Continuing Education for Homeschooling Families

Heidi

Dedicated to supporting families in their journey of homeschooling by providing teaching strategies, curriculum guidance, and other actually helpful tips and insights. Whether you’re a seasoned homeschooling veteran or just starting out on this educational adventure, join us for wisdom and practical advice to help you navigate the homeschooling landscape with confidence and success. homeschoolce.substack.com

  1. Sep 11

    Where Did My Brain Go?

    For parents who work and homeschool in the same house — sometimes in the same hour — the hardest part of the day often isn’t the work or the teaching. It’s the switch between them. This episode breaks down the science of “attention residue,” why your brain doesn’t fully leave one task when you move to the next, and a simple, practical method — the Focus Block Method — for protecting your attention on both sides of the handoff. What You’ll Learn * Why you can feel physically present with your kids but mentally still “at work” — and why that’s not a focus problem, it’s a documented cognitive one * The real research behind why a single interruption can cost far more than the interruption itself * How to build “focus blocks” into a homeschool day that also includes a job, a business, or client work * A ninety-second transition ritual to use between switching from work mode to teaching mode (and back) * Why removing the decision to check social media (with a screen time limit, a blocker app, or a physical device) works better than willpower * How a weekly “top three to five” list keeps your protected blocks aimed at what actually matters, not just what feels urgent Research & Resources Mentioned * Leroy, Sophie. “Why Is It So Hard to Do My Work? The Challenge of Attention Residue When Switching Between Work Tasks.” Organizational Behavior and Human Decision Processes, vol. 109, no. 2, 2009, pp. 168–181. * Mark, Gloria, Victor M. Gonzalez, and Justin Harris. “No Task Left Behind? Examining the Nature of Fragmented Work.” Proceedings of CHI 2005 — foundational work on task interruption frequency. Related follow-up: Mark, Gloria, et al. “The Cost of Interrupted Work: More Speed and Stress.” Proceedings of CHI 2008, ACM, 2008. (Source of the ~23-minute recovery finding.) * Newport, Cal. Deep Work: Rules for Focused Success in a Distracted World. Grand Central Publishing, 2016. Additional Resources * Harvard Business Review, “Stop Letting Yesterday’s Frustrations Ruin Today,” Sophie Leroy’s 2020 HBR piece on attention residue and how to clear it between tasks * Cal Newport’s website (calnewport.com) for ongoing writing on deep work and attention in daily life * A simple “block audit” you can do with a notebook: track one full day, marking every switch between work, teaching, and logistics, to see where your own residue is building up Key Terms * Attention residue — the portion of cognitive focus that stays “stuck” on a previous task even after you’ve physically moved to a new one, first documented by Sophie Leroy in 2009. * Chrono-blocking — organizing your schedule around the type of cognitive task (deep, shallow, logistical) rather than by the clock alone. * Deep work — a term coined by Cal Newport for focused, distraction-free cognitive effort that produces new value and is hard to replicate; contrasted with “shallow work,” which is logistical and low-cognitive-demand. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit homeschoolce.substack.com

    Where Did My Brain Go?
  2. Aug 24

    Two Weeks In, Falling Apart

    Two weeks into homeschooling, a grandma in one of my local groups sent a message that stopped me cold — she didn’t think she could do this, her grandkids (who have ADHD) were whining and crying through every assignment, her husband had doubted the decision from the start, and she felt lost and alone in it. This episode is my answer to her, expanded into something I hope reaches you too, wherever you are in your own hard season. I talk about why “hardheaded” is usually the wrong word for a kid melting down over schoolwork, what’s actually happening in a stressed nervous system, why needing other people isn’t a failure, and the honest timeline of what it took for my own son’s nervous system to settle after we pulled him out of public school — about a year, not a month, and even then the conflict didn’t disappear entirely. It just stopped being the whole-body dread it used to be. Mentioned in this episode: * My earlier episode, Why Deschooling Matters — if today’s episode resonated, that one goes deeper into what deschooling actually looks like day to day. * John Holt on why kids “act unintelligently” at school: John C. Holt Quotes, Goodreads * Russell Barkley on ADHD as a “doing what you know” gap, not a “knowing what to do” gap: Russell A. Barkley Quotes, Goodreads * The research on stress and learning I referenced: “Learning and memory under stress: implications for the classroom,” npj Science of Learning * Ubuntu, the Southern African philosophy behind “I am because we are”: University of Jyväskylä overview * Mary Oliver’s poem “The Journey,” from her collection Dream Work: full text via Poet Seers If you’re in the thick of a hard start right now — you’re not the only one, and it’s not a verdict on whether this is working. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit homeschoolce.substack.com

    Two Weeks In, Falling Apart
  3. Aug 17

    Algebra, Anxiety, and Thinking About Thinking

    Episode Summary This episode is about metacognitive reflection — teaching kids to notice and manage their own thinking, not just produce answers. Heidi breaks down what metacognition actually is, why the research ranks it among the highest-impact teaching strategies available, and six low-lift ways to build it into an ordinary homeschool day. What You’ll Learn * What metacognition actually means and why it’s the “dashboard,” not the “engine,” of learning * Why researchers rank metacognitive instruction as one of the highest-impact, lowest-cost strategies available to any teacher * Six concrete techniques — from think-alouds to confidence checks — you can start using today, at any age * How to tell the difference between a child who doesn’t know the content and one who doesn’t yet have language for their own confusion * Why this habit tends to spill over into emotional regulation, not just academics Research & Resources Mentioned * Hattie, John. Visible Learning: A Synthesis of Over 800 Meta-Analyses Relating to Achievement. Routledge, 2009. Metacognitive strategies effect size of 0.69. Hattie Ranking of Influences * Education Endowment Foundation. “Metacognition and Self-Regulated Learning.” Guidance Report. educationendowmentfoundation.org.uk * Flavell, John H. Foundational research on metacognition and children’s developing awareness of their own thinking, 1970s. * Harvard Graduate School of Education, Project Zero — “Thinking Routines” and work on making thinking visible in classrooms. pz.harvard.edu * Zimmerman, Barry J. Research on self-regulated learning and academic resilience. * Child Mind Institute. “Metacognition: How Thinking About Thinking Can Help Kids.” childmind.org Additional Resources * “19 Metacognitive Strategies That Put Kids in Control of Their Learning” — We Are Teachers, practical classroom-tested ideas. weareteachers.com * Harvard Project Zero’s Visible Thinking routines library — free thinking routines adaptable for any age or subject. * Peter Brown, Henry Roediger, Mark McDaniel. Make It Stick: The Science of Successful Learning. Belknap Press, 2014 — companion reading on self-testing and reflection as learning tools. Key Terms * Metacognition: Awareness and understanding of one’s own thought process; “thinking about thinking.” * Self-regulated learning: A learner’s ability to monitor, direct, and evaluate their own learning strategies. * Effect size: A statistical measure researchers use to describe how much impact a teaching strategy has on student achievement; Hattie treats 0.40 as roughly “one year of typical growth.” * Think-aloud: A modeling technique where an adult verbalizes their thought process out loud so a child can observe how thinking actually happens, including uncertainty and mistakes. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit homeschoolce.substack.com

    Algebra, Anxiety, and Thinking About Thinking
  4. Aug 10

    The First Ninety Seconds

    This episode is about lesson hooks — sometimes called “anticipatory sets” — the brief moment before a lesson that determines whether your kid leans in or checks out. We look at where the concept comes from, what the research says about curiosity and memory, and six specific, low-effort ways to open any lesson so it actually lands. What You’ll Learn * What an “anticipatory set” is and why Madeline Hunter built it into her lesson-planning model decades ago * The research behind why curiosity — not entertainment — is what makes information stick * Six concrete hook techniques you can use across subjects and ages, starting today * How to avoid the most common mistake homeschool parents make with hooks (over-explaining them) * Why a thirty-second pause before teaching can matter more than the lesson itself Research & Resources Mentioned * Loewenstein, George. “The Psychology of Curiosity: A Review and Reinterpretation.” Psychological Bulletin, 1994. * Gruber, Matthias J., Gelman, Bernard D., and Ranganath, Charan. “States of Curiosity Modulate Hippocampus-Dependent Learning via the Dopaminergic Circuit.” Neuron, 2014. * GCU Blog. “Using Anticipatory Sets for Student Engagement.” * Voyager Sopris Learning. “Boost Classroom Engagement with Anticipatory Sets.” Additional Resources * “How Curiosity Enhances Hippocampus-Dependent Memory: The PACE Framework” — a deeper dive into the neuroscience for anyone who wants the full picture. * “9 Lesson Hook Strategies to Engage Students” * Madeline Hunter’s Mastery Teaching — the original book where the anticipatory set model was laid out, useful if you want to see the whole lesson-planning framework it came from. Key Terms * Anticipatory set: The opening portion of a lesson designed to focus attention, activate prior knowledge, and connect it to new content. Coined by Madeline Hunter. * Information gap theory: George Loewenstein’s model explaining curiosity as a felt gap between what we know and what we want to know — and the drive to close that gap. * Hippocampus: The brain region primarily responsible for forming new memories; research shows it’s more active during states of curiosity. * Prior knowledge activation: Connecting new material to something a learner already knows or has experienced, which helps new information “stick” to an existing mental framework. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit homeschoolce.substack.com

    The First Ninety Seconds
  5. Jul 16

    Working & Homeschooling: A Realistic Look at Trade-Offs

    Working and homeschooling isn’t one job — it’s three full-time workloads happening at once: work, school, and everything else that makes up a life. In this episode I name the hard truths nobody says out loud, walk through the Three-Legged Stool framework I use every semester to make trade-off decisions before the chaos hits, and get practical about schedules, independent learners, and the tech that actually holds it all together. What You’ll Learn * Why “the math doesn’t math” when you’re working and homeschooling — and why that’s not a you-problem * How to use the Three-Legged Stool framework (Work, School, Life) to set one priority per leg, per season, so decisions get easier under stress * The difference between a schedule and a routine, and why routines are what actually survive a disrupted day * Practical ways to build independent learners — morning boxes, visual timers, teaching mastery instead of busy work * How to pick a tech ecosystem (Apple, Google, Notion, or analog) and a brain-dump-and-organize workflow that keeps things from falling through the cracks * Where to look if you’re still figuring out the work side of this equation Research & Resources Mentioned * Kellogg School of Management — research on parental identity threat, and how emotional stability and a clear framework protect working parents from the shame spiral * Hobbies and mental health: a systematic review — twelve-year longitudinal findings on hobbies and depression recovery * National Home Education Research Institute — Homeschool Academic Achievement Fact Sheet * Open Oregon — Families 2nd Edition, “How Routines and Predictability” Ch. 5.2 * Printable companion handout for this episode (see below) — every spot in the episode marked with the pencil icon has a matching space on the printable, so you can jot down your own priorities, fears, and workflow as you listen. Grab it in the show notes. Note: A printable handout is being created to accompany this episode — it mirrors the pencil-icon prompts throughout so listeners have a place to write down their fears, their three priorities, and their own workflow ideas. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit homeschoolce.substack.com

    Working & Homeschooling: A Realistic Look at Trade-Offs
  6. Jul 2

    Structured Choice: The Teaching Strategy That Honors Your Kid and Your Sanity

    This episode breaks down structured choice — a research-backed strategy for giving students meaningful autonomy within a framework you design. Heidi walks through what structured choice actually is, what the research says about why it works, and five concrete techniques homeschool parents can start using immediately. What You’ll Learn * Why choice improves motivation, effort, and task performance — and why too much choice backfires * The difference between autonomy and unlimited freedom (and why it matters for your homeschool) * Five specific structured-choice techniques you can layer into your existing routine * How to avoid the most common mistakes when offering options to your kids * Why structure and choice aren’t opposites — they work together Research & Resources Mentioned * Patall, Erika A., Harris Cooper, and Jorgianne Civey Robinson. “The Effects of Choice on Intrinsic Motivation and Related Outcomes: A Meta-Analysis of Research Findings.” Psychological Bulletin 134, no. 2 (2008): 270–300. researchgate.net * Deci, Edward L. and Richard M. Ryan. Self-Determination Theory. Foundational framework for understanding autonomy, competence, and relatedness in motivation. Overview at selfdeterminationtheory.org * Schwartz, Barry. The Paradox of Choice: Why More Is Less. HarperCollins, 2004. TED Talk also available on YouTube: “The Paradox of Choice.” * Patall, E. A. “Optimizing the Power of Choice: Supporting Student Autonomy to Foster Motivation and Engagement in Learning.” Theory Into Practice, 2015. researchgate.net Additional Resources * Tomlinson, Carol Ann. The Differentiated Classroom: Responding to the Needs of All Learners. ASCD. A practical classic for designing instruction that meets learners where they are — structured choice lives here. * Ryan, Richard M. and Edward L. Deci. “Self-Determination and the Facilitation of Intrinsic Motivation, Social Development, and Well-Being.” American Psychologist 55 (2000): 68–78. The foundational paper if you want to go deep on SDT. * Kohn, Alfie. Punished by Rewards. Houghton Mifflin, 1993. A more provocative look at motivation, control, and what we lose when we lean too hard on external incentives — good counterweight reading. Key Terms * Structured Choice — A teaching approach in which the educator defines a set of meaningful, equivalent options and the student selects among them. * Self-Determination Theory (SDT) — A framework in motivational psychology (Deci & Ryan) that identifies autonomy, competence, and relatedness as three core psychological needs for intrinsic motivation. * Paradox of Choice — The finding that an excess of options can overwhelm decision-makers, leading to paralysis, dissatisfaction, and regret rather than freedom. * Intrinsic Motivation — The drive to do something because it is inherently interesting or satisfying, as opposed to doing it for external rewards or to avoid punishment. * Autonomy-Supportive Teaching — An instructional style that acknowledges students’ perspectives, provides meaningful rationale, and offers options — associated with better engagement and academic outcomes. * Decision Fatigue — The deterioration in decision-making quality that follows prolonged or repeated decision-making; a reason not to layer choice into every moment of the school day. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit homeschoolce.substack.com

  7. Jun 29

    June 2026: News & Research: Laws, Brain Science, and Everyday Learning

    In this episode of Continuing Education, Heidi walks through the biggest homeschool‑related legal changes from the past month and then breaks down new research on how kids learn—especially around executive function, math, and unstructured time—into practical, home-friendly ideas. You’ll hear neutral, sourced summaries of recent bills, plus simple ways to weave brain‑based strategies into your daily routines with your kiddos. What You’ll Learn * How new homeschool oversight in one state and deregulation in another could signal future trends nationwide. * Why researchers are excited about pairing executive function practice with early math—and how to try this at home. * How free, less‑structured time may support kids’ ability to self‑direct their learning. * Simple writing and planning routines that help math and science “stick” for homeschooled students. Key News Stories & Links Connecticut: First statewide homeschool oversight law * Coalition for Responsible Home Education press release on HB 5468, “An Act Concerning the Provision of Parent‑Managed Learning,” outlining new requirements for parent notice and a one‑time child‑abuse registry check. * Link: https://crhe.org/connecticut-victory/ * HSLDA response explaining why they oppose the law and their concerns about families being flagged through child‑welfare databases. * Link: https://hslda.org/post/hslda-condemns-connecticuts-new-homeschooling-law New Hampshire: Bill to loosen homeschool requirements * HSLDA summary of HB 1268, describing how the bill would remove mandatory notification, annual evaluations, and portfolio requirements, and clarify that homeschooling alone cannot be treated as neglect. * Link: https://hslda.org/post/hb-1268 * NHPR coverage of the bill, including supportive and critical perspectives on reducing state oversight of home education. * Link: https://www.nhpr.org/nh-news/2026-04-21/nh-newhampshire-homeschool-homeschooling-regulations * Regional reporting on New Hampshire’s Senate Republicans backing the bill and concerns raised by child advocates about the loss of basic safeguards. * Link (example): https://granitepostnews.com/news/video/new-hampshire-senate-republicans-back-bill-curbing-homeschool-regulations/ National advocacy and ongoing policy debates * HSLDA’s “News & Updates” page, highlighting contrasting moves in different states (like Connecticut’s added oversight versus New Hampshire’s deregulation) and tracking both regulatory changes and access issues for homeschool graduates. * Link: https://hslda.org/explore/latest-resources/news-and-updates Featured Studies & Resources Executive function woven into early numeracy * npc Science of Learning study on an intervention that explicitly combined executive function tasks (working memory, flexible thinking, self‑control) with early math activities, finding gains in numeracy and in the linkage between executive function and math skills. * Link: https://www.nature.com/articles/s41539-025-00302-9 Executive functions and math achievement * Recent review showing that global executive function—especially working memory, inhibitory control, and cognitive flexibility—has a meaningful, positive relationship with students’ mathematics achievement. * Link: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/39466137/ * Earlier longitudinal work indicating that executive function in early childhood predicts later academic achievement, including math and reading in elementary school. * Link: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5448237/ Less‑structured time and self‑directed executive function * Study summarized by Education Week reporting that 6‑year‑olds who spent more of their week in less‑structured activities (free play, child‑chosen reading, informal family time) showed more advanced self‑directed executive function than peers whose schedules were more adult‑structured. * Link: https://www.edweek.org/teaching-learning/study-too-many-structured-activities-may-hinder-childrens-executive-functioning/2014/07 Writing to support math and science learning * Edutopia article by neurologist Judy Willis describing how regular writing in math and science—journals, explanations of problem‑solving steps, analogies—supports attention, pattern recognition, and long‑term retention. * Link: https://www.edutopia.org/blog/writing-executive-function-brain-research-judy-willis * Edutopia strategies for bolstering executive function in tweens and teens, including planning tasks, organizing responsibilities, and using self‑monitoring tools. * Link: https://www.edutopia.org/article/8-ways-bolster-executive-function-teens-and-tweens * Edutopia guidance on executive function and kindergarten readiness, with simple routines early‑years teachers use that can be adapted for homeschool. * Link: https://www.edutopia.org/article/executive-functioning-and-kindergarten-readiness Practical Tips Mentioned * Use “rule‑switching” games in math—changing skip‑counting patterns or problem rules mid‑stream—to exercise both numeracy and executive function. * Build everyday planning practice by letting kids choose the order of subjects or break a project into steps while you coach. * Protect pockets of truly unstructured time for free play or interest‑driven projects to support self‑directed executive function. * Invite your child or teen to write short reflections about tricky math problems or science concepts, focusing on explaining their thinking rathe r than getting “perfect” prose. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit homeschoolce.substack.com

  8. Jun 25

    The Goal-Setting Episode Nobody Gave You

    Goal setting sounds simple — until you’re the one responsible for both setting goals for your kids AND sustaining the energy to actually show up every day and homeschool them. In this episode, Heidi breaks down what the research actually says about goal setting, why vague goals fail, and how to build a goal-setting practice that works for your kids and for you. Practical, honest, and grounded in real motivation science. What You’ll Learn * Why “do your best” is actually less effective than specific, challenging goals — and how to help your kids set better ones * The difference between learning goals and performance goals, and why it matters for long-term motivation * How parental burnout connects to goal setting — and why setting a goal for yourself is not selfish * Five concrete strategies for goal setting with your kids AND for yourself * Why shorter goal cycles (think 6 weeks, not 6 months) actually work better for homeschooling families Research & Resources Mentioned * Locke, Edwin A. and Latham, Gary P. “Building a practically useful theory of goal setting and task motivation: A 35-year odyssey.” American Psychologist, Vol. 57, No. 9, 2002. https://doi.org/10.1037/0003-066X.57.9.705 * Locke, Edwin A. and Latham, Gary P. “New Directions in Goal-Setting Theory.” Current Directions in Psychological Science, 2006. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1111/j.1467-8721.2006.00449.x * Dweck, Carol. “Carol Dweck Revisits the ‘Growth Mindset.’” Education Week, September 2015. https://www.edweek.org/leadership/opinion-carol-dweck-revisits-the-growth-mindset/2015/09 * Dweck, Carol S. Mindset: The New Psychology of Success. Ballantine Books, 2006. * Deci, Edward L. and Ryan, Richard M. “The ‘What’ and ‘Why’ of Goal Pursuits: Human Needs and the Self-Determination of Behavior.” Psychological Inquiry, 2000. * Joussemet, Mireille et al. “A Self-Determination Theory Perspective on Parenting.” Canadian Psychology, 2008. https://selfdeterminationtheory.org/SDT/documents/2008_JoussemetLandryKoestner_CanPsych.pdf * Ohio State University College of Nursing. “The Power of Positive Parenting: Evidence to Help Parents and Their Children Thrive.” 2024. https://nursing.osu.edu/news/2024/05/08/perfect-parent-study Additional Resources * Dweck, Carol. Mindset: The New Psychology of Success — the foundational book, accessible and practical for any parent * Emily Ley’s Grace, Not Perfection — not a research book, but a grounding read for parents navigating the pressure to do everything perfectly * The Self-Determination Theory website (selfdeterminationtheory.org) — free access to many of Deci and Ryan’s key papers for parents who want to go deeper Key Terms Goal-Setting Theory — A framework developed by Locke and Latham that identifies the conditions under which goals most effectively drive performance: goals should be specific, challenging, have clear feedback loops, and be connected to commitment and meaning. Learning Goals vs. Performance Goals — A distinction from Carol Dweck’s research. Learning goals focus on developing understanding and skill; performance goals focus on outcomes and external measures. Learning goals tend to produce more durable motivation. Self-Determination Theory (SDT) — Deci and Ryan’s theory of human motivation, which identifies three core psychological needs: autonomy (feeling in control of one’s choices), competence (feeling capable), and relatedness (feeling connected). When these needs are met, intrinsic motivation thrives. Parental Burnout — Distinct from general burnout, parental burnout is characterized by emotional exhaustion in the parenting role, emotional distancing from children, and a sense of inadequacy as a parent. Research shows it is associated with perfectionism and unrealistic expectations. Intrinsic Motivation — Motivation that comes from within — doing something because it is genuinely interesting, meaningful, or satisfying — as opposed to extrinsic motivation driven by rewards or external pressure. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit homeschoolce.substack.com

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Dedicated to supporting families in their journey of homeschooling by providing teaching strategies, curriculum guidance, and other actually helpful tips and insights. Whether you’re a seasoned homeschooling veteran or just starting out on this educational adventure, join us for wisdom and practical advice to help you navigate the homeschooling landscape with confidence and success. homeschoolce.substack.com