Inspiring Marriages

Jeff & Teresa Fields
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Inspiring Marriages is a faith based podcast that will enable busy married couples to enhance their friendship and romance. This thirty minute podcast drops every Saturday morning at 5 a.m. US Central Time. As we share our story, our desire is to inspire couples to build their friendships and thus build their marriages in all areas: spiritually, emotionally, romantically and physically. Our podcast topics include weekly friendship builders, fun ideas and tips for the week. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCP2kh8NehAvlXAA9qwsRTyg

  1. 22h ago

    Back to Best Friends: How We Created a Safe Space to Talk

    Emotional safety is the key to honest talk and real trust in marriage. We say you need to pause, listen, understand, then respond — not blurt, defend, or weaponize what someone trusted you with. I share how we learned over 35 years to protect each other’s heart, keep private things private, and repair when we mess up. We give simple moves you can use: ask “What helps you feel safest?” and “Is there anything I do that makes it hard to open up?” We remind you that honesty without love can wound, and love without honesty hides what needs fixing. This is week three of our Back to Best Friends series, and our goal this week is to make your home a safer place for truth, one kind response at a time. We dive into why honesty needs to feel safe if you want to get back to being best friends. We talk about what emotional safety really is and what it is not. It is not pretending to agree all the time. It is not hiding hard things. And it is not using your spouse's honesty as ammo. We give a simple rule: pause, listen, understand, then respond. That little pause is gold. I admit I have jumped in too fast. We have both. But I learned to wait and really hear Teresa. She told me she just needed a sounding board at times. That changed everything. We walk through practical moves that build safety: don’t mock or share your spouse’s hurts with others, protect what’s shared in confidence, ask follow up questions like "Can you help me understand?" and use repair words when you mess up — "I didn't handle that well," "Please forgive me," or "Can we try that again?" We also remind you that trust is built by small acts over time. It’s not perfect. It’s humble. It’s repair. We keep it simple and real so you can try it tonight. Takeaways: We said emotional safety is not avoiding fights, but trusting hard talks won't end our marriage.I learned to pause, listen, and ask simple questions so honesty feels safe and not scary.We joked that shared hurts are sacred, not gossip fodder, so I will not blab to friends.I admit we mess up, but quick repair, humble apologies, and grace build more trust than perfection.We practiced asking, "What helps you feel safest?" and then listening without defending or interrupting, seriously.I promise to protect what you tell me and pray, not post, because trust is earned slowly. Links referenced in this episode: inspiringmarriages.net Companies mentioned in this episode: AmazonInspiringMarriages.net

  2. Sep 26

    We stole 15 minutes to hear each other — try it

    We say don’t let your talks with your spouse turn into nothing but logistics and to-do lists. We show how managing life can push out friendship and real connection. We teach the “redeem the time” idea — make moments that actually connect, not just pass minutes. We tell stories from our 35 years of marriage and give simple steps: sit down, put down the phones, ask a real question, and actually listen. We dare you to set aside 15 minutes this week, pick one question, and see how one good conversation can lead to many more and make your marriage fun again. We get real about how couples can talk all day and still not know each other. We call out the difference between running the household and sharing life. Logistics are necessary, sure, but they don’t build friendship. We teach the idea of redeeming moments — not clock time, but kairos moments where a tiny stretch of attention turns into a real connection. I tell stories from our 35 years so you see how easy it is to drift into coordination mode. Teresa and I admit we once talked mostly about schedules and kids. Then we learned to be curious again and to make small, intentional choices: ten minutes without phones, thirty if you can, start with one good question. We give simple steps to stop assuming you already know your spouse and to start drawing out what’s inside them. It’s practical, warm, and kind of like friend training for grown-ups. Takeaways: We learned talking all day can still miss the heart; ask real questions instead.I say logistics like schedules and chores are fine, but if that is all you talk about you will slowly lose your best friend.We teach redeeming moments, not clock time; ten focused minutes matter more than distracted hours.I remind you to stay curious about your spouse because people keep growing and you will always discover something new together.We urge you to listen well, give undivided attention, and ask if they want help or just talking.I suggest start with one question, fifteen minutes, no phones, then let the next talk follow. Links referenced in this episode: inspiringmarriages.net

  3. Sep 19

    Marriage Communication: We Started Asking Real Questions, Not Just Sharing Information

    When your spouse doesn't feel like your best friend anymore, we want you to know friendship in marriage can be rebuilt. I say life often crowds out closeness — jobs, kids, bills and chores take the best of our time. We point out that logistics talk is useful but it won't make you feel close. We share simple steps: protect time, save some of your best energy for each other, and have focused talks that are not about chores. Our challenge is small and doable: put the phones away, sit for 15 minutes, ask “What's something inside you I wish I knew?” and just listen. No big magic needed — just steady little choices that feed your friendship back to life. We talk like real people who once were best friends and want that back. I say friendship in marriage is not a bonus. Teresa says it's someone you enjoy being with and can tell anything to. We tell the story of how life sneaks in — jobs, kids, bills, mowing the lawn — and how friendship gets crowded out, not killed. I joke about giving the marriage "super vitamins" and we both warn against living on leftovers: don’t give your spouse what’s left after you give the world your best. We push you to be intentional, not perfect. We also share how we guard our friendship. We set aside time to talk that is not logistics. We hold hands a lot. We make space for silly memories, dreams, and real feels. I explain how asking deeper questions like "How are you feeling about this?" shows care. Teresa tells how homeschooling seasons felt like single parenting at times and how that made it hard to connect. We end with a simple challenge: put your phones away, sit for 15 minutes, and ask "What's going on inside you that I should know?" Then listen. No fixing. Just hear your best friend. Takeaways: We said friendship in marriage must be fed, not assumed, or it slowly fades.Life gets busy and fills your days with logistics, but friendship needs real time.Don't live on leftovers; save some of your best time and love for each other.Put phones away and spend fifteen minutes asking, 'What's going on inside you?' and listen.Move past logistics by asking how we feel, by showing care, not just giving information.We keep discovering each other by asking curious questions and protecting a simple weekly talk.

  4. Sep 14

    We redeemed our time and saved our marriage

    Transformation is possible, but it usually happens slowly — not in one big magic moment. We say your time creates patterns, patterns set direction, and direction decides the outcome of your marriage. So change how you spend your minutes, make tiny new habits, and keep investing in small moments. I’ll be honest: there’s no get-well-quick formula, but God does the heavy lifting when we keep showing up and sowing kindness. Small, repeated investments compound like interest, and before you know it your marriage starts to turn even if you can’t see it yet. We give simple steps, Bible promises, and tools like our audit and books to help you stay the course — think of it as compound interest for love. We lay out a simple map for changing a marriage that feels stuck. I talk with Teresa about how time builds patterns, patterns set a direction, and direction decides the outcome. We name four steps—awareness, alignment, adjustment, investment—and show how they lead to real change. We don’t sell a quick fix. We remind you that God transforms us by renewing our minds (Romans 12), and that His mercy is new every morning. We use the ‘‘redeemed time arc’’ idea so you can see how small acts today become new habits tomorrow. There’s practical stuff here too: invest time, have real talks, and stop pretending vegging out is the only plan. We point to Isaiah, Lamentations, Joel and Ephesians to show God’s power to make things new. We also give tools: a marriage audit on the site and two books—You’re Not Losing Love, You’re Losing Time and 30 Days to Rebuild Your Friendship—that help you track progress. I promise it’s not magic. It’s steady work, faith, and God backing what you do. Takeaways: We say transformation takes time and small new moments stack up to change your marriage.I promise your past habits don't have to decide your marriage future with God.We must invest time like money, keep sowing kindness and don't quit early.I warn that change may not feel immediate, but the marriage direction quietly shifts.We believe God can redeem lost years, making your marriage feel new again, really.I urge you to reclaim minutes for real connection, not just couch vegging every night.

  5. Sep 5

    Investing in Love: Building a Stronger Marriage

    We're diving into the nitty-gritty of what it means to invest in your marriage, and trust me, it's not just about spending time together. Jeff and I, Teresa, are all about building that deep connection, and we’re chatting about how being physically close doesn't always mean you're emotionally connected. We’ll explore the difference between just hanging out and really engaging with each other. Plus, we’ll share some sweet and funny moments from our own marriage that highlight how intentional investing can transform your relationship. So grab your favorite drink, kick back, and let’s figure out how to make those investments count! In this podcast episode, Jeff and Teresa Fields dive headfirst into the concept of investing in your marriage. They kick things off by highlighting the journey of their 'redeemed time arc' and how each week they've focused on different aspects: awareness, alignment, adjustment, and now investment. They emphasize that simply spending time together doesn’t equate to actually investing in your relationship. You can be in the same room as your partner but still feel worlds apart. They get real about what true engagement looks like, from sharing genuine conversations to creating moments of connection. Jeff shares how simple gestures, like holding hands while praying, can make a spouse feel cherished and valued. They stress the importance of understanding each other's love languages, diving into how what makes one partner feel loved might not resonate with the other. The episode wraps up with a challenge for listeners to intentionally invest in one area of their marriage, reminding us that small, consistent efforts can lead to significant transformations. Takeaways: Investing time in your marriage means more than just being physically close; it's about genuine engagement and connection.Communication is key in a marriage, but sharing deeper emotions creates a stronger bond than just exchanging information.Understanding each other's love languages is crucial for making your partner feel truly loved and appreciated.Regular quality time together, even in simple forms like walks or shared chores, can significantly enhance your emotional connection.Spiritual investment, like praying together and discussing faith, fosters a deeper bond between partners in a Christian marriage.Keep learning about each other as you grow; marriage is an ongoing journey of discovery and connection. Links referenced in this episode: inspiringmarriages.netamazon.com

  6. Aug 29

    Small Tweaks, Big Love: The Little Changes That Saved Our Marriage

    Small changes can make a big difference, especially in marriage! After 35 years together, we found that keeping our connection strong is all about those little intentional habits. Instead of letting our chats become a boring list of to-dos, we made it a point to share more about *us*—our thoughts, dreams, and daily musings. We're all about those everyday moments, whether it's during a walk, a drive, or even pillow talk. So, get ready to join us as we dive into how small adjustments can transform your relationship and keep the spark alive, even when life gets busy! Marriage, like a fine wine, gets better with intentional adjustments. Jeff and Teresa dive into the small changes that have kept their 35-year marriage flourishing. They share how, amidst the chaos of raising three kids, homeschooling, and church commitments, their conversations evolved from logistics to deeper connections. Picture this: busy days filled with lessons, work, and responsibilities left them with little time to just be a couple. But the magic happened when they decided to chat not just about the kids but about each other—sharing personal thoughts, dreams, and even daily highlights. They emphasize that it’s the little things that count, like asking each other how to pray for one another, or simply enjoying a peaceful walk together. It’s these seemingly tiny adjustments that create a powerful ripple effect, bringing them closer together. So grab your favorite snack, sit back, and soak in the wisdom of turning everyday moments into cherished connections. Imagine being married for decades and realizing that you need to be intentional about the little things—that’s what Jeff and Teresa are all about. They get real about how life can fill up with good activities but leave little space for actual connection. With three kids, Teresa's homeschooling, and all the associated life chaos, they found themselves talking about everything except each other. But everything changed when they made a conscious effort to prioritize their relationship. Through light-hearted banter, they share how they discovered the importance of daily personal conversations, whether it’s during a walk, in the car, or at the dinner table. It’s not about carving out hours of extra time but about utilizing the moments they already have. Their message? It’s the small shifts in daily habits that lead to a deeper, more meaningful relationship. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that even after decades, love and connection need nurturing and intention. Let’s be honest, marriage isn’t always a walk in the park; sometimes it’s a hike up a mountain! But Jeff and Teresa have climbed those metaphorical peaks, and they’re here to share their secrets. After 35 years, they’ve learned that the little adjustments can lead to the biggest differences. They reminisce about the hectic days filled with parenting and responsibilities that left little room for personal connection. They realized that amidst all the busyness, their conversations often revolved around schedules, lessons, and logistics, which was as exciting as watching paint dry. So they made a pact to share a personal thought every day—what a game-changer! From asking each other about their day to discussing dreams and prayers, they found a way to keep the spark alive. Through their delightful storytelling, they show that you don’t need grand gestures to keep your marriage thriving; it’s all about those daily, small moments. So tune in for some practical tips and a good dose of humor as they navigate the beautiful, messy journey of marriage together! Takeaways: After 35 years together, having daily conversations about more than just logistics has kept us connected.Small, intentional habits can lead to big changes in a marriage over time.It's crucial to share personal thoughts daily, not just family schedules or responsibilities.Making adjustments in how we communicate can help us maintain a strong friendship as a couple.

  7. Aug 22

    Aligning Love with Action: Let's Chat!

    You love your spouse, but are you living like it? That's the big question we’re diving into today on the Inspire Marriages podcast! We’re chatting about how busy life can sometimes push our most important relationships to the back burner, and trust me, it’s super easy to let that happen. Jeff and I have been there, juggling life’s demands and realizing that while we love each other, our actions might not reflect that love. So, how do we align our time and priorities to match what truly matters? Let’s explore this together and find some light-hearted yet real ways to get our marriages back on track! Marriage is a beautiful journey, but sometimes we end up on different paths, right? Jeff and Teresa dive into the nitty-gritty of marital alignment, asking the big question: Are you really living out that love you say you have for your spouse? They chat about how busy lives can throw us off course, making us forget to prioritize our partners. It’s all about making time for each other, not just giving them the leftovers after life’s chaos. They share their own experiences, admitting that even they’ve had to reevaluate their priorities. The conversation flows into how our actions need to match our words, and that love isn’t just about saying it but about showing it through intentional time together. From practical tips to heartfelt stories, they remind us that it’s never too late to realign and give our marriages the attention they deserve. Let’s get back to those kitchen table conversations and start making our partnerships a priority again! Takeaways: Loving your spouse is not just a feeling, it's about showing it through your actions and time spent together.Life can get busy, but it's super important to prioritize your marriage amidst all the chaos and distractions.Relationships require intentional time; even a few meaningful moments can significantly strengthen your bond with your spouse.Recognizing alignment issues in your marriage is the first step to improvement, so don't panic when you see them—embrace the opportunity to grow together. https://a.co/d/04ts9fRl https://inspiringmarriages.aweb.page/free-marriage-audit-couples

  8. Aug 15

    Why Your Marriage Might Be Living on Leftover Time

    Hey there, friends! Today, we're diving into the nitty-gritty of how time can quietly turn your marriage from cozy to a bit distant without you even noticing it. Most couples don’t wake up one day and decide, “Hey, let’s stop talking!” Nope, it’s usually a slow fade. One busy day rolls into a week, then poof!—you’re both wondering how you ended up like two ships passing in the night. We’re chatting about the patterns time creates in your relationship and how those patterns can steer your love boat in the wrong direction. So, grab your favorite beverage, kick back, and let’s explore how to keep the spark alive and reclaim that quality time! Couples often find themselves drifting apart without even realizing it. It's not like they wake up one day and decide to stop talking or being affectionate. Instead, it happens quietly over time, like a slow leak in a tire. One busy day turns into a busy week, which morphs into a busy season, and before you know it, those meaningful conversations and quality time spent together are a thing of the past. We dive deep into the importance of recognizing these patterns in our relationships. We explore how time builds patterns that can either bring couples closer or push them apart. It’s not about avoiding mistakes; it’s about being aware of how little moments of disconnection can form larger issues over time. The episode emphasizes that your marriage's outcome is not determined by a single moment but by the cumulative effect of your daily choices. I mean, who wants to look across the room at their partner and wonder, 'How did we get here?' Let's chat about how to redeem that time and reconnect! Takeaways: Most couples don't wake up one day and decide to drift apart, it just happens.Busy days turn into busy weeks, and before you know it, you're disconnected.It’s not just a missed conversation that ruins a marriage, but repeated patterns can lead to disconnection.Awareness of time spent is key; your calendar reveals priorities more than intentions do.You can redeem your marriage time by recognizing distractions and adjusting your patterns.Your current marriage struggles don’t have to define your future; change is possible with intention. Links referenced in this episode: inspiringmarriages.net https://inspiringmarriages.aweb.page/free-marriage-audit-couples

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Inspiring Marriages is a faith based podcast that will enable busy married couples to enhance their friendship and romance. This thirty minute podcast drops every Saturday morning at 5 a.m. US Central Time. As we share our story, our desire is to inspire couples to build their friendships and thus build their marriages in all areas: spiritually, emotionally, romantically and physically. Our podcast topics include weekly friendship builders, fun ideas and tips for the week. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCP2kh8NehAvlXAA9qwsRTyg

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  • Creator
    Jeff & Teresa Fields
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    107
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2026 Jeff & Teresa Fields
  • Show Website
    Inspiring Marriages