Corporate Christie

Christie Hoffman

Corporate Christie is the podcast for anyone who’s ever said, “I’m fine” at work while quietly unraveling inside. Because no matter how much we pretend to separate work from life, the truth is—what happens at home shows up in your leadership. And what happens at work echoes into your relationships, your health, your self-worth. I’m your black-sheep corporate sister, here to blend workplace insight with real-life healing. Expect raw, relatable episodes on what it actually takes to reclaim your time, your energy, your peace—and your career. Whether you’re trying to learn how to drive employee engagement, lead more effectively, or stop shrinking in systems that weren’t built for you—this show will help you come back to yourself and build a life you’re proud to lead.

  1. 09/09/2025

    #53 - Projection vs. Gaslighting (and why your boss thinks you're LAZY when you're NOT)

    This episode is brought to you by the Confident HR Leader Masterclass! It's time to get out of reactive HR for good. Visit corporatechristie.com or click this link to sign up. (Note: Any mentions of the "Engagement Academy" on this podcast refer to an earlier version of this same masterclass. ❤️✌️) ====== Today we’re talking about projection — gaslighting’s ugly second cousin. You know, when someone accuses you of doing the very thing they’re guilty of. Fun, unhealed stuff, right?  00:42 – “How are you, really?” (aka, are you dehydrated?) 02:32 – Projection vs. Gaslighting: 03:32 – Lazy boss calling you lazy? 04:18 – “You’re lying!” …says the liar. 05:05 – Why childhood trauma makes projection feel weirdly familiar 06:13 – Micromanaging boss 09:07 – Gossiping coworker accusing you of gossiping (make it make sense) 10:20 – Personal story 11:51 – Friend drama 16:40 – Signs you’re being projected on 17:10 – Grounding yourself 19:06 – The #1 rule 20:27 – Magic phrase 22:21 – Calm comebacks 24:27 – Journaling 25:06 – Documenting projection at work  27:06 – Managers cause 70% of turnover — send those surveys! 33:31 – Journaling prompts that helped me stop the victim spiral 34:50 – 48 Laws of Power 36:46 – How I got burned in corporate 🔥 38:52 – Brilliance doesn’t always get promoted 40:14 – The garbage analogy ◽️◽️◽️◽️◽️◽️ ⭐  The 48 Laws of Power - https://amzn.to/3KbuT48 ⭐  Free Manager Survey Training - https://tinyurl.com/539zwm4c ◽️◽️◽️◽️◽️◽️ ⟡ TikTok:  / corporatechristie  ⟡ Linkedin:  / christiehoffman  ⟡ Amazon storefront: https://tinyurl.com/ykbwyyaa ⟡ Email

    24 min
  2. 06/08/2025

    #50 – DARVO Explained: How to Stop Letting People Walk All Over You

    This episode is brought to you by the Confident HR Leader Masterclass! It's time to get out of reactive HR for good. Visit corporatechristie.com or click this link to sign up. (Note: Any mentions of the "Engagement Academy" on this podcast refer to an earlier version of this same masterclass. ❤️✌️) ====== If you’ve ever tried to tell someone they hurt your feelings, but they made you feel like you were the bad guy—you're not Crazy. You were DARVO'd. This episode is part education, part memoir, and part spiritual boundary bootcamp. I made it because I don’t want you to waste another year trying to get toxic people to understand you. I break down: What DARVO is (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender)How emotionally immature people use it to flip the scriptWhy you, the empathetic, conflict-avoidant, peacekeeper, are often the perfect targetWhat healthy responses to feedback actually sound likeHow DARVO showed up in my own life — in work, family, and friendshipsWhy I chose to go no contact with people who do itHow to recognize this dynamic in friendships and workScripts you can use to stay grounded when DARVO starts to unfoldWhy “nobody’s allowed to tell you your feelings are wrong or bad” is now my life’s measuring stickAnd why this is a non-negotiable skill if you want to live life as the main character, not a background character in someone else’s chaosConnect with me If this episode hit home, I’d love to hear from you! 📲 TikTok: @CorporateChristie💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christiehoffman/📸 Instagram: @CorporateChristie📺 YouTube: Corporate Christie🌐 Website: www.corporatechristie.com

    21 min
  3. 05/08/2025

    #48 - All-Hands, All-Wrong: The Company Meeting That’s Costing You

    This episode is brought to you by the Confident HR Leader Masterclass! It's time to get out of reactive HR for good. Visit corporatechristie.com or click this link to sign up. (Note: Any mentions of the "Engagement Academy" on this podcast refer to an earlier version of this same masterclass. ❤️✌️) ====== Your all hands meeting might be lighting thousands of dollars on fire. Not on purpose. But if your people are zoning out, shopping Amazon, or silently rage-quitting in their heads…that’s exactly what’s happening.  In this episode: Why your all hands might be working against you.What "executive ring around the Rosie" is and why it kills engagement.How to run an all hands that actually earns trust, engagement, and yep—profit.The one leadership moment most CEOs fumble.The storytelling tool to make data interestingWhy skipping Q&A is the fastest way to create backchannel drama.Real talk about why you probably don’t need a monthly all hands anyway.Learn how to find out if what you're doing is workingIf your team dreads these meetings—or worse, feels invisible during them—you’re not just hosting a bad meeting. You’re quietly losing money, trust, and your best people. This episode is your no-BS playbook to fix it before they mentally quit (or actually quit). Stop burning salaries. Start leading meetings that make people lean in—and stay. 📺 Watch on Youtube  https://youtu.be/0PDdBWpumP0 📚 Resources Mentioned   Storyteller Tactics by Pip Decks: https://pipdecks.com/ 🔎 Gallup’s research: https://www.gallup.com/workplace/349484/state-of-the-global-workplace.aspx💻 Connect with me LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christiehoffmanInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/corporate.christieTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@corporate.christie

    18 min
  4. 04/29/2025

    #47 Hustle Culture Said Stick to the Plan. I Paid the Price.

    This episode is brought to you by the Confident HR Leader Masterclass! It's time to get out of reactive HR for good. Visit corporatechristie.com or click this link to sign up. (Note: Any mentions of the "Engagement Academy" on this podcast refer to an earlier version of this same masterclass. ❤️✌️) ======  In this episode, I respond to Layla Hormozi’s now-viral poster: 'F your mood. Stick to the plan.' Sure, discipline is sexy. But what happens when sticking to the plan means betraying your health, your instincts, and your actual life? I talk about: How hustle culture wrecked my health, warped my parenting, and distorted my careerWhat it’s like to lead a team with humanity, not fear (and still get great results)Why posters like Layla’s set the wrong tone for psychological safety at workHow childhood punishment for “talking back” taught me to stay silent — even when I should’ve called the police as an adultWhat happened when I ignored every red flag and kept hustling through grief, chronic illness, and a divorce… all in the name of resilience📺 Watch on Youtube    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8K1skuDNww4💻 Connect with me LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christiehoffmanInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/corporate.christieTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@corporate.christie🧠 Link to Layla Hormozi’s post: F Your Mood. Stick to the Plan – Layla Hormozi on Instagram

    10 min
  5. 04/22/2025

    #46 - When My Body Said ‘No’: The Breakdown That Rewired Everything

    This one’s raw. I just told the truth. In this first episode of Corporate Christie, I talk about the moment my body shut me down — hard. Not because I was tired, but because I’d been powering through pain for years. It all caught up with me. Burnout wasn’t just a work thing. It was a life thing. And this podcast is going to talk about both. This isn’t a productivity podcast. It’s not “how to be better at work” without talking about the real stuff getting in your way. We’ll get into that too — because I love giving tactical advice — but first, I had to go through it. And now I’m ready to tell the whole story. 💡 What I cover in this episode: The identity crisis that hit after I built something successfulHow childhood conditioning around productivity shaped meWhy I paused Engagement Academy and how I’m reshaping itA cold plunge, a linen closet, and one surprising meditationThe moment I met 8-year-old me in my mind’s eye — and what she saidHow divorce, loss, and no-contact family choices reshaped my valuesWhy we can’t talk about leadership without talking about healingAnd why I’m done pretending life and work are separate📘 Mentioned in this episode: 👉 Employee Survey Playbook ($49): https://bit.ly/42yQt9T 👉 LinkedIn:  https://bit.ly/42yQt9T 👉 Youtube:  https://bit.ly/4lHZJ2E 👉 TikTok: https://bit.ly/3YGgS2W  👉 Instagram: https://bit.ly/4jBMe2E 💬 Closing thoughts: If you’ve ever thought, “I can’t do this anymore,” — good. That feeling might be the start of something better. You're not broken. You're just waking up. And this show is here to walk through it with you.

    17 min
  6. 04/21/2025

    #45 - Why High Achievers Still Feel Empty (And How To Fix It) feat. Joseph Logan

    This one’s personal. I’m joined by executive coach and friend, Joseph Logan, and we’re diving deep into the emotional side of success. What happens after you’ve “made it” but something still feels… off?  We talk about identity, leadership, and the moments that crack us open (in a good way). This episode literally sparked my own rebrand. If you’re a high performer who’s hit the top and asked, “Now what?”, this one’s for you.  Key Themes: - Success isn’t always what it seems - Navigating identity beyond achievement - Coaching high-performers through transitions - Embracing moments of emotional clarity - Rebranding when your purpose evolves Want to talk to Joseph? Connect with him on LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/josephlogan/ Resources: - Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@corporatechristie?lang=en - Catch me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/corporatechristie/?hl=en - Let’s connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christiehoffman/? Timestamps: 00:00 – Meet Joseph Logan: Executive Coach to High Performers 00:13 – Why Success Isn’t Always Fulfilling 01:45 – The Episode That Sparked My Rebrand 04:02 – What High Performers Secretly Struggle With 07:50 – How to Lead When You’re Not Alright 12:10 – Coaching Beyond the Resumé 17:25 – Permission to Feel and Rethink Success 21:40 – Identity Shifts at the Top 27:15 – How to Rebuild Purpose After Burnout 31:00 – Final Thoughts: Be Brave Enough to Change

    48 min
4.2
out of 5
5 Ratings

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Corporate Christie is the podcast for anyone who’s ever said, “I’m fine” at work while quietly unraveling inside. Because no matter how much we pretend to separate work from life, the truth is—what happens at home shows up in your leadership. And what happens at work echoes into your relationships, your health, your self-worth. I’m your black-sheep corporate sister, here to blend workplace insight with real-life healing. Expect raw, relatable episodes on what it actually takes to reclaim your time, your energy, your peace—and your career. Whether you’re trying to learn how to drive employee engagement, lead more effectively, or stop shrinking in systems that weren’t built for you—this show will help you come back to yourself and build a life you’re proud to lead.