Compassionate Heart Parenting

Michelle Puster

Compassionate Heart Parenting | Peaceful Parenting for Real Life You love your kids deeply — and you still lose it sometimes. You're in the right place. This podcast is for parents who are drawn to gentle parenting, peaceful parenting, conscious parenting, and Hand in Hand Parenting — but who also know how hard it can be to stay calm in the real, messy, overwhelming moments of family life. Hi, I'm Michelle — mom of 3, recovering yeller, and Emotionally Focused Family Therapist. I've been through parent burnout, depression, and anxiety, and I climbed my way out using the very tools I share here. Now I help parents find their inner calm so they can show up the way they actually want to — with patience, connection, and confidence. Each episode gives you: Practical tools to stop yelling and start connectingRelief from parenting shame, guilt, and the feeling you're failingScience-backed strategies rooted in Emotionally Focused Therapy, mindfulness, and self-compassionWays to pause and respond rather than react in your hardest parenting momentsPlayful parenting ideas that strengthen your bond with your childThe deep reminder that you are not alone — and you are a good parentTopics covered include: Gentle parenting tools · conscious parenting · peaceful parenting · Hand in Hand Parenting · parenting with self-compassion · yelling and parenting shame · emotional regulation for parents · parenting burnout · mindful parenting · sibling conflict · setting loving limits · attachment parenting · parenting anxiety · Dr. Laura Markham · Dr. Daniel Siegel · connection before correction This podcast is for you if: You want to parent gently but keep getting stuckYou're exhausted from trying to hold it all together aloneYou want to strengthen your relationship with your child, not just manage their behaviorYou're ready to do the inner work that makes outer calm possible ✨ Free Guided Pause + Regroup:  https://link.innovorise.com/widget/form/Pm5Uy0ezEwvqKxwlL8Ik 🌐 Learn more: https://compassionateheartmindfullife.com/ 🎓 Ready to go deeper? Yelling to Connecting is Michelle's 6-week online parenting course — grounded in science, rooted in compassion, and designed to help you finally yell less and connect more. This content is intended for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment. Compassionate Heart Parenting does not provide psychotherapy services. If you need mental health support, please seek a qualified professional in your area.

  1. Aug 13

    Validate the Feeling, Hold the Limit — What EFFT Teaches Us About Screens and Connection — Allison Zangari Arnett

    Have you ever felt like you had to choose between understanding your child and actually holding the limit? Between empathy and authority? Between connection and correction? Allison Zangari Arnett — Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and certified Emotionally Focused Family, Couple, and Individual Therapist with over a decade of experience — is here to tell you: you do not have to choose. In this episode Allison and Michelle explore one of the most powerful reframes in Emotionally Focused Family Therapy — that you can validate your child's feeling without validating their behavior. That connection before correction is not softness — it is strategy. And that what looks like a screen battle is almost never really about screens. Allison also brings something rare to this conversation: she is a brand new mom of a 6-month-old, which means she is navigating this work personally in a whole new way — and her honesty about her own reactivity, her own fear of getting it wrong, and her own need for support makes this one of the most human and relatable conversations on the podcast. In this episode you'll learn: The core EFFT reframe — you can validate your child's feeling without validating their behavior — and what that sounds like in a real screen momentWhat connection before correction means in practice — and why front-loading with connection before you correct changes what your child can actually hearWhy your child's screen battle is almost never really about screens — and what it is actually about underneathWhat to do when your child does not trust your repair attempts — and why that mistrust is actually a sign of healthy vulnerabilityWhy rejection from your child is one of the hardest kinds of rejection there is — and how to resource yourself through itWhat repair actually sounds like — keeping your side of the street clean without making it about your child's behaviorWhy it is never too late — not at 12, not at 17, not at 30 — and why Allison would have to become an accountant if repair was not possible Topics: Emotionally Focused Family Therapy · EFFT · EFT for families · EFCT · connection before correction · validate the feeling not the behavior · screen time and limits · parent-child repair · blended families · divorce and parenting · high-conflict families · parenting teens · limit setting with empathy · gentle parenting · peaceful parenting · conscious parenting · attachment parenting · parent emotional regulation · repair after yelling · family therapy Tampa Guest: Allison Zangari Arnett is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. She is a certified Emotionally Focused Family Therapist, Couple Therapist, and Individual Therapist. She has over a decade of experience working with individuals, couples and families who are struggling to communicate and reconnect in their relationships. She specializes in divorce/blended families, navigating parenting concerns, boundaries and limits for children, high conflict families, and increasing closeness in family relationships. She owns a private practice in Tampa, Florida, and is a wife and mother of a 6 month old baby girl. www.zangaricounseling.com ✨ Free Guided Pause + Regroup: https://link.innovorise.com/widget/form/Pm5Uy0ezEwvqKxwlL8Ik 🌐 compassionateheartparenting.com This content is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment. Compassionate Heart Parenting does not provide psychotherapy services. Join me each week for a tail from the trenches of parenting burnout and how I (and you) can use mindfulness, mediation and self-compassion to find your inner calm and a little more sanity in your parenting. You’ll get a story from my heart and a quick win you can use the same day. A free gift for you: the RAGE Break, a free guided audio pause for when you are about to lose or have just lost it with your kids and you need a moment to regroup. Find the audio download in the links. I created the Rage Break because it is exactly what I needed when I was struggling with anger and yelling in parenting.  This story was brought to you by “Yelling to Connecting.”  If you or someone you know struggles with yelling at your kids, losing it, or being constantly on edge this course will be a helpful tool.  A reminder: This content is intended for educational purposes only and should not be used as a replacement for private psychotherapy services. Compassionate Heart Mindful Life does not provide psychotherapy services in any capacity. I am a therapist but I am not your therapist and this is not therapy and should not be a substitute for mental health treatment. If you need mental health treatment please find a qualified professional in your area. __________________________________________ ...

    Validate the Feeling, Hold the Limit — What EFFT Teaches Us About Screens and Connection — Allison Zangari Arnett
  2. Aug 6

    Navigating Sibling Fighting WITHOUT Losing Your Cool (REPLAY)

    Sibling conflict can push even the most patient parent to their limit. Michelle breaks down what's really happening beneath the bickering and fighting, and offers grounded, science-backed strategies to help you stay calm, set loving limits, and guide your kids toward connection instead of chaos. Join me each week for a tail from the trenches of parenting burnout and how I (and you) can use mindfulness, mediation and self-compassion to find your inner calm and a little more sanity in your parenting. You’ll get a story from my heart and a quick win you can use the same day. A free gift for you: the RAGE Break, a free guided audio pause for when you are about to lose or have just lost it with your kids and you need a moment to regroup. Find the audio download in the links. I created the Rage Break because it is exactly what I needed when I was struggling with anger and yelling in parenting.  This story was brought to you by “Yelling to Connecting.”  If you or someone you know struggles with yelling at your kids, losing it, or being constantly on edge this course will be a helpful tool.  A reminder: This content is intended for educational purposes only and should not be used as a replacement for private psychotherapy services. Compassionate Heart Mindful Life does not provide psychotherapy services in any capacity. I am a therapist but I am not your therapist and this is not therapy and should not be a substitute for mental health treatment. If you need mental health treatment please find a qualified professional in your area. __________________________________________ ...

  3. Jul 30

    Why Your Child Pushes You Away When They Need You Most — An EFFT Conversation with Corien Boers

    When your child is struggling — really struggling, in a way that scares you — the hardest part is often not what is happening with your child. It is the helplessness. The fear that no matter how much you love them you cannot reach them. And what Emotionally Focused Therapy calls "attachment panic" — the state a parent enters when their child is suffering and emotionally unreachable. In this episode Michelle sits down with Corien Boers — certified Emotionally Focused Therapist and supervisor from the Netherlands with over 25 years of experience working with families, including deep clinical work with children and adolescents navigating eating disorders — for one of the most moving and clinically grounded conversations on the podcast. Corien introduces the concept of "professional nearness" — the idea that being genuinely touched by a family's pain is more powerful than professional helping — and shares what happens to the parent-child bond when a child is in crisis and the parent's loving intent comes out sideways as control, rigidity, or anxiety. She also offers something that every parent of a struggling child needs to hear: when a child pushes you away, storms off, or shuts down completely — they are almost never saying "I don't need you." They are saying "I am overwhelmed and I do not know how to reach for you." This episode is for any parent whose child is going through something hard — not only families navigating eating disorders, but any parent who has ever felt shut out, helpless, or terrified that their love is not reaching their child. In this episode you'll learn: What Emotionally Focused Therapy calls attachment panic — and how it shapes everything a parent does when their child is sufferingWhy a child who pushes you away, goes silent, or becomes oppositional is sending an attachment signal — not a rejectionWhat professional nearness means — and why it changes the therapeutic relationship and the parent-child relationshipHow an eating disorder can become a child's safe haven when the family cycle feels threatening — and what shifts when a parent can move from fear and control toward connectionWhat to say — and what not to say — when your child storms off or refuses to engageWhy "I love you too" said lightly is more connecting than "I love you" said with urgencyHow to stay present and protect all your children simultaneously when one child is in crisisCorien's three-word practice for parents in their hardest moments: Stop. Listen. Feel.Topics: Emotionally Focused Family Therapy · EFFT · Emotionally Focused Therapy · EFT for families · eating disorders and family therapy · adolescent eating disorders · attachment panic · parent-child disconnection · parenting a struggling child · child mental health · teen mental health · parent anxiety and fear · helplessness in parenting · family bonds under pressure · gentle parenting · peaceful parenting · conscious parenting · attachment parenting · child withdrawal · oppositional behavior · family repair · professional nearness Guest: Corien Boers — Living in the Netherlands. Married and mother of three. She started her career working with disabled children. From there, she began working in a youth psychiatric hospital and became a family therapist in the inpatient and outpatient units that treated children with an eating disorder. After a few years, she made the transition to adult psychiatry while remaining in the field of eating disorders. Not only in the Netherlands, but she also worked at the intensive treatment program for adults with eating disorders, "Be-Leef," in Portugal. Currently, she works in her own practice and provides counseling to couples and individuals. She is an Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist supervisor and a sidekick trainer for the EFCT training programs. She is passionate about strengthening connections within families and relationships. Giving people a voice—about themselves, to themselves, and to the people they love. https://www.praktijkcorien.nl/englishversion corien@praktijkcorien.nl ✨ Free Guided Pause + Regroup: https://link.innovorise.com/widget/form/Pm5Uy0ezEwlL8Ik \ 🌐 compassionateheartparenting.com This content is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment. Compassionate Heart Parenting does not provide psychotherapy services. Join me each week for a tail from the trenches of parenting burnout and how I (and you) can use mindfulness, mediation and self-compassion to find your inner calm and a little more sanity in your parenting. You’ll get a story from my heart and a quick win you can use the same day. A free gift for you: the RAGE Break, a free guided audio pause for when you are about to lose or have just lost it with your kids and you need a moment to regroup. Find the audio download in the links. I created the Rage Break because it is exactly what I needed when I was struggling with anger and yelling in parenting.  This story was brought to you by “Yelling to Connecting.”  If you or someone you know struggles with yelling at your kids, losing it, or being constantly on edge this course will be a helpful tool.  A reminder: This content is intended for educational purposes only and should not be used as a replacement for private psychotherapy services. Compassionate Heart Mindful Life does not provide psychotherapy services in any capacity. I am a therapist but I am not your therapist and this is not therapy and should not be a substitute for mental health treatment. If you need mental health treatment please find a qualified professional in your area. __________________________________________ ...

    Why Your Child Pushes You Away When They Need You Most — An EFFT Conversation with Corien Boers
  4. Jul 23

    When Stress Becomes All Consuming In Parenting (REPLAY)

    When the weight of parenting starts to feel like too much, it's easy to lose sight of the calm, connected parent you want to be. In this episode, Michelle explores what happens when stress takes over, how it shows up in our bodies and our reactions, and shares practical ways to find your footing again before overwhelm turns into yelling. Join me each week for a tail from the trenches of parenting burnout and how I (and you) can use mindfulness, mediation and self-compassion to find your inner calm and a little more sanity in your parenting. You’ll get a story from my heart and a quick win you can use the same day. A free gift for you: the RAGE Break, a free guided audio pause for when you are about to lose or have just lost it with your kids and you need a moment to regroup. Find the audio download in the links. I created the Rage Break because it is exactly what I needed when I was struggling with anger and yelling in parenting.  This story was brought to you by “Yelling to Connecting.”  If you or someone you know struggles with yelling at your kids, losing it, or being constantly on edge this course will be a helpful tool.  A reminder: This content is intended for educational purposes only and should not be used as a replacement for private psychotherapy services. Compassionate Heart Mindful Life does not provide psychotherapy services in any capacity. I am a therapist but I am not your therapist and this is not therapy and should not be a substitute for mental health treatment. If you need mental health treatment please find a qualified professional in your area. __________________________________________ ...

  5. Jul 16

    She Dreaded 3pm Every Day — What Her Child with ADHD Taught Her About Parenting — EFFT Therapist Katharina Sandizell

    In this episode Michelle sits down with Katharina Sandizell — Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, ICEEFT Certified EFT Therapist and Supervisor across Couples, Individuals, and Families, and Certified AEDP therapist — for one of the most clinically rich and personally honest conversations on the podcast. They explore what is really happening inside parents when parenting gets hard, what the research tells us about how emotions actually move through children and adults when they feel safe, and what repair looks like in real family life — not the concept, but the words, the moment, the breath. In this episode you'll learn: Why your biggest parenting reactions are almost never really about what is happening in front of youThe wave of emotion — why feelings move through in just 2 to 5 minutes when a child feels held and not aloneHow to recognize the early signs that your nervous system is being hijacked by something older than this momentThe inner child practice that parents can use before bed, in the morning, and eventually in the moment itselfWhat spirited, highly sensitive, and ADHD children most need from their parents — and why it is not what we thinkWhat repair actually sounds like — including when years have gone by and the guilt feels enormousWhy our hardest parenting moments have the potential to be genuine agents of healing — for us and for our childrenTopics: Emotionally Focused Family Therapy · EFFT · AEDP · parenting ADHD children · highly sensitive child · spirited child · parent emotional regulation · parenting triggers · yelling and parenting shame · inner child work for parents · self-compassion for parents · repair after conflict · parent burnout · gentle parenting · peaceful parenting · conscious parenting · attachment parenting · parenting and trauma · RAIN practice · wave of emotion Guest: Katharina is certified with the International Center for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT) as an Emotionally Focused Therapist and Supervisor. This means that she has met the rigorous standards required for specialized and advanced certification, earning high recognition for her expertise in working with couples (EFCT) and for her supervision and training of other therapists learning couples therapy. Katharina is also certified with the AEDP Institute as a Certified AEDP Therapist. AEDP is most often used for individuals and is deeply relational, interactive, experiential, and somatic. AEDP is wonderful for trauma, attachment, and intensive inner child work. In addition to couples and individuals, Katharina works with adult families using the attachment-based approach of Emotionally Focused Family Therapy (EFFT). Specializing in relationships, attachment issues, anxiety, depression, OCD, trauma, and affair recovery, Katharina is also certified as an EFIT and EFFT Therapist and Supervisor. Katharina is the Founder and Clinical Director of Love Frontier Therapy Group, where she supervises Associate Marriage Family and Post-Doctoral Therapists using her Certification as a Deliberate Practice Supervisor (IDPS) to deepen the supervisory and learning experience. She is on the Advisory Council for The Sentio University Marriage Family Therapy Program, which is a Masters level Program for emerging Therapists grounded in the Deliberate Practice model of Supervision and training. https://lovefrontiertherapy.com https://www.ksandizell.com https://www.facebook.com/p/Love-Frontier-Therapy-61561171780910/ https://www.instagram.com/p/C8fVIkev5xL/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/love-frontier-therapy-group-75211582/ Connect with Michelle - https://compassionateheartparenting.com/ Free Guided Pause + Regroup: https://link.innovorise.com/widget/form/Pm5Uy0ezEwvqKxwlL8Ik This content is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment. Compassionate Heart Mindful Life does not provide psychotherapy services. Join me each week for a tail from the trenches of parenting burnout and how I (and you) can use mindfulness, mediation and self-compassion to find your inner calm and a little more sanity in your parenting. You’ll get a story from my heart and a quick win you can use the same day. A free gift for you: the RAGE Break, a free guided audio pause for when you are about to lose or have just lost it with your kids and you need a moment to regroup. Find the audio download in the links. I created the Rage Break because it is exactly what I needed when I was struggling with anger and yelling in parenting.  This story was brought to you by “Yelling to Connecting.”  If you or someone you know struggles with yelling at your kids, losing it, or being constantly on edge this course will be a helpful tool.  A reminder: This content is intended for educational purposes only and should not be used as a replacement for private psychotherapy services. Compassionate Heart Mindful Life does not provide psychotherapy services in any capacity. I am a therapist but I am not your therapist and this is not therapy and should not be a substitute for mental health treatment. If you need mental health treatment please find a qualified professional in your area. __________________________________________ ...

    She Dreaded 3pm Every Day — What Her Child with ADHD Taught Her About Parenting — EFFT Therapist Katharina Sandizell
  6. Jul 2

    Emotionally Focused Family Therapy: When Your Marriage Is Affecting Your Parenting — Dennis & Kim Eames

    What if the thing standing between you and the parent you want to be is not a technique — but the unhealed places in your closest relationship? Dennis and Kim Eames are certified Emotionally Focused Couple, Family, and Individual Therapists and Supervisors at Infinity Family Therapy — and they bring something to this conversation that no clinical training alone could provide: they have lived it. Twenty years into their marriage, with their relationship highly strained. Their children were quietly learning to duck and cover. Kim privately believed it was too late to have a real relationship with her daughter. That family looks completely different today. And in this episode they share exactly what changed — and what Emotionally Focused Therapy made possible for their marriage, their children, and their own healing as parents. In this episode you'll learn: How disconnection between partners ripples directly into the parent-child relationship — and what children absorb that parents often cannot see or nameWhy the negative cycle between parent and child scrambles loving parental intent into a message that lands as "you don't like me" — and how EFFT helps families see that cycle togetherWhat Emotionally Focused Family Therapy actually looks like in a family session — and why bringing the whole family in changes everythingThe Hold Me Tight Let Me Go workshop for parents and teens — what to expect and why Dennis recommends doing the couple work firstWhy curiosity is a superpower — and how starting with curiosity toward yourself changes the entire emotional climate in your homeWhat real repair sounds like — and why a superficial apology can actually make things worseWhy it is never too late — with teenagers, with adult children, and even with parents who are no longer livingTopics: Emotionally Focused Family Therapy · EFFT · Emotionally Focused Therapy · EFT for couples and families · EFCT · Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy · Hold Me Tight workshop · Hold Me Tight Let Me Go · parent-child repair · negative cycle in families · couple conflict and parenting · parenting teens with attachment · gentle parenting · peaceful parenting · conscious parenting · family repair · attachment parenting · parent burnout · parenting and marriage · generational healing Guests: Dennis Eames and Kim Eames — Certified Emotionally Focused Couple, Family, and Individual Therapists and Supervisors  Infinityfamilytherapy.com.   infinityeftintensives.com www.holdmetightseattle.com https://www.facebook.com/InfinityFamilyTherapy https://www.instagram.com/infinity_family_therapy/ 🎓 Ready to go deeper?  🎓 Yelling to Connecting — 6 week online parenting course ✨ Free Guided Pause + Regroup:  🌐 compassionateheartparenting.com  This content is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment. Compassionate Heart Parenting does not provide psychotherapy services. Infinityfamilytherapy.com.   infinityeftintensives.com www.holdmetightseattle.com Join me each week for a tail from the trenches of parenting burnout and how I (and you) can use mindfulness, mediation and self-compassion to find your inner calm and a little more sanity in your parenting. You’ll get a story from my heart and a quick win you can use the same day. A free gift for you: the RAGE Break, a free guided audio pause for when you are about to lose or have just lost it with your kids and you need a moment to regroup. Find the audio download in the links. I created the Rage Break because it is exactly what I needed when I was struggling with anger and yelling in parenting.  This story was brought to you by “Yelling to Connecting.”  If you or someone you know struggles with yelling at your kids, losing it, or being constantly on edge this course will be a helpful tool.  A reminder: This content is intended for educational purposes only and should not be used as a replacement for private psychotherapy services. Compassionate Heart Mindful Life does not provide psychotherapy services in any capacity. I am a therapist but I am not your therapist and this is not therapy and should not be a substitute for mental health treatment. If you need mental health treatment please find a qualified professional in your area. __________________________________________ ...

    Emotionally Focused Family Therapy: When Your Marriage Is Affecting Your Parenting — Dennis & Kim Eames
  7. Jun 18

    How to Repair with Your Kiddo (Emotionally Focused Family Therapy Tools) — with Stephanie Chimient

    Do you love your child with everything you have — and still lie awake wondering if you're the reason they're struggling? That guilt is one of the heaviest things a parent can carry. And in this episode, Stephanie Chimienti is going to help you put some of it down. Stephanie is a Registered Psychotherapist trained in Emotionally Focused Family Therapy, play therapy, and parts work — a rare and powerful combination that allows her to work with families at multiple levels simultaneously: the cycles between parent and child, the internal parts the parent carries from their own history, and the healing that happens through play and connection. In this warm, honest conversation, Stephanie and Michelle explore what actually breaks down in the space between a parent and child, what keeps families stuck in the same painful loops, and what repair genuinely looks like — not the big dramatic conversation most parents imagine, but something more ordinary and more profound. In this episode you'll learn: What Emotionally Focused Family Therapy reveals about the attachment signal underneath your child's most challenging behavior — and how that reframe changes everythingHow the parts of you shaped by your own childhood history show up in your hardest parenting moments — and what to do when you recognize that's happeningWhy play is one of the most underestimated tools parents have for rebuilding genuine connection at homeWhat the negative family cycle looks like from the inside — and the first thing that has to shift to interrupt itWhat repair actually looks like in EFFT — and why it is always possible, even after years of disconnectionWhat Stephanie would say to the parent who is lying awake tonight convinced they are messing up their childTopics: Emotionally Focused Family Therapy · EFFT · EFT for families · parent guilt · parenting shame · parts work and parenting · IFS parenting · play therapy at home · child attachment · parent-child reconnection · family cycles · parenting triggers · emotional regulation for parents · repair after yelling · gentle parenting · peaceful parenting · conscious parenting · attachment parenting · parenting burnout · connection over correction Guest: Stephanie Chimienti, RP, MA — Registered Psychotherapist, Counselling & Co. Trained in Emotionally Focused Family Therapy, play therapy, and parts work 🎓 Ready to go deeper? Yelling to Connecting — Michelle's 7-week online parenting course helps you find and uproot the real blocks keeping you stuck so you can respond to your kids with more calm, connection, and less shame. ✨ Free Guided Pause + Regroup: [your link] 🌐 compassionateheartmindfullife.com This content is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment. Compassionate Heart Mindful Life does not provide psychotherapy services. Where to reach Stephanie  https://www.counsellingandco.com/stephanie-chimienti https://www.instagram.com/stephanie.psychotherapy/ https://www.instagram.com/counselling_and_co/ Join me each week for a tail from the trenches of parenting burnout and how I (and you) can use mindfulness, mediation and self-compassion to find your inner calm and a little more sanity in your parenting. You’ll get a story from my heart and a quick win you can use the same day. A free gift for you: the RAGE Break, a free guided audio pause for when you are about to lose or have just lost it with your kids and you need a moment to regroup. Find the audio download in the links. I created the Rage Break because it is exactly what I needed when I was struggling with anger and yelling in parenting.  This story was brought to you by “Yelling to Connecting.”  If you or someone you know struggles with yelling at your kids, losing it, or being constantly on edge this course will be a helpful tool.  A reminder: This content is intended for educational purposes only and should not be used as a replacement for private psychotherapy services. Compassionate Heart Mindful Life does not provide psychotherapy services in any capacity. I am a therapist but I am not your therapist and this is not therapy and should not be a substitute for mental health treatment. If you need mental health treatment please find a qualified professional in your area. __________________________________________ ...

    How to Repair with Your Kiddo (Emotionally Focused Family Therapy Tools) — with Stephanie Chimient
  8. Jun 4

    What It Really Takes to Go From Reactive to Regulated — Guest Sarah Rosensweet

    You believe in peaceful parenting.  You’ve done the reading. You know that connection comes before correction, that empathy matters, that your child’s behavior is a signal—not a problem. And then the moment comes…  and none of it is accessible to you. If that gap between knowing and doing feels like the story of your parenting life, this episode is going to land somewhere important. Michelle sits down with Sarah Rosensweet—certified peaceful parenting coach, founder of Reimagine Peaceful Parenting, host of the top-rated Peaceful Parenting Podcast, and a mom of three whose children have genuinely grown up with this philosophy—to get honest about what peaceful parenting actually requires. Not the theory.  The real, inside work that makes the theory possible to use when it counts. Sarah has spent over a decade coaching thousands of parents through this exact gap. She brings both deep practical wisdom and the long view that only comes from having parented all the way through. In this episode, you’ll learn:  Why peaceful parenting is an inside job—and how that reframes the search for the “right” technique  What’s really happening neurologically and emotionally when you can’t access your calm in the moment  What needs to shift internally for regulation to become lasting—not just available on good days  The fear underneath a non-punitive approach—and how to hold empathy and limits at the same time  What Sarah knows now after raising three children that she couldn’t have known in the early years  What she would say to the parent who feels miles away from who they want to be Topics: peaceful parenting · gentle parenting · conscious parenting · parenting triggers · emotional regulation for parents · reactive parenting · mom rage · parenting shame · connection over control · non-punitive parenting · parenting burnout · yelling and parenting · attachment parenting · inside-out parenting · Hand in Hand Parenting · Janet Lansbury · Dr. Laura Markham Guest: Sarah Rosensweet Certified peaceful parenting coach Founder, Reimagine Peaceful Parenting 🎙️ The Peaceful Parenting Podcast 🌐 reimaginepeacefulparenting.com 📱 Instagram: @sarahrosensweet 📝 Substack: sarahrosensweet.substack.com 🎓 Ready to go deeper? Yelling to Connecting — Michelle’s 6-week online parenting course for parents who understand the work but need support applying it in real life. ✨ Free Guided Pause + Regroup: [your link]  🌐 compassionateheartmindfullife.com This content is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment. Compassionate Heart Mindful Life does not provide psychotherapy services. Join me each week for a tail from the trenches of parenting burnout and how I (and you) can use mindfulness, mediation and self-compassion to find your inner calm and a little more sanity in your parenting. You’ll get a story from my heart and a quick win you can use the same day. A free gift for you: the RAGE Break, a free guided audio pause for when you are about to lose or have just lost it with your kids and you need a moment to regroup. Find the audio download in the links. I created the Rage Break because it is exactly what I needed when I was struggling with anger and yelling in parenting.  This story was brought to you by “Yelling to Connecting.”  If you or someone you know struggles with yelling at your kids, losing it, or being constantly on edge this course will be a helpful tool.  A reminder: This content is intended for educational purposes only and should not be used as a replacement for private psychotherapy services. Compassionate Heart Mindful Life does not provide psychotherapy services in any capacity. I am a therapist but I am not your therapist and this is not therapy and should not be a substitute for mental health treatment. If you need mental health treatment please find a qualified professional in your area. __________________________________________ ...

    What It Really Takes to Go From Reactive to Regulated — Guest Sarah Rosensweet

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Compassionate Heart Parenting | Peaceful Parenting for Real Life You love your kids deeply — and you still lose it sometimes. You're in the right place. This podcast is for parents who are drawn to gentle parenting, peaceful parenting, conscious parenting, and Hand in Hand Parenting — but who also know how hard it can be to stay calm in the real, messy, overwhelming moments of family life. Hi, I'm Michelle — mom of 3, recovering yeller, and Emotionally Focused Family Therapist. I've been through parent burnout, depression, and anxiety, and I climbed my way out using the very tools I share here. Now I help parents find their inner calm so they can show up the way they actually want to — with patience, connection, and confidence. Each episode gives you: Practical tools to stop yelling and start connectingRelief from parenting shame, guilt, and the feeling you're failingScience-backed strategies rooted in Emotionally Focused Therapy, mindfulness, and self-compassionWays to pause and respond rather than react in your hardest parenting momentsPlayful parenting ideas that strengthen your bond with your childThe deep reminder that you are not alone — and you are a good parentTopics covered include: Gentle parenting tools · conscious parenting · peaceful parenting · Hand in Hand Parenting · parenting with self-compassion · yelling and parenting shame · emotional regulation for parents · parenting burnout · mindful parenting · sibling conflict · setting loving limits · attachment parenting · parenting anxiety · Dr. Laura Markham · Dr. Daniel Siegel · connection before correction This podcast is for you if: You want to parent gently but keep getting stuckYou're exhausted from trying to hold it all together aloneYou want to strengthen your relationship with your child, not just manage their behaviorYou're ready to do the inner work that makes outer calm possible ✨ Free Guided Pause + Regroup:  https://link.innovorise.com/widget/form/Pm5Uy0ezEwvqKxwlL8Ik 🌐 Learn more: https://compassionateheartmindfullife.com/ 🎓 Ready to go deeper? Yelling to Connecting is Michelle's 6-week online parenting course — grounded in science, rooted in compassion, and designed to help you finally yell less and connect more. This content is intended for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment. Compassionate Heart Parenting does not provide psychotherapy services. If you need mental health support, please seek a qualified professional in your area.