap is at 3am. They also cover the baby shower icks (no gift opening, no "Mama" merch, please), how they're already planning a postpartum Airbnb setup for the village, and the name they're 99% locked in on — Cade — which has more meaning behind it than they expected. What We Cover The honeymoon pregnancy discovery story — fertility planning, a stolen test, and a Thai 7-ElevenWhat the first trimester actually felt like (hint: worse than you think)The mental health toll of feeling sick and unproductive for monthsWhat practical support really looks like vs. "let me know what you need"The postpartum binder idea — and Cambria's a la carte menu add-onBaby shower icks: gift opening, "Mama" everything, and the signed book situationThe postpartum Airbnb plan for the villageBelly touching etiquette, appointments, and the first ultrasound momentThe baby name: Cade — and the unexpected Mortal Kombat connectionHow pregnancy has surprisingly made Bri… calmer? Timestamps 00:00 – Bri's big announcement: she's pregnant!02:14 – The honeymoon discovery story and the Thailand 7-Eleven run06:30 – Finding out it's a boy and what's surprised her most09:45 – What the first trimester was really like14:20 – What Bri actually needs: practical help over emotional check-ins18:05 – The postpartum binder idea and Cam's menu concept23:30 – Baby shower icks and the gift opening debate29:00 – The postpartum Airbnb plan and building the village33:15 – Belly touching, appointments, and the first heartbeat ultrasound38:40 – The name: Cade, Mortal Kombat, and a meaningful connection42:00 – Wrapping up and how to tell them what you want more of on the pod

    32 min
  8. How to Stop Procrastinating & Speak to Your Most Empowered Self

    Mar 26

    How to Stop Procrastinating & Speak to Your Most Empowered Self

    Episode 6: How to Stop Procrastinating & Speak to Your Most Empowered Self How we talk to the people we love, why we procrastinate, and what our habits might really be telling us. Episode Summary In this episode of Sister-in-Law, Bri introduces the idea of “speaking to the most empowered version” of someone through the lens of transactional analysis. She breaks down how people often communicate from one of three ego states: parent, child, or adult, and explains why the healthiest conversations happen when we speak to each other’s adult, most grounded selves. Together, Bri and Cambria reflect on how easy it is to fall into old family dynamics, defensive patterns, and judgmental language, and why it matters to communicate in ways that invite respect, clarity, and growth. Later, Cambria dives into procrastination and the psychology behind why we avoid the things that matter most. Rather than chalking it up to laziness or poor time management, she explains how procrastination is often rooted in emotional regulation, with fear, perfectionism, boredom, uncertainty, overwhelm, and even burnout playing a bigger role than most people realize. It’s part relationship insight, part productivity reset, and a reminder that whether you’re talking to someone else or to yourself, the goal is the same: lead with compassion, clarity, and the version of yourself that’s most capable of moving forward. What We Cover Reading before bed and simple habits that improve sleepBook recs and current reading obsessionsThe psychology of communication: parent, child, and adult ego statesHow to speak to the most empowered version of someoneWhy communication patterns shape conflict in relationshipsWhy procrastination is about emotional regulation, not lazinessThe five emotional drivers of procrastinationHow to tell the difference between burnout and avoidanceSimple tools to get unstuck (shrinking the task, the 10-minute rule)Why self-talk and shame keep you stuck longer Timestamps 00:00 – Intro, exhaustion, and reading before bed05:21 – Speaking to the most empowered version of someone06:44 – Parent, child, and adult communication styles09:08 – How these patterns affect relationships12:58 – Why procrastination is really about emotion, not laziness17:01 – What your brain is doing when you procrastinate22:46 – Burnout vs. procrastination24:07 – Tools to get unstuck and move forward

    29 min
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About

Not everyone gets lucky enough to have the best sister-in-law ever — someone you can laugh with, vent to, and shamelessly overshare with. That’s where we come in. We’re Briana and Cambria Steel, two women in tech, and if it wasn't obvious, sisters-in-law. We may have been brought together by a man, but we sure as hell aren’t reliant on one. Think of us as your coven as we navigate life — the good, the messy, the meaningful, and all the cringe-worthy moments in between. Through honest conversations, we’ll share our different perspectives, learn and grow right alongside you, and dive into the topics that matter most — from finance and career to fashion, women’s health, and everything in between. At the heart of it, this is about expanding our knowledge, finding connection, and tackling the chaos of life while laughing the whole way through.

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