Vanilla Swingers: Swinger Podcast, Unfiltered AF

Kat & Leo
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Sexy, uncensored, and unfiltered AF, Vanilla Swingers—a 2025 Best Podcast winner and 2026 AVN Award Nominee—is your bingeworthy swingers podcast for curious couples, ENM newbies, and experienced lifestylers. Join Kat & Leo for a front-row seat to real-life swinging: threesomes, full swaps, soft swaps, orgies, swinger club reviews, and all the spicy chaos in between. This isn’t a how-to. It’s a hold-my-drink kind of ride.

  1. Ep 85: Couple to Throuple - Chasing the Dragon in Vegas

    3H AGO

    Ep 85: Couple to Throuple - Chasing the Dragon in Vegas

    🎠 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving into the Peacock reality show Couple to Throuple and asking the question - do most couples actually have the emotional intelligence to add a third… or are they just unicorn shopping? 👉 Kat & Leo break down the dynamics we saw on the show - from unicorn hunter couples clearly chasing fantasy MFF scenarios to the rare pair who actually understood what it takes to build real throuple energy. 👉 PLUS we unfold to real life - because while we were watching the show unfold on TV, we were busy having our own very adventurous weekend in Vegas. From mischievous unicorn throuple antics to a sexter-turned-MFM adventure… let’s just say Sin City absolutely delivered. 🍸🎰🎲♠ 👉 PLUS PLUS… a surprise Flight Attendant booty call and a Valentine’s Day Wuthering Heights fantasy with Jacob Elordi and Margot Robbie that had us both swooning and sweating ❤️❤️   🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!     🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!):     🔥 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! From Couple to Throuple https://www.vanillaswingers.com/from-couple-to-throuple/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *MAP* FIND LOCAL SWINGERS CLUBS - Check out Kat's new clickable US map to find a club near you! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-most-complete-list-of-swinger-clubs-in-the-us/ 🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠hello@vanillaswingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us

    45 min
  2. Ep 84: Vetting F*ing Sucks - Why We Hate Swinger Club Velvet Ropes

    FEB 19

    Ep 84: Vetting F*ing Sucks - Why We Hate Swinger Club Velvet Ropes

    ⛔ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re saying it out loud: We hate vetting. 👉 Safety matters. Obviously. But vetting has drifted into something else - less protection, more preference. Beauty bias, age bias, dress code bias, “vibe” bias… basically club owners playing God with the guest list and calling it “standards.” 👉 And in an egalitarian lifestyle that claims to celebrate every body? Vetting feels like the ultimate contradiction. Plus hear us talk about the first of our Sybian O Chronicles, as we take our newly gifted toy for its first spin. All this and more!   🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!     🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*  Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!):     🔥 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Vetting F*ing Sucks -Why We Hate Swinger Club Velvet Ropes https://www.vanillaswingers.com/vetting-in-the-lifestyle-who-gets-in-who-gets-judged/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *MAP* FIND LOCAL SWINGERS CLUBS - Check out Kat's new clickable US map to find a club near you! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-most-complete-list-of-swinger-clubs-in-the-us/ 🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠hello@vanillaswingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us

    50 min
  3. Ep 83: You Up? Lifestyle Sexting Do’s, Don’ts, and WTFs!!

    FEB 12

    Ep 83: You Up? Lifestyle Sexting Do’s, Don’ts, and WTFs!!

    💬 Kat loves sexting. Leo... tolerates it. In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we talk about how sexting started as a total no-go (too intimate, too risky, too "why does this man have direct access to my wife?!") but has turned into one of the hottest parts of our lifestyle toolbox. 👉 We talk about why group sexting is hilarious and hot, why solo DMs need boundaries, and how Leo came around to the idea that sexting isn’t cheating - it’s bespoke porn, personalized smut, and admiration in 4K. 👉 This is for the couples who need a little rule-reset, and the singles who think a dick pic = flirtation (spoiler: it doesn’t). Whether you’re into shared group chats, 4-way fantasy threads, or custom-written smut that makes you feel wanted AF - sexting can be part of the lifestyle. As long as nothing is hidden… and everyone’s getting turned on.   🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!     🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*  Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!):     🔥 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! You Up? Lifestyle Sexting Do’s, Don’ts, and WTFs!! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/you-up-lifestyle-sexting-dos-donts-and-wtfs 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *MAP* FIND LOCAL SWINGERS CLUBS - Check out Kat's new clickable US map to find a club near you! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-most-complete-list-of-swinger-clubs-in-the-us/ 🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠hello@vanillaswingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us

    1h 1m
  4. Ep 82: F*cking Porn Stars! Our AVN Awards Show Vegas Recap

    FEB 3

    Ep 82: F*cking Porn Stars! Our AVN Awards Show Vegas Recap

    🏆 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast —  we spill all the champagne-soaked tea from the 2026 AVN Awards in Las Vegas, the Oscars of porn, but with more glitter, less clothing, and a red carpet that just. kept. going. 👉 From Wiz Khalifa sightings to red carpet kisses to the award going to… NOT US (lol), we break down the weird, wild, and wonderful chaos of the adult industry’s biggest weekend - all through a swinger’s eyes (Spoiler: Lifestylers are more sexually charged, porn stars are surprisingly asexual) 👉 In true post-AVN reflection mode, we share a very real moment we had in Vegas - the kind that hits you in the feels during a *ahem* virtual MFM. Are we ready to lean into manicorn throuple energy? 💋 Plus, all about the Hustler Magazine interview - the one that made us blush with his poetry, prose, and perfect little pull quotes. Out soon!   🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!     🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*  Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!):     🔥 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! F*cking Porn Stars! Our AVN Awards Show Vegas Recap https://www.vanillaswingers.com/avn-awards-review-porn-oscars-up-close 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *MAP* FIND LOCAL SWINGERS CLUBS - Check out Kat's new clickable US map to find a club near you! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-most-complete-list-of-swinger-clubs-in-the-us/ 🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠hello@vanillaswingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us

    1h 3m
  5. Ep 81: Illuminaughty New Year's Eve & Threesome Afterparty

    JAN 20

    Ep 81: Illuminaughty New Year's Eve & Threesome Afterparty

    🥂 In this New Year's episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re pulling back the velvet curtain on Illuminaughty, the mysterious, ultra-curated house party you’ve probably heard of… but never really heard much about. Spoiler: we showed up, dressed to the Gatsby nines, and rang in 2026 with full-blown throuple energy. 👉 We’re also talking about how we really feel about vetting, what makes vetted events like Illuminaughty actually work (and what doesn’t), and why this year is already coming in hot. 👉 From NYE in the Bay to a spontaneous ENM weekend in San Francisco, the AVN Awards (Porn Oscars) breathing down our necks, a Hustler Magazine interview, and oh yeah adopting a Sybian… we’re coming in hot for 2026 and you’re invited.   🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!     🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*  Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!):     🔥 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Illuminaughty New Year's Eve & Threesome Afterparty https://www.vanillaswingers.com/illuminaughty-review-san-francisco/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *MAP* FIND LOCAL SWINGERS CLUBS - Check out Kat's new clickable US map to find a club near you! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-most-complete-list-of-swinger-clubs-in-the-us/ 🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠hello@vanillaswingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us

    50 min
  6. Ep 80: Naughty New Year’s Resolutions - Swinger Bingo Edition

    12/30/2025

    Ep 80: Naughty New Year’s Resolutions - Swinger Bingo Edition

    🍾 Forget boring New Year’s resolutions. In the swinger lifestyle, we do things differently - like making a filthy swingers bingo card. 👉 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast and 2025 Best Podcast Winner — we ditch vague goals and go full bingo mode, mapping out the fantasies, hookups, and “are we really doing this?” moments we want to chase this year. 👉 We talk about how our fantasies have evolved and how this little bingo experiment turned into one of the hottest, most honest conversations we’ve had. Oh, and yes - we read you the actual squares. Every single one. Including the ones that made us blush, laugh, and immediately Google “can we do this legally?” ✨✨ If you’ve ever wanted to peek inside our dirty minds and see what (or who) we're chasing in 2026… this is it.   🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!     🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*  Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!):     🔥 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Swinger New Year’s Eve Ideas: Parties, Play & Bucket List Chaos https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-new-years-eve-ideas-parties-play-bucket-list-chaos 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *MAP* FIND LOCAL SWINGERS CLUBS - Check out Kat's new clickable US map to find a club near you! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-most-complete-list-of-swinger-clubs-in-the-us/ 🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠hello@vanillaswingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us

    47 min
  7. Ep 79: Ho Ho... How to Get Your Girl to Swing (And Not F*ck It Up)

    12/24/2025

    Ep 79: Ho Ho... How to Get Your Girl to Swing (And Not F*ck It Up)

    🎅🏻 So… you’re curious about swinging. But your partner? Not exactly. 👉 In this special holiday episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo break down how to actually bring up the swinger lifestyle without making it weird, blowing up the relationship, or sounding like you’re just trying to bang other people. (Spoiler: “We should go on an adventure together” works way better than “I want to f*ck strangers.”) 👉 From sexcations and spicy porn nights to pillow-talk confessions and compatibility quizzes, we’re handing you the playbook for planting seeds without pressure. Baby steps, consent, curiosity, and a healthy dose of “don’t be a dumbass.” This one’s for anyone trying to open the convo without closing the door behind you. Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!! 🎅🎄❄️☃️🎁   🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!     🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*  Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!):     🔥 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! How to Get Your Girl to Swing (And Not F*ck It Up) https://www.vanillaswingers.com/how-to-get-your-girl-to-swing-and-not-fck-it-up/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *MAP* FIND LOCAL SWINGERS CLUBS - Check out Kat's new clickable US map to find a club near you! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-most-complete-list-of-swinger-clubs-in-the-us/ 🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠hello@vanillaswingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us

    59 min
  8. Ep 78: Swinger Discretion: How Not to Get Caught (Sex, Lies & Alibis)

    12/17/2025

    Ep 78: Swinger Discretion: How Not to Get Caught (Sex, Lies & Alibis)

    🕵🏻‍♀️ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo break down one of the most underrated skills in the swinger lifestyle: discretion and how not to get caught. 👉 Living a swinger double life is one thing - living it without getting caught is another. We dive into the real-world privacy mistakes that expose swingers fast: burner phones, locked screens, fake calendar entries, sloppy alibis, and the Bluetooth auto-play nightmare no one warns you about. 👉 This episode covers practical swinger discretion strategies for couples trying to balance non-monogamy with work, family, and real-life responsibilities - especially for those who aren’t “out” yet. If you’re new to swinging or already navigating the lifestyle quietly, this is your guide to staying private without killing the fun. Because the first rule of the lifestyle? Don’t get caught being in the lifestyle. And the second rule? Deny, deny, deny. 🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!   🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*  Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!): 🔥 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Swinger Discretion: How Not to Get Caught (Sex, Lies & Alibis) https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-privacy-tips-how-not-to-get-caught/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *MAP* FIND LOCAL SWINGERS CLUBS - Check out Kat's new clickable US map to find a club near you! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-most-complete-list-of-swinger-clubs-in-the-us/ 🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠hello@vanillaswingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us

    48 min
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Sexy, uncensored, and unfiltered AF, Vanilla Swingers—a 2025 Best Podcast winner and 2026 AVN Award Nominee—is your bingeworthy swingers podcast for curious couples, ENM newbies, and experienced lifestylers. Join Kat & Leo for a front-row seat to real-life swinging: threesomes, full swaps, soft swaps, orgies, swinger club reviews, and all the spicy chaos in between. This isn’t a how-to. It’s a hold-my-drink kind of ride.

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