Cultivate

Bree Michaelas
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This is Cultivate. A podcast for wedding florists, floral designers and creative business owners with the talent, taste and vision to build something extraordinary. Hosted by Bree Michaelas, floral designer, writer and business coach, with a forensic interest in how creative women build businesses that reflect the calibre of their work, you can expect conversations on consultations, pricing, marketing, client experience, leadership, and everything else it takes to build a creative business worthy of your ambition.

  1. Aug 25

    Stop avoiding the budget conversation with clients

    A client wants champagne florals on a prosecco budget. You know the numbers don’t work and you’re trying to work out how to say it without killing the mood... So you don’t. Based on my Substack essay ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Why florists avoid the budget conversation⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ over on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Tall Poppy⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, we explore the fourth pattern that pulls florists out of congruence in our four-part series: the Avoider. We talk about why budget conversations feel so loaded, why disappointment can feel like proof you’ve handled the consultation badly, and how avoiding tension can leave clients with less clarity and harder decisions later. Want to know which pattern is running your client conversations? ⁠⁠⁠Schedule an Accelerator session⁠⁠⁠. You send me one real sales conversation and I'll walk you through it the way I just walked through this one: the pattern, where it fires, what it's costing you, and the shift that closes it. Because once you can see the pattern, you can catch it in every consultation after. ------ If you'd like more support, perspective or inspiration between episodes, you'll find me here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Tall Poppy⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - Essays at the intersection of floristry, business and creativity, for designers determined to bloom.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - A home for the next gen of female florists building a booked out business.

  2. Aug 19

    Get 5-star rave reviews as a florist

    You can create stunning arrangements and still leave clients with nothing more than, “They were nice, thanks.” Based on my Substack essay ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠"I know what you mean" isn't listening; it's assuming⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ over on ⁠⁠⁠⁠The Tall Poppy⁠⁠⁠⁠, we explore the third pattern that pulls florists out of congruence in our four-part series: the Assumer. We get into why this pattern can look like confidence and experience, why it happens to both newer and highly experienced florists, and how it leads to generic designs, weaker client rapport, and good feedback… but not the kind that has clients raving about you to everyone they know. Want to know which pattern is running your client conversations? ⁠⁠Schedule an Accelerator session⁠⁠. You send me one real sales conversation and I'll walk you through it the way I just walked through this one: the pattern, where it fires, what it's costing you, and the shift that closes it. Because once you can see the pattern, you can catch it in every consultation after. ------ If you'd like more support, perspective or inspiration between episodes, you'll find me here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Tall Poppy⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - Essays at the intersection of floristry, business and creativity, for designers determined to bloom.⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - A home for the next gen of female florists building a booked out business.

  3. Aug 11

    Too many ideas, not enough bookings

    You can offer a million ideas, and your client can choose none. Based on my Substack essay ⁠⁠⁠Why clients love your ideas but still don’t book⁠⁠ over on ⁠⁠⁠The Tall Poppy⁠⁠⁠, we explore the second pattern that pulls florists out of congruence in our four-part series: the Pitcher. We get into why Pitchers associate expertise with output, how offering multiple directions protects you from the vulnerability of having one recommendation rejected, and why a client can admire your creativity without recognising themselves inside your proposal. Want to know which pattern is running your calls? ⁠Schedule an Accelerator session⁠. You send me one real sales conversation and I'll walk you through it the way I just walked through this one: the pattern, where it fires, what it's costing you, and the shift that closes it. Because once you can see the pattern, you can catch it in every consultation after. ------ If you'd like more support, perspective or inspiration between episodes, you'll find me here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠The Tall Poppy⁠⁠⁠⁠ - Essays at the intersection of floristry, business and creativity, for designers determined to bloom.⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ - A home for the next gen of female florists building a booked out business.

  4. Jul 28

    The real reason florists talk too much in consultations

    A florist sent me a recording of one of her consultations to audit. Her message said it was her best consult yet. The couple ghosted her. Based on my Substack essay ⁠⁠How florists lose bookings by talking too much⁠ over on ⁠⁠The Tall Poppy⁠⁠, we explore the first pattern that pulls florists out of congruence in our four-part series: the Filler. It's the pattern that fills every pause and softens every recommendation until it no longer sounds like one. From the inside it feels like care, but to a client, it reads as something else entirely. We get into why "just talk less" is useless advice for a Filler, the psychology of contingent self-worth, restrained leadership, and the four steps that turn unbearable silence into the most persuasive part in your consultation. Want to know which pattern is running your calls? Schedule an Accelerator session. You send me one real sales conversation and I'll walk you through it the way I just walked through this one: the pattern, where it fires, what it's costing you, and the shift that closes it. Because once you can see the pattern, you can catch it in every consultation after. ------ If you'd like more support, perspective or inspiration between episodes, you'll find me here: ⁠⁠⁠The Tall Poppy⁠⁠⁠ - Essays at the intersection of floristry, business and creativity, for designers determined to bloom.⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ - A home for the next gen of female florists building a booked out business.

  5. Jul 21

    Four things florists do that cost them bookings

    Things are going fine. Then a silence stretches a beat too long, or the budget lands nowhere near what's needed for their inspo pics, and you feel something shift. I've coached enough florists through their client conversations to know this: there are four common behaviours we slip into under pressure that take us from leading the consultation to trying to survive it. Based on my Substack essay Why you suddenly stop being yourself in consultations over on The Tall Poppy, in this episode I walk you through all four and where they come from. If the version of you that shows up in consultations sometimes surprises you, you'll want to hear this. ------ If you'd like more support, perspective or inspiration between episodes, you'll find me here: ⁠⁠The Tall Poppy⁠⁠ - Essays at the intersection of floristry, business and creativity, for designers determined to bloom.⁠Instagram⁠⁠ - A home for the next gen of female florists building a booked out business.

  6. Jul 14

    The harder I tried, the fewer weddings I booked

    Sometimes the thing you’re doing to try to make a client trust you is the exact thing creating doubt. I learned this after telling a bride exactly what I thought she wanted to hear. She didn’t book me, and it took me a long time to understand why. In this episode, I’m unpacking the psychology behind what happens when we try a little too hard to appear helpful, confident or professional — and why a couple can leave your consultation feeling like something was “off” without being able to explain what. Based on my Substack essay, Why brides trust some florists more than others⁠⁠, published on ⁠⁠The Tall Poppy,⁠⁠ this episode introduces congruence, the split-second impressions shaping who a bride trusts, and the uncomfortable reason trying harder to appear confident or professional can sometimes have the opposite effect. If you’ve ever walked away from a consultation convinced it went well, only to lose the booking and have absolutely no idea why, this might give you somewhere new to look. ------ If you'd like more support, perspective or inspiration between episodes, you'll find me here: ⁠⁠⁠The Tall Poppy⁠⁠⁠ - Essays at the intersection of floristry, business and creativity, for designers determined to bloom.⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ - A home for the next gen of female florists building a booked out business.

  7. Jul 7

    My five-stage framework for successful wedding consultations

    If you’ve ever walked away from a consultation thinking, “I don’t know where that went wrong,” this episode is for you. I’m sharing my 5-stage framework for leading better wedding consultations without relying on a script. Most florists aren’t losing bookings because they said the wrong thing. They’re losing bookings because they moved the conversation forward before the groundwork was in place. Based on my Substack essay, Leading Couples to Commitment, published on The Tall Poppy, this episode introduces The Consensus Sequence: Establish, Explore, Extract, Expand and Ensure. We’ll look at how each stage helps a couple move from uncertainty to clarity, why skipping a stage can make a consultation feel good but still not convert, and how to understand what the conversation actually needs next. ------ If you'd like more support, perspective or inspiration between episodes, you'll find me here: ⁠⁠The Tall Poppy⁠⁠ - Essays at the intersection of floristry, business and creativity, for designers determined to bloom.⁠Instagram⁠⁠ - A home for the next gen of female florists building a booked out business.

  8. Jun 30

    A new way of thinking for the florist who hates selling in consultations

    In this episode, we’ll get into the myth of “good chemistry”, the gap between what a couple says and what they actually mean, and why the real leverage in your business isn’t attempting to sound more confident but creating shared understanding with the couple on the call. No convincing. No closing scripts. Just a new way to understand what’s really happening in your consultations. If you’re a florist who wants to book more weddings without turning into a salesperson, you can dive deeper into this topic on my Substack ⁠Chemistry, Consultations and Why Couples Choose,⁠ published on ⁠The Tall Poppy⁠. ------ If you'd like more support, perspective or inspiration between episodes, you'll find me here: ⁠The Tall Poppy⁠ - Essays at the intersection of floristry, business and creativity, for designers determined to bloom.Instagram⁠ - A home for the next gen of female florists building a booked out business.

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This is Cultivate. A podcast for wedding florists, floral designers and creative business owners with the talent, taste and vision to build something extraordinary. Hosted by Bree Michaelas, floral designer, writer and business coach, with a forensic interest in how creative women build businesses that reflect the calibre of their work, you can expect conversations on consultations, pricing, marketing, client experience, leadership, and everything else it takes to build a creative business worthy of your ambition.

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  • Creator
    Bree Michaelas
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    29
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Bree Michaelas
  • Show Website
    Cultivate