I Don't Do Word Games-Christian Counseling 101

Chelle L

There comes a time when games should be placed aside. They may be fun to watch, but they are not fun when they can affect our mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical well-being. Too often we may find ourselves in situations that may cause us issues of the heart or confusion of the mind, simply because we are being affected by a game that we never asked to participate in. One of the worst examples of this is with the mere use of words. Words can be used in ways that help us, inspire us, teach us, and even bless us. It's unfortunate however, when words are used to abuse us, manipulate us, confuse us, and even tempt us. These unfortunate uses of words can show up in the workplace, friendships, relationships, homes, and even in our spiritual walks and journeys. So, how do we counteract this game of words? By not engaging in the game-that's how. And how do we accomplish this? Through knowledge, understanding, and discernment. The desire of this podcast is to provide insight and wisdom into some of our everyday situations and circumstances by offering reasonable tactics and solutions for real life situations. How many want to handle the "games," in a way that doesn't compromise your integrity? Or handle the manipulation, confusion, and temptation in a way that doesn't disrupt your spiritual walk? How many want to just get a better understanding to help someone else? If so "I Don't Do Word Games" is that platform. Host, Chelle L holds a Bachelor of Science in Psychology with a concentration in Christian Counseling and a Master of Arts in Human Services with a concentration in marriage, family, and children. She is also an ordained pastor that believes that for every situation God has a viable solution. In this podcast she will provide a level of understanding that is reachable and obtainable for all. Chelle L believes: knowing the WORD helps to discern the "words."

Episodes

  1. Lead Us Not Into Temptation Pt. III -The Tactic of Scripture Twisting

    04/23/2024

    Lead Us Not Into Temptation Pt. III -The Tactic of Scripture Twisting

    Summary In this episode, Chelle L. discusses the tactics of temptation used by Satan, focusing on scripture twisting. She explains how Satan manipulates scripture to serve his own agenda and deceive believers. Chelle emphasizes the importance of knowing the Word of God for ourselves in order to resist temptation and discern false teachings. She also explores the types of temptation Satan presented to Jesus: self-indulgence, self-aggrandizement, and the allure of power. Chelle encourages listeners to follow Jesus' example and rely on God's truth to overcome temptation. Keywords temptation, Satan, scripture twisting, self-indulgence, self-aggrandizement, power, knowing the Word of God, resisting temptation, discernment Takeaways Temptation is a tactic used by Satan to attack our identity and lead us away from God.Satan manipulates scripture to serve his own agenda and deceive believers.Knowing the Word of God is crucial in resisting temptation and discerning false teachings.Satan tempts us with self-indulgence, self-aggrandizement, and the allure of power.Following Jesus' example and relying on God's truth helps us overcome temptation.Quotes from Episode "Scripture twisting: Satan's word game""Satan perverts the promise of angels protecting God's children""Do not compromise, negotiate, or reason with Satan"Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Prayer 06:21 The Tactic of Scripture Twisting 17:18 Following Jesus' Example in the Face of Temptation

    25 min
  2. Lead Us Not Into Temptation Pt. II - Standing Firm in Your Identity in God

    04/22/2024

    Lead Us Not Into Temptation Pt. II - Standing Firm in Your Identity in God

    Summary In this episode, Chelle L discusses the tactics of manipulation, gaslighting, and temptation used by Satan to distort our minds and undermine our relationship with God. She emphasizes the importance of understanding our identity in Christ and relying on God's Word to combat these attacks. Chelle L provides scriptures and encourages listeners to renew their minds through prayer, reading the Bible, worship, and reflection. She reminds us that we are not alone in the battle against temptation and encourages us to stand firm in our identity in God. Keywords manipulation, gaslighting, temptation, Satan, identity, mind, thoughts, renewing, scripture Takeaways Satan uses manipulation, gaslighting, and temptation to distort our minds and undermine our relationship with God.Our identity in Christ is established by God and is not up for debate.Renewing our minds through prayer, reading the Bible, worship, and reflection helps us combat the attacks of the enemy.We are not alone in the battle against temptation; God equips us and goes with us.Standing firm in our identity in God and His Word helps us resist the lies and deceit of the enemy."Temptation is a desire to do something, and Satan uses it as a trap to change the perception of your mind in order to make sin look good."Chapters00:00Introduction and Thank You 08:04Satan's Agenda: Stealing, Killing, and Destroying 16:10Jesus' Temptation and the Importance of Knowing Your Identity

    24 min
  3. Unmasking the Adversary: Gaslighting as a Tactic of Satan

    04/06/2024

    Unmasking the Adversary: Gaslighting as a Tactic of Satan

    Summary In this episode, Chelle L. discusses the tactic of gaslighting and its connection to manipulation, callousness, and deceitfulness. She explains that gaslighting is a form of hidden deception that creates confusion and doubt within a person, causing them to question their own reality and perceptions. Chelle emphasizes that gaslighting is fueled by the adversary, Satan, and warns listeners to be aware of his tactics. She provides biblical references and practical steps to counteract gaslighting, including knowing the truth, rebuilding one's reality with God's help, and understanding what love truly is. Keywords gaslighting, manipulation, callousness, deceitfulness, adversary, Satan, truth, rebuilding reality, love Takeaways Gaslighting is a form of hidden deception that manipulates a person into questioning their own reality and perceptions.Gaslighting is fueled by the adversary, Satan, and is characterized by manipulation, callousness, and deceitfulness.To counteract gaslighting, it is important to know the truth, rebuild one's reality with God's help, and understand what love truly is.Recognizing the tactics of gaslighting and relying on the knowledge and discernment provided by God's Word can protect against its harmful effects.Quotes from This Episode "Gaslighting is deliberate deceit that manipulates others into questioning their own sanity, perceptions of reality, and grasp of truth.""Gaslighting is fueled by the adversary, Satan. He is the force behind gaslighting, manipulating, callousness, and deceitfulness.""To counteract gaslighting, demolish arguments against the knowledge of God, rebuild your reality with God's help, and understand what love truly is."Chapters 00:00Introduction and Prayer 01:10Exposing Manipulation: Gaslighting 07:08The Adversary Behind Gaslighting: Satan's Role in Manipulation 13:15Knowing the Truth: A Weapon Against Gaslighting 32:40Conclusion and Encouragement

    36 min
  4. Lead Us Not into Temptation Pt. I -Tactics of Manipulation

    03/26/2024

    Lead Us Not into Temptation Pt. I -Tactics of Manipulation

    Summary In this episode, Chelle L. explores the topic of manipulation, using the story of Samson and Delilah as a starting point. She defines manipulation as a behavior designed to exploit, control, or influence others to one's advantage. Chelle emphasizes that manipulation is a fruitless work of Satan and goes against God's desire for us to have free will. She discusses the importance of healing past wounds and knowing one's identity in order to resist manipulation. Chelle also explores the tactics of manipulation and provides guidance on how to identify and take action against manipulation. Takeaways Manipulation is a behavior designed to exploit, control, or influence others to one's advantage.Manipulation is a fruitless work of Satan and goes against God's desire for us to have free will.Healing past wounds and knowing one's identity is important in resisting manipulation.It is possible to identify and take action against manipulation.Chapters 00:00Introduction and Medical Disclaimer 01:30Exploring the Story of Samson and Delilah 04:33Satan's Use of Manipulation 06:21The Importance of Healing and Knowing Your Identity 08:13Delilah's Manipulation of Samson 10:12Manipulation in Various Relationships 11:38The Goal of Manipulation 12:08Tactics of Manipulation 20:12Taking Action Against Manipulation 23:21Embracing God's Love and Rejecting Manipulation 25:12Closing Prayer and Conclusion For anyone that may be in an abusive relationship, help can be found at the National Domestic Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 or by texting "START" to 88788

    26 min
  5. Stand Up To The Dark Places of Fear

    03/18/2024

    Stand Up To The Dark Places of Fear

    Summary In this episode, Chelle L. discusses the role of fear in spiritual warfare and how it can be used as a tactic by the enemy. She emphasizes the importance of discernment and prudence in identifying and responding to danger, rather than succumbing to fear. Chelle draws inspiration from the story of David and Goliath, highlighting David's faith and trust in God as he overcame fear. She encourages listeners to rely on God's strength and protection in the face of fear, and to remember that fear is not from God. The episode concludes with a prayer for strength, courage, and victory over fear. Takeaways Fear is a tactic used by the enemy in spiritual warfare, designed to taunt, torment, and paralyze believers.Discernment and prudence are essential in identifying and responding to danger, rather than succumbing to fear.God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.Drawing inspiration from the story of David and Goliath, we can overcome fear by placing our trust in God's strength and protection.Chapters 00:00Introduction and Prayer 01:10Recap: Mental Health and Spiritual Warfare 03:24Understanding Fear 04:29Prudence and Discernment 05:37The Role of Prudence in Identifying Danger 06:37The Sensible One vs. the Inexperienced One 07:14The Prudent Person Sees Danger and Takes Cover 08:31God Has Not Given Us a Spirit of Fear 09:29The Distortion of Fear 10:21Fear, Worry, and Anxiety 11:20God's Assurance and Protection 12:38Godly Fear vs. Tormenting Fear 14:24David and Goliath: Overcoming Fear 22:05Do Not Overestimate Satan's Word Games 23:30False Evidence Appearing Real 25:11Conclusion and Prayer

    25 min
  6. Don't Allow Your Identity to Follow the Word Game's Path

    03/04/2024

    Don't Allow Your Identity to Follow the Word Game's Path

    Summary In this episode, Chelle L. explores the concept of identity from both psychological and Christian perspectives. The conversation highlights the impact of word games on identity, drawing from the story of Eve in the Garden of Eden. The host emphasizes the importance of understanding one's identity, which is composed of both public and private aspects. The episode also delves into the role of Satan's word games in challenging and distorting identity, leading to insecurity and disobedience. Chelle L. encourages listeners to find security in God's word and reject empty arguments that seek to undermine their identity. The episode concludes with practical steps to strengthen and protect one's identity. Takeaways Word games can have a significant impact on our identity, leading to insecurity and disobedience. Understanding our identity is crucial for mental health and spiritual warfare. Satan uses word games to challenge and distort our identity, but we can find security in God's word. Rejecting empty arguments and finding stability in God's word are essential for protecting our identity. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Purpose 02:02 The Origin of Word Games 03:01 The Impact of Word Games on Identity 08:20 Understanding Identity 10:13 External and Core Identity 13:08 Satan's Word Games and Strongholds 15:08 Security in God's Word 21:19 Rejecting Empty Arguments 23:33 Finding Stability in God's Word 25:16 Avoiding Comparison and Seeking Joy 26:09 Guarding Against Satan's Tactics Note: I want each of you to know that I am not attempting to stand in for medical providers. If you or someone you know are experiencing any medical and or mental health issues, please speak with a medical professional that can provide or should provide more personalized care and can even order bloodwork to discover if your condition could be the result of a chemical or hormonal imbalance or any underlying issue. -Chelle L.

    26 min

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There comes a time when games should be placed aside. They may be fun to watch, but they are not fun when they can affect our mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical well-being. Too often we may find ourselves in situations that may cause us issues of the heart or confusion of the mind, simply because we are being affected by a game that we never asked to participate in. One of the worst examples of this is with the mere use of words. Words can be used in ways that help us, inspire us, teach us, and even bless us. It's unfortunate however, when words are used to abuse us, manipulate us, confuse us, and even tempt us. These unfortunate uses of words can show up in the workplace, friendships, relationships, homes, and even in our spiritual walks and journeys. So, how do we counteract this game of words? By not engaging in the game-that's how. And how do we accomplish this? Through knowledge, understanding, and discernment. The desire of this podcast is to provide insight and wisdom into some of our everyday situations and circumstances by offering reasonable tactics and solutions for real life situations. How many want to handle the "games," in a way that doesn't compromise your integrity? Or handle the manipulation, confusion, and temptation in a way that doesn't disrupt your spiritual walk? How many want to just get a better understanding to help someone else? If so "I Don't Do Word Games" is that platform. Host, Chelle L holds a Bachelor of Science in Psychology with a concentration in Christian Counseling and a Master of Arts in Human Services with a concentration in marriage, family, and children. She is also an ordained pastor that believes that for every situation God has a viable solution. In this podcast she will provide a level of understanding that is reachable and obtainable for all. Chelle L believes: knowing the WORD helps to discern the "words."