The Motherhood Mentor

Rebecca Dollard: Somatic Healing, Boundaries & Nervous System Support for Moms
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A podcast for the woman behind motherhood. The Motherhood Mentor Podcast is for the mom who looks like she has it together—and wants her life to actually feel as good on the inside as it looks from the outside. Hosted by somatic healing practitioner and holistic life coach Rebecca Dollard, this podcast goes underneath the surface of motherhood to talk about the woman living it. We talk about nervous system regulation, somatic healing, boundaries, people pleasing, perfectionism, mom guilt, relationships, emotional regulation, identity, ambition, family dynamics, cycle breaking, and the complicated work of becoming more yourself while being deeply connected to the people you love. You probably don't need another person or expert who isn’t you- telling you how to optimize your morning routine, parent your kids, or become a better version of yourself. You need space for the messy middle. The part where you love your life and sometimes feel swallowed by it.Where you want to be present and ambitious.Soft and powerful.Deeply connected without abandoning yourself. A really good mom without making motherhood the entirety of who you are. Rebecca brings somatic work, nervous system education, parts work, Enneagram, emotional intelligence, and years of coaching women into conversations that are nuanced, practical, deeply human—and occasionally a little unhinged. No sanitized self-help. No pretending there is one right way to do this. Just honest conversations about healing, relationships, motherhood, boundaries, and what it looks like to build a life you don't have to disappear inside of. You don't need less of a life. You need the capacity to be fully alive inside the one you're building. More Support: Follow on IG: @themotherhoodmentor , send me a dm and let me know you found me through the podcast!  Website:  https://www.the-motherhood-mentor.com/ Book a drop in Overwhelm Call: https://calendly.com/themotherhoodmentor/overwhelm-call Your host: Becca is a mom of two, new homeschooler, married to her bestie for 14years. She is a certified somatic healing practitioner and holistic life coach to high functioning moms. She works with women who are navigating raising babies, building businesses, and prioritizing their own wellbeing and healing. She understands the unique challenges of navigating being fully present in motherhood while also wanting to be wildly creative and ambitious in her work. The Motherhood Mentor serves and supports moms through 1:1 coaching, in person community, and weekend retreats. 

  1. 5d ago

    Who are you after becoming a mom? Motherhood, Identity Loss & Finding Yourself Again

    Who are you after becoming a mom — especially when the person you were before motherhood doesn’t quite fit anymore? Motherhood can change your identity, relationships, ambition, nervous system, boundaries, and sense of self. And while there is endless advice about how to raise children, there is far less honest conversation about what happens to the woman who becomes the mother. In this solo episode of The Motherhood Mentor Podcast, Rebecca Dollard returns to the heart of her work: supporting the mother, not just improving the parenting. We talk about the motherhood identity shift, losing yourself in motherhood, mom burnout, guilt, grief, perfectionism, people pleasing, ambition, self-trust, and the sometimes uncomfortable question: The roots of The Motherhood Mentor- the why behind building a business  Rebecca shares how her early work supporting mothers through La Leche League shaped her approach to motherhood support and somatic healing. Instead of assuming an expert knows what is best for a woman, she believes good support helps you understand yourself, recognize the patterns underneath your reactions, make informed choices, and trust yourself again. In this episode, we explore: • Why motherhood can trigger an identity crisis or existential crisis • What it means to “lose yourself” in motherhood • The difference between parenting coaching and coaching that focuses on the mother • Mom burnout, guilt, grief, ambition, and the pressure to get motherhood “right” • Perfectionism, people pleasing, and fear of being seen • Why Rebecca uses tools like somatic work and the Enneagram to understand the pattern underneath the pattern • The difference between coaching, therapy, and community resources — and why the right kind of support matters • Why motherhood can be an initiation into deeper self-awareness, healing, boundaries, and personal growth • How to build self-trust instead of constantly looking outside yourself for the “right” answer This isn’t a parenting podcast about perfect routines, discipline strategies, or becoming a better-behaved version of yourself. The Motherhood Mentor is a podcast about the inner life of motherhood — identity, nervous system regulation, somatic healing, boundaries, relationships, emotional health, cycle breaking, self-trust, and becoming more fully yourself while raising a family. Because sometimes the problem isn’t that you need another parenting strategy. Sometimes you need space to ask: What is motherhood bringing up in me — and who am I becoming because of it? If you’ve been searching for conversations about motherhood identity, mom burnout, finding yourself after motherhood, people pleasing, perfectionism, boundaries, nervous system regulation, somatic healing, or personal growth for moms, you’re in the right place. Subscribe to The Motherhood Mentor Podcast for honest, nuanced conversations about the parts of motherhood that don’t fit neatly into an Instagram caption. If this episode made you feel seen, send it to a mom who would immediately say, “Oh my God. Me too.” New Way to Work with Me- Book an Overwhelm Call and let's get your feet back under you. Book here  Send us Fan Mail If you’re ready to stop living on autopilot and start leading your life with deep presence, I’d love to work with you. Book a free interest call here: Click Here 💌 Want more? Follow me on Instagram @themotherhoodmentor for somatic tools, nervous system support, and real-talk on high-functioning burnout, ambition, healing perfectionism, and motherhood. And also pretty epic meme drops.  🎧  Did you love this episode? I'd love to hear from you on how this podcast impacted you, send me a DM or an email.

  2. Aug 25

    Boundaries with toddlers: gentle parenting, codependency, and parenting strategies for real life

    Your toddler isn’t “being bad” and you aren’t failing because you need space.  The toddler years are a real biological and relational shift: after a season of constant baby attunement, your child starts practicing autonomy and your nervous system starts asking, “What about me?” That’s where resentment, overwhelm, and those out-of-nowhere anger spikes can sneak in, especially for sensitive, big-hearted moms who default to fawning or people pleasing. We talk through what it actually means to set boundaries with toddlers without disconnecting. Instead of giving you a rigid parenting script, I slow down the deeper work: how to lead like a parent, not negotiate like a peer, and how to separate your child’s emotions from your own body. If snuggles feel like nails on a chalkboard, we explore consent in a real-world way, including the messy middle ground of “I don’t want to, but I want to want to,” and how to choose your response from values and agency rather than shame. We also name the cultural pressure for kid compliance and the hidden “martyr mom” expectation that teaches mothers to disappear. I share why you cannot control your child into a painless human experience, and why healthy parenting can still feel uncomfortable. Then we break down mom guilt versus mom shame, including how shame often shows up somatically and why it heals through compassionate community, not isolation. If this conversation supports you, subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next, share it with a mom who needs permission to have needs, and leave a review to help more women find the show. What season of parenting are you in right now? Another Great Conversation around Boundaries with Luis Mojica: Listen Here  Send us Fan Mail If you’re ready to stop living on autopilot and start leading your life with deep presence, I’d love to work with you. Book a free interest call here: Click Here 💌 Want more? Follow me on Instagram @themotherhoodmentor for somatic tools, nervous system support, and real-talk on high-functioning burnout, ambition, healing perfectionism, and motherhood. And also pretty epic meme drops.  🎧  Did you love this episode? I'd love to hear from you on how this podcast impacted you, send me a DM or an email.

  3. Aug 17

    What If Shame Is Not An Emotion? Breaking Mom Guilt and Shame with David Bedrick

    This episode is a re-air as it was a favorite!  Join me in this episode around shame as I sit down with David Bedrick to reframe shame as an internalized witness that dismisses our lived experience, then trace how that shows up as mom guilt, perfectionism, and self-fixing. We practice unshaming the energies underneath yelling, tiredness, and boundary-setting so the parent-child relationship stays real instead of performative.  • shame as an internalized witness that denies and gaslights experience  • how trauma stories disappear under “what’s wrong with me” narratives  • why “mom guilt” often signals inner violence rather than values  • saying the inner critic out loud to make it tangible and answerable  • unshaming anger and the energy beneath yelling  • tiredness and late nights as needs for rest, freedom, and meaning  • why the healing industry’s “make it go away” model backfires  • relationship over perfection as the core of resilient parenting  • boundaries as an organic impulse that shame suppresses  • inner boundaries that protect you from self-attack  Make sure you have subscribed below so that you see all of the upcoming podcasts that are coming soon. If this podcast moved you, if it inspired you, if it encouraged you, please do me a favor and leave a review. Send an episode to a friend.  David Bedrick: Website  The Unshaming Way Book  Send us Fan Mail If you’re ready to stop living on autopilot and start leading your life with deep presence, I’d love to work with you. Book a free interest call here: Click Here 💌 Want more? Follow me on Instagram @themotherhoodmentor for somatic tools, nervous system support, and real-talk on high-functioning burnout, ambition, healing perfectionism, and motherhood. And also pretty epic meme drops.  🎧  Did you love this episode? I'd love to hear from you on how this podcast impacted you, send me a DM or an email.

  4. Jul 2

    Somatic Meditation and Practice to Come Back to Center and Self

    What if the answer isn't thinking harder? So many women are trying to think their way through emotions, anxiety, overwhelm, conflict, and stress. But what if your body already knows something your mind can't access? In this guided somatic episode, I walk you through a simple body scanning practice designed to help you reconnect with yourself, regulate your nervous system, and come back to the present moment. Whether you're feeling overstimulated by motherhood, stuck in a spiral of overthinking, struggling with a difficult conversation, or simply feeling disconnected from yourself, this practice offers a way back home to your body. Inside this episode, we'll explore:  What body scanning is and why it works  How to move from stories into sensations  The difference between present-moment feelings and historical reactions  Why your body may be responding to patterns instead of what's actually happening  How to create more capacity for emotions without fixing, judging, or suppressing them  Practical ways to support yourself through overwhelm, anxiety, and activation Because healing isn't always about finding the right answer. Sometimes it's about learning to listen to the wisdom that already exists inside your body. Click here for working 1:1 with Becca on nervous system regulation, building capacity, and support.  Send us Fan Mail If you’re ready to stop living on autopilot and start leading your life with deep presence, I’d love to work with you. Book a free interest call here: Click Here 💌 Want more? Follow me on Instagram @themotherhoodmentor for somatic tools, nervous system support, and real-talk on high-functioning burnout, ambition, healing perfectionism, and motherhood. And also pretty epic meme drops.  🎧  Did you love this episode? I'd love to hear from you on how this podcast impacted you, send me a DM or an email.

  5. Jun 23

    When Your Child's Emotions Become Your Emergency: People Pleasing as a Mother with Luis Mojica

    What if your people-pleasing isn't actually a personality trait? In this powerful conversation, I sit down with somatic therapist and educator Luis Mojica to explore the nervous system roots of fawning, people-pleasing, and codependency in motherhood. We unpack why so many mothers lose connection with themselves after having children, how our kids' emotions can become our emergency, and why self-attunement isn't selfish—it's one of the greatest gifts we can give our families. Inside this episode, we discuss:  What the fawn response actually is (and why it's often mistaken for being "nice")  How people-pleasing shows up in parenting and relationships  Why resentment is often a sign of unmet boundaries  The connection between fawning, codependency, and motherhood  How to tell when you're parenting from a trauma response instead of choice  Practical ways to reconnect with yourself when you've spent years attuning to everyone else  Why your child's discomfort doesn't mean you're doing it wrong This conversation is compassionate, nuanced, and deeply validating for mothers who are tired of carrying everyone's emotions while losing touch with their own. Because your children don't need a perfect mother. They need a mother who knows how to come home to herself.  Guest: Luis Mojica. Holistic Life Navigation  Holistic Life Navigation integrates somatic practices, nutrition, and self-inquiry for a deeper understanding of the body and how to find safety within yourself for stress and trauma recovery.  https://www.holisticlifenavigation.com/ Send us Fan Mail If you’re ready to stop living on autopilot and start leading your life with deep presence, I’d love to work with you. Book a free interest call here: Click Here 💌 Want more? Follow me on Instagram @themotherhoodmentor for somatic tools, nervous system support, and real-talk on high-functioning burnout, ambition, healing perfectionism, and motherhood. And also pretty epic meme drops.  🎧  Did you love this episode? I'd love to hear from you on how this podcast impacted you, send me a DM or an email.

  6. Jun 9

    Guided Meditation for Boundaries : Healthy Separation and Feeling Self

    Today's episode is a guided somatic meditation for feeling into and cleaning up boundaries. Please do not listen while driving and be sure you are in a space where it would be safe to be in a meditative state.  Your energy can feel “leaky” long before your mind finds the words for it. We’re slowing everything down with a guided grounding meditation designed to help you notice what’s happening in your body, name it clearly, and reconnect with what is yours. We start with simple orientation for nervous system regulation: sensing the room, tracking tension, and locating emotion as sensation. From there, we explore the strange but real experience of feeling other people’s presence even when they’re not nearby. Using visualization, we picture each energy as a distinct color, notice distance as something tangible, and practice separating connection from enmeshment. Then we build healthy boundaries in a way that feels protective without turning rigid. We call our energy back, let outside energy dissolve, and imagine a shield of light that can be sturdy and soft. We also bring boundaries into everyday life by acknowledging limits around time, space, capacity, attention, and finances, and by experimenting with “right distance” in relationships. To integrate, we invite journaling prompts that clarify what we want and need versus what others want and need, so agency becomes felt, not forced. If you’re navigating burnout, people-pleasing, emotional overwhelm, or just craving more presence and self-trust, press play and breathe with us. Subscribe for more guided practices, share this with someone who needs a reset, and leave a review with the boundary you’re practicing right now. Send us Fan Mail If you’re ready to stop living on autopilot and start leading your life with deep presence, I’d love to work with you. Book a free interest call here: Click Here 💌 Want more? Follow me on Instagram @themotherhoodmentor for somatic tools, nervous system support, and real-talk on high-functioning burnout, ambition, healing perfectionism, and motherhood. And also pretty epic meme drops.  🎧  Did you love this episode? I'd love to hear from you on how this podcast impacted you, send me a DM or an email.

  7. Jun 2

    Where Boundaries Begin: The Foundations of Healthy Boundaries

    The First Boundary Is the PauseComing back to your body, regulating your nervous system, and learning to respond instead of react. In this episode of the Motherhood Mentor Podcast, we slow boundaries down and bring them back into the body. Because before boundaries become a conversation, a script, or a decision about contact, they often begin with something much smaller: a pause.  We talk about what happens when conflict, noise, parenting stress, or family dynamics overwhelm your nervous system and suddenly your reactions feel bigger, faster, and harder to control than you want them to. Rebecca shares practical somatic tools like orienting and pendulation to help you return to the present moment, reconnect to yourself, and respond from a more grounded place instead of survival patterns like freeze, fawn, shutdown, overthinking, or people pleasing.  This episode also explores the deeper layers underneath boundaries work: emotional overwhelm, sensory sensitivity, childhood conditioning, trauma healing, enmeshment, and the exhausting habit of managing everyone else’s emotions before your own. We name how motherhood often reactivates old wounds and why healing is not just about “staying calm,” but about building enough capacity to stay connected to yourself while emotions move through you.  We unpack:  why your child’s emotions can feel so triggering even when nothing is “wrong”  the difference between calming down and true nervous system regulation  how overthinking and under-feeling create resentment, burnout, and reactivity  orienting as a practice for coming back to where and when you are  pendulation and how to move between activation and support in the body  separating your emotions from someone else’s emotions  unhealthy empathy, emotional merging, and enmeshment  why naming harm matters before forgiveness and healing  motherhood, trauma reactivation, and revisiting wounds at new stages of life  practical regulation tools like movement, music, hydration, changing environment, and sensory support  why the pause is often the very first boundary to practice Rebecca also shares personal reflections on trauma healing, responsibility, consent, and how boundaries are not about becoming cold or disconnected, but about becoming more honest, differentiated, and relationally present.  If you’ve been searching for support around:  nervous system regulation  somatic healing  boundaries with parents  emotional overwhelm in motherhood  people pleasing and fawning  parenting triggers  family conflict  freeze responses  enmeshment  relational boundaries  trauma healing  emotional burnout …this episode will help you feel more grounded, more compassionate toward yourself, and more equipped with practical tools you can actually use in real life. Follow the Motherhood Mentor Podcast for the rest of this boundaries series, share this episode with a friend who’s carrying too much, and leave a review so more women can find nuanced support for nervous system healing, family boundaries, and motherhood. Ready for better boundaries- to be able to feel where you end and others begin and build better relationships- first to yourself and then to others?  Find out more here.  Send us Fan Mail If you’re ready to stop living on autopilot and start leading your life with deep presence, I’d love to work with you. Book a free interest call here: Click Here 💌 Want more? Follow me on Instagram @themotherhoodmentor for somatic tools, nervous system support, and real-talk on high-functioning burnout, ambition, healing perfectionism, and motherhood. And also pretty epic meme drops.  🎧  Did you love this episode? I'd love to hear from you on how this podcast impacted you, send me a DM or an email.

  8. May 26

    The Intersection of Boundaries With Parents and Parenting Your Kids

    IS your nervous system the reason boundaries feel so hard? Both with your parents and your kids or partner?  Freeze, fawn, people pleasing, emotional labor, and the family roles women never stop carrying. If setting boundaries with your parents feels similar to a toddler meltdown, there’s probably a reason and it’s not because you’re weak, dramatic, or incapable. In this episode of the Motherhood Mentor Podcast, we unpack the invisible emotional labor many adult daughters still carry long into adulthood and motherhood: being the helper, the fixer, the peacekeeper, the emotional support system, the “easy one.” We explore how nervous system survival patterns like freeze and fawn shape family boundaries, conflict avoidance, people pleasing, and overfunctioning — especially for high-functioning women who learned early how to read the room and manage everyone else’s emotions. We also talk about:  why boundaries with parents can feel emotionally impossible  the messy middle between full contact and no contact  how motherhood exposes unresolved family dynamics and patterns why your child’s emotions may trigger younger parts of you  the difference between guilt and shame in healing work  how over-responsibility quietly drives burnout  building boundaries without dramatic ultimatums  radical responsibility without over control  healing “down” toward your children and “up” toward your family system the hard healing of being a cycle breaker Using a personal example about taking space from social media, we also explore how clarity often comes from creating distance without needing scorched-earth decisions or permanent rupture. This episode is for women navigating:  boundaries with parents  emotionally immature parents  people pleasing  family guilt  freeze and fawn responses  nervous system healing  difficult family dynamics  emotional burnout  cycle breaking and motherhood  family estrangement and low contact relationships If you’re exhausted from carrying everyone emotionally and ready to lead your home from a more grounded, honest, and regulated place, this conversation will help you feel seen. Follow the Motherhood Mentor Podcast for the rest of this series on family boundaries, estrangement, people pleasing, and nervous system healing. Share this with a friend who carries too much, and leave a review if this episode resonates. If you would like 1:1 coaching and support on this topic, you can work with me here.  Send us Fan Mail If you’re ready to stop living on autopilot and start leading your life with deep presence, I’d love to work with you. Book a free interest call here: Click Here 💌 Want more? Follow me on Instagram @themotherhoodmentor for somatic tools, nervous system support, and real-talk on high-functioning burnout, ambition, healing perfectionism, and motherhood. And also pretty epic meme drops.  🎧  Did you love this episode? I'd love to hear from you on how this podcast impacted you, send me a DM or an email.

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A podcast for the woman behind motherhood. The Motherhood Mentor Podcast is for the mom who looks like she has it together—and wants her life to actually feel as good on the inside as it looks from the outside. Hosted by somatic healing practitioner and holistic life coach Rebecca Dollard, this podcast goes underneath the surface of motherhood to talk about the woman living it. We talk about nervous system regulation, somatic healing, boundaries, people pleasing, perfectionism, mom guilt, relationships, emotional regulation, identity, ambition, family dynamics, cycle breaking, and the complicated work of becoming more yourself while being deeply connected to the people you love. You probably don't need another person or expert who isn’t you- telling you how to optimize your morning routine, parent your kids, or become a better version of yourself. You need space for the messy middle. The part where you love your life and sometimes feel swallowed by it.Where you want to be present and ambitious.Soft and powerful.Deeply connected without abandoning yourself. A really good mom without making motherhood the entirety of who you are. Rebecca brings somatic work, nervous system education, parts work, Enneagram, emotional intelligence, and years of coaching women into conversations that are nuanced, practical, deeply human—and occasionally a little unhinged. No sanitized self-help. No pretending there is one right way to do this. Just honest conversations about healing, relationships, motherhood, boundaries, and what it looks like to build a life you don't have to disappear inside of. You don't need less of a life. You need the capacity to be fully alive inside the one you're building. More Support: Follow on IG: @themotherhoodmentor , send me a dm and let me know you found me through the podcast!  Website:  https://www.the-motherhood-mentor.com/ Book a drop in Overwhelm Call: https://calendly.com/themotherhoodmentor/overwhelm-call Your host: Becca is a mom of two, new homeschooler, married to her bestie for 14years. She is a certified somatic healing practitioner and holistic life coach to high functioning moms. She works with women who are navigating raising babies, building businesses, and prioritizing their own wellbeing and healing. She understands the unique challenges of navigating being fully present in motherhood while also wanting to be wildly creative and ambitious in her work. The Motherhood Mentor serves and supports moms through 1:1 coaching, in person community, and weekend retreats. 

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  • Creator
    Rebecca Dollard: Somatic Healing, Boundaries & Nervous System Support for Moms
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    97
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    Explicit
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    © 2026 The Motherhood Mentor
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