When Life Gives You Lemons

Kevin & Palmi Henry
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We do a bit of Research into handicapped travel issues and provide some solutions. Mobility, Hearing, Sight, Mental issues included. so far our episodes have included some information on Ataxia, Cerebral Palsy, Deafness, Dancing Sickness, Gulf War Syndrome, Long Covid and Wheelchairs.  We are both Disability Advocates and realize there are too many diseases and conditions to cover and try to discuss the most common problems disabled people face and spread some awareness of disabled issues non-disabled people are unaware of.CORRECTIONOn a Previous episode I described how to enter our End Of Season contest.  Step 1 click on the support our show link.  Step 1 we require a one time payment (This has changed during our season) of $3.  Step 3 (get you back to a one time payment) click on the $3 Subscription button.  The following business day cancel the subscription (if you do it same day your bank may start thinking FRAUD.  Step 4 Your done.  Thanks for entering and "may the odds be forever in your favor",

  1. 1D AGO

    CLASSIC No, He’s Not Drunk—He’s Navigating A Disability With Humor

    Send us a text What if every simple movement required a plan—and every plan demanded patience, creativity, and a sense of humor? We open up about Kevin’s 27-year journey with spinocerebellar ataxia, tracing the path from double vision in the Army to a three-year diagnostic maze and the systems you have to push through to get help. Along the way, we unpack the difference between treating a rare disease and managing its symptoms, why misdiagnosis lingers for so many, and how persistence with the VA finally led to support that still leaves crucial gaps. The heart of the story is adaptation. Kevin embraced a “use it or lose it” approach, turning to adaptive martial arts to preserve strength and balance and to learn the art of breaking movement into safe, repeatable steps. That mindset now powers daily life: transfers planned like checklists, chair yoga and seated tai chi for stress and mobility, and a home set up to reduce risk with trained dogs and simple communication systems. We talk candidly about slurred speech being mistaken for drunkenness, relay services that don’t always fit, and the mental fatigue of navigating automated menus when your words won’t land. Empathy isn’t a slogan here; it’s earned through trial and error. Dreams evolve too. The pyramids and Machu Picchu may be out of reach, but museums with solid accessibility and emerging VR tools bring wonder closer. And humor stays close by. A well-placed joke—yes, even a UFO story—can reset a tense moment and hand back a little control. If you care about disability advocacy, invisible disabilities, rare disease journeys, adaptive fitness, or the practical tools that make life work, this conversation offers grounded insights and honest takeaways you can use. Listen, share with a friend who needs this perspective, and tell us what resonated. Subscribe for next month’s episode and leave a review to help others find the show. Support the show

    43 min

  2. 12/17/2025

    CLASSIC Avoid The Scam: What We Learned And How You Can Stay Safe

    Send us a text A sweet Mother’s Day idea turned into a masterclass on fraud after a glossy Facebook ad led us to a sketchy site, cloned URLs, and pages of warnings. That near-miss sent us digging through FTC data and real-world cases to map the top scams draining more than $10 billion a year and the simple moves that can keep you safe. We break down the psychology behind deception—why urgency, flattery, and fear cloud judgment—and then get practical. You’ll hear how imposter scams use voice cloning to mimic loved ones, what to ask to trip them up, and why calling back with a verified number is non-negotiable. We walk through online shopping traps and the safest ways to pay, the giveaway that isn’t a giveaway if it demands fees, and investment pitches that lean on “guaranteed returns,” passive income promises, or crypto hype. We also unpack job posts that require payment, the risks of shady apps and sideloading, and how SIM swapping lets thieves hijack your one-time codes—and how to block it with your carrier. Health and travel aren’t off-limits to fraud either. We look at miracle cures and unregulated supplements that prey on hope, plus the surge in travel deals and timeshare pressure plays that rely on “today only” pricing. And with global events like the Paris Olympics on the horizon, we flag how scammers will tailor old tricks to new headlines. If you’ve already been hit, we outline the triage: contact your bank and payment apps, report at reportfraud.ftc.gov, place fraud alerts or freezes, check your reports, and use identitytheft.gov for recovery. By the end, you’ll have a checklist you can actually use: slow down, verify at the source, pay with protection, enable multi-factor authentication, review bills and credit, and report quickly so others don’t get burned. If this helped, follow the show, share it with a friend who loves a good deal, and leave a review telling us the biggest red flag you watch for. Support the show

    39 min

  3. 12/03/2025

    CLASSIC Service Dogs, Explained Clearly

    Send us a text Service animals aren’t defined by a vest or an online “certificate.” They’re defined by task-specific training that helps a person navigate daily life—and that difference matters for rights, safety, and ethics. We dig into the real lines between service dogs, therapy dogs, and emotional support animals, starting with clear ADA definitions and moving into the gritty details: temperament, public access, cost, and the state-by-state rules around dogs in training. With Christy from Thunderhawk K9, we explore what makes a reliable service dog candidate, why only a small fraction of dogs have the right genetics, and how training never truly ends. Christy walks us through common task sets (PTSD interruption, mobility, retrieval, guiding), the rising interest in “green dogs,” and realistic budgets that can top $20,000. She also shares where grants bridge the gap for families and veterans, and why traditional breeds like Labs and Goldens are often the safest bet for calm, biddable work. From the frontline, Stacy of Bush’s Pet Products shows how these policies play out in real spaces—what good teams look like, the red flags of undertrained dogs, and the confusion caused by print-at-home “certifications.” We talk retail etiquette, why “do not pet” matters, and the narrow questions businesses are legally allowed to ask. We also get practical about living with pet dogs alongside a working dog, choosing therapy or ESA paths when public access isn’t required, and how state laws treat service dogs in training. If you want a clear, jargon-free guide to ADA service animal rules, the true costs and timelines, and the choices that set teams up for success, you’ll find it here. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a review with the biggest myth you want more people to understand. Support the show

    47 min

  4. 11/19/2025

    CLASSIC From Double Vision To Advocacy: Living With Ataxia

    Send us a text A rare diagnosis can upend everything—work, family rhythms, even the way you walk to the bathroom at 3 a.m. We open our second year by mapping the real, unpolished path from double vision and clumsy stumbles to a confirmed movement disorder and a life rebuilt through adaptation and advocacy. Kevin shares the winding road from misdiagnosis to clarity, the limits of genetic testing when answers don’t change care, and how symptom-by-symptom treatment through the VA helps even when a cure doesn’t exist. We talk openly about stigma and the pressure to “sound fine” at work, the financial and emotional toll of repeated testing, and the quiet decisions that keep a home safe. Adaptive martial arts became a lifeline—balance practice, upper-body strength for transfers, and a mindset shift from performing moves “right” to doing them effectively. That discipline kept Kevin out of a wheelchair for years and still shapes how we manage energy, fall risk, and anxiety. We also confront grief and the five-year prognosis that once shadowed the family, plus the creativity it took to keep connection alive when speech gets lost over the phone. Travel dreams didn’t vanish; they evolved. Giza and Machu Picchu moved from rugged hikes to virtual exploration, reminding us that accessibility is agency. We dig into the mental toll of everyday tasks, the power of routines, and why humor—sometimes dry, sometimes outrageous—can be armor when strangers ask clumsy questions. Along the way, the dogs play nurse and messenger, we share practical tools like chair yoga and tai chi, and we underline a simple lesson: you can’t judge a disability from a parking lot glance. If you’re navigating ataxia, caregiving, or any invisible disability, you’ll find strategies, empathy, and a few good laughs. Subscribe, share with someone who needs encouragement, and leave a review with the moment that stuck with you most—we’ll read and respond. Support the show

    43 min

  5. 11/05/2025

    MS, Explained Clearly

    Send us a text What if your body turned everyday tasks into two-day events? We dive into multiple sclerosis with a clear, human guide to what’s happening inside the nervous system and what it actually feels like to live with MS fatigue, vision changes, balance issues, and cognitive fog. Using real-world stories and practical takeaways, we connect the dots between immune attack, myelin damage, and the misfired signals that change how you move, think, and plan your day. We walk through diagnosis step by step: neurological exams, MRI evidence, and when a single episode becomes clinically isolated syndrome. We talk openly about early misdiagnosis, why lesions matter, and how to advocate for second opinions and better imaging. From there, we map the major types—relapsing-remitting, secondary progressive, primary progressive, and the MRI-only radiologically isolated syndrome—so you can see how patterns of relapse and progression inform smarter treatment choices. Treatment isn’t one-size-fits-all. We break down steroids for acute flares, disease-modifying therapies that reduce relapses, and the underrated power of rehabilitation. Physical and occupational therapy protect function, while energy management turns limited stamina into a workable plan. Expect concrete tips on pacing, sleep, temperature control, and using aids before you’re in crisis. We also unpack prevalence data, why U.S. rates appear higher, and how access, awareness, and environment shape the numbers you see. Along the way, we make room for humor without making light of the condition, and we share resources from trusted organizations that can help right now. If MS touches your life—personally, professionally, or as a caregiver—this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and tools you can use today. If it resonates, subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a quick review to help others find the show. Your story and your questions shape what we explore next. Support the show

    31 min

  6. 10/22/2025

    ALS, Explained Clearly

    Send us a text Motor neurons are the body’s messengers, and when they fail, everyday actions start to slip. We take you inside ALS with a clear, human guide to what’s happening in the body, how early signs can be mistaken for stress or overuse, and why diagnosis relies on careful testing rather than a single lab result. From muscle twitches and speech changes to breathing challenges, we map the path of progression and spotlight practical ways to protect function. We talk frankly about risk: age bands where ALS is more common, why men face higher risk before 65, and how smoking, toxins, and repeated head or spinal trauma can stack the odds. Genetics play a role in a minority of cases, with known variants like SOD1, but most diagnoses are sporadic. That makes smart prevention strategies feel more like risk management: avoid harmful exposures, keep your body strong, and nourish your nervous system with an antioxidant-rich diet that supports overall brain health. Care focuses on quality of life. We share how physical, occupational, and speech therapy extend independence; why gentle, consistent movement helps; and where assistive devices and respiratory support make a real difference. Public figures—from Lou Gehrig to Stephen Hawking—offer lessons in awareness and longevity, while newly diagnosed celebrities remind us how subtle the first clues can be. For those hungry to learn more or get involved, we point to trusted resources like ALS.net, the ALS Association, and university registries connecting patients to biomarker studies and clinical trials. If this conversation gives you clarity or comfort, share it with someone who might need it. Subscribe for more thoughtful, accessible takes on disability and health, and leave a review to help others find the show. Support the show

    27 min

  7. 10/08/2025

    So, does starting count at zero make you a cyborg?

    Send us a text What happens when your thoughts touch the world beyond your body—and who gets a say in what happens next? We take a grounded look at Neuralink’s latest human trials and the wider brain–computer interface landscape through the lens of disability, daily life, and real patient stories. Nolan moves a cursor and builds a career with the help of a neural implant; Andrea brings hard-won optimism after a spinal injury. Their experiences anchor a bigger question: how close are we to reliable, accessible digital autonomy for people with paralysis? We map the state of play with clear contrasts. Neuralink’s threads chase higher-resolution control while addressing electrode stability and retraction. Synchron pursues a minimally invasive stentrode that travels through blood vessels. BlackRock Neurotech leverages decades of Utah array data, and BrainGate’s academic lineage underpins much of what works today. Beyond the demos, we focus on what actually changes life: navigating a wheelchair or computer with thought, accessing the internet, communicating faster, and turning a skill into income. We also dig into the tough parts—surgical risks, calibration time, regulatory hurdles, and a sober timeline for scale. Then we step into the ethical and economic frontiers. Neural data is data: who owns it, stores it, and profits from it? How do we guard informed consent when features evolve and AI-generated misinformation floods the feeds? Costs remain high and coverage uncertain, so we unpack what insurers will need to see and how evidence could unlock access. Through candid debate, small jokes, and lived experience, we keep the signal clean: BCIs are real, promising, and still constrained, and the path forward must protect the person as much as it advances the tech. If this conversation helps you think sharper about disability tech and digital autonomy, follow the show, share it with a friend, and drop a review with the one question you want answered next. Your feedback shapes what we dig into next time. https://www.neuralink.com Support the show

    34 min

  8. 09/24/2025

    Breathing Lessons: The Girl Who Died Ten Times

    Send us a text What happens when chronic illness strikes someone who's never engaged in the behaviors typically associated with it? Meet Cece Henderson, a healthcare worker, school bus driver, and mother of six who was diagnosed with COPD in 2017 despite never having smoked. Her powerful story challenges common misconceptions about this respiratory condition while offering hope to anyone navigating chronic illness. Cece's journey began with childhood asthma caused by secondhand smoke, which eventually progressed to full-blown COPD after a respiratory failure episode. The emergency treatment led her to Barnes Hospital where she underwent complex procedures including tracheostomy placement. Hospital staff nicknamed her "the girl who died ten times" – a testament to both the severity of her condition and her remarkable resilience. Through it all, Cece maintained the determination to live fully and pursue her passions. Managing COPD alongside diabetes and congestive heart failure requires a complex medication regimen and lifestyle adaptations. Cece shares how weight loss improved her breathing capacity and how she navigates environmental triggers like heat that exacerbate her symptoms. Most importantly, she emphasizes the critical role supportive healthcare providers play in chronic illness management, recalling how one nurse practitioner's perfect balance of accountability and encouragement motivated her to take control of her health. Cece's powerful message resonates throughout our conversation: "I don't want to stop my life because of a diagnosis." Her story serves as both education and inspiration, demonstrating that with proper medical management, lifestyle adaptations, and a positive mindset, people with COPD can continue finding joy and purpose. Whether you're managing a chronic condition yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode offers valuable insights into navigating the complex journey of living well despite respiratory limitations. Support the show

    24 min
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We do a bit of Research into handicapped travel issues and provide some solutions. Mobility, Hearing, Sight, Mental issues included. so far our episodes have included some information on Ataxia, Cerebral Palsy, Deafness, Dancing Sickness, Gulf War Syndrome, Long Covid and Wheelchairs.  We are both Disability Advocates and realize there are too many diseases and conditions to cover and try to discuss the most common problems disabled people face and spread some awareness of disabled issues non-disabled people are unaware of.CORRECTIONOn a Previous episode I described how to enter our End Of Season contest.  Step 1 click on the support our show link.  Step 1 we require a one time payment (This has changed during our season) of $3.  Step 3 (get you back to a one time payment) click on the $3 Subscription button.  The following business day cancel the subscription (if you do it same day your bank may start thinking FRAUD.  Step 4 Your done.  Thanks for entering and "may the odds be forever in your favor",

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  • Creator
    Kevin & Palmi Henry
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    53
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © 2025 When Life Gives You Lemons
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