When Life Gives You Lemons

Kevin & Palmi Henry
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We do a bit of Research into handicapped travel issues and provide some solutions. Mobility, Hearing, Sight, Mental issues included. so far our episodes have included some information on Ataxia, Cerebral Palsy, Deafness, Dancing Sickness, Gulf War Syndrome, Long Covid and Wheelchairs.  We are both Disability Advocates and realize there are too many diseases and conditions to cover and try to discuss the most common problems disabled people face and spread some awareness of disabled issues non-disabled people are unaware of.CORRECTIONOn a Previous episode I described how to enter our End Of Season contest.  Step 1 click on the support our show link.  Step 1 we require a one time payment (This has changed during our season) of $3.  Step 3 (get you back to a one time payment) click on the $3 Subscription button.  The following business day cancel the subscription (if you do it same day your bank may start thinking FRAUD.  Step 4 Your done.  Thanks for entering and "may the odds be forever in your favor",

  1. JAN 14

    CLASSIC - Inside The Brain Chip: How BCIs Could Restore Independence

    Send us a text A thought can become action faster than a mouse click—imagine what that means for someone who can’t move their hands. We take you inside Neuralink’s fast-evolving brain computer interface, translating neural activity into cursor control and exploring how this tech could restore independence for people living with paralysis, ALS, and other neurological conditions. From our lived experience with disability, we unpack the promise, the limits, and the real-world milestones that matter. We walk through the N1 implant and the R1 surgical robot: 1,024 electrodes on flexible threads placed with micrometer precision, a wireless implant powered under the scalp, and software that decodes intention into on-screen actions. Beyond movement, we dive into Operation Blindside—research aimed at delivering visual information directly to the brain by encoding the patterns the cortex understands, much like cochlear implants translate sound. That opens the door to visual restoration and, one day, augmented vision across spectra like infrared or ultraviolet, raising big questions about ethics, access, and design. Trials are under way, with two human participants publicly noted and careful updates shared across blog posts and videos. We talk candidly about eligibility, costs, and why experimental procedures rely on study sponsorship, not insurance. We also share practical steps for getting involved through patient registries and advisory boards, and how remote metrics help researchers track function changes without constant clinic visits. For the disability community, the stakes are clear: credible progress toward autonomy, measured not by flashy demos but by everyday tasks becoming doable again. If this conversation resonates, tap follow, share the episode with someone who could benefit, and leave a review to help more listeners find it. Got questions or a different view? Send us a note—we’re building this dialogue with you. Support the show

    30 min

  2. JAN 7

    CLASSIC "Badges! We don't need no stinking BADGES..."

    Send us a text What happens when the only elevator is “out of order” and there’s no plan to fix it? We dig into the everyday barriers that turn a simple night at the movies—or a weekend away—into a logistical and emotional gauntlet for disabled people and their families. From misleading “accessible” listings to public buildings that let essential features decay, we ask a hard question: if the ADA sets the rules, who makes sure the rules actually work? We walk through a concrete, five-part enforcement model inspired by a recent report: monitor and audit public spaces for compliance, help cities and businesses fix access gaps, investigate complaints with trained neutral experts, deliver real-world training, and educate the public about rights and reporting. Along the way, we share lived experiences that show why maintenance matters more than press releases—and why truth in accessibility claims is non-negotiable. Listeners will hear how simple changes like service contracts for elevators, verified accessibility tags for rentals, and clear complaint channels can transform daily life. We also wrestle with the tough stuff: the federal debt, skepticism about building a new DOJ unit, and whether states might be the faster path to real results. You’ll hear two perspectives: one favoring state-led pilots that plug into existing aging and accessibility offices, and one pushing for urgency because delayed access is denied access. Either way, the destination matches the promise of the ADA—reliable, verified access in the places people live, work, and gather. If this conversation resonates, help us keep it going. Subscribe, share the episode with someone who cares about accessibility, and leave a rating or review on your podcast app so more listeners can find it. Then tell us: should enforcement start with the states, the feds, or both? Your thoughts shape where we go next. Yes, this title is a quote from Blazing Saddles.  Please don't sue me! Support the show

    30 min

  3. 12/31/2025

    CLASSIC No, He’s Not Drunk—He’s Navigating A Disability With Humor

    Send us a text What if every simple movement required a plan—and every plan demanded patience, creativity, and a sense of humor? We open up about Kevin’s 27-year journey with spinocerebellar ataxia, tracing the path from double vision in the Army to a three-year diagnostic maze and the systems you have to push through to get help. Along the way, we unpack the difference between treating a rare disease and managing its symptoms, why misdiagnosis lingers for so many, and how persistence with the VA finally led to support that still leaves crucial gaps. The heart of the story is adaptation. Kevin embraced a “use it or lose it” approach, turning to adaptive martial arts to preserve strength and balance and to learn the art of breaking movement into safe, repeatable steps. That mindset now powers daily life: transfers planned like checklists, chair yoga and seated tai chi for stress and mobility, and a home set up to reduce risk with trained dogs and simple communication systems. We talk candidly about slurred speech being mistaken for drunkenness, relay services that don’t always fit, and the mental fatigue of navigating automated menus when your words won’t land. Empathy isn’t a slogan here; it’s earned through trial and error. Dreams evolve too. The pyramids and Machu Picchu may be out of reach, but museums with solid accessibility and emerging VR tools bring wonder closer. And humor stays close by. A well-placed joke—yes, even a UFO story—can reset a tense moment and hand back a little control. If you care about disability advocacy, invisible disabilities, rare disease journeys, adaptive fitness, or the practical tools that make life work, this conversation offers grounded insights and honest takeaways you can use. Listen, share with a friend who needs this perspective, and tell us what resonated. Subscribe for next month’s episode and leave a review to help others find the show. Support the show

    43 min

  4. 12/17/2025

    CLASSIC Avoid The Scam: What We Learned And How You Can Stay Safe

    Send us a text A sweet Mother’s Day idea turned into a masterclass on fraud after a glossy Facebook ad led us to a sketchy site, cloned URLs, and pages of warnings. That near-miss sent us digging through FTC data and real-world cases to map the top scams draining more than $10 billion a year and the simple moves that can keep you safe. We break down the psychology behind deception—why urgency, flattery, and fear cloud judgment—and then get practical. You’ll hear how imposter scams use voice cloning to mimic loved ones, what to ask to trip them up, and why calling back with a verified number is non-negotiable. We walk through online shopping traps and the safest ways to pay, the giveaway that isn’t a giveaway if it demands fees, and investment pitches that lean on “guaranteed returns,” passive income promises, or crypto hype. We also unpack job posts that require payment, the risks of shady apps and sideloading, and how SIM swapping lets thieves hijack your one-time codes—and how to block it with your carrier. Health and travel aren’t off-limits to fraud either. We look at miracle cures and unregulated supplements that prey on hope, plus the surge in travel deals and timeshare pressure plays that rely on “today only” pricing. And with global events like the Paris Olympics on the horizon, we flag how scammers will tailor old tricks to new headlines. If you’ve already been hit, we outline the triage: contact your bank and payment apps, report at reportfraud.ftc.gov, place fraud alerts or freezes, check your reports, and use identitytheft.gov for recovery. By the end, you’ll have a checklist you can actually use: slow down, verify at the source, pay with protection, enable multi-factor authentication, review bills and credit, and report quickly so others don’t get burned. If this helped, follow the show, share it with a friend who loves a good deal, and leave a review telling us the biggest red flag you watch for. Support the show

    39 min

  5. 12/03/2025

    CLASSIC Service Dogs, Explained Clearly

    Send us a text Service animals aren’t defined by a vest or an online “certificate.” They’re defined by task-specific training that helps a person navigate daily life—and that difference matters for rights, safety, and ethics. We dig into the real lines between service dogs, therapy dogs, and emotional support animals, starting with clear ADA definitions and moving into the gritty details: temperament, public access, cost, and the state-by-state rules around dogs in training. With Christy from Thunderhawk K9, we explore what makes a reliable service dog candidate, why only a small fraction of dogs have the right genetics, and how training never truly ends. Christy walks us through common task sets (PTSD interruption, mobility, retrieval, guiding), the rising interest in “green dogs,” and realistic budgets that can top $20,000. She also shares where grants bridge the gap for families and veterans, and why traditional breeds like Labs and Goldens are often the safest bet for calm, biddable work. From the frontline, Stacy of Bush’s Pet Products shows how these policies play out in real spaces—what good teams look like, the red flags of undertrained dogs, and the confusion caused by print-at-home “certifications.” We talk retail etiquette, why “do not pet” matters, and the narrow questions businesses are legally allowed to ask. We also get practical about living with pet dogs alongside a working dog, choosing therapy or ESA paths when public access isn’t required, and how state laws treat service dogs in training. If you want a clear, jargon-free guide to ADA service animal rules, the true costs and timelines, and the choices that set teams up for success, you’ll find it here. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a review with the biggest myth you want more people to understand. Support the show

    47 min

  6. 11/19/2025

    CLASSIC From Double Vision To Advocacy: Living With Ataxia

    Send us a text A rare diagnosis can upend everything—work, family rhythms, even the way you walk to the bathroom at 3 a.m. We open our second year by mapping the real, unpolished path from double vision and clumsy stumbles to a confirmed movement disorder and a life rebuilt through adaptation and advocacy. Kevin shares the winding road from misdiagnosis to clarity, the limits of genetic testing when answers don’t change care, and how symptom-by-symptom treatment through the VA helps even when a cure doesn’t exist. We talk openly about stigma and the pressure to “sound fine” at work, the financial and emotional toll of repeated testing, and the quiet decisions that keep a home safe. Adaptive martial arts became a lifeline—balance practice, upper-body strength for transfers, and a mindset shift from performing moves “right” to doing them effectively. That discipline kept Kevin out of a wheelchair for years and still shapes how we manage energy, fall risk, and anxiety. We also confront grief and the five-year prognosis that once shadowed the family, plus the creativity it took to keep connection alive when speech gets lost over the phone. Travel dreams didn’t vanish; they evolved. Giza and Machu Picchu moved from rugged hikes to virtual exploration, reminding us that accessibility is agency. We dig into the mental toll of everyday tasks, the power of routines, and why humor—sometimes dry, sometimes outrageous—can be armor when strangers ask clumsy questions. Along the way, the dogs play nurse and messenger, we share practical tools like chair yoga and tai chi, and we underline a simple lesson: you can’t judge a disability from a parking lot glance. If you’re navigating ataxia, caregiving, or any invisible disability, you’ll find strategies, empathy, and a few good laughs. Subscribe, share with someone who needs encouragement, and leave a review with the moment that stuck with you most—we’ll read and respond. Support the show

    43 min

  7. 11/05/2025

    MS, Explained Clearly

    Send us a text What if your body turned everyday tasks into two-day events? We dive into multiple sclerosis with a clear, human guide to what’s happening inside the nervous system and what it actually feels like to live with MS fatigue, vision changes, balance issues, and cognitive fog. Using real-world stories and practical takeaways, we connect the dots between immune attack, myelin damage, and the misfired signals that change how you move, think, and plan your day. We walk through diagnosis step by step: neurological exams, MRI evidence, and when a single episode becomes clinically isolated syndrome. We talk openly about early misdiagnosis, why lesions matter, and how to advocate for second opinions and better imaging. From there, we map the major types—relapsing-remitting, secondary progressive, primary progressive, and the MRI-only radiologically isolated syndrome—so you can see how patterns of relapse and progression inform smarter treatment choices. Treatment isn’t one-size-fits-all. We break down steroids for acute flares, disease-modifying therapies that reduce relapses, and the underrated power of rehabilitation. Physical and occupational therapy protect function, while energy management turns limited stamina into a workable plan. Expect concrete tips on pacing, sleep, temperature control, and using aids before you’re in crisis. We also unpack prevalence data, why U.S. rates appear higher, and how access, awareness, and environment shape the numbers you see. Along the way, we make room for humor without making light of the condition, and we share resources from trusted organizations that can help right now. If MS touches your life—personally, professionally, or as a caregiver—this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and tools you can use today. If it resonates, subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a quick review to help others find the show. Your story and your questions shape what we explore next. Support the show

    31 min

  8. 10/22/2025

    ALS, Explained Clearly

    Send us a text Motor neurons are the body’s messengers, and when they fail, everyday actions start to slip. We take you inside ALS with a clear, human guide to what’s happening in the body, how early signs can be mistaken for stress or overuse, and why diagnosis relies on careful testing rather than a single lab result. From muscle twitches and speech changes to breathing challenges, we map the path of progression and spotlight practical ways to protect function. We talk frankly about risk: age bands where ALS is more common, why men face higher risk before 65, and how smoking, toxins, and repeated head or spinal trauma can stack the odds. Genetics play a role in a minority of cases, with known variants like SOD1, but most diagnoses are sporadic. That makes smart prevention strategies feel more like risk management: avoid harmful exposures, keep your body strong, and nourish your nervous system with an antioxidant-rich diet that supports overall brain health. Care focuses on quality of life. We share how physical, occupational, and speech therapy extend independence; why gentle, consistent movement helps; and where assistive devices and respiratory support make a real difference. Public figures—from Lou Gehrig to Stephen Hawking—offer lessons in awareness and longevity, while newly diagnosed celebrities remind us how subtle the first clues can be. For those hungry to learn more or get involved, we point to trusted resources like ALS.net, the ALS Association, and university registries connecting patients to biomarker studies and clinical trials. If this conversation gives you clarity or comfort, share it with someone who might need it. Subscribe for more thoughtful, accessible takes on disability and health, and leave a review to help others find the show. Support the show

    27 min
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We do a bit of Research into handicapped travel issues and provide some solutions. Mobility, Hearing, Sight, Mental issues included. so far our episodes have included some information on Ataxia, Cerebral Palsy, Deafness, Dancing Sickness, Gulf War Syndrome, Long Covid and Wheelchairs.  We are both Disability Advocates and realize there are too many diseases and conditions to cover and try to discuss the most common problems disabled people face and spread some awareness of disabled issues non-disabled people are unaware of.CORRECTIONOn a Previous episode I described how to enter our End Of Season contest.  Step 1 click on the support our show link.  Step 1 we require a one time payment (This has changed during our season) of $3.  Step 3 (get you back to a one time payment) click on the $3 Subscription button.  The following business day cancel the subscription (if you do it same day your bank may start thinking FRAUD.  Step 4 Your done.  Thanks for entering and "may the odds be forever in your favor",

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  • Creator
    Kevin & Palmi Henry
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    55
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 When Life Gives You Lemons
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