Where Do Gays Retire Podcast

Mark Goldstein
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Where Do Gays Retire is a podcast where we help you in the LGBTQ+ community find a safe and affordable retirement destination. Join Mark Goldstein as he interviews others who live in gay-friendly places around the globe. Learn about the climate, cost of living, the LGBTQ + community, healthcare, crime and safety, and more.

  1. FEB 11

    Sherry, Sun, and Safety: Living Your Best Life in El Puerto! With Daniel Cairns

    We're diving into the sunny vibes of El Puerto de Santa Maria, a gem in southern Spain, where life is all about community and connection. Our guest, Daniel Cairns, swapped the hustle of London for the laid-back lifestyle of Andalusia, and he’s here to share how he and his partner are creating a welcoming home for expats in their Casa de Vecinos project. Together, they’re redefining retirement by blending practical tips on healthcare and living costs with the joy of embracing local culture—think flamenco and sherry tastings! We’ll chat about how to navigate life in this vibrant town, from the best places to eat (hello, tapas!) to how to get involved in the community. So grab your sunglasses and let’s get into the good life in El Puerto! El Puerto de Santa Maria is where the sun shines, the sherry flows, and the LGBTQ community thrives! In this episode, we dive into the coastal charm of this Andalusian gem with our guest Daniel Cairns, who swapped the hustle of London for a more relaxed life in Spain. Daniel shares how he and his partner, John, created a cozy home and a vibrant community project that welcomes newcomers with open arms. We talk about the importance of integrating into local culture, navigating the healthcare system, and embracing the joys of outdoor living. Daniel's stories are not just about retirement; they’re about finding your place in the world, making friends, and enjoying life to the fullest. Whether you're thinking of moving or just dreaming, this episode paints a picture of what life in El Puerto can be like for LGBTQ people, sprinkled with humor and heart. Get ready to be inspired by the beauty of community and connection! Takeaways: El Puerto de Santa Maria is a vibrant coastal town in Spain, perfect for LGBTQ retirees.Daniel and John created a community-focused project that blends affordable living with shared spaces.The local lifestyle includes outdoor living, festivals, and a strong sense of community and belonging.Healthcare in El Puerto is efficient, private insurance is affordable, and the services are excellent.Living in El Puerto means embracing a unique culture rich in flamenco, sherry, and local cuisine.Transportation is super convenient, making it easy to explore nearby cities and towns. Links referenced in this episode: https://andaluzliving.com/wheredogaysretire.comlgbtqseniors.com Companies mentioned in this episode: Louis VuittonChanelHarrods

    50 min

  2. JAN 28

    Where to Find Your Retirement Joy: 10 Questions to Ask! with Mark Goldstein & Michael AI

    Ready to level up your retirement game? We're diving into the 10 essential questions every LGBTQ person should ask before picking their retirement city. Forget about palm trees and sunshine; we're talking about finding a place that vibes with who you are today, not who you were in your 20s. From walkability to genuine LGBTQ friendliness, we've got the scoop on what really matters for your happiness and sanity. Join me and my sassy AI sidekick, Michael, as we navigate the nitty-gritty of making your golden years truly shine! Diving straight into the heart of retirement planning, this week’s episode is all about the essential questions every LGBTQ retiree needs to ask when choosing that perfect place to kick back and relax. We start by discussing the importance of picking a city that resonates with who you are today—not who you were 20 years ago. I mean, did you really think a beachside bungalow would still be your jam when you can barely handle a sand grain in your flip-flop? The conversation is rich with insights about walkability, cost of living, and how a place can either support or stifle your daily joy. We even share a few personal anecdotes about our own misadventures in city selection, which, spoiler alert, involved a gator or two in a retention pond. So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let’s unravel what makes a retirement city the right fit for you. Next up, we tackle the burning question of LGBTQ friendliness. Spoiler: it’s not just about rainbows and parades! We dive into what actual protections look like and how to spot a community that truly embraces you year-round, not just during Pride Month. Think about it—wouldn’t it be nice to stroll down the street with your partner without feeling like you’re on display? We chat about cities that excel in creating inclusive environments, from the glittering streets of San Francisco to the surprisingly warm vibes of Asheville, North Carolina. Plus, we share how places in Spain set the bar high when it comes to feeling normal and accepted. Trust us; it’s a conversation you won’t want to miss! Finally, we wrap it all up with the big picture—what does your ideal Tuesday look like in retirement? No, really! Tuesday is the unsung hero of your week, and we explore how the day-to-day aspects of a city can make or break your experience. Accessibility to stores, health care, and even coffee shops play crucial roles in your retirement happiness. We throw in a dash of humor with tales of our own Tuesday escapades, comparing cities that excel at making life easier (hello, Spanish trams!) versus those that turn errands into Olympic events. So, hang tight as we help you navigate these essential questions, ensuring your retirement isn’t just about the sun—it's about thriving in your new home! Takeaways: Choosing a retirement city is all about finding the right vibe for who you are today, not who you were in the past.Is the city LGBTQ friendly year-round? Because Pride Month isn't the only time we need love and support!Your Tuesday routine matters more than you think—make sure it fits your retirement lifestyle and makes you happy.Don't forget to check out the healthcare situation; it’s crucial to know if you can get the care you need when you need it!Affordability goes beyond just rent; consider all the little costs that can add up and stress you out.Ask yourself if the city supports your dreams for this new chapter of life, because you deserve to thrive! Links...

    19 min

  3. JAN 14

    Living La Vida Local: Gay Retirement in Oaxaca with David Shallenberger and Harvey Nystrom

    Ever been curious about retiring in Oaxaca, Mexico? Well, grab your sun hat, because today we're diving into that dreamy destination! We chat with David and Harvey, a dynamic duo who’ve crafted their lives in this vibrant city after years of exploring Latin America. They'll share the scoop on community vibes, cost of living, and the oh-so-important healthcare scene. Spoiler alert: it’s all about connection and convenience, from the cobblestone streets to the local markets. So, stick around and soak in the wisdom from two guys who’ve turned their retirement into a colorful adventure! Let’s talk about walkability, community vibes, and the sweet life in Oaxaca! David and Harvey break down the nitty-gritty of life in their new home, where cobblestone streets lead to charming markets and friendly faces greet you at every corner. They’ve lived in several neighborhoods, each with its own unique flavor, and they reveal what surprised them most about settling in. Spoiler alert: the vibrant energy of the city, especially during the Day of the Dead celebrations, is a total game-changer! They emphasize the importance of community and how they've built connections with fellow LGBTQ folks, from volunteer opportunities to regular meetups. Plus, they share tips on navigating local healthcare and the importance of learning some Spanish to truly immerse yourself in the culture. This episode is packed with insights for anyone considering a retirement adventure south of the border! Takeaways: Oaxaca is a vibrant city filled with music, art, and a friendly atmosphere, perfect for retirees.David and Harvey share their experiences living in various Latin American countries before settling in Oaxaca.The cost of living in Oaxaca is quite reasonable, with rent for a two-bedroom apartment around $500 monthly.Healthcare in Oaxaca can be affordable, but many choose private care due to overcrowded public hospitals.Community is key in Oaxaca, with places like the Oaxaca Lending Library connecting LGBTQ folks with each other.Transportation in Oaxaca is walkable, and public options like taxis and buses are readily available, making car ownership unnecessary. Links referenced in this episode: wheredogaysretire.com Companies mentioned in this episode: AirbnbAmazonCostcoSantander Mentioned in this episode: Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

    1h 5m

  4. 12/31/2025

    Don't Just Visit—Live! Americans Moving To Spain -With Christopher Hughey

    Today, we're diving headfirst into the world of Americans moving to Spain! We'll chat about why folks from the LGBTQ community are flocking to this sunny slice of Europe, seeking safer and more affordable retirement spots. Our guest, Christopher Hughey, is a relocation guru who's got the inside scoop on what it takes to make the big move. From climate to cost of living, he's got the lowdown on everything you need to know to ensure a smooth transition. So, whether you're dreaming of tapas in Sevilla or sunbathing in Alicante, stick around for some fabulous tips and tricks to make your Spanish adventure a reality! Who knew moving to Spain could spark a whole new identity? In this episode, we chat with Christopher about the nitty-gritty of relocating, focusing on the non-lucrative visa that many Americans are eyeing. It's not just about the paperwork; it’s about understanding what life will look like once you land in Spain. Christopher emphasizes the importance of scouting trips, not just vacations, to get the real feel of living in Spanish neighborhoods. We also dive into the social aspects, from the vibrant LGBTQ community to the challenges of adapting to a new culture and language. Let’s just say, if you’re thinking about making Spain your next home, you might want to pack more than just your bags! Takeaways: This podcast episode highlights how to find affordable and gay-friendly retirement spots globally, especially in Spain.Mark Goldstein interviews Christopher Hughey, who shares insights about moving to Spain and life there.Understanding the visa process for moving to Spain is crucial, especially for retirees in the U.S.Scouting trips to Spain are essential for ensuring a smooth transition and happy living experience. Links referenced in this episode: americansmovingtospain.comwww.wheredogaysretire.com Companies mentioned in this episode: Americans Moving to SpainFacebook Mentioned in this episode: Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

    1h 22m

  5. 12/16/2025

    The Day That Changed My Life. 43 Years Later, I’m Going Back to Málaga

    We’re diving into some heavy stuff today, folks! This episode is all about survival and community, wrapped in a personal story that hits hard. Mark Goldstein shares his experience surviving an aviation disaster 43 years ago, and how that day shaped his journey. We talk about the importance of choosing safe, queer-friendly places and how community can be your lifeline. Plus, we throw in some tips on what to look for when scouting your next retirement spot. So, grab a cozy drink, settle in, and let’s explore how navigating life—and where to live—is all about connection and choice! Strap in, folks! We’re taking a detour from the usual retirement chit-chat to tackle a wild and emotional ride. Mark Goldstein shares a gripping personal story about surviving a plane crash in Malaga, Spain, 43 years ago, and how that experience shaped his outlook on life and community. He reflects on the chaos of that day and the choices he made that still resonate with him. It’s all about survival, connection, and the power of returning to a place that holds so much history. This isn’t just about retirement; it’s about the life we lead and the people we surround ourselves with. Mark’s journey reminds us that choosing a retirement destination is about more than just geography; it’s about choosing a community that feels like home. Takeaways: This episode dives deep into the journey of finding safe and affordable retirement options for the LGBTQ community. Mark Goldstein shares a gripping personal story about surviving an airplane crash in Spain back in 1982. The discussion highlights the importance of community and connection when choosing a place to retire happily. Listeners are encouraged to consider key factors like walkability and safety in their retirement planning. Mark reflects on how past experiences shape our choices in life and retirement, emphasizing the value of chosen family. The episode wraps up with a reminder that choosing joy and community is a powerful act of survival. Companies mentioned in this episode: Drexel Burnham Lambert Iberia Links referenced in this episode: wheredogaysretire.comlgbtqseniors.com

    25 min

  6. 12/03/2025

    Discover the Mediterranean Gem for LGBTQ Retirees: Montpellier! - With Lloyd Meeker

    We're taking a virtual trip to the gorgeous city of Montpellier in southern France, where retirement life for the LGBTQ community is as bright as the Mediterranean sun! Joining me, Mark Goldstein, is the fabulous Lloyd Meeker, who's got the inside scoop on everything you need to know—housing, healthcare, and the local vibe. Imagine living in a place where being gay is a total non-issue and the community is all about acceptance and celebration. We’ll dive into the costs of living, the stunning culture, and how to navigate the French healthcare system without losing your marbles. So grab your sunscreen and let’s explore what makes Montpellier a Mediterranean gem for retirement! Welcome to the sunny shores of Montpellier, where the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast takes you on a lively exploration of this Mediterranean haven! Mark Goldstein is on the mic with local resident Lloyd Meeker, who spills the secrets of what makes this city so special for LGBTQ retirees. From the moment you arrive, you’ll find a place that feels like home, where the climate is as warm as the community spirit. Lloyd shares his story of moving from the U.S. to France, navigating the housing market, and getting to grips with the local customs. Want to know about healthcare? He’s got you covered with all the juicy details on how the French system works and why it’s a game changer for retirees. Plus, if you’re a foodie, you’re in for a treat! The culinary scene in Montpellier is a delightful mix of traditional Occitan dishes and fresh seafood that’ll make your taste buds dance with joy. Throughout the episode, you’ll hear about the vibrant arts scene, the ease of getting around thanks to a top-notch public transport system, and the sense of safety that comes from living in such an accepting city. Whether you’re in the planning stages or just curious about life abroad, this episode is a treasure trove of information, camaraderie, and inspiration for your next big life chapter. So tune in and let’s get ready to retire in style! Takeaways: Montpellier is a Mediterranean gem where the LGBTQ community can feel safe and thrive. Living in Montpellier offers a unique blend of sunshine, culture, and community vibes for everyone. Healthcare in France is amazing, providing quality services without the exorbitant costs found in the U.S. Public transport in Montpellier is not only efficient but also free for residents, making life easier and more enjoyable. Links referenced in this episode: wheredogaysretire.com Mentioned in this episode: Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

    1h 23m

  7. 11/19/2025

    Creating Community: Colin Brownlee's Journey to Club Heasa in Costa Rica

    Club Heasa - Building a Gay Men’s Oasis in Costa Rica with Colin Brownlee In this episode of the 'Where Do Gays Retire' podcast, host Mark Goldstein interviews Colin Brownlee, who has established Club Heasa, a men-only vacation and short-term rental community in Costa Rica. Colin shares his journey from a marketing career in Vancouver to building a successful hotel business in Costa Rica, and eventually founding Club Heasa to create a safe and comfortable space for mature gay men. They discuss the specifics of Club Heasa, including its amenities, location, pricing, and the compelling reasons for choosing to make it a gay men-only community. Colin also offers insights into the Costa Rican climate, healthcare, local attractions, and the significance of creating physical spaces for the LGBTQ+ community. The episode sheds light on the benefits of retiring in Costa Rica and offers practical advice for potential residents. 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast 00:50 Meet Colin Brownlee: From Vancouver to Costa Rica 01:56 The Birth of Club Heasa 02:25 Welcome Colin to the Podcast 02:39 Exploring Club Heasa: Concept and Vision 03:03 The Story Behind the Name 'Club Heasa' 09:40 Creating a Gay Men Only Community 09:53 Challenges and Decisions in Building Club Heasa 15:05 The Importance of Physical Community 18:05 Demographics and Age Considerations 20:12 Short-Term Vacation Rentals at Club Heasa 25:33 Climate and Location Benefits 31:32 Pricing and Amenities at Club Heasa 33:17 Common Areas and Social Spaces 37:11 Local Attractions and Excursions 39:24 Transportation and Accessibility 40:00 Car Rentals and Cost Savings 40:11 Rules and Regulations at the Hotel 42:49 Laundry and Housekeeping Services 43:31 Guest Demographics and Preferences 46:24 LGBTQ Scene and Social Life 50:33 Healthcare and Medical Facilities 53:28 Travel Insurance and Citizenship 55:10 Security and Online Shopping 57:03 Natural Risks and Earthquakes 59:35 Visa Limits and Food Scene 01:03:45 Final Thoughts and Farewell Takeaways: This episode highlights the importance of finding a safe and affordable retirement place for the LGBTQ community, as discussed by Mark Goldstein. Colin Brownlee's journey from marketing in Canada to creating Club Heasa in Costa Rica is both inspiring and insightful. Listeners will gain insight into the cost of staying at Club Heasa and the experiences that await them there. Colin emphasizes the significance of building a community for gay men in Costa Rica, especially as traditional gay neighborhoods fade away. The podcast dives into the unique amenities and environment of Club Heasa, including its clothing-optional policy and planned excursions. Listeners can learn about the healthcare accessibility in Costa Rica, making it a viable option for retirees. Links referenced in this episode: wheredogaysretire.comclubheasa.comlgbtqseniors.combooking.comexpedia.com Companies mentioned in this episode: Club Heasa Hotel Banana Azul Ajijic Wilton Manors Fort Lauderdale Palm Springs Steve Cross Rick's Bar Mentioned in this episode: Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride Mark

    1h 10m

  8. 11/05/2025

    Finding Your Gay Retirement Paradise: Fountain Grove Lodge with Chuck Finch & Ed Cambron

    Today, we're diving into the fabulous world of Fountain Grove Lodge in Santa Rosa, California, where Chuck and Ed just settled in. They're not just talking about where to retire; they’re sharing their journey to find a vibrant, LGBTQ-friendly community that feels like home. You’ll hear about their charming transition from the river towns of Bucks County, Pennsylvania, to this sunny, welcoming spot that’s got everything from a phenomenal dining experience to a lively social life. They also spill the tea on the climate, the cost of living, and why this place is a haven for those looking to age gracefully and joyfully. So grab your favorite drink, kick back, and let’s explore what makes Fountain Grove Lodge the place to be! Join Mark Goldstein as he takes us on a lively journey through the experiences of Chuck and Ed, a dynamic couple who recently made the leap from Bucks County, Pennsylvania, to Fountain Grove Lodge in sunny Santa Rosa, California. In this episode, they share their heartfelt reasons for choosing a retirement community that embraces the LGBTQ+ lifestyle, highlighting the importance of finding a supportive environment as they approach this new stage of life. With a sprinkle of humor and genuine warmth, Chuck and Ed recount their first impressions of Fountain Grove Lodge, from the beautiful architecture to the welcoming atmosphere that instantly made them feel at home. Their infectious enthusiasm shines through as they talk about the meticulous planning that went into their move, including the decision to choose a community that would provide joy and security as they age. The conversation flows effortlessly as they discuss the wide range of activities available, from gardening and art classes to social events that foster connections among residents. Chuck and Ed emphasize the significance of community and how it enriches their lives, noting that it’s more than just a place to live; it’s a vibrant hub of support and friendship. They also touch on the practical aspects of living at Fountain Grove, like the cost of living and amenities that provide peace of mind without sacrificing quality of life. This episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone considering retirement options, especially for those within the LGBTQ+ community seeking a place that resonates with their values and lifestyle. Chuck and Ed’s story is a testament to the joys of embarking on a new adventure together, proving that retirement can be as fabulous as you make it. So grab your headphones and join us for this delightful exploration of love, laughter, and the beauty of finding your perfect retirement community! Takeaways: Fountain Grove Lodge is a vibrant community that welcomes LGBTQ residents and their allies with open arms and festive spirits. Living at Fountain Grove means enjoying a stylish place with great food, activities, and an overall sense of belonging. Chuck and Ed's journey highlights the importance of finding a supportive retirement community that fits one's lifestyle and values. The podcast shows that aging can be a fun adventure, especially when surrounded by interesting people and engaging social activities. Links referenced in this episode: wheredogaysretire.com Companies mentioned in this episode: Fountain Grove Lodge Philadelphia Orchestra Kimmel Center for the Performing Arts Curtis Institute Bucks County Playhouse Welltower Oakmont Mentioned in this episode: Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private...

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Where Do Gays Retire is a podcast where we help you in the LGBTQ+ community find a safe and affordable retirement destination. Join Mark Goldstein as he interviews others who live in gay-friendly places around the globe. Learn about the climate, cost of living, the LGBTQ + community, healthcare, crime and safety, and more.

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  • Creator
    Mark Goldstein
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    119
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    © 2024 Where Do Gays Retire Podcast
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