The Invisible Wedding with Sarah Lizabeth

Sarah Lizabeth
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The Invisible Wedding is a podcast for brides, mothers of the bride, and mothers of the groom about the part of wedding planning nobody prepares you for. Every engagement has two weddings happening at once. The visible one: the venue, the dress, the flowers. And the invisible one: the pressure of decisions that feel permanent, the shifting relationships, and the feelings nobody asks about. Host Sarah Lizabeth has spent more than twenty years as a wedding planner, florist, and venue owner, and is the author of Planning a Wedding for Dummies. Each episode feels like sitting down with a friend who has seen it all, with honest stories, the exact words for hard conversations, and practical next steps. And every episode ends with the Invisible Wedding inbox, where Sarah answers a real message from a listener. Topics include wedding planning stress and overwhelm, the mother daughter relationship during wedding planning, feeling left out as the mother of the groom, getting your fiancé involved in wedding planning, handling family opinions, and staying present for your own wedding. Free Conversations for brides, mothers of the bride, and mothers of the groom: https://www.theweddingmentor.co Send your question to the Invisible Wedding inbox: info@theweddingmentor.co For interview requests, partnerships, or inquiries: info@theweddingmentor.co

  1. 4d ago

    Whatever You Want, Babe: How to Get Your Fiancé Involved in Wedding Planning

    Is your fiancé not helping with wedding planning? If you keep hearing "whatever you want, babe," and wedding planning stress is landing entirely on you, this episode is for you. Sarah Lizabeth, wedding planner, author of Planning a Wedding for Dummies, and The Wedding Mentor, explains why so many grooms step back from wedding planning, the difference between letting you choose and helping you carry the choosing, and the exact words to get your fiancé involved in wedding planning without a fight. Plus, from the Invisible Wedding inbox: what to do when everyone's opinion keeps reopening your decisions. Free Conversation for brides: theweddingmentor.co

  2. Jul 16

    What Is the Invisible Wedding?

    There are two weddings happening in every engagement, and only one of them is on your spreadsheet. The visible wedding is the one everyone asks about: the venue, the dress, the flowers, the guest list. The invisible wedding is the one nobody prepares you for: the pressure of decisions that feel permanent, the weight of everyone's opinions, the bride disappearing inside an event she is planning for everyone else, the mother crying over something that does not seem cry worthy. In this debut episode, Sarah Lizabeth, a wedding planner, florist, and venue owner with more than twenty years in the industry and the author of Planning a Wedding for Dummies, explains why brides with color coded spreadsheets still feel like they are drowning, why trying harder is not working, and what the invisible wedding actually is, whether you are the bride, the mother of the bride, or the mother of the groom. In this episode: why wedding planning overwhelm is not a planning problem, the two full time jobs every bride is carrying, the map for the wrong city, and the question that changes everything, plus the very first Invisible Inbox, where Sarah answers a real message from a bride who wrote, I have a color coded spreadsheet and I still feel like I am failing. If this episode felt personal, Sarah hosts free virtual conversations every Thursday, one for brides, one for mothers of the bride, and one for mothers of the groom. Save your seat at theweddingmentor.co Send your own situation to the Invisible Inbox: info@theweddingmentor.co

  3. Mar 2

    S2.3 Mother of the Bride Emotions: The Transition No One Talks About

    If you are the mother of the bride, this episode is for you. Becoming the mother of the bride is more than helping plan a wedding. It's an emotional transition no one prepares you for. In this episode of The Snagged Podcast, Sarah Lizabeth, wedding expert of over 20 years, shares what she has learned after serving brides for decades and why her heart has shifted toward supporting mothers during this season. If you're wondering what the mother of the bride responsibilities really are, beyond logistics, this episode explores the emotional role no one talks about. We talk about: • Mother of the bride emotions • The identity shift when your daughter gets married • How to stay connected without feeling controlling • How to support your daughter without losing yourself • Why grief and joy can coexist • What it really means to be a steady, supportive mother of the bride If this season feels heavier than you expected, you are not alone. 💛 Join the Mother of the Bride Virtual Conversation here:  👉 https://theweddingplanningprocess.easywebinar.live/mother-of-the-bride  This free conversation is a calm, supportive space where we talk honestly about this transition, so you can thrive as the mother of the bride without losing your relationship… or yourself. For ongoing encouragement, subscribe to Love Letters for Mothers of the Bride. 👉 https://www.theweddingmentor.co

  4. Feb 10

    S2.2 If I Were Planning a Wedding Today, I'd Start Here

    Most couples start wedding planning by moving fast, booking venues, choosing dates, and gathering inspiration. In this episode, wedding mentor Sarah Lizabeth explains why she would start somewhere completely different if she were planning a wedding today. Through real-world experience and quiet reflection, Sarah shares why rushing into decisions creates overwhelm and how clarity, alignment, and intention can transform the entire planning process. This episode is for anyone who feels pressure to move faster than they're ready for and wants permission to slow down, reset, and plan from a grounded place. Explore more guidance at theweddingmentor.co Join Love Letters for weekly reflections on weddings, relationships, faith, and life.

  5. Jan 27

    S2.1 Wedding Planning With Perspective: Walking Through Fire and Carrying Water

    Planning a wedding — and navigating life — rarely goes exactly as planned. In this episode of The Snagged Podcast, wedding mentor Sarah Lizabeth shares why perspective is often formed through lived experience, not information. Drawing from decades in the wedding industry and seasons of personal growth, Sarah reflects on what it means to walk through hard moments and come back able to help others with wisdom, compassion, and steadiness. This conversation explores why some guidance feels different — why mentorship rooted in experience carries weight — and how walking through fire often shapes us into people who can carry water for others. If you're planning a wedding, navigating unexpected changes, or walking through a season that feels heavier than you anticipated, this episode offers grounded perspective, honesty, and encouragement to keep going with intention. Explore more guidance at theweddingmentor.co Join Love Letters for weekly reflections on weddings, relationships, faith, and life.

  6. Jan 20

    S2.0 What the Snags in Wedding Planning Teach Us About Marriage & Life

    Season 2 of The Snagged Podcast begins with a pause, and a deeper conversation. In this opening episode, wedding mentor Sarah Lizabeth shares why this season of the podcast exists and what the "snags" in weddings, relationships, and life can teach us when we stop rushing past them. Drawing from over twenty years in the wedding industry and a lifetime of lived experience, Sarah reflects on how unexpected moments, detours, and tension often become the places where clarity, growth, and wisdom are formed. This episode sets the tone for Season 2, a season rooted in honesty, mentorship, presence, and perspective. It's an invitation to slow down, stay present in the middle, and allow the snags to shape you rather than derail you. If you're planning a wedding, navigating relationships, or walking through a meaningful season of life, this episode welcomes you into a deeper, steadier conversation. If this episode resonated with you, you can explore more guidance at theweddingmentor.co. And if you'd like thoughtful reflections on weddings, relationships, faith, and life delivered weekly, you're invited to join my Love Letters.

  7. 09/16/2025

    Wedding DJ Tips Every Bride Needs to Know with Jason Middleton from Premier The Entertainment Company

    Planning your wedding reception? Your DJ can make or break the night. In this episode of The Snagged Podcast, Sarah Lizabeth sits down with Jason Middleton from Premier The Entertainment Company to reveal the wedding DJ secrets every bride needs to know. From choosing the right wedding DJ, creating a dance floor your guests won't want to leave, and avoiding the most common reception entertainment mistakes, Jason shares insider tips from years of experience. Learn how to build the perfect wedding playlist, how to communicate your must-play and do-not-play songs, and why your DJ is more than just music—they're the heartbeat of your wedding celebration. Whether you're looking for wedding DJ tips, wedding reception ideas, or expert wedding planning advice, this episode will give you the tools to hire with confidence and keep the energy high from your first dance to the last song of the night. If you're looking for a DJ who knows how to keep the energy high and your dance floor full, Jason Middleton and his team at Premier The Entertainment Company are some of the best in the business. From seamless transitions to unforgettable moments, they'll make sure your wedding reception feels just as magical as you've imagined. ✨ Ready to book your entertainment? Click here to connect with Premier The Entertainment Company and book them for your event. 💍 Need wedding planning support that actually gets you? Try The Bride Bot™ — your 24/7 AI wedding planner, trained by a real pro with 20+ years of experience. She builds timelines, answers vendor questions, helps with design, and never sleeps. 👉 Plan smarter at TheBrideBot.com 🌸 Want to learn floral design? Join Sarah's Flower Arrangement Class and learn how to create stunning bouquets, centerpieces, boutonnieres, and corsages—all from the comfort of home. 👉 Sign up now at FloralDesignMasterclass.com 🎓 New here? Start with the free Bridal Bootcamp! A simple, step-by-step class for busy brides who want less chaos and more clarity. 👉 Save your seat at WedPlanPro.com 📋 Grab the tools that make wedding planning easier: Download your free Wedding Planning Checklist, Wedding Day Timeline, and Vendor Email Scripts. 👉 Get the free toolkit at WedPlanPro.com ✨ Upgrade your planning game with the full system: Join the Wedding Planning Process Masterclass for done-for-you templates, timelines, and total confidence. 👉 Learn more at DreamWeddingClass.com 📸 Get more tips, inspo & behind-the-scenes: Follow @wedplanpro on Instagram and Pinterest 🎙️ Listen to more episodes of The Snagged Podcast Search "The Snagged Podcast" wherever you listen or head to the blog at WedPlanPro.com 🙌 Thanks to our amazing show sponsors for making this episode possible! If this episode helped you, don't forget to: 📝 Follow, rate, and share it with a fellow bride-to-be!

  8. 08/11/2025

    The Worst Wedding Disaster I Ever Planned (And 3 Lessons Every Bride Needs to Hear)

    After 20+ years in the wedding industry, I thought I'd seen it all… until this wedding. Four hours from home, a venue that went bankrupt days before the big day, vandalized bathrooms filled with concrete, no power, and the only light coming from guests' car headlights — and that was just the start. In this episode of The Snagged Podcast, I'm finally sharing the wedding disaster I stayed silent about for years, the lessons it taught me, and how you can protect your wedding from worst-case scenarios. 💍 Need wedding planning support that actually gets you? Try The Bride Bot™ — your 24/7 AI wedding planner, trained by a real pro with 20+ years of experience. She builds timelines, answers vendor questions, helps with design, and never sleeps. 👉 Plan smarter at TheBrideBot.com 🌸 Want to learn floral design? Join Sarah's Flower Arrangement Class and learn how to create stunning bouquets, centerpieces, boutonnieres, and corsages—all from the comfort of home. 👉 Sign up now at FloralDesignMasterclass.com 🎓 New here? Start with the free Bridal Bootcamp! A simple, step-by-step class for busy brides who want less chaos and more clarity. 👉 Save your seat at WedPlanPro.com 📋 Grab the tools that make wedding planning easier: Download your free Wedding Planning Checklist, Wedding Day Timeline, and Vendor Email Scripts. 👉 Get the free toolkit at WedPlanPro.com ✨ Upgrade your planning game with the full system: Join the Wedding Planning Process Masterclass for done-for-you templates, timelines, and total confidence. 👉 Learn more at DreamWeddingClass.com 📸 Get more tips, inspo & behind-the-scenes: Follow @wedplanpro on Instagram and Pinterest 🎙️ Listen to more episodes of The Snagged Podcast Search "The Snagged Podcast" wherever you listen or head to the blog at WedPlanPro.com 🙌 Thanks to our amazing show sponsors for making this episode possible! If this episode helped you, don't forget to: 📝 Subscribe, rate, and share it with a fellow bride-to-be!

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The Invisible Wedding is a podcast for brides, mothers of the bride, and mothers of the groom about the part of wedding planning nobody prepares you for. Every engagement has two weddings happening at once. The visible one: the venue, the dress, the flowers. And the invisible one: the pressure of decisions that feel permanent, the shifting relationships, and the feelings nobody asks about. Host Sarah Lizabeth has spent more than twenty years as a wedding planner, florist, and venue owner, and is the author of Planning a Wedding for Dummies. Each episode feels like sitting down with a friend who has seen it all, with honest stories, the exact words for hard conversations, and practical next steps. And every episode ends with the Invisible Wedding inbox, where Sarah answers a real message from a listener. Topics include wedding planning stress and overwhelm, the mother daughter relationship during wedding planning, feeling left out as the mother of the groom, getting your fiancé involved in wedding planning, handling family opinions, and staying present for your own wedding. Free Conversations for brides, mothers of the bride, and mothers of the groom: https://www.theweddingmentor.co Send your question to the Invisible Wedding inbox: info@theweddingmentor.co For interview requests, partnerships, or inquiries: info@theweddingmentor.co

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