BLENDED WISDOM

JULIA M

A intimate foray into the wisdom and beauty of learning from sages through the ages. From stories to books, poetry and songs and any resources gifting an inherent wisdom we can learn from and apply for our own inner health, harmony and happiness. 

  1. 1d ago

    S2. 14 - USE YOUR GIFTS

    Musings after reading a sentence:   'if you have been given a gift... it is that gift you have, to give the world...'  then re-reading it with a different emphasis on the word have, which gave the phrase a whole new and frankly, more personally inviting meaning. The first reading felt like obligation - you HAVE TO and the re-read was a privilege - you HAVE to give... an offering worthy of sharing.  The energetic contrast felt powerful. Musings felt and gathered on the same day of the midterm elections occurring in the U.S and the recognition that many of us, irrespective of where we live, have felt the weight and the toll of what has occurred over the last years, under a form of  leadership and personality cult there, that looks and acts as fascists do, and the  racist undertones, that invariably always bolster a turn in that direction. The idea of what lands for us, makes us feel and get animated. For me, words have always been a source of fascination for their power, their mechanics, their usage and their interpretation. It caught me out when reading the sentence about gifts, that the perspective given on the second read was so starkly different to me and felt so much more motivational and inspirational. Maybe I just gait anything I feel is pushed on me... I am a long time fan of Ethan Hawke, as you may know, a keen observer of his career and philosophies so I share an excerpt I read of his, that said how time was a far greater measure for how your work is interpreted or curated over time, rather than any one judgement over one work or one piece of what you have said or created. Perspective giving again, in a positive spin. The book I have carried for many years is included here, in musings, as the novel, East of Eden - by way of the recent series is part of the current zeitgeist - and I share how much Steinbeck's diary entries have been a comfort to me, as he pens his doubts and insecurities.  He also shares his desires, not just for his characters, but for his readers. His wish that his readers get to have a sense of belonging  after finishing the book.  Notwithstanding his later success, his desire was quite pure to use his gift to have people feel something and identify with the characters and the world he built.  Steinbeck had obviously identified writing as his gift and set out to pursue it rigorously. To share his gift notwithstanding he had his own private doubts and resistance. I find my comfort there, that even Steinbeck had to tackle these warriors opposing his work and trying to get him off course from his purpose of working to use his gift. As a reader, the power of our knowledge and ability to know history and not repeat it is also privilege we have and one we ought to recognise and use wisely.  The invitation therefore becomes…  to vote, to fight for democratic liberties. to speak out against injustice - to use not just our talents but our voice in a compassionate and informed way in opposing the weapons against humanity, of fascism and racism. From corporate lawyer to full time writer, Julia Mathison, in this longer than usual 17 MIN EP, shares the recognition she had, that if we have gifts we have identified in our lives, then it is a source of pleasure and privilege we get to share them... and a blessing indeed if they form a curated part of our lives, that touches the lives of others in a positive and meaningful way.  Always a personal musing, featuring personal preferences, with a desired message to be kind, follow your hearts direction and accept the calling of your innate gifts.  REFERENCES:  ETHAN HAWKE interview  on Instagram  JOURNAL OF A NOVEL -  THE EAST OF EDEN LETTERS - JOHN STEINBECK  Daily diary entries John Steinbeck wrote to his friend and editor, Pascal Covici - written on the left hand side pages of a blue ruled notebook (10 3/4" x 14") which Convici had gifted him. On the right hand side pages he wrote East of Eden in his trademark blackwing pencils.  A letter for every working day of his EoE draft of the novel, covering the time peroid from January 29 - November 1, 1951. Support the show THANK YOU FOR LISTENING PURCHASE MY STORIES AT www.jemathison.com

  2. Oct 14

    S2. 13 - LINGER LONGER

    Musings after a recent conversation with a close friend and a reiteration of the same topic in an Ethan Hawke interview snippet - the fact of having to admit to ourselves our attention span, ability to stay ‘in’ things - notably a book - has diminished or is on the noticeable decline. As a reader, the power of having to admit this to oneself or out loud is not fun but, at the same time, we have enough introspection to notice it and so the fight becomes, to take up arms against it, as the Prince of Denmark would say.  The quiet revolution within therefore, is to STAY in something… longer. To linger longer than feels comfortable, to breach the threshold of awkward and stay… be it in a book, a hug, a conversation. The poet David Whyte is the truest advocate of this invitation to stay in conversation with another, as he regards it the highest form of relationship, inclusive, naturally, of intimacy, but applicable to every relationship and many interactions we have.  I am a long time fan of Ethan Hawke snd the resistance was palpable, he did not want to admit his tolerance is getting shorter for reading. Hence the awareness and decision to revolt and stay connected to that book.  Musings also into memories of a last hug, a final embrace with my God-daughter and how much it means to me the moment was captured in a photo but more so, how glad I was that I did not short-change her on that hug but remained it for so long.  The Ted Lasso series scene where he sits alongside a young women weeping and just stays beside her, not touching, and each frame reveals a slowing down, a calming being given to her nervous system.  The invitation therefore becomes… to linger longer. .  From corporate lawyer to full time writer, Julia Mathison, in this 11 MIN EP, shares the benefit and rewards offered us when we push through and stay a bit longer in something, and the support we may be giving to another person by being that one person willing to linger with them.  Always a personal musing, featuring personal preferences, with a desired message to be kind, follow your hearts direction and accept the calling of your innate gifts.  REFERENCES:  ETHAN HAWKE interview with @gponemorequestion on Instagram  POET - DAVID WHYTE SERIES - TED LASSO ADVICE UNKNOWN - Always let the child determine when to come out of the hug.  Support the show THANK YOU FOR LISTENING PURCHASE MY STORIES AT www.jemathison.com

  3. Oct 10

    S2. 12 THE TENDER BAR - 10.10.26

    Musings into the things we are called to do and the characters that form our experience, guide and influence us. The power of belief in your own dreams and in others to fulfil theirs.  I watched a film called The Tender Bar - picked at random, after a writing day, and it was about a young man who becomes a writer and learns all life’s hardest lessons from his absent father and all his most insightful ones from his Uncle Charlie, who owns The Dickens Bar and ensures his nephew reads, starting with Dickens.  It was a thoughtful film and hit many times for the persistence required to become what you want to become, when the odds are against you but family (not always blood but barstool regulars) support and cheer even the minor wins.  I am a huge fan of Ben Affleck and he was understated and pitch perfect as the guy who never went to college but perennially is the smartest guy in the room.  Musings into this deep emotional ties when you have one person to perpetually want better for you and speak life into your dreams. The  invitation is to know what the source of your purpose in life is and to chase after it, commit even when you have no idea how it’ll pan out.  From corporate lawyer to full time writer, Julia Mathison, in this 14 MIN EP, shares the impact of things appearing before us as signs or triggers to keep going - in this case the movie - THE TENDER BAR - tenderly directed by George Clooney.  You are a writer the minute you say you are and then you have to prove it… at least to yourself.  Always a personal musing, featuring personal preferences, with a desired message to be kind, follow your hearts direction and accept the calling of your innate gifts.  REFERENCES:  MOVIE - THE TENDER BAR - DIRECTOR - George Clooney Based on a memoir by J.R Moehringer Screenplay by William Monaghan  Ben Affleck | Tye Sheridan | Lily Rabe | Christopher Lloyd | Daniel Ranieri |  Support the show THANK YOU FOR LISTENING PURCHASE MY STORIES AT www.jemathison.com

  4. Sep 23

    S2. 11 - OVERWHELMED BY BEAUTY | STENDHAL SYNDROME

    Musings from St Paul de Vence after an encounter with a Finnish art teacher and painter who had spent all afternoon in the village and returned, simply overcome with emotion.  She muttered the words - “Stendhal Syndrome” - as a way of expressing what had overcome her. A vague recollection of its meaning and I was on the right path, as I had experienced it myself as a young twenty something coming to St Paul de Vence in France for the very first time,  Once a winter enclave for artists and writers, it became a home to them as they were respected, fed and watered here, in exchange for their artistic offerings and now, it is a storied place for the history and art that hangs in almost every building.  Musings into this deep emotional trigger in a beautiful and soulful way. that contrasts so starkly with the emotional triggers of news and events and U.N speeches by a U.S leader who can barely string a sentence and wholly lacks in decency, let alone artistic flair or elegance.  Also musings into art and literature as a common love language when you do not share a tongue in common. So moved was she by the art and art history that she moved me just as much, and in turn a hug was shared in resonance and recognition of another ‘lover’ of beauty.  A reflection into Stendhals quote after visiting Florence, amid thé tombs of Michelangelo and Galileo and the encounter of ‘celestial sensations’ - a sort of ecstasy that overcame him in the contemplation of such sublime beauty.  The  invitation is to seek out in life that which moves you to deep wells of emotion. To allow beauty in art and beyond to stir your soul and to live knowing exactly what is it you would fall under the spell of.  From corporate lawyer to full time writer, Julia Mathison, in this 15 MIN EP, shares a story of a stranger moved by art and whose interaction engendered my own emotional connection to her.  Always a personal musing, featuring personal preferences, with a desired message to be kind, follow your hearts direction and accept the calling of your innate gifts.  REFERENCES:  STENDHAL SYNDROME - after French author Stendhal described his experiences in Florence as an emotional phenomena. Literary Festival in French town -  St Paul de Vence  COLOMBE D’’OR RESTAURANT VILLA ST MAXIME  Support the show THANK YOU FOR LISTENING PURCHASE MY STORIES AT www.jemathison.com

  5. Sep 16

    S2. 10 RESISTANCE TO THE CALL IN THE HERO’S JOURNEY

    Musings from La Muse Writers Retreat in SW France where I picked up a book of conversations with Joseph Campbell called An Open Life in its wonderful library. The double entendre between the conversations being intimate in a way that opens us up to the heart and mind of Joseph Campbell - student and educator of The Hero’s Journey - and the open life he led by following his interests and ultimately his bliss, in his life, his career and his marriage. He studied Mythology his whole life and gave us the simple explanation or discernment of Myth as metaphor and not as ideology. He makes the point myth speaks to and from the heart as opposed to a rational, thought process that builds.  A reflection into one of the earliest ‘stages’ in A Hero’s Journey. That being, the Call and the subsequent resistance to it. The idea that very often we deny or resist the contract or call within us because of all it would ask of us and ask that we turn our backs to or step out of, in terms of social norms of safety and security, to follow the call. But here, Campbell asserts the security is only ever illusory, such that the uncertain path very often reveals itself as holding greater treasure. Yields more than we could ever foresee. So the invitation is to be still enough in our lives so as to hear that which beckons our hearts, our soul, our purpose and to gather the courage to, at least, get inquisitive about it. The recognition too, and something to instil in our young, is that we are, each of us, the  HERO in our own story, for all our foibles or failures, strengths and courage.  To speak into your own truth and values as you follow and seek out your purpose and your gifts is the stuff of heros.  From corporate lawyer to full time writer, Julia Mathison, in this 15 MIN EP, shares an ode to the life and work of Joseph Campbell, as he explores how powerfully the metaphor of myth can inform our lives when we recognise it as both invitation and guide. The conversation touches upon but one stage of The Hero’s Journey, the one that takes the greatest amount of trust and perseverance to initially follow and pursue… The Call. Always a personal musing, featuring personal preferences, with a desired message to be kind, follow your hearts direction and accept the calling of your innate gifts.  Support the show THANK YOU FOR LISTENING PURCHASE MY STORIES AT www.jemathison.com

  6. Aug 27

    S2. 9. OH DOLLY DEAR

    Musings upon receipt of the news, on 25 August 2026, that our beloved Dolly Parton had passed away. She never shied away from speaking into injustice and instead poured money back into her home community, looked after her employees with good wages and their children’s education paid for. Her IMAGINATION LIBRARY was quietly founded in 1995 and she had books mailed to families every month for children 0 - 5 years so that reading became an early influence for them and any barriers were taken out so they had access to books. Thirty years of book giving to children as just one of her achievements behind the stage.  She stood against cruelty and racism and inequality and built a life in tribute to the opposite. A life that revealed exactly who she was, where her heart and values lay, as visible as her talent and looks, and a life guided by principles of faith and persistence.  Musings about her entrepreneurial smarts in retaining all her writing credits for all her life, notwithstanding tempting offers in the early days from the likes of Elvis.  Seeing clips of Dolly with her Goddaughter, Miley Cyrus, and the fun they had creating together, singing and doing ‘their’ thing together. Her death took me to places of memory of my own Goddaughter, Lexie, who we lost almost two years ago. The dreams I had of watching her talent grow and ideas we had of writing books together. The loss of her and the loss of all I thought, we thought we’d collaborate on until the day it was me that grew old snd went first. It has cut deep to see the bond of her and Miley over so many years, sharing their gifts and sharing their lives. So as the world who knew Dolly mourns her death, may it trigger a flame within, an invitation to live as fully self-expressed as you can, to speak into your truth and values without fear or favour, to seek out your purpose and your gifts and to refine them to put out into the world, your world, unapologetically and with an honest sense of humour amd joy.  She came from nothing so she worked hard at choosing it all, by choosing happiness and determination ever when people will judge or seek to shame you.  Dolly - Thank you.  I will always love you.  From corporate lawyer to full time writer, Julia Mathison, in this 15 MIN EP, explores how powerful a light, one person can be in this world when fully tapped in to their talents and fully present to their worth and their values.  She capably wore so many hats and never compromised on kindness and compassion of word or deed. The world has lost the kind of light it currently needs.  Always a personal musing, featuring personal preferences, with a desired message to be kind, follow your hearts direction and accept the calling of your innate gifts.  My website: www.jemathison.com Support the show THANK YOU FOR LISTENING PURCHASE MY STORIES AT www.jemathison.com

  7. Jul 20

    S2. 8. THE BEAUTIFUL GAME

    Musings post the football World Cup, and the meaning I took away from behaviour on and off the field. How we act in victory is often less indicative than how we behave and treat others in defeat.  This was a tricky one to decide whether to publish as I feel I misspoke on a couple of things. So, in proceeding… please be aware I am conscious dictatorships are happening in other parts of the world and did not seek to highlight ones that have happened historically in African countries, as isolated or characteristic of the continent. Having lived in Nigeria as a child and travelled throughout parts of that continent, it is filled with memories and I love the heart and presence of people in different countries there and am cognisant in many cases, European dictatorships and autocrats have done more harm to plunder the continent. I also referred to poorer countries in referring to how big football is globally. I hope this is not interpreted in any way as superior or glib. It was not referred to with anything akin to that notion. I think I included that reference, in my head, on the basis that football requires a ball only, and for that reason is so accessible and therefore universal. The barrier to entry and understanding is low, so it becomes available to children everywhere and therein you hear the stories of young stars who came from origins of little resources. Nico Williams of Spain, whose Mum walked from Ghana, or how Ronaldo grew up wth nothing or Lamine Yamal, who was named after two gentlemen who helped his family in tough times. One piece of equipment and no barring entry level costs, like that of say F1 or hockey or most other equipment heavy sports, allows for a more equal playing field in football.  The rest of the references you may read as political, but they are not. Issues of dignity and safety are protected human rights and not affiliated views, so I will stand tall in my views on the current world leaders who openly and casually defile, degrade and cause harm to others by word, act or policy. With those disclaimers and non -disclaimers in place, the last month of football fever has allowed us to witness a microcosm of both the best in people and the worst. What counts is what we say, how we act and what we do under pressure. These are important times, institutions are being desecrated, books banned and non-invader countries being bombed and looted for autocrats to retain control and power. Just as they are in public scrutiny, we  ourselves, are also in a time of being recorded and watched, so what we say and do, even in our own small way, has a reverberation effect and will, likely, be remembered. From the Egyptian coach, to players, to the Mexican President (Claudia Sheinbaum Parton) and the Spanish PM - Pedro Sanchez - who have spoken up against the genocide of the Palestinian people - their words and actions will and do have impact. The fact they have to deal with a US President that openly mocks and reviles, publicly penalises and derides them is also on show for the world to see and judge, accordingly. Spain, holding up the World Cup as champions, after having been called ‘horrible people’ by the host country’s President speaks so much more to his lack of intellect, empathy, class and grace and THAT was what was on show throughout this tournament. The men who RULED in their skill and honour outdid many of the men who currently rule … So the invitation is to live your life as though it was a beautiful game, to know that HUMANITY always wins and to be the hero, in whatever small way you can, by speaking into injustice when you see it, by remaining humble in defeat as in victory and by being happy for your words of knowledge, empathy and kindness to follow you around, ‘be used against you’ and be your legacy and your summary…  From corporate lawyer to full time writer, Julia Mathison, in this 13 MIN EP, explores the contrast both on and off the field when people gather from all around the world and what becomes obvious to all about who the true heros are, when that world is watching abd taking notes…  Always a personal musing, featuring personal preferences, with a desired message to be kind, follow your hearts direction and accept the calling of your innate gifts.  MENTIONED: Myth of The Odyssey - Homer.  His epic poem post The Iliad, written in d’accoucher hexameter - six beats. Now a movie directed by the master storytelling, Christopher Nolan. Spain, as a nation, keenly aware of what genocide and fascism look like, having been through it under the rule of Franco. Pedro Sanchez does not just reference history, he is telling the world Spain has learnt from their own history and it will not be tolerated again at home, nor will they be silent witnesses to it abroad.  Support the show THANK YOU FOR LISTENING PURCHASE MY STORIES AT www.jemathison.com

  8. Jun 27

    S2. 7. EVERYTHING REDUCES

    Musings from a stroll through a vide grenier in my village, that powerfully hit me with the notion that in the end, we have to give everything up, that everything in life eventually reduces. A vide grenier is akin to a flea market or a garage sale where ones own items are displayed for sale and repurposing in a new home.  While I like the idea of repurposing and relish the thought of a new life given to things and new joy gifted the inherited owner, I was caught off-guard by how sad I felt that everything in our lives gets reduced as a matter of course, a feature  of time… Perhaps it was the sale of so many books and records which had me saddened, in the knowing of what it takes to create those things.  But to reframe that sadness, I had to inquire into why we let go of things and perhaps there is beauty and purpose in knowing they no longer serve us or spark joy in us and in being intentional therefore about what we decide to hold on to and what we decide to cast off. Also that after the creation, it is for others to have the experience of joy in owning, indulging in that thing.  Thoughts were perhaps infused by musings from a previous episode about distillation and knowing what it is we want our lives to be and what we must give aside to pursue | have, that which we have identified as ours to hold | pursue | create in this life.  Musings also into how sad the notion of everything reducing can feel unless and until we use it to ignite our intentionality around choosing.  How an article in the Blackwing 602 newsletter - in the ‘Makers Series’ of conversations with a philosopher and creator - Julien de Medeiros gifted me a perspective that nothing is lost if we have lived our lives in honour and dedication to that which | those whom, we love without having ever given up on | ‘given ground’ to those dedications and desires.  So the invitation - is to be cognisant that if everything reduces, choose that and those in your life, with which and whom you will be happy remained, when much else is gone… From corporate lawyer to full time writer, Julia Mathison, in this 14 MIN EP, explores the idea that reduction occurs across every aspect of our lives over time, so we must seek to be present in choosing to devote time and energy to that which will remain, as other things fade or fall by the wayside of life… Always a personal musing, featuring personal preferences, with a desired message to be kind, follow your hearts direction and accept the calling of your innate gifts.  REFERENCES BLACKWING (pencils) newsletter. It’s MAKERS SERIES - A CONVERSATION WITH JULIAN DE MEDEIROS @juliandemedeiros www.blackwing602.com The pencils used and loved by many artists and writers, including John Steinbeck.  TERMS VIDE GRENIER - is like a garage or boot sale. They visit different villages annually through the French summer and are a popular weekend activity to wander and browse of a Sunday.  BROCANTE - is more of an antique market or store. The most famous international ones (outside of Paris) in the south of France would be in gorgeous Provençal town of Isle sir la Sorgue.  Support the show THANK YOU FOR LISTENING PURCHASE MY STORIES AT www.jemathison.com

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A intimate foray into the wisdom and beauty of learning from sages through the ages. From stories to books, poetry and songs and any resources gifting an inherent wisdom we can learn from and apply for our own inner health, harmony and happiness.