She ran bars from Glasgow to Abu Dhabi, modeled language patterns from NLP masters, and turned her husband's final champagne night into a leadership framework — all by trusting the process. In this episode, we sit down with Fiona Campbell-Arrands — author, coach, and founder of The Professional Growth Company — for a conversation that spans grief, adventure, language, and legacy. Fiona opens up about losing her husband Duncan to terminal illness and how that loss became a catalyst for finishing her book, Working with Trust. She describes the strange chemical armor that grief provides in its early months, and the deeper, quieter wave that arrived in the second summer without him — a wave she chose to trust rather than fight. Fiona's path to coaching was anything but linear. She left school at sixteen, became the youngest air traffic control assistant in the UK, hitchhiked to Greece with thirty pounds in her pocket, ran the bar at London's original Comedy Store, managed a hotel bar in Abu Dhabi, helped launch Xerox across the Middle East, and spent twenty-five years in sales — all before training as a clinical hypnotherapist and NLP master practitioner. She breaks down three language models that shaped her coaching philosophy: the NLP Meta Model for information gathering, the Milton Model for ambiguous, trance-like language, and Meta Programs for understanding what truly motivates people. Along the way she shares a brilliant story about a manager at Yellow Pages who instinctively used "away from" motivation to keep her on target. The heart of the episode is the Trust Framework — born from a six-hour champagne-fueled session with Duncan during his final days, where he challenged her, laughed with her, and helped her outline what would become the foundation of her book. Truthfulness, transparency, respect, understanding others, support, and timeliness — the pillars they identified together — are now part of a leadership programme Fiona delivers worldwide. She reflects on whether anyone can be a leader (only those who genuinely want to be), why companies are bringing back experienced "gray beards" as AI falls short on human connection, and how it felt to pour fourteen-hour days into finishing the manuscript after Duncan passed. Pour a cup of something, settle in, and meet a woman who turned her last champagne night into a gift for every leader who'll come after her. Working with Trust is available worldwide on Amazon. https://www.amazon.co.uk/Working-Trust-compassionate-empathic-leadership/dp/1918123101?source=ps-sl-shoppingads-lpcontext&ref_=fplfs&psc=1&smid=A3P5ROKL5A1OLE You can find Fiona on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/fionacampbellarrand/ or visit theprofessionalgrowthcompany.com. Join the revolution of Scotland's Women, a podcast celebrating the voices and experiences of women from all across Scotland. Each episode features inspiring, honest and unfiltered conversations with women from all walks of life - sharing their journeys, challenges, triumphs and perspectives. These are real stories of women shaping modern Scotland - leaders, creators, dreamers and change makers - offering insight, advice and inspiration to listeners everywhere. Whether you're looking for empowerment, wisdom, or simply a connection to authentic stories, this podcast reminds us that every woman has a voice! Visit our website and get in touch: https://scotlandswomen.com/ Follow us and join the revolution : https://www.instagram.com/scotlandswomen/ Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
