Silent Grief Podcast

Jimmy and Clara Hinton

Those of us who have lost children and loved ones are grieving in silence. The average time off for bereavment is only three days. Life is expected to go on as if nothing happened. There is an expectation to move on and not bring up our dead child's name. This podcast offers comfort for people who have lost children. We will break the silence and share our difficulties with living without our beloved children. But we don't just share difficulties, our stories are also bound up in hope!

  1. Sep 22

    Episode 82 | “How Many Kids Do You Have?”: Answering the Hardest Question After Child Loss

    It is one of the most common, casual questions in everyday life: "So, do you have children? How many do you have?" But for a parent who has lost a child, those few words can stop time.Do you count the child who is no longer here and risk an awkward, painful silence? Or do you only name your living children to spare the stranger's discomfort, only to walk away feeling a wave of guilt for leaving your child out?In this episode of the Silent Grief Podcast, co-hosts Jimmy Hinton and Clara Hinton dive deep into "the dreaded question." Together, they unpack the emotional tug-of-war between honoring your child and protecting your emotional energy, sharing a practical 3-tier framework to help you navigate casual conversations without guilt.In this episode, we discuss:Why the "how many kids" question triggers such acute anxiety and guiltBreaking free from the belief that protecting your peace means erasing your childA practical 3-Tier Response Guide: What to say to strangers, acquaintances, and close friendsHow spouses can align on their answers before walking into social gatheringsFinding daily anchors of stillness and self-compassion when social interaction drains youFeatured Sponsor: Special thanks to our sponsor, Wright Farm Coffee Roasters. Start your morning with warmth, comfort, and mindful reflection. Explore their handcrafted single-origin roasts and blends at WrightFarmCoffeeRoasters.com.Connect with the Silent Grief Community: Website & Support: silentgriefsupport.com Listen on Spotify: Silent Grief Podcast Remember: You are always a parent to every one of your children.

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Those of us who have lost children and loved ones are grieving in silence. The average time off for bereavment is only three days. Life is expected to go on as if nothing happened. There is an expectation to move on and not bring up our dead child's name. This podcast offers comfort for people who have lost children. We will break the silence and share our difficulties with living without our beloved children. But we don't just share difficulties, our stories are also bound up in hope!

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