The Derelict Podcast

Josh Tomeoni
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The Derelict Podcast shares raw, real stories of men who’ve gone through divorce—and came out stronger. Hosted by Josh Tomeoni, a CFP® and men’s coach who’s lived it, each episode explores what it takes to rebuild after everything falls apart. For men ready to reclaim their mission, wealth, confidence, and life.

  1. 08/23/2025

    The Last Episode? EP 76

    Is this it? Listen in to find out...

    16 min

  2. 08/18/2025

    Divorced Once. Married 46 Years Since. EP 75

    A VERY special episode where we interrupt our regularly scheduled programming to interview, yes, that's right, MY PARENTS!They failed their first marriages. Then made it 40+ years together. My parents open up about gender roles, God, cheating, and what makes love actually last. Raw, real, unfiltered. Share this with someone younger—before they screw it up.

    1h 8m
  3. Redefining Masculinity: Why Vulnerability Makes You Stronger, EP 74

    08/07/2025

    Redefining Masculinity: Why Vulnerability Makes You Stronger, EP 74

    Get your well-crafted story blueprint to create a compellingpresentation: www.freestoryguide.com Check out Danny's books here: https://amzn.to/4kIcgl2 Recommended reading: "Team of Rivals: The Political Genius of Abraham Lincoln" by Doris Kearns Goodwin: https://amzn.to/3IBITDz   In this episode of The Derelict Podcast, Josh Tomeoni sits down with Dr. Danny Brassell to challenge what modern culture teaches men about masculinity. They explore why vulnerability is actually strength, how to find purpose after failure, and why respect must be earned. From faith and adversity to powerful storytelling, this conversation will inspire any man ready to step into authentic leadership.   ✅ Subscribe for more on redefining masculinity and personal growth. ✅ Leave a comment if this resonated with you. Chapters 00:00 – Introduction and Connection 03:00 – Redefining Masculinity 05:39 – The Journey of Vulnerability 08:24 – The Importance of Authenticity 11:29 – Lessons from Failure 14:28 – Finding Purpose in Adversity 17:06 – The Role of Mentorship 20:04 – Spiritual Growth and Identity 22:47 – The Shift in Perspective 25:36 – Conclusion and Reflections 29:09 – Finding Your Mission and Overcoming Failure 30:41 – Lessons from Abraham Lincoln’s Life 36:14 – Respect and Disagreement in Relationships 41:31 – The Importance of Slowing Down 50:33 – Resilience Through Tough Times

    56 min
  4. The Duality of Masculinity and Femininity, EP 73

    07/31/2025

    The Duality of Masculinity and Femininity, EP 73

    Connect with Jessica on Instagram: @jessicalaurenvine! In this engaging conversation, Jessica Lauren Vine and Josh Tomeoni explore the complexities of relationships, focusing on themes of masculinity, femininity, and personal growth. They discuss the impact of divorce, the concept of toxic masculinity, and the importance of communication in fostering healthy relationships. Through personal anecdotes and insights, they emphasize the journey of self-discovery and the influence of external opinions on our perceptions of love and connection.

    1h 2m

  5. 07/24/2025

    Abuse: Been There Got Out, EP 72

    In this episode, Josh and Chris (www.beentheregotout.com) delve into the complexities of narcissism, abusive relationships, and the journey of healing and resilience. Chris shares his personal experiences with high conflict divorce, the impact of childhood on adult relationships, and the importance of self-validation. They discuss the differences between covert and overt narcissism, how to identify narcissistic behaviors, and the significance of introspection and accountability in personal growth. The conversation also highlights the challenges of navigating toxic relationships and offers resources for those seeking support.Buy Chris' book here: https://amzn.to/4ld1cxrChapters00:00 Introduction to Narcissism and Relationships02:35 Chris's Personal Journey and Resilience06:01 Understanding Narcissism: Covert vs Overt09:24 Identifying Narcissistic Behaviors13:28 Self-Reflection and Narcissism17:04 The Impact of Toxic Relationships19:37 Building a Supportive Relationship21:23 Navigating Post-Divorce Dynamics24:28 The Psychology of Manipulation29:13 Curiosity and Self-Assessment31:11 Navigating Childhood Trauma and Relationships38:29 Building Healthy Relationships After Trauma43:23 Understanding Trauma Bonds vs. Healthy Connections48:41 Overcoming Personal Blocks in Relationships53:48 Helping Others Navigate Toxic Relationships

    59 min
  6. How to Be a Legendary Dad: Masculinity, Forgiveness & Growth, EP 71

    07/17/2025

    How to Be a Legendary Dad: Masculinity, Forgiveness & Growth, EP 71

    In this powerful episode of The Derelict Podcast, Josh Tomeoni sits down with Larry Hagner—founder of The Dad Edge (thedadedge.com)—to explore what it takes to become a legendary father and husband. From overcoming childhood struggles to building emotional safety and self-awareness, Larry shares raw insights on parenting, masculinity, and the pursuit of personal growth. Whether you’re balancing work and family or learning to forgive yourself, this conversation will inspire you to show up as your best self.🎧 Listen to learn how validation, forgiveness, and community can transform your relationships—and your life.And watch for Larry's book, “Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood” coming out September 16, 2025!

    51 min

  7. 07/10/2025

    He Lost His Wife, Career & Son — Then Everything Changed, EP 70

    💔 What happens when a man loses everything—his marriage, his career, and even his child?In this brutally honest episode, Josh sits down with Jonathon Aslay, dating and relationship coach, to talk about addiction, heartbreak, online dating as a coping mechanism, and the long, messy road to self-love.From numbing with drugs and validation to doing the real work of healing, Jonathon shares the truth about how men suffer in silence and how they can finally break free.Whether you're a divorced dad, a man stuck in the cycle of "overthinking and under feeling", or just someone looking for hope after loss — this episode is for you.🧠 What You’ll Learn:Why most men use dating for validation, not connectionHow trauma bonding can disguise itself as loveThe dark side of online dating for divorced menWhy your pain isn’t your fault—but healing is your jobThe real path to rebuilding after a complete life collapse▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬👇 SUBSCRIBE HERE:https://www.youtube.com/@JoshTheDerelict𝐖𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬...?▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬👍 Like the video (it helps a ton!)💬 Comment below to share your opinion!🔗 Share the video with anyone you think might help :)▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬📧 For Business Inquiries: info@thederelict.biz▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬Follow us on social media:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JoshTheDerelictTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@JoshTheDerelictInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/JoshTheDerelictLinkedin: /**Josh Tomeoni, CFP®, ChFC®, CLU®, RICP®**https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshuatomeoni/▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬And also our website:https://www.thederelict.biz/podcast▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬📌 Key Takeaways:1️⃣ Online Dating Wasn’t Fun—It Was TherapyJonathon reveals how he used dating as a way to dump emotional pain and avoid real healing.2️⃣ Most Men Don’t Heal—They NumbFrom cocaine to casual hookups, many men avoid therapy and instead chase validation to escape their wounds.3️⃣ Overthinking Isn’t the Problem—Avoiding Action IsJosh and Jonathon break down how getting stuck in thoughts blocks growth, while taking messy action opens healing.4️⃣ Relationships Fail Because We’re Unhealed, Not UnluckyThe patterns we repeat in love are often trauma reenactments—until we choose to face ourselves.5️⃣ Healing Starts When You Say: ‘Maybe It’s Me’Change begins not when life falls apart, but when we stop blaming others and ask, “How am I contributing to this pain?”⏱️Timestamps:00:00 – 03:00Intro: Jonathon’s journey & Josh's praise of his book03:00 – 09:00Self-love, overthinking, and nurturing your inner child09:00 – 15:00Writing the book after divorce, job loss & emotional collapse15:00 – 22:00Cocaine, alcohol, online dating as coping mechanisms22:00 – 28:00Addicted to validation: emotional dumps as fake therapy28:00 – 34:00Why men ghost: shame, sabotage & the dysfunctional moonwalk34:00 – 41:00Hookup culture, marriage burnout & emotional exhaustion41:00 – 47:00The collapse of commitment & why men are checking out47:00 – 53:00What men really want post-divorce (but are afraid to say)53:00 – 59:00The epidemic of emotional immaturity in modern dating59:00 – 1:05:00How to start healing: therapy, reflection & emotional honesty1:05:00 – 1:13:00Final truth: You're the problem — and the solution

    1h 14m

  8. 07/03/2025

    She Changed Her Life With One Thought – Here's How You Can Too, EP 69

    🔥 Tired of feeling stuck, unmotivated, or like you’re never enough?In this fire-packed episode, Josh sits down with Samantha ultra-marathoner, mindset coach, and all-around badass, to talk about what it really takes to feel hot AF — in your body, mind, and entire life.This episode isn’t just about fitness — it’s about rewiring your thoughts, breaking free from self-sabotage, and learning how to show up when you feel like doing anything but.If you’ve ever struggled with confidence, stress weight, or feeling like you’ve lost your spark... this one's for you.💬 DM “JOSH” to Samantha on Instagram @samanthanivensto claim a FREE 30-min coaching session on body, mindset, or relationships. No strings attached.▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬👇 SUBSCRIBE HERE:https://www.youtube.com/@JoshTheDerelict𝐖𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬...?▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬👍 Like the video (it helps a ton!)💬 Comment below to share your opinion!🔗 Share the video with anyone you think might help :)▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬📧 For Business Inquiries: info@thederelict.biz▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬Follow us on social media:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JoshTheDerelictTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@JoshTheDerelictInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/JoshTheDerelictLinkedin: /**Josh Tomeoni, CFP®, ChFC®, CLU®, RICP®**https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshuatomeoni/▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬And also our website:https://www.thederelict.biz/podcast▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬📌 5 Key Takeaways 1️⃣ Your Mindset Is More Powerful Than Any WorkoutSamantha reveals that your thoughts create your reality. Before you ever build a “hot AF” body, you have to build a hot AF mindset — with daily intention, not just affirmations.2️⃣ Don’t Chase Weight Loss — Chase JoyInstead of focusing on “losing baby weight,” Samantha set goals that brought her joy (like races). As a result, the weight came off naturally. Joy fuels discipline better than shame ever will.3️⃣ Stress Is What’s Actually Holding You BackEven with perfect diet and workouts, many people struggle with progress. Why? Chronic stress and negative self-talk sabotage results more than most realize.4️⃣ Your Goals Must Be Yours — Not Just What You “Should” WantIf your motivation feels forced, it won’t last. Samantha explains how to discover your authentic desires through tools like “intuition walks” and journaling.5️⃣ Confidence Isn’t Earned — It’s PracticedYou don’t get confidence from results. You get results by practicing confidence — even before you believe it. Saying “I am that b*tch” isn’t ego, it’s rewiring.Chapters:00:00 – 03:00Intro & Samantha’s “Hot AF” philosophy03:00 – 09:30Why most mindset work fails09:30 – 17:00Journaling: brain dump & intentional thoughts17:00 – 24:00Exercise for mental health, not abs24:00 – 33:00Stress-free weight loss after babies33:00 – 41:00Finding real motivation (without “shoulds”)41:00 – 48:00Belief gap: from self-doubt to self-worth48:00 – 55:00Build your support circle55:00 – 59:00Final thoughts & free coaching offer

    59 min
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The Derelict Podcast shares raw, real stories of men who’ve gone through divorce—and came out stronger. Hosted by Josh Tomeoni, a CFP® and men’s coach who’s lived it, each episode explores what it takes to rebuild after everything falls apart. For men ready to reclaim their mission, wealth, confidence, and life.

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  • Creator
    Josh Tomeoni
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    79
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Josh Tomeoni
  • Show Website
    The Derelict Podcast