Mama Matters Too / Sleep Training, Postpartum, Overstimulated, Christian Mom, Baby Sleep Schedule

ALEXA MARTINEZ
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Are you sick of feeling like you can’t show up for yourself or your kids as the mom you want to be, due to exhaustion? Do you crave time alone to fill your own cup, but can’t get it due to your children not sleeping? Are you tired of feeling dysregulated, exhausted, and overstimulated? Are you ready to be a more present and patient mother? I am so thankful you’re here, mama. This podcast will help you find more rest, joy, and peace in motherhood, by getting your baby or young kiddo to start sleeping through the night! Hey, I’m Alexa. A mom, wife, and Jesus lover who spent the first 6 months of my newborns life feeling beyond exhausted, anxious, and like a zombie just going through the motions. I wasn’t able to be a fully present mom or enjoy motherhood. Being riddled with anxiety and sleeping 3-5 hours a night just wasn’t working anymore…for me, my marriage, or my son! I was afraid to start sleep training, thinking maybe it wouldn’t work, or it would negatively affect my son’s development, or hurt our attachment. However…it did just the opposite. Sleep training changed our lives; my son was happier and well rested, my mental health slowly got better, I was able to BOND and be present with my son, and my home finally had some peace and predictability. However, I felt like my sleep training experience was missing something. It wasn’t customized specifically for my family, I had a lot of questions that didn’t get answered, and I could have used some non-judgmental support and encouragement while walking through the process! So, I created it for you. I went to work and got certified as a Sleep Training Consultant and a Postpartum Doula, so that I could create a space for moms to get complete support as they walk through sleep training their babies in a way that feels good for them. Inside this podcast, you will find sleep training solutions and tips for children aged newborn-6 years old, encouragement and community (you are not alone!!), tips on how to bring routines and predictability to your home, and how to feel a sense of joy and peace in motherhood again. So go reheat your coffee- I’m sure for the 10th time today ;) - and listen up, mama! Because you matter, too! Learn: mamamatterstoo.com Contact: alexa@mamamatterstoo.com Connect: instagram.com/mama.matters.too Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

  1. 5D AGO

    EP 27 // My Baby Used to Sleep… What Happened?

    Your baby used to sleep… and now suddenly isn’t. What happened? In this episode, we talk about why sleep can fall apart (even when you didn’t do anything wrong), what’s actually happening developmentally and behaviorally, and how anxiety can make everything feel more urgent than it is. You’ll learn: The most common reasons sleep regresses Why inconsistency keeps night wakings going 3 grounded steps to stabilize sleep again And if you’re feeling overwhelmed, I’ll share what support can look like beyond late night Googling. I pray this brings you rest, and remember…you matter too, mama! Book a free discovery call with me to learn how I can help you start sleeping again: https://calendly.com/mamamatterstoo/free-15-minute-consultation   Get the FREE sleep guide to get better sleep TONIGHT! https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64daa68c8457bad1915890c5 Join the Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/   Wake Windows Blog: https://mamamatterstoo.com/2024/02/02/what-are-wake-windows-and-why-do-they-matter/

    24 min

  2. JAN 29

    EP 26 // Not No-Cry, Not Extinction: How I Actually Teach Sleep

    If you’ve ever felt stuck between “I don’t want my baby to cry at all” and “I cannot survive another night like this,” this episode is for you. In today’s episode, I’m sharing the framework I use inside my sleep plans (the SELAH Sleep Method) and explaining how I actually approach sleep in a way that’s honest, effective, and supportive. SELAH is not a no-cry approach, and it’s not full extinction. It’s a balanced, intentional method that helps families see real progress without abandoning their baby or their values. In this episode, we talk about: Why so many parents feel stuck between sleep training extremes What the SELAH Sleep Method is and who it’s not for How structure and support can coexist Why crying during sleep learning doesn’t automatically mean harm How stabilizing sleep first often leads to faster, smoother progress If you’ve been craving peaceful nights and clarity without guilt or pressure, this episode will give you language, reassurance, and a grounded way forward.   I pray this brings you rest, and remember…you matter to God, and you matter to me!!   Get the FREE sleep guide to get better sleep TONIGHT! https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64daa68c8457bad1915890c5   Book a free discovery call with me to learn how I can help you start sleeping again: https://calendly.com/mamamatterstoo/free-15-minute-consultation Join the Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

    17 min

  3. JAN 23

    EP 25 // The Dream Feed: One Simple Shift That Can Support Longer Night Sleep

    In this episode, we’re breaking down the dream feed- what it is, who it can help, and when it may not be the right fit. If your baby is still waking frequently overnight and you’re wondering whether a dream feed could support longer stretches of sleep (without adding stress or guilt), this episode is for you. We talk through one simple shift to using the dream feed as support, not pressure, and how to decide if it makes sense for your baby and your family. This is a calm, realistic conversation meant to reduce confusion, ease anxiety, and help you feel more confident navigating nighttime sleep. Perfect for tired mamas who want clarity instead of overwhelm, and support instead of guessing. I pray this brings you rest, and remember…you matter too, mama!   Book a free discovery call with me to learn how I can help you start sleeping again: https://calendly.com/mamamatterstoo/free-15-minute-consultation   Get the FREE sleep guide to get better sleep TONIGHT! https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64daa68c8457bad1915890c5   Check out my reviews here: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61550287893794&sk=reviews Join the Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

    16 min

  4. 12/12/2025

    EP 24 // Toddler Bedtime Battles: 3 Gentle Boundaries That Make Nights Peaceful Again

    Bedtime with toddlers can feel like a hostage negotiation: 47 requests for water, endless “one more story!” pleas, and a mama who is completely touched out and frustrated by 8:30 pm. In this episode, I’m breaking down why bedtime is so hard for toddlers (it’s not just “defiance”) and walking you through 3 gentle, Christ centered boundaries that make nights more peaceful again. You’ll learn how to build a simple, predictable routine, how to  front load connection so your child isn’t desperate for attention at lights out, and how to hold clear, kind limits when the stalling starts-without yelling, shaming, or drowning in mom guilt.   Newborn guide: https://app.paperbell.com/checkout/packages/183571 Use code "PODCAST" to save! Get the FREE sleep guide to conquer your nights (and anxiety!): https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64daa68c8457bad1915890c5 Join the Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/ Book a free discovery call with me! https://calendly.com/mamamatterstoo/free-15-minute-consultation

    20 min

  5. 12/05/2025

    EP 23 // How to Help Your Newborn Sleep Longer Stretches (Without Cry-It-Out or Mom Guilt)

    If you’re pacing the hallway at 8 pm with a fussy newborn wondering, “Is this normal?”—you’re not alone. In today’s episode, we break down a gentle, realistic newborn evening routine: navigating witching hour, protecting that one longer stretch of sleep, and responding to night wakings in a calm, faith-filled way. You’ll walk away with simple rhythms that honor your baby’s needs, support your nervous system, and remind you that God did not design you to live in permanent survival mode. Newborn guide: https://app.paperbell.com/checkout/packages/183571 Use code "PODCAST" to save! What to do when baby can't be put down awake blog:  https://mamamatterstoo.com/2023/09/13/what-to-do-if-your-baby-wont-sleep-unless-theyre-being-held/ Get the FREE sleep guide to conquer your nights (and anxiety!): https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64daa68c8457bad1915890c5 Join the Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/ Book a free discovery call with me! https://calendly.com/mamamatterstoo/free-15-minute-consultation

    23 min

  6. 11/26/2025

    EP 22 // Why "Just Survive the Newborn Stage" Is Bad Advice

    "Just survive the newborn stage." It’s the advice moms hear constantly — and it’s hurting more families than it’s helping. In this episode, we’re unpacking why that message is unhealthy, unbiblical, and unnecessary… and how you can support newborn sleep without rigid schedules or sleep training. If you’re a tired mama craving peace, rhythm, and faith-based guidance, this one is for you. Newborn guide: https://app.paperbell.com/checkout/packages/183571 Use code "PODCAST" to save!   Wake window blog: https://mamamatterstoo.com/2024/02/02/what-are-wake-windows-and-why-do-they-matter/ Get the FREE sleep guide to conquer your nights (and anxiety!): https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64daa68c8457bad1915890c5 Join the Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/ Book a free discovery call with me! https://calendly.com/mamamatterstoo/free-15-minute-consultation

    19 min

  7. 06/03/2025

    EP 21 // How to Solve your Baby’s Short Naps

    Are short naps ruining your day (and your sanity)? 😩 You’re not alone—and there is a way out. In this episode, I’m sharing the most common reasons your baby may be waking after 30–45 minutes, plus practical strategies to start seeing longer, more restful naps—this week. I pray this brings you rest, and remember…you matter too, mama!   Book a free discovery call with me to learn how I can help you start sleeping again: https://calendly.com/mamamatterstoo/free-15-minute-consultation   Get the FREE sleep guide to conquer your nights (and anxiety!): https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64daa68c8457bad1915890c5 Join the Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

    16 min

  8. 05/08/2025

    EP 20 // Is Sleep Training Biblical? The Answers Every Christian Mom Needs

    Are you a Christian mom feeling torn between wanting more sleep and worrying if sleep training goes against your faith?    In this episode, we’re diving into what the Bible really says about sleep training, rest, rhythms, and parenting. You’ll hear biblical truth, grace-filled encouragement, and practical sleep tips that honor both your child’s needs and your own well-being. It’s time to let go of the guilt and step into the peace God promises.   I pray this brings you rest, and remember…you matter too, mama!   Book a free discovery call with me to learn how I can help you start sleeping again: https://calendly.com/mamamatterstoo/free-15-minute-consultation   Get the FREE sleep guide to conquer your nights (and anxiety!): https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64daa68c8457bad1915890c5 Join the Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

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Are you sick of feeling like you can’t show up for yourself or your kids as the mom you want to be, due to exhaustion? Do you crave time alone to fill your own cup, but can’t get it due to your children not sleeping? Are you tired of feeling dysregulated, exhausted, and overstimulated? Are you ready to be a more present and patient mother? I am so thankful you’re here, mama. This podcast will help you find more rest, joy, and peace in motherhood, by getting your baby or young kiddo to start sleeping through the night! Hey, I’m Alexa. A mom, wife, and Jesus lover who spent the first 6 months of my newborns life feeling beyond exhausted, anxious, and like a zombie just going through the motions. I wasn’t able to be a fully present mom or enjoy motherhood. Being riddled with anxiety and sleeping 3-5 hours a night just wasn’t working anymore…for me, my marriage, or my son! I was afraid to start sleep training, thinking maybe it wouldn’t work, or it would negatively affect my son’s development, or hurt our attachment. However…it did just the opposite. Sleep training changed our lives; my son was happier and well rested, my mental health slowly got better, I was able to BOND and be present with my son, and my home finally had some peace and predictability. However, I felt like my sleep training experience was missing something. It wasn’t customized specifically for my family, I had a lot of questions that didn’t get answered, and I could have used some non-judgmental support and encouragement while walking through the process! So, I created it for you. I went to work and got certified as a Sleep Training Consultant and a Postpartum Doula, so that I could create a space for moms to get complete support as they walk through sleep training their babies in a way that feels good for them. Inside this podcast, you will find sleep training solutions and tips for children aged newborn-6 years old, encouragement and community (you are not alone!!), tips on how to bring routines and predictability to your home, and how to feel a sense of joy and peace in motherhood again. So go reheat your coffee- I’m sure for the 10th time today ;) - and listen up, mama! Because you matter, too! Learn: mamamatterstoo.com Contact: alexa@mamamatterstoo.com Connect: instagram.com/mama.matters.too Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

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