Childless And Moving Onward

Gail Miller

A moment comes when the realization hits that this is what it is, yet we don’t want to deal with that reality. We’re feeling all these feelings that are uncomfortable; the pain, the grief, the loneliness. We sit with it all and then, at some point, we wonder “what do I do with this?” and “how do I find meaning?” You can understand the grief AND want to move on while carrying it. This isn’t about squashing the grief - that’s not possible. It’s about moving onward on a new path, creating a fulfilling life and honoring that grief. This podcast delves into the often overlooked but deeply significant experience of living life as a woman who is childless not by choice. There are many ways to reach this point - being childless after infertility is only one road. Often circumstances other than unsuccessful fertility treatments bring us to the point of unwanted childlessness. Whatever your path has been though, your pain and all the other difficult emotions are valid. Now what do you do with it all? Your life doesn’t have to be defined by the pain of childlessness. You create your own narrative. Through candid discussions and personal stories, my podcast offers insights, support, and guidance for navigating this unique path in life and thriving.

  1. 10/28/2025

    When You’re Expected to Pick Up the Slack at Work Because You’re Childless

    Have you ever felt the pressure to do more at work simply because you don’t have children? In this episode of Childless and Moving Onward, host Gail Miller opens up about the hidden expectations and emotional weight childless employees often carry in the workplace. With honesty and empathy, Gail shares her own experiences alongside powerful research that reveals how bias and imbalance continue to shape our professional lives. Together, we’ll talk about what fairness really looks like, how to set healthy boundaries, and ways to advocate for yourself with confidence and compassion. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why childless employees are often expected to take on more work How workplace culture can unintentionally sideline those without children Ways to set boundaries and protect your well-being at work How to start honest conversations that lead to real change If you’ve ever felt unseen or undervalued at work because of your childless status, this conversation will remind you that your time, your energy, and your life matter just as much. Subscribe now for real talk, compassion, and hope delivered every Tuesday. Resources: Finding You: Beyond Motherhood Group Coaching Program coming soon! Join the waitlist: https://path-onward.kit.com/8d4b621a3b  Free Support Group: https://pathonward.com/support-group/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whenbeingchildlessisntbychoice/   Stay connected with us: Dr. Gail Miller: https://pathonward.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/childlesspathonward/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@pathonwardlifecoaching  Full transcript and more: https://pathonward.com/81-when-youre-expected-to-pick-up-the-slack-at-work-because-youre-childless/

    24 min
  2. 10/21/2025

    When Childlessness Fuels Self-Blame About Everything

    Have you ever found yourself taking the blame for things that were never really in your control?   In this episode of Childless and Moving Onward, host Gail Miller opens up about the quiet but powerful weight of self-blame that so many childless women carry - not just about infertility, but across every corner of life. Through honest reflection and heartfelt conversation, Gail explores how societal silence around childlessness often fuels this blame, making it easy to believe that you’re the problem when you never were. In this episode, you’ll learn: How self-blame can quietly shape more than just your thoughts on childlessness Why society’s silence can make grief feel like a personal fault How self-blame creates the illusion of control in the face of loss Why your worth extends far beyond any perceived failure If you’ve ever felt like not having children makes you less worthy, this episode will remind you that your value has never depended on motherhood - and that kindness toward yourself is where healing truly begins. Subscribe now for real talk, compassion, and hope delivered every Tuesday.   Resources: Finding You: Beyond Motherhood Group Coaching Program coming soon! Join the waitlist: https://path-onward.kit.com/8d4b621a3b  Free Support Group: https://pathonward.com/support-group/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whenbeingchildlessisntbychoice/ Stay connected with us: Dr. Gail Miller: https://pathonward.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/childlesspathonward/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@pathonwardlifecoaching  Full transcript and more: https://pathonward.com/80-when-childlessness-fuels-self-blame-about-everything/

    18 min
  3. 10/14/2025

    Feeling Forgotten By Your Family When You Are Childless

    Have you ever felt forgotten or unseen because your life doesn’t follow the traditional path of parenthood? In this episode of Childless and Moving Onward, host Gail Miller explores the real-life experiences of being childless not by choice - the unspoken challenges, the difficult family dynamics, and the societal expectations that can leave you feeling left out. Gail shares her own stories to help listeners feel seen and understood. Together, they unpack what it takes to find belonging, create meaningful traditions, and protect your peace. In this episode, you’ll learn: How family dynamics can leave you feeling unseen Why setting boundaries is an act of self-care Where to find community that truly understands How speaking up honors your needs and experiences If you’ve ever questioned where you fit or how to build a fulfilling life beyond childlessness, this conversation will remind you that your story still holds joy, purpose, and endless possibility. Subscribe now for real talk, compassion, and hope delivered every Tuesday.   Resources: Finding You: Beyond Motherhood Group Coaching Program coming soon! Join the waitlist: https://path-onward.kit.com/8d4b621a3b  Free Support Group: https://pathonward.com/support-group/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whenbeingchildlessisntbychoice/ Stay connected with us: Dr. Gail Miller: https://pathonward.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/childlesspathonward/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@pathonwardlifecoaching  Full transcript and more: qhttps://pathonward.com/79-feeling-forgotten-by-your-family-when-you-are-childless/

    17 min
  4. 10/07/2025

    Pumpkin Spice and Everything Nice Isn’t Always Nice When You’re Childless

    Have you ever felt the ache of fall traditions that seem to belong only to families with children? In this episode of Childless and Moving Onward, host Gail Miller opens up about navigating the season as someone who is childless not by choice. With honesty and compassion, she shares her own experiences and offers gentle ways to reclaim joy - even in the midst of grief. Together, we’ll talk about setting boundaries that protect your heart, creating new traditions that reflect your life now, and finding comfort in the small, magical moments of the season. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to create new fall traditions that bring you joy Why setting boundaries on social media protects your peace How self-care becomes an act of survival Where to find support from people who understand Why grief and joy can exist side by side If you’ve ever wondered how to move through fall with less heaviness and more lightness, this conversation will remind you that this season can belong to you too. Subscribe now for real talk, compassion, and hope delivered every Tuesday.   Resources: Finding You: Beyond Motherhood Group Coaching Program coming soon! Join the waitlist: https://path-onward.kit.com/8d4b621a3b Free Support Group: https://pathonward.com/support-group/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whenbeingchildlessisntbychoice/ Stay connected with us: Dr. Gail Miller: https://pathonward.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/childlesspathonward/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@pathonwardlifecoaching  Full transcript and more: https://pathonward.com/78-pumpkin-spice-and-everything-nice-isnt-always-nice-when-yourre-childless/

    17 min
  5. 09/30/2025

    When Your Friends Have Children

    Have you ever felt weighed down by grief, envy, or the pressure of what society expects? In this episode of Childless and Moving Onward, host Gail Miller shares her own journey through the raw emotions of being childless not by choice. With honesty and compassion, she invites you to explore your feelings without judgment and reminds you that your worth is never defined by your circumstances. Together, we’ll talk about the power of self-compassion, how to carry the ache without letting it consume you, and why healing begins when we allow ourselves to be fully seen. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why envy is human but doesn’t define who you are Why societal expectations add guilt to grief How to separate your worth from emotions like envy How emotions serve as signals, not measures of your value If you’ve ever asked, “Why not me?” this conversation offers gentle guidance, solidarity, and hope for the road ahead. Subscribe now for real talk, compassion, and hope delivered every Tuesday.   Resources: Finding You: Beyond Motherhood Group Coaching Program coming soon! Join the waitlist: https://path-onward.kit.com/8d4b621a3b  Free Support Group: https://pathonward.com/support-group/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whenbeingchildlessisntbychoice/ Stay connected with us: Dr. Gail Miller: https://pathonward.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/childlesspathonward/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@pathonwardlifecoaching  Full transcript and more: https://pathonward.com/77-when-your-friends-have-children/

    16 min
  6. 09/24/2025

    Why Not Me? The Unfairness of Being Childless Not By Choice

    Have you ever found yourself asking, “Why them and not me?” In this episode of Childless and Moving Onward, host Gail Miller opens up about the ache of injustice and unworthiness that so often shadows the experience of childlessness. Through her own story, she explores the quiet question of “Why them and not me?” and the pain of watching others set aside the roles we long for. Together, we’ll name these tender emotions, talk about why self-compassion is vital, and explore gentle ways to release the shame they carry. In this episode, you'll learn:  Why feelings of injustice and unworthiness can surface with childlessness Why naming and sharing emotions helps ease shame Why boundaries are an act of self-care, not distance How being childless shapes your story without defining it If you’ve ever felt unseen in your grief or questioned your worth because of your childlessness, this episode offers solidarity, compassion, and a reminder: you are not alone. Subscribe now for real talk, compassion, and hope delivered every Tuesday.   Resources: Finding You: Beyond Motherhood Group Coaching Program coming soon! Join the waitlist: https://path-onward.kit.com/8d4b621a3b  Free Support Group: https://pathonward.com/support-group/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whenbeingchildlessisntbychoice/ Stay connected with us: Dr. Gail Miller: https://pathonward.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/childlesspathonward/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@pathonwardlifecoaching  Full transcript and more: https://pathonward.com/76-why-not-me-the-unfairness-of-being-childless-not-by-choice/

    18 min
  7. 09/16/2025

    Making the Least Worst Decision

    Have you ever been told that your childlessness was a “choice”—when in reality it was anything but simple? In this episode of Childless and Moving Onward, host Gail Miller unpacks the painful misconceptions wrapped up in the word “choice.” Through her own story and heartfelt reflections, Gail reveals how what looks like a decision from the outside is often an act of survival in the face of limited, unfair, and deeply painful options. Together, we’ll hold space for the grief and resilience that come with these experiences, and challenge the narratives that dismiss or minimize them. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why “choice” is often a misleading word in childlessness How painful realities can be mistaken for simple decisions The hidden weight of judgment placed on childless women Why survival, not preference, shapes many paths forward How compassion opens space for understanding and grace If you’ve ever felt misunderstood or judged because of assumptions about your childlessness, this episode is here to remind you: your story matters, your pain is real, and your resilience deserves to be seen. Subscribe now for real talk, compassion, and hope delivered every Tuesday.   Resources: Finding You: Beyond Motherhood Group Coaching Program coming soon! Join the waitlist: https://path-onward.kit.com/8d4b621a3b  Free Support Group: https://pathonward.com/support-group/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whenbeingchildlessisntbychoice/ Stay connected with us: Dr. Gail Miller: https://pathonward.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/childlesspathonward/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@pathonwardlifecoaching  Full transcript and more: https://pathonward.com/75-making-the-least-worst-decision/

    16 min
  8. 09/09/2025

    Childless Not by Choice: Yes, I Have Feelings Too

    Have you ever felt that your capacity for empathy and care was overlooked simply because you don’t have children? In this episode of Childless and Moving Onward, host Gail Miller opens up about her own journey, challenging the stereotypes placed on women without children and exploring the deep strength and compassion that often go unseen. Through heartfelt stories and honest reflection, Gail invites us to consider how grief and empathy belong to all of us—not just parents. She reminds us that every heart holds the ability to love, to hurt, and to connect—and that honoring this truth can create a more compassionate world for everyone. In this episode, you’ll hear: Why empathy and compassion aren’t limited to motherhood The powerful ways childless women show care in their communities How personal stories can dismantle harmful stereotypes How honoring diverse voices expands our understanding of humanity If you’ve ever felt unseen or dismissed, this conversation is here to affirm your worth and remind you: your story matters, and your heart’s capacity is limitless. Subscribe now for real talk, compassion, and hope delivered every Tuesday.   Resources: Finding You: Beyond Motherhood Group Coaching Program coming soon! Join the waitlist: https://path-onward.kit.com/8d4b621a3b  Free Support Group: https://pathonward.com/support-group/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whenbeingchildlessisntbychoice/ Stay connected with us: Dr. Gail Miller: https://pathonward.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/childlesspathonward/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@pathonwardlifecoaching  Full transcript and more: https://pathonward.com/74-childless-not-by-choice-yes-i-have-feelings-too/

    18 min

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A moment comes when the realization hits that this is what it is, yet we don’t want to deal with that reality. We’re feeling all these feelings that are uncomfortable; the pain, the grief, the loneliness. We sit with it all and then, at some point, we wonder “what do I do with this?” and “how do I find meaning?” You can understand the grief AND want to move on while carrying it. This isn’t about squashing the grief - that’s not possible. It’s about moving onward on a new path, creating a fulfilling life and honoring that grief. This podcast delves into the often overlooked but deeply significant experience of living life as a woman who is childless not by choice. There are many ways to reach this point - being childless after infertility is only one road. Often circumstances other than unsuccessful fertility treatments bring us to the point of unwanted childlessness. Whatever your path has been though, your pain and all the other difficult emotions are valid. Now what do you do with it all? Your life doesn’t have to be defined by the pain of childlessness. You create your own narrative. Through candid discussions and personal stories, my podcast offers insights, support, and guidance for navigating this unique path in life and thriving.