That Husband Podcast

That Husband Podcast
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Husbands trying to know better so that we can do better Hosted By Blaque Nubon New episodes every Wednesday!

  1. A Baby Before Marriage, Leading In Church & Money Struggles: Why I'd Still Marry Young | Gift Maseko

    4D AGO

    A Baby Before Marriage, Leading In Church & Money Struggles: Why I'd Still Marry Young | Gift Maseko

    Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 9: A WARNING FOR YOUR EGO In this episode, we sit down with Gift Maseko, a husband, father of two, and pastor of Jesus Every Church, for a conversation about integrity, accountability, and the quiet work of becoming the kind of man your family can trust. What begins as a story about ministry quickly becomes something deeper: an honest reflection on how easily a man can start living for the approval of people rather than the approval of God. Gift speaks candidly about a season where the desire to please the church slowly began to outrank his responsibility to his wife and family. Through conviction, counsel, and personal reflection, he shares how God confronted that misalignment and the intentional changes he had to make to put his marriage and home back at the center of his leadership. This episode explores what it looks like to build clear boundaries, protect your household, and lead not from performance, but from obedience. The conversation also touches on the parts of a man’s story that are rarely spoken about. Gift reflects on a formative experience in his teenage years that shaped his early understanding of intimacy, and how that moment led him to make a firm commitment about sex and marriage. He shares the unexpected path that followed when he and the woman who would become his wife crossed that boundary once, resulting in a pregnancy that would ultimately lead them into marriage. With humility, he unpacks the church discipline that followed, the accountability his pastor required of him, and the internal struggle of wanting people to know he married out of love, not obligation. At its heart, this episode is about surrendering image for truth. Gift opens up about choosing a quieter, more grounded life — resisting the spotlight that often comes with ministry leadership and intentionally structuring his life in ways that guard his character, his marriage, and his faith. It’s a reminder that real leadership begins at home, and that faithfulness is often built in the small, unseen decisions a man makes every day. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON...  TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #IntentionalHusbands #MarriageByDesign #HusbandsWhoLead #FaithfulFathers #LoveWithPurpose #MarriageReflections #LegacyInAction #MarriageJourney #StrengthInMarriage #IntentionalLove #ModernHusbands #CourageousCommitment #HealingThroughMarriage #PurposeDrivenMarriage #RelationshipWisdom #StrongerInLove #MarriageIntentions #LegacyMinded #WiseHusbands #HeartCenteredMarriage #EmotionallyPresent #MarriagePodcastLife

    2h 7m
  2. What A Man Loses And Gains When He Stops Living For Himself And Commits To Love | DJ SabbyDJ Sabby

    MAR 4

    What A Man Loses And Gains When He Stops Living For Himself And Commits To Love | DJ SabbyDJ Sabby

    Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 8: PRESENT ON PURPOSE In this episode, we sit down with DJ Sabby for a conversation that moves far beyond the spotlight and into the soul of a husband and father. Known to many as a confident voice on air and a vibrant public personality, Sabby opens up about the man behind the mic - the young boy who was deeply loved, the son shaped by legacy, and the husband anchored by intention. We explore what it means to be seen beyond the brand. Sabby reflects on growing up with affirmation, navigating his parents’ separation, and how those early experiences shaped his view of marriage, fatherhood, and provision. He speaks candidly about meeting the right woman at what felt like the wrong time, wrestling with readiness, and choosing marriage not out of pressure, but conviction. This is a conversation about timing, maturity, and the courage it takes for a man to say, “I’m ready.” There is also an honest unpacking of ego, identity, and the invisible line that shifts when a man becomes a husband. Sabby shares how his wife grounds him, how she calls him back to himself, and why having someone who can gently remove the cape, and just as gently put it back on, is one of the greatest gifts in marriage. Together, we reflect on fear, responsibility, faith, and the quiet determination to build something that lasts. At its core, this episode is about legacy. About being intentional with love. About providing not just financially, but emotionally and spiritually. It’s a reminder that strength is not loud, that presence is powerful, and that behind every public man must be a private foundation strong enough to hold him steady. For husbands who are building, leading, questioning, or simply trying to do better than yesterday — this conversation is for you. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #IntentionalHusbands #MarriageByDesign #HusbandsWhoLead #FaithfulFathers #LoveWithPurpose #MarriageReflections #LegacyInAction #MarriageJourney #StrengthInMarriage #IntentionalLove #ModernHusbands #CourageousCommitment #HealingThroughMarriage #PurposeDrivenMarriage #RelationshipWisdom #StrongerInLove

    2h 18m
  3. Signing A Pre-Nup Doesn't Mean You're Preparing For A Divorce | Tebello Motshwane

    FEB 25

    Signing A Pre-Nup Doesn't Mean You're Preparing For A Divorce | Tebello Motshwane

    Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources  S3] EPISODE 7: A WAKE UP CALL This month, we intentionally create space for wives' voices, not to replace ours, but to enrich them. Because sometimes the greatest insight a husband can receive is hearing how he is seen, supported, and celebrated from across the table. In this episode, we sit with Tebello Motshwane for a conversation that is thoughtful, layered, and deeply human. She challenges husbands to consider the unseen emotional baggage they carry into marriage, while offering practical insight into the legal realities many couples overlook until it’s too late. Tebello speaks about accountability, preparation, and the courage to ask difficult questions before saying “I do,” reminding us that marriage is not only emotional and spiritual, but deeply practical too. More than a legal discussion, this episode explores identity, legacy, and the spaces where love, trauma, and responsibility intersect, inviting us to reflect on the families that formed us and the grace required to build marriages that are both emotionally and legally secure. Drawing from her own childhood experience of divorce, Tebello reflects on how early disappointment, instability, and unanswered questions quietly shape the adults we become. She unpacks the emotional inheritance of broken homes, the patterns we repeat without realizing, and the healing that begins when we finally name our stories. With honesty and warmth, she also shares her journey into law, navigating motherhood while pursuing her degree, and the quiet strength of a mother who carried both her and her son through survival mode with dignity and sacrifice. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK:   / thathusbandpodcast   INSTAGRAM:   / thathusbandpodcast   #ThatHusbandPodcast #MonthOfLove #HusbandsWhoLead #CelebratingHusbands #marriagematters #MarriageWisdom #LoveAndLegacy #MarriageConversations #FaithAndFamily #IntentionalMarriage #ModernHusbands #CourageousLove #HealingInMarriage #PurposeDrivenLove #RelationshipGrowth #StrongerTogether #MarriageMatters #LegacyBuilding #WiseLove #HeartWork #EmotionallyHealthyMarriage #MarriagePodcast #LoveWithIntention #SacredCommitment #GrowthInLove

    1h 27m
  4. Why Softness Feels Unsafe For Powerful Wives | Mpoomy Ledwaba

    FEB 18

    Why Softness Feels Unsafe For Powerful Wives | Mpoomy Ledwaba

    Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 6: I'M SECURE ENOUGH TO SUBMIT This month, we intentionally create space for wives' voices, not to replace ours, but to enrich them. Because sometimes the greatest insight a husband can receive is hearing how he is seen, supported, and celebrated from across the table. In this episode, we sit with  @MpoomyLedwaba  who leads boldly in the world yet chooses softness, reverence, and intentionality at home. She speaks about submission not as silence, but as strength. About celebration not as grand gestures, but as thoughtfulness, waking up early to make breakfast, guarding sacred moments from public performance, apologizing even when pride resists. She reminds us that when a man creates safety, love flows naturally. When he protects her growth, she instinctively protects his heart. And in that sacred exchange, both rise. It’s not about shrinking brilliance, it’s about stewarding it for something greater than self. This conversation is deeply reflective, honest, and at times uncomfortable, in the best way. It challenges husbands to examine ego, safety, and leadership. It invites wives to share how they see us when we are strong, when we are bruised, when we are trying. And most importantly, it reminds us that celebration is not about flowers or ties, it’s about being seen, respected, and chosen. This month of love, we’re not just asking how men can love better. We’re asking how husbands can be loved well, and how powerful wives can honour their men without losing themselves. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #MonthOfLove #HusbandsWhoLead #CelebratingHusbands #marriagematters #PowerfulWives #biblicalmarriage #loveandrespect #healthymarriages #intentionallove #SoftYetStrong #kingdommarriage #marriageconversations #faithandfamily #servantleadership #modernhusband #HonourYourSpouse #covenantlove #GrowthInMarriage #PurposeDrivenMarriage #marriagepodcast #MenWhoGrow #WivesWhoSupport #sacredunions #LoveDoneRight

    1h 51m
  5. I Became The Wife I Was Trained To Be, But Not The Wife He Needed | Mosili Pebane

    FEB 11

    I Became The Wife I Was Trained To Be, But Not The Wife He Needed | Mosili Pebane

    Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 5: WHAT I LEARNED TOO LATE This Valentine’s season, That Husband Podcast flips the script. Instead of centering romance as something men must perform, we pause to ask a quieter, braver question: how are husbands celebrated, seen, and honoured? In this special episode, Blaque sit across the table not with another husband, but with an ex-wife, opening space for an honest, reflective conversation that many men rarely get access to. Drawing from lived experience, healing, and hard-earned clarity, this episode explores what husbands often carry silently: the invisible pressures, unmet needs, misunderstandings, and the cost of not being celebrated well. It challenges cultural assumptions about provision, respect, honour, and emotional presence, while inviting men to listen without defensiveness and women to consider how affirmation, appreciation, and celebration can be expressed in ways that truly land. This is not a conversation about blame, bitterness, or rehashing the past. It’s about maturity, growth, and learning, for husbands who want to love better, and for marriages that want to last longer. In a month filled with red roses and public gestures, this episode asks a deeper Valentine’s question: what does it actually look like to celebrate a husband well? Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #HusbandsPodcast #thathusbandpodcast #marriageconversations #CelebrateHusbands #valentineswithpurpose #modernmarriage #marriagegrowth #healthymarriages #husbandlife #marriagetalks #faithandmarriage #christianmarriage #marriageworks #intentionalmarriage #MenInMarriage #husbandsupport #marriagepodcast #RealMarriageTalk #strongfamilies #marriagehealing #MarriageReflection #HonouringHusbands #biblicalmanhood #faithbasedpodcast #marriagewisdom #marriageculture #MenAndFaith #HusbandsMatter

    1h 43m
  6. When A Wife's Love Becomes Lazy Without Her Noticing | Buli Makhubo

    FEB 4

    When A Wife's Love Becomes Lazy Without Her Noticing | Buli Makhubo

    Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 4: MARRIAGE ON AUTOPILOT This Valentine’s season, That Husband Podcast flips the script. Instead of centering romance around wives alone, this episode creates space to ask a powerful and often overlooked question: how do wives intentionally celebrate and honour their husbands? In this conversation, we’re joined by Buli Makhubo who brings honesty, depth, and practical wisdom as she shares what it looks like to show up for her husband in ways that go beyond clichés. Together, we explore the idea that celebration isn’t about grand gestures, but about attentiveness, thoughtfulness, softness, and presence. From understanding love languages to breaking patterns of familiarity and complacency, this episode challenges the quiet assumption that men don’t need affirmation. It speaks to husbands who feel unseen and to wives who desire healthier, more connected marriages but may not always know where to start. Whether you’re married, engaged, dating, or simply curious about building strong relationships, this episode invites you into a deeper conversation about honour, respect, and intentional love. This Valentine’s, we’re asking: what does it truly mean to celebrate your husband? Press play and join us as we learn how small, consistent acts of honour can transform marriages from the inside out. FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-933eAjVurPV INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #HusbandsMatter #MarriageConversations #HonouringYourHusband #ValentinesWithPurpose #MarriageTalk #healthymarriages #intentionallove #marriagegrowth #christianmarriage #faithandmarriage #modernmarriage #marriagepodcast #MenNeedLoveToo #husbandsupport #CelebratingMen #marriagemindset #RelationshipWisdom #BiblicalMarriage #MarriageGoals #lovewithintention #MarriageCommunity #strongfamilies #marriagehealing #realmarriage

    1h 57m
  7. How We Decided To Get Married When We Hit Rock Bottom | Simphiwe Petros

    JAN 28

    How We Decided To Get Married When We Hit Rock Bottom | Simphiwe Petros

    Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 3: TRUST GOD OR STAY STUCK Sitting across the table is a husband who understands that love is not about perfection, but about choosing to show up again and again, especially when you fall short. Together, we reflect on what it means to love sacrificially, to race to the back of the line, and to embrace servant leadership in a world that often teaches men to take rather than give. We go deep into the realities that shape men and marriages in South Africa: fatherlessness, emotional neglect, unspoken wounds, and the quiet struggles many husbands carry alone. From navigating rejection and addiction to learning how to communicate how you want to be loved, this episode reminds us that healing in marriage begins with honesty. A loving father, a present husband, and a gentle man are not born, they are formed through accountability, grace, and intentional growth. At its core, this conversation is a reminder that husbandhood is a journey of “failing forward.” We are not where we want to be, but we are certainly not where we used to be. This episode is for husbands who are trying, husbands who are tired, and husbands who want to do better tomorrow than they did yesterday. If you believe marriage is worth fighting for, worth learning for, and worth becoming better for, this one is for you. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-933eAjVurPV INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #husbandhood #ByHusbandsForHusbands #modernhusband #marriageconversations #blackhusbands #faithandmarriage #HealthyMasculinity #marriagegrowth #marriagegrowth #fatherhoodmatters #FatherhoodMatters #breakingcycles #mendoingthework #emotionalintelligence #servantleadership #marriagejourney #HusbandsInCommunity #knowbetterdobetter #marriagepodcast #menandmarriage #HealingHomes #realmentalk #buildingstrongfamilies

    1h 33m
  8. (Re-upload) Why Are Married Christians Still Struggling With Sex? | Themba Tom Ntuli

    JAN 21

    (Re-upload) Why Are Married Christians Still Struggling With Sex? | Themba Tom Ntuli

    Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 2: HAVE WE DEMONISED A GOOD THING? In this episode, we slow the noise down and step into a conversation many husbands carry quietly but rarely articulate. What does connection really mean, not just physically, but spiritually, emotionally, and relationally? Through honest reflection and lived experience, we explore how true intimacy is far deeper than proximity or performance. It’s about being known, recognised, and met at a soul level, long before bodies come into play. This episode invites husbands to reconsider where connection begins, how it’s nurtured, and why it matters more than we often realize. We also confront the stories many of us inherited about sex, marriage, and manhood, especially the ones that taught us to fear, suppress, or misunderstand desire. With humility and clarity, this conversation unpacks how silence, shame, and unspoken expectations can quietly erode intimacy in marriage. We reflect on how unlearning harmful narratives, practicing honest communication, and embracing tenderness are not signs of weakness, but acts of courage and leadership within the home. At its core, this episode is a call to presence. To show up fully, for our wives, for ourselves, and for the covenant we’ve committed to. It reminds husbands that intimacy is not sustained by instinct alone, but by intentionality, kindness, and a willingness to grow. This is not a conversation about perfection, but about pursuit: choosing, again and again, to build bonds that are rooted in trust, truth, and love that lasts. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-933eAjVurPV INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #HusbandsPodcast #ByHusbandsForHusbands #MarriageConversations #biblicalmarriage #intimacyinmarriage #healthymasculinity #christianhusbands #faithandmarriage #realmentalk #marriagegrowth #emotionalintimacy #SexAndMarriage #marriagematters #leadingathome #CovenantOverCulture #IntentionalHusbands #marriageworks #menandmarriage #spiritualleadership #deepconnection #husbandlife #kingdommarriage #ModernHusbands #marriagepodcast #menwholead

    1h 58m
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Husbands trying to know better so that we can do better Hosted By Blaque Nubon New episodes every Wednesday!

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  • Creator
    That Husband Podcast
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    96
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    Explicit
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