It Takes Two

Tanner & Tayler Weiler

Tayler and Tanner…. Siblings, best friends, manifestors, and go-getters living hundreds of miles apart. We’re here to share with you our lived experiences, perspectives, passions, mindsets and habits. As a Personal Trainer and Entrepreneur, Tanner will share with you his knowledge and expertise around creating a transformative lifestyle that’s functional and sustainable. As a Registered Psychotherapist, Tayler will share her knowledge on wellness, relationships, and self awareness. Through diverse and sometimes chaotic conversations, we’ll be able to share with you our individual personalities and friendship.

  1. JAN 15

    44: Why Your 8pm Matters More Than Your 8am

    Send us a text Most people obsess over morning routines—but what if your energy, motivation, focus, and consistency are actually being shaped the night before? In this episode, we flip the script and explain why your 8pm routine matters more than your 8am routine. Tanner breaks down the physical health side of things, sharing how evening habits directly impact recovery, sleep quality, hormone regulation, and workout performance. If your training feels harder than it should or your body isn’t responding the way you expect, your evenings might be the missing piece. From a therapist’s lens, I dive into the psychology and nervous system science behind wind-down routines—exploring how stress, cortisol, and mental load carry over into the next day. We talk about why your brain doesn’t magically reset overnight, how nighttime overstimulation sabotages emotional regulation, and why consistency in the evening supports better mood, focus, and daily functioning. We cover: Why poor mornings are usually created the night before The link between 8pm habits, cortisol, and sleep quality How stress and mental overload at night affect motivation and discipline The impact of evening routines on workout performance and recovery Simple, realistic ways to build a wind-down routine that actually works Find Us On Socials  It Takes Two - https://www.instagram.com/it.takes.two_podcast/ Tanner - https://www.instagram.com/tweilerfitness/ Tayler - https://www.instagram.com/tayler.weiler/

    43 min
  2. 12/19/2025

    43: How To Handle People Who Won't Change

    Send us a text In this episode, we dive into one of the most universal frustrations: dealing with people who won’t or can’t change. Whether it’s a co-worker, a partner, a friend, or a family member … We've all felt that mix of irritation, confusion, and helplessness when someone stays stuck in the same patterns. Tanner shares his experiences as a PT working with clients who struggle to find the “motivation” to commit to change. He breaks down the realities behind stalled progress, why motivation isn’t the magic solution people think it is, and the strategies he uses to guide clients toward meaningful and sustainable action. From the therapy seat, Tayler unpacks the 3 fundamental truths about human behaviour—and how these truths explain why change is so hard, so slow, and sometimes not possible in the way we want it to be. Instead of approaching stuck behaviour with frustration, we reframe it through a lens of compassion, context, and psychological reality. We’ll explore: Why people resist change even when they want different outcomes The emotional cost of trying to “make” someone change How to shift from annoyance to empathy What to do when someone’s behaviour impacts you but they refuse to change Practical, grounded strategies for handling stuck dynamics with clarity and boundaries This conversation is  about understanding human behaviour at its core, staying grounded when others aren’t shifting, and finding a healthier, more empowered way forward. Find Us On Socials  It Takes Two - https://www.instagram.com/it.takes.two_podcast/ Tanner - https://www.instagram.com/tweilerfitness/ Tayler - https://www.instagram.com/tayler.weiler/

    30 min

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Tayler and Tanner…. Siblings, best friends, manifestors, and go-getters living hundreds of miles apart. We’re here to share with you our lived experiences, perspectives, passions, mindsets and habits. As a Personal Trainer and Entrepreneur, Tanner will share with you his knowledge and expertise around creating a transformative lifestyle that’s functional and sustainable. As a Registered Psychotherapist, Tayler will share her knowledge on wellness, relationships, and self awareness. Through diverse and sometimes chaotic conversations, we’ll be able to share with you our individual personalities and friendship.