Never Light Up A Room Podcast

Never Light Up A Room Podcast

We all know the cliche "they lit up a room". On this true crime podcast, we will explain why you should stay safe and never "light up a room"! We aim to shine a light on the well known cases as well as the overlooked or forgotten stories. Join us each week as we cover a new investigation and illuminate the darkness that surrounds us.

  1. Jun 24

    Episode 114: The Murder of Betsy Faria and Louis Gumpenberger

    Elizabeth "Betsy" Faria, was a beloved wife, mother, and friend who was battling terminal cancer when her life was suddenly cut short. What initially appeared to be a straightforward investigation soon evolved into a complex saga involving allegations of deception, a wrongful conviction, and years of unanswered questions. Along the way, another life would be lost—that of Louis Gumpenberger, a vulnerable man living with disabilities who became entangled in a shocking chain of events. Together, the deaths of Betsy and Louis left their families searching for justice and transformed this case into one of the most extraordinary true crime stories in recent memory.    Sources:    First Alert 4 Staff; “Pam Hupp waives jury trial for no death penalty”; First Alert 4; April 28, 2026; https://www.firstalert4.com/2026/04/28/pam-hupp-waives-jury-trial-no-death-penalty/; accessed June 21, 2026.      Cesaric, Corin; “Woman at Center of The Thing About Pam Miniseries Charged Again in Connection with Friend's Stabbing Death”; People; Oct 30, 2023; https://people.com/pam-hupp-charge-refiled-betsy-faria-stabbing-death-8384298; Access June 21, 2026.      Mehrotra, Kriti; “Betsy Faria’s Murder: How Did She Die? Who Killed Her?”; TheCinemaholic; Mar 8, 2022; https://thecinemaholic.com/betsy-farias-murder-how-did-she-die-who-killed-her/; accessed June 21, 2026.      Fraga, Kaleena; “The Story Of Pam Hupp, The Remorseless Killer Who Butchered Betsy Faria — Then Framed Her Husband”; All Thats Interesting; Mar 2, 2022; https://allthatsinteresting.com/pam-hupp; Accessed June 21, 2026.      Carlin, Shannon;  “Renée Zellweger Stars In The NBC Docudrama The Thing About Pam. Here's the True Story Behind the Series”; Time; Mar 9, 2022; https://time.com/6156033/the-thing-about-pam-renee-zellweger-true-story/;  Accessed June 21, 2026.      Reed, J.A.;  “Untangling Betsy Faria’s murder: True story of ‘The thing about Pam’”; New York Post; April 2, 2022; https://nypost.com/2022/04/02/true-story-of-the-thing-about-pam-betsy-farias-murder/; accessed June 21, 2026.       Farberov, Snejana;   “Mother of disabled man who was shot and killed by Pam Hupp wins $3million wrongful death judgment after emotional testimony”; Daily Mail; July 17, 2020; https://www.dailymail.com/news/article-8535145/Mother-disabled-man-killed-Pam-Hupp-wins-3million-judgment.html; accessed June 21, 2026.

    55 min
  2. Jun 10

    Episode 112: The Murder of Suzanne Adams & The Death of Stein-Erik Soelberg

    In August 2025, a shocking tragedy in an affluent Connecticut community ignited a national conversation about artificial intelligence, mental health, and accountability in the tech industry. At the center of the case were Suzanne Adams, a vibrant retired businesswoman, and her son, Stein-Erik Soalberg, a former tech manager whose struggles with addiction, paranoia, and mental illness had intensified over the years. As Stein-Erik became increasingly reliant on ChatGPT, family members say the chatbot evolved from a digital assistant into one of the most influential voices in his life. What followed would raise unsettling questions about the relationship between vulnerable users and highly personalized AI systems. The aftermath led to a groundbreaking lawsuit, with allegations that have sparked fierce debate. In this episode, we explore the lives behind the headlines and examine a case that could shape the future of artificial intelligence for years to come.    Sources:     Zilber, Ariel; “How ChatGPT fueled delusional man who killed mom, himself in posh Conn. Town"; New York Post; Aug 29, 2025; https://nypost.com/2025/08/29/business/ex-yahoo-exec-killed-his-mom-after-chatgpt-fed-his-paranoia-report/; accessed June 7, 2026.    Gugliara, Sonya; “Wealthy realtor, 83, died in murder-suicide at her $2.8m home after son, 56, developed unhealthy obsession with his phone, lawsuit alleges”; Daily Mail; Dec 11, 2025; https://www.dailymail.com/news/article-15374603/Greenwich-Connecticut-murder-suicide-chatgpt-lawsuit-suzanne-adams.html; accessed June 7, 2026.    Devine, Lucy; “Ex-Yahoo exec 'killed his mom and himself' after months of disturbing conversations with ChatGPT”; Unilad; Aug 30, 2025; https://www.unilad.com/news/steinerik-soelberg-suzanne-adams-death-chatgpt-conversations-611991-20250830; Accessed June 7, 2026.    Collins, Dave; O’Brien, Matt; Ortutay, Barbara; “Open AI, Microsoft face lawsuit over ChatGPT’s alleged role in Connecticut murder-suicide"; AP News; Dec 11, 2025; https://apnews.com/article/ai-chatgpt-wrongful-death-lawsuit-greenwich-97fd7da31c0fa08f3d3ea9efd6713151; accessed June 7, 2026.

    56 min
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We all know the cliche "they lit up a room". On this true crime podcast, we will explain why you should stay safe and never "light up a room"! We aim to shine a light on the well known cases as well as the overlooked or forgotten stories. Join us each week as we cover a new investigation and illuminate the darkness that surrounds us.

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