Conversations With Wāhine

National Council of Women Wellington

Join our hosts are we interview inspirational guests who are leading change in their fields within the country, and the globe.We champion the work Wellington women are achieving in their respective fields and amplify their voices in the community. This podcast is brought to you by the National Council of Women Wellington Branch.Available on Access Radio, and our Zoom calls can be found on https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuYNLhj7bYyEmUqi_e8VKqgYou can also find us by searching "Consersations with Wahine" on facebook and instagram

  1. Oct 20

    Episode 203: Lindy Jacomb

    Every so often, you meet someone whose life story doesn't just make you pause—it demands that you look closer at the invisible structures of power, control, and resilience operating right in our backyard. Lindy Jacombwas born into a world defined by strict boundaries. Growing up multi-generational in the Exclusive Brethren—now known as the Plymouth Brethren Christian Church—her childhood in Auckland was built around daily chapel services, a clear-cut sense of 'us versus the world', and an expectation of absolute compliance. But at age 19, she did something dangerous: she started reading the teachings of Jesus directly from a tattered Bible and asking questions of her leadership. By age 20, the verdict was handed down. She was excommunicated and cast out. Overnight, she faced total familial shunning—losing her parents, siblings, friends, and the only reality she had ever known, left to survive in a 'worldly' society she had been taught to fear. But she didn’t just survive; she rebuilt. Today, she is a Bachelor of Theology graduate, a former Baptist pastor, a co-host of the Cult Chat Podcast, and a leading speaker at New Zealand’s premier cult awareness conference, DECULT. As the founder of the Olive Leaf Network, she has dedicated her life to providing a lifeline, advocacy, and practical aid to those escaping high-control religious groups. She is also organising this amazing event on 28 October:   WELLINGTON - Cult Awareness & Recovery Evening with Rachel Bernstein Support the show

  2. Oct 11

    Episode 201: Paloma Schneideman and Ani Palmer

    Harita interviews Paloma Schneideman and Ani Palmer. What does it mean to be a teenage girl who desperately wants to be seen as an adult, but deeply needs to be loved like a child? In this episode, we chat to the visionary writer and director Paloma Schneideman and incredible breakout actor Ani Palmer, the brilliant duo behind the quiet film festival juggernaut, Big Girls Don't Cry. Set against the backdrop of a sleepy, golden-sand New Zealand beach town during the sweltry summer of 2006, the film follows 14-year-old Sid (played with stunning, raw restraint by Ani in her onscreen debut). Desperate to escape childhood and reinvent herself, Sid finds herself caught in the intoxicating, messy orbit of wealthy out-of-town holidaymakers. It's a bittersweet, pre-smartphone slice of teendom complete with dial-up internet, dubstep, and MSN messaging facades. But beneath the nostalgic 2000s soundtrack and summer haze lies something much deeper and unflinchingly honest. Paloma and Ani join us to unpack how the film bravely "rips open" the complicated realities of queer adolescence, female shame, and the blurred lines between consent and the desperate desire for validation. In this episode, we dive into: The Genesis of Sid: Paloma shares how her own youth in rural New Zealand inspired this deeply intimate character study.From Non-Actor to Festival Star: Ani talks about stepping into her first-ever acting role and capturing the fragile bravado of being 14.The "Seen vs. Desired" Trap: A raw conversation about the liminal space between girlhood and womanhood, and why looking back at teenage sexual awakening can feel both confronting and deeply cathartic.Working with Executive Producer Jane Campion: How the legendary filmmaker supported the development of this powerful debut through her film program, A Wave in the Ocean.Whether you lived through the 2006 MSN era or simply remember the terrifying thrill of trying to figure out who you are, this conversation is a beautiful, necessary gut-punch. Big Girls Don't cry is screening in cinemas now! Support the show

  3. Sep 22

    Episode 200: Suze Redmayne and Tom Rutherford

    Harita interviews Tom Rutherford and Suze Redmayne. When we talk about the future of New Zealand, it is easy to get caught up in the big, noisy headlines coming out of the Beehive. But if you want to understand where the country is actually heading, you have to look at the people pulling the levers behind the scenes—the electorate MPs balancing local, grassroots realities with the intense pressure of national policy. Today, we are sitting down for a deep, long-form conversation with two of the National Party’s key voices from the class of 2023. Suze Redmayne, the Member of Parliament for Rangitīkei. She’s a proud rural advocate, a co-founder of the award-winning Coastal Lamb brand, and the driving force behind proposed KiwiSaver amendments aimed at getting rural workers into their first homes. Joining her is Tom Rutherford, the Member of Parliament for the Bay of Plenty and Chair of the Justice Select Committee. As one of the youngest MPs in the house, he’s spent his term managing heavily debated legislation, from controversial move-on orders to sweeping infrastructure projects in the provinces. In this episode, we are skipping the standard seven-minute news soundbites. Instead, we are looking at the realities of the upcoming 2026 election cycle. We dive into what it really takes to balance primary production with climate targets, how the younger generation views law and order, and what happens when the isolation of regional life collides with the intense public scrutiny of Wellington. Support the show

  4. Sep 13

    Episode 198: Ricardo Menendez March

    Sophie and Harita interview Ricardo Menendez March. When we look at the state of politics today, it's easy to get caught up in the daily media cycle—the quick soundbites, the political sparring, and the surface-level debates. But every now and then, you encounter a leader whose entire life story functions as a direct challenge to the status quo. Ricardo is a Green Party List MP based in Mt Albert, Auckland, but his path to the halls of Parliament in Wellington was anything but traditional. Born and raised in Tijuana, Mexico, he moved to New Zealand as a young adult, working his way through the hospitality and care sectors. He experienced firsthand what it means to survive on a low income, face the anxieties of the immigration system, and witness the systemic gaps in our social safety net. Instead of letting those hardships isolate him, Ricardo channeled them into fierce, grassroots activism. As a coordinator for Auckland Action Against Poverty, he became a relentless voice for the marginalized, arguing that poverty is not a personal failure, but a deliberate political choice. Now, as the Green Party’s spokesperson for Social Development and Employment, he is taking that fight directly to the government. Whether he is championing a Universal Basic Income, fighting automated welfare decision-making, or advocating for migrant worker protections, Ricardo’s definition of being "radical" means going straight to the root of the problem.  In this conversation, we’re stepping away from the 30-second news clips to look at the bigger picture. We explore what it really takes to move from the streets to the select committees, how his personal identity shapes his politics, and how he maintains the audacity to dream of a more equitable Aotearoa in a highly polarized political climate.  This is the second time we've interviewed Ricardo.  We interviewed him in the lead up to the 2023 elections and it was great to chat about his life as well as what has happened in those 3 years since we last interviewed him. Support the show

  5. Aug 27

    Episode 197: Nancy Lu

    Harita interviews Nancy Lu. Nancy is a Member of the New Zealand Parliament representing the National Party, a distinguished chartered accountant, and a dedicated advocate for diverse communities and working families. Bringing a unique blend of high-level corporate expertise, Ivy League public administration training, and deep-rooted bicultural insight to the New Zealand Parliament, Nancy represents a modern generation of leadership focused on building a resilient, prosperous, and economically sound future for all New Zealanders. Born in China, Nancy migrated to New Zealand with her parents in 1997 at the age of nine, settling in Auckland. She grew up within the local kiwi education system, attending Avondale Primary School, Pakuranga Intermediate, and Macleans College. Her stellar academic journey laid a strong foundation for her career, beginning at the University of Auckland, where she graduated with a Bachelor of Commerce degree, earning First Class Honours in International Business alongside a double major in Accounting. Years later, committed to expanding her governance and policymaking expertise, she advanced her education internationally, completing a Master in Public Administration (MPA) at the prestigious Harvard Kennedy School of Government. Before entering public service, Nancy established herself as a formidable finance professional and commercial strategist. A Chartered Accountant by profession, she spent years working in New Zealand, Hong Kong, and mainland China across premier global auditing firms and major commercial enterprises. Her extensive corporate portfolio includes professional tenures at PwC and Ernst & Young (EY), financial management roles at Fonterra, and strategic expertise within the international shipping and retail trade sectors. Furthermore, she contributed directly to local government development by serving as a chief financial strategist for the Auckland Council, balancing complex public financial management with community-focused growth initiatives. Nancy’s entry into formal politics was preceded by nearly a decade of active, grassroots involvement within the National Party, where she served on the National Professional Committee and contributed to community engagement initiatives. Following her election to Parliament, she has brought her commercial acumen directly to central government, serving diligently on the Finance and Expenditure Committee and taking on roles such as the Deputy Chair of the Regulations Review Committee. Her legislative priorities are heavily focused on reducing the cost of living, optimizing international trade opportunities, cutting unnecessary regulatory red tape, and advocating for impactful investments in education, healthcare, and ethnic community mental health services. As a trilingual leader fluent in English, Mandarin, and Cantonese, Nancy bridges cultural and economic divides, actively strengthening relationships between government bodies, export businesses, and diverse migrant communities. Residing in Auckland with her husband and family, she balances the demands of parliamentary life with the responsibilities of being a proud working mother. Nancy remains deeply committed to ensuring that New Zealand remains a safe, ambitious, and opportunity-rich home capable of nurturing successive generations to achieve their full potential. Support the show

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Join our hosts are we interview inspirational guests who are leading change in their fields within the country, and the globe.We champion the work Wellington women are achieving in their respective fields and amplify their voices in the community. This podcast is brought to you by the National Council of Women Wellington Branch.Available on Access Radio, and our Zoom calls can be found on https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuYNLhj7bYyEmUqi_e8VKqgYou can also find us by searching "Consersations with Wahine" on facebook and instagram