The Family Room Podcast

Kayla Siefert, LMFT and Nick Summa, PhD LMFT
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Family Systems Throughout the Lifespan

Episodes

  1. 05/28/2024

    Family of Choice and Other Stuff

    Welcome to the Family Room Podcast! In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of "Family of Choice" and explore the complexities of maintaining meaningful relationships amidst life's many changes. We touch on systems thinking throughout the lifespan, offering insights and personal anecdotes that will resonate with anyone navigating the intricate dynamics of family and friendships. Kayla and Nick discuss the challenges of balancing personal and professional responsibilities while nurturing connections with their chosen family. They reflect on how life events, such as having children, can reshape relationships and bring about new understandings and expectations. The conversation highlights the importance of open communication and the emotional labor involved in sustaining these bonds. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion that not only sheds light on the struggles but also celebrates the beauty of chosen families. Whether you're a parent, a friend, or someone figuring out where you fit, this episode offers valuable perspectives on building and maintaining strong, loving relationships.

    47 min

  2. 03/08/2024

    "Well,That's my Family" Family of Origin and "Inherited Some Unresolved B******t": intergenerational Trauma

    In this profound episode of the Family Room Podcast, hosts Nick and Kayla invite listeners to journey through the maze of systemic trauma influences. They unpack the cycle of intergenerational trauma, diving deep into its enduring impact on mental health, lifestyle, and self-perception. Reflecting the experiences of 'Luca', a man working to liberate himself from inherited trauma, this episode illustrates the destructive patterns generational trauma can embed in family behavior and relationships. We discuss how unresolved trauma can mould unhealthy communication methods, stringent role expectations, and drive a chasm in familial bonds. We explore the fascinating concepts of trauma beginning even in the womb, its physiological impact, and its intergenerational transmission altering family dynamics. We also discuss the shift in the mental health community from cognitive to somatic-focused therapies, emphasizing the crucial role of body awareness and emotional processing for trauma victims. This episode signals a call to arms for listeners to introspect their family systems, question harmful normalized patterns, and actively promote healthier ways of interacting. It encourages individuals to acknowledge their inherited trauma narrative and equips them with insights on how to disrupt these patterns effectively. While acknowledging the monumental hurdle of breaking such a deeply rooted cycle, this insightful episode alsos shines a light on the empowering potential of change. Through Luca's compelling story, we articulate the journey from merely surviving trauma to actively transcending it, highlighting the paramount importance of self-initiated change and growth. Join us in this transformative exploration of family trauma and its impacts — as we celebrate the strength of those who have dared to instigate change with the powerful mantra, "You are the change. You have to be the change".

    42 min

  3. 02/22/2024

    Family - The Original F Word

    Join therapists Nick and Kayla in the Family Room Podcast as they uncover the complex components of relationships and family dynamics through the lens of systems thinking. This episode shines a light on a less traditional approach to understanding our interactions with the world and provides unique insight into how our experiences influence us as individuals. In this illuminating episode, Kayla and Nick critically discuss the common, symptom-fixing treatment methods applied in clinical mental health, proposing instead that understanding the cyclical nature of relationships and their dynamics offers a fresh perspective. They also delve into the concept of 'family of origin,' or 'FOO,' exploring the challenges stemming from our inability to choose our biological family, and the power and control we can assert as adults. Future discussions promise to investigate the differences between the family of origin and the chosen or adoptive family. Key highlights of the episode include an insightful exploration of the concept of self-differentiation within our family units, asking thought-provoking questions like how close are we to our family of origin and how far have we grown as individuals? How do we balance our uniqueness with staying connected to our roots? They convincingly argue that this 'Differentiation of self' is vital for maintaining healthy relationships as adults. The hosts also broach the subject of 'non-summativity,' emphasizing the greater collective power of the family unit over its individual components.  This episode ends on a hopeful note, acknowledging not just the negative or challenging aspects of family dynamics, but the positive, nurturing aspects as well. The hosts assure listeners that families are fluid, ever-evolving entities. Tune in to this thought-provoking episode of the Family Room Podcast to understand and apply a new perspective on your familial relationships.

    35 min

  4. 02/19/2024

    Come Sit With Us - Part 2

    In this intriguing episode of 'The Family Room' Podcast, delve deep into the life and perspectives of our co-host, Kayla. With her unique combination of professional expertise and personal insights, Kayla hashes out the battleground of family dynamics that she navigates alongside our listeners. Titled "Come sit with us: Part Two," this discussion addresses complex family roles, diversifying viewpoints while rekindling a sense of appreciation for one's origins. Kayla's unfettered candidness lets us into her world, offering an understanding of her journey into marriage and family therapy, which she chose due to her love for clinical work and desire to create a platform for open dialogue. The episode also uncovers Kayla's fascinating story about how she once wrote a fan letter to Liam Neeson - and got a response! This light-hearted anecdote not only brings a sprinkling of humor into the mix but also sheds light on Kayla's admirable authenticity — a trait she consciously adapts in her therapeutic approach. Adding nuance to the concept of 'family,' this episode invites listeners to share in the co-hosts' exploration, distinguishing between 'family of origin' and 'family of choice.' Kayla highlights how changing life circumstances can redefine these terms, stealthily introducing the theme of 'systems thinking throughout the lifespan.' Towards the end of the episode, Kayla outlines her professional specialties, including couples therapy and family therapy, revealing her current interest in working with 'closed' or 'stuck' family systems. All this sets the stage for the forthcoming season arc focusing on developmental periods and systems throughout the lifespan - a journey listeners are invited to join. This is more than just an insightful conversation — it's a thoughtful exploration of family dynamics, therapeutic processes, and personal journeys. So, if you're eager to delve into these themes - grab a seat, lend us your ears, and indulge in this enriching conversation.

    18 min

  5. 02/16/2024 · BONUS

    The Family Room Podcast Disclaimer

    Welcome to the enlightening world of the Family Room podcast. This podcast, designed for information, education, and entertainment purposes, is an amalgamation of insightful perspectives from industry professionals, Kayla Sievert (LMFT) and Nickolas Summa (LMFT).  Note that the information disseminated through this podcast and corresponding materials from the website are solely at the user's disposal and risk. While they are rich in wisdom, they are not intended to replace professional advice from a certified physician, coach, or psychotherapist. For in-depth advice, we advocate seeking the counsel of the mentioned professionals. We must clarify that even though TFRP encourages audience interaction through our email and social media accounts, these interactions do not establish a therapist-client relationship. Always remember, the essence of the Family Room Podcast is to provide you an entertaining medium to learn and laugh, while igniting productive discussions about life and relationships.

    1 min

  6. 02/16/2024

    Welcome to the Family Room Podcast

    Welcome to the Family Room Podcast, where we journey through the many stages of life with a systems thinking lens. Your hosts Kayla and Nick, two licensed marriage and family therapists based in Western Pennsylvania, kickstart each captivating episode by discussing everything from individual psychoeducation to family therapies. Explore the realm in which family relationships, life stages, and diverse therapeutic models interweave. Each episode promises an exciting blend of stories, expert insights, and personal experiences drawn from working as family therapists. Whether you're just starting your career or you've been in the field for many years, be a part of the nourishing family room experience that offers constant learning opportunities. In the podcast, Kayla and Nick seek to demystify the profession of marriage and family therapy, making it accessible for everyone while extending their advocacy for the field in Western Pennsylvania. Listen to riveting stories and narratives from these therapists’ professional journey as they bring in local experts to discuss specialties, aiming to benefit clinicians and individuals curious about family therapy. The Family Room podcast is not just a space for knowledge sharing, it's also about connection. Find yourself in some of their stories as they reach out, providing a deeper understanding of the shared human experience. The hosts believe in the power of narratives in healing and self-discovery, creating an empathetic community for listeners. This podcast is an excellent resource for individuals interested in learning from, and possibly laughing with, two seasoned therapists. Join us in the Family Room Podcast, a safe space created primarily for learning, advocating, and connecting. Get ready to embark on a thought-provoking journey that mirrors the development process of each listener. With each episode, listeners get an authentic, raw, and sometimes humorous depiction of what it's truly like to navigate professional therapeutic scenarios. Keep listening and join the conversation in the Family Room.

    12 min

  7. 02/16/2024

    Come Sit With Us - Part 1

    In this Family Room Podcast episode, meet Nick Summa - a licensed marriage and family therapist, counselor educator, and a firm believer in systems thinking. Born and raised in a small town of Pennsylvania, Nick shares insights into his warm yet isolated upbringing and his continuous journey for something 'bigger'. He elaborates on how his perception of 'family' formed over the years, leading him to see 'family' as an intimate network that is always by your side, through good times or bad. Moving past his roots to explore the world, Nick brushed his professional life with diverse roles that evoke learning and personal growth. From being a kindergarten teacher in Japan to becoming a university adjunct faculty, Nick always sought avenues to facilitate learning, mentor students, and contribute positively to others' lives. This penchant for learning and teaching has been a guiding force behind the inception of the Family Room Podcast. Revealing his affection for his profession, Nick gives us a snapshot of how the global pandemic pushed him to find innovative ways to connect and share knowledge, from relying on podcasts for information to eventually starting one of his own. The episode further delves into the milestones of his personal life - his wedding being a prominent highlight that added more meaning and depth to his life. This episode is a heartwarming testimony to a life lived in pursuit of growth, connection, and an understanding of the dynamics that shape and form the concept of 'family'. A thread running throughout this episode is Nick's inherent curiosity, grit and desire to continually learn and grow - qualities that make him a compelling podcaster and an engaging storyteller. Listen in for an intimate and thought-provoking conversation that is celebrated with warm anecdotes, self-reflection, and a personal introduction to the heart behind the Family Room Podcast.

    19 min
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Family Systems Throughout the Lifespan

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  • Creator
    Kayla Siefert, LMFT and Nick Summa, PhD LMFT
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