Vagina Whispering

Noelle and Jen

Vagina Whispering is a safe place to have open conversations and learn from one another.  We talk all things vaginas, orgasms, femininity, sexuality, connection, love, intimacy, menopause, pleasure, intuition, and so much more.  We are two intuitive mediums who want to learn and share all we can about vaginas and the relationships we create with them energetically, physically, and spiritually.  Join us for fun interviews as we share personal stories and explore unique perspectives!

  1. A Shrinky-Dink Boob,  a Magic Wand, and a Barbie Shoe

    JAN 14

    A Shrinky-Dink Boob, a Magic Wand, and a Barbie Shoe

    In Part 1 of this two-part Vagina Whispering conversation, we talk honestly—and with humor—about what it’s actually like to live in a body after everything. This episode includes real, unfiltered stories about: Mammograms and body languageBeing naked, vulnerable, and unashamed in a locker roomLiving with a post-cancer body and a “shrinky-dink” boobWhat colon hydrotherapy is really like (including the magic wand part)The unexpected appearance of a Barbie shoe—and what that says about bodies holding storiesThis is not medical advice.  It is a deeply human conversation about embodiment, curiosity, and letting the body be what it is—without shame, polish, or pretending. You can check out Grace Goldsher's (the colon hydrotherapy practitioner Noelle worked with) at www.sandiegocolonhydrotherapy.com or call her at 858-733-0326 🎧 This is Part 1 of 2. Instagram: @VaginaWhispering Email Jen and Noelle at VaginaWhispering@Gmail.com Website: www.VaginaWhispering.com Disclaimer: While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information. Music from #Uppbeat https://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossom License code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

    24 min
  2. #25 Don’t Trust a Fart: Colon Hydrotherapy, Vaginal Dryness & Sex After Cancer-Poop Talk, Intimacy & Spirit in the Bedroom Part 2

    12/10/2025

    #25 Don’t Trust a Fart: Colon Hydrotherapy, Vaginal Dryness & Sex After Cancer-Poop Talk, Intimacy & Spirit in the Bedroom Part 2

    You’re not crazy, broken, or alone if cancer treatment, stress, or changing seasons of life have completely shifted your relationship with your poop, your vagina, and your sex life. In this real-talk, laugh-til-you-snort episode of Vagina Whispering, Noelle and Jen cover everything from colon hydrotherapy and “don’t trust a fart” moments… to vaginal dryness, painful sex, sex after breast cancer, and whether your loved ones in spirit are actually watching you in the bathroom or bedroom. We dive into: 🚽 What really happens in a colonic (and why you might want a Depends for the drive home)💩 Chronic constipation, vegan pooping superpowers, and how chewing + fiber + water change everything😬 Braces, digestion, swallowing half-chewed food, and why it messes with your gut🌵 Vaginal dryness — moisturizers, lube, toys, dilators, and “use it or lose it” truth bombs🩺 Sex after cancer & breast cancer — pain, partners who panic, partners who get it, and how to feel safe again💞 Intimacy without penetration — how honesty, trying together, and vulnerability deepen connection🔮 Mediumship & sex — setting spiritual boundaries, calling in support, and who’s actually “in the room”This is a safe, non-judgmental space to laugh, cry, snort, learn, and remember that your body is not the enemy — and your pleasure is still absolutely worth fighting for. 💌 Questions or guest ideas? Email us at vaginawhispering@gmail.com 🔔 If this episode supports you, please subscribe, rate the show, or share with a friend who’s navigating body changes, cancer recovery, or intimacy challenges. Instagram: @VaginaWhispering Email Jen and Noelle at VaginaWhispering@Gmail.com Website: www.VaginaWhispering.com Disclaimer: While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information. Instagram: @VaginaWhispering Email Jen and Noelle at VaginaWhispering@Gmail.com Website: www.VaginaWhispering.com Disclaimer: While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information. Music from #Uppbeat https://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossom License code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

    18 min
  3. #25 Don’t Trust a Fart: Colon Hydrotherapy, Vaginal Dryness & Sex After Cancer-Poop Talk, Intimacy &  Spirit in the Bedroom Part 1

    11/27/2025

    #25 Don’t Trust a Fart: Colon Hydrotherapy, Vaginal Dryness & Sex After Cancer-Poop Talk, Intimacy & Spirit in the Bedroom Part 1

    You’re not crazy, broken, or alone if cancer treatment, stress, or changing seasons of life have completely shifted your relationship with your poop, your vagina, and your sex life. In this real-talk, laugh-til-you-snort episode of Vagina Whispering, Noelle and Jen cover everything from colon hydrotherapy and “don’t trust a fart” moments… to vaginal dryness, painful sex, sex after breast cancer, and whether your loved ones in spirit are actually watching you in the bathroom or bedroom. We dive into: 🚽 What really happens in a colonic (and why you might want a Depends for the drive home)💩 Chronic constipation, vegan pooping superpowers, and how chewing + fiber + water change everything😬 Braces, digestion, swallowing half-chewed food, and why it messes with your gut🌵 Vaginal dryness — moisturizers, lube, toys, dilators, and “use it or lose it” truth bombs🩺 Sex after cancer & breast cancer — pain, partners who panic, partners who get it, and how to feel safe again💞 Intimacy without penetration — how honesty, trying together, and vulnerability deepen connection🔮 Mediumship & sex — setting spiritual boundaries, calling in support, and who’s actually “in the room”This is a safe, non-judgmental space to laugh, cry, snort, learn, and remember that your body is not the enemy — and your pleasure is still absolutely worth fighting for. 💌 Questions or guest ideas? Email us at vaginawhispering@gmail.com 🔔 If this episode supports you, please subscribe, rate the show, or share with a friend who’s navigating body changes, cancer recovery, or intimacy challenges. Instagram: @VaginaWhispering Email Jen and Noelle at VaginaWhispering@Gmail.com Website: www.VaginaWhispering.com Disclaimer: While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information. Music from #Uppbeat https://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossom License code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

    26 min
  4. 09/24/2025

    #23-Autopilot, Lots of Feelings and New Perspectives

    Jen and Noelle catch up about hormonal, seasonal and other changes, the mixed feelings of being uncomfortable in your own body and smarter ways to communicate about that. A lovely message from Jen's Spirit Guide comes through with words of affirmation including "Enjoyment (of the season of life you are in) is in the meaning." Instagram: @VaginaWhispering Email Jen and Noelle at: VaginaWhispering@Gmail.com Website: www.VaginaWhispering.com   Disclaimer: While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information. #podcast #love #sexuality #womenshealth #womenssexuality #connections #connection #connect #relationshipwellness #relationships #relationshipgoals #communicationtips #communication #podcast #love #vagina #connectiontoourownsexuality #vaginalove #selfcare #selfimprovement #selflove #selflovejourney #selfdevelopment #selfdiscovery #selfloveandhealing #selfawareness #self #divineguidance #divine #divinefeminineenergy #divinefeminineinnerwork #divinefemale #disclosure #rawhonesty #vulnerability #vulnerablemoments #vulnerabilityandstrength #vulnerabilitymatters #shame #shameless #healing #healingjourney #healingsoul #interview #sexuality #connect #therapy #spirituality #intuition #intuitive #embraceyourself Instagram: @VaginaWhispering Email Jen and Noelle at VaginaWhispering@Gmail.com Website: www.VaginaWhispering.com Disclaimer: While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information. Music from #Uppbeat https://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossom License code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

    45 min
  5. 09/15/2025

    #22 part 1-Choices, Outgrowing Fantasy and Being Grateful

    Jen and Noelle talk about possible past/parallel life impacting today including choices, decisions and growing past being stuck and bringing your energy with you. Jen shares about a Shamanic visit with her recently departed dad. Lots of vulnerability and some genuine laughs.  Instagram: @VaginaWhispering Email Jen and Noelle at: VaginaWhispering@Gmail.com Website: www.VaginaWhispering.com Disclaimer: While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information. #podcast #love #sexuality #womenshealth #womenssexuality #connections #connection #connect #relationshipwellness #relationships #relationshipgoals #communicationtips #communication #podcast #love #vagina #connectiontoourownsexuality #vaginalove #selfcare #selfimprovement #selflove #selflovejourney #selfdevelopment #selfdiscovery #selfloveandhealing #selfawareness #self #divineguidance #divine #divinefeminineenergy #divinefeminineinnerwork #divinefemale #disclosure #rawhonesty #vulnerability #vulnerablemoments #vulnerabilityandstrength #vulnerabilitymatters #shame #shameless #healing #healingjourney #healingsoul #interview #sexuality #connect #therapy #spirituality #intuition #intuitive #embraceyourself Instagram: @VaginaWhispering Email Jen and Noelle at VaginaWhispering@Gmail.com Website: www.VaginaWhispering.com Disclaimer: While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information. Music from #Uppbeat https://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossom License code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

    37 min
  6. #18 Part 2-Queer, Kink and Conversation with Big Dick Energy's Whitni Miller (TW)

    09/15/2025

    #18 Part 2-Queer, Kink and Conversation with Big Dick Energy's Whitni Miller (TW)

    Whitni Miller is a Queer Couples Intimacy Coach and Sex Educator. Whitni shares stories and examples and tips of how to increase communication, safety, security, related to intimacy and connection. She reminds us that we own ourselves and that "pleasure is the fuel for your productivity." She brings in BDSM principles, conscious kink, TAG (trauma informed training) and much much more.  Whitni hosts the Podcast 🌈 "Own Your Pleasure." She shares tips and ideas on her various platforms such as Instagram (bde.moves) and TikTok. Whitni offers many resources on her website and through: Patreon.com/bdemoves (self-guided intimacy coaching) You can learn more about Whitni through her website: https://www.bde-moves.com/ including how to work with her individually and more about her  12 week Deep Intimacy Program and Queer Couples Costa Rica Retreat in January 2026. You can also email her: whitni@bde-moves.com Instagram: @VaginaWhispering Email Jen and Noelle at VaginaWhispering@Gmail.com Website: www.VaginaWhispering.com Disclaimer: While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information. #podcast #love #sexuality #womenshealth #womenssexuality #connections #connection #connect #relationshipwellness #relationships #relationshipgoals #communicationtips #communication #podcast #love #BDS #selfcare #sexuality #sexualdissatisfaction #LoveAndReciprocity #RelationshipGoals #IntimacyCoaching #BDEmoves #QueerIntimacy #queercouples #intimacycoaching #intimacycoach #intimacyexpert #intimacyadvice #vagina #connectiontoourownsexuality #vaginalove #selfcare #selfimprovement #selflove #selflovejourney #selfdevelopment #selfdiscovery #selfloveandhealing #selfawareness #self #divineguidance #divine #divinefeminineenergy #divinefeminineinnerwork #divinefemale #disclosure #rawhonesty #vulnerability #vulnerablemoments #vulnerabilityandstrength #vulnerabilitymatters #shame #shameless #healing #healingjourney #healingsoul #interview #sexuality #connect #spirituality #intuition #intuitive #lovelanguage #lovelanguages Instagram: @VaginaWhispering Email Jen and Noelle at VaginaWhispering@Gmail.com Website: www.VaginaWhispering.com Disclaimer: While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information. Music from #Uppbeat https://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossom License code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

    27 min
  7. 09/15/2025

    #19 The Energetic Impact of a Hysterectomy and More with Maria and her Vagina

    Jen and Noelle interview Maria, an intuitive medium, looking for more connection and communication with her body. Lots of metaphors, loving suggestions, humor, a bit of snark and lots of info to get back to be more fully alive and integrated.  Instagram: @VaginaWhispering Email Jen and Noelle at VaginaWhispering@Gmail.com Website: www.VaginaWhispering.com Disclaimer: While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information. #podcast #love #sexuality #womenshealth #womenssexuality #connections #connection #connect #relationshipwellness #relationships #relationshipgoals #communicationtips #communication #podcast #love #BDS #selfcare #sexuality #sexualdissatisfaction #LoveAndReciprocity #RelationshipGoals #vagina #connectiontoourownsexuality #vaginalove #selfcare #selfimprovement #selflove #selflovejourney #selfdevelopment #selfdiscovery #selfloveandhealing #selfawareness #self #divineguidance #divine #divinefeminineenergy #divinefeminineinnerwork #divinefemale #disclosure #rawhonesty #vulnerability #vulnerablemoments #vulnerabilityandstrength #vulnerabilitymatters #shame #shameless #healing #healingjourney #healingsoul #interview #sexuality #connect #spirituality #intuition #intuitive #lovelanguage #lovelanguages #bodycare #bodylanguage #bodyconnection Instagram: @VaginaWhispering Email Jen and Noelle at VaginaWhispering@Gmail.com Website: www.VaginaWhispering.com Disclaimer: While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information. Music from #Uppbeat https://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossom License code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

    28 min

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About

Vagina Whispering is a safe place to have open conversations and learn from one another.  We talk all things vaginas, orgasms, femininity, sexuality, connection, love, intimacy, menopause, pleasure, intuition, and so much more.  We are two intuitive mediums who want to learn and share all we can about vaginas and the relationships we create with them energetically, physically, and spiritually.  Join us for fun interviews as we share personal stories and explore unique perspectives!