Missions Life: Navigating Life, Leadership, and Ministry Abroad

Join Kyle & Heather Farran as they share practical strategies, leadership insights, and encouragement for missionaries, ministry leaders, and faith-based workers. Through engaging interviews and real-life discussions, they explore team dynamics, leadership, cross-cultural living, resilience, raising MKs, and ministry challenges. Serving overseas since 2007 in South Africa, Tanzania, and Portugal, they bring real-world wisdom to help you thrive. Kyle is the Western Europe Regional Director for ABWE and author of Overflowing. Heather serves alongside him in leadership and is a Registered Nurse.

  1. 17h ago

    #39: Leading When the Road is Hard- Bob McNabb

    Leadership in missions can be deeply rewarding—but it can also be difficult, stretching, and sometimes lonely. In this episode of Missions Life, Kyle and Heather sit down with Bob McNabb to talk about what it takes to lead well when the road gets hard. Drawing from his experience working with mission leaders, Bob shares why leadership matters, what often keeps people from stepping into leadership, and what new leaders are often surprised to discover once they take on the role. They also explore the importance of character, competency, courage, resilience, and grit in healthy leadership. Bob identifies key leadership skills that new leaders need to develop and shares practical tools, resources, and lessons that have helped him and others grow. Whether you are currently leading a missionary team, stepping into leadership for the first time, or wondering if leadership might be part of your future, this conversation offers practical wisdom and encouragement for the journey. In this episode, we discuss: ✅ Why the role of a leader is so important✅ What holds people back from becoming team leaders✅ The unexpected challenges of stepping into leadership✅ Why character must come before leadership competency✅ Three key competencies every new leader needs to develop✅ How leaders can grow in courage, resilience, and grit✅ Advice for new leaders✅ How aspiring leaders can prepare now for future opportunities Leadership is not simply about having a title or position. It is about becoming the kind of person who can faithfully lead others—especially when the road is hard. Bob McNabb is the Director of Mission Mentorship at Missio Nexus, where he leads the development of networks that strengthen mentor collaboration, learning, and peer support for mission leaders.  He brings decades of global missions experience, including campus ministry leadership, church planting, missions pastoring, and executive roles in mobilization and leadership development.  Bob earned his D.Min. in Leadership and is the author of Spiritual Multiplication in the Real World.  He also hosts The Field Leaders Podcast, creating space for shared learning and insight for field leadership.  Bob lives in Birmingham, Alabama with his wife Susan and their family. Show notes and links: (in bold) https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/39-leading-when-the-road-is-hard-bob-mcnabb We want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at kfarran@abwe.org with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi, we’d love to hear it. Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

  2. Aug 31

    #38: The Rest of God- Mark Buchanan 

    The Rest of God with Mark BuchananRest can be one of the hardest things for missionaries and ministry leaders to embrace. There is always another person to help, another need to meet, another project to finish, or another problem that needs attention. Busyness can even begin to feel like a sign of faithfulness. But when we continually push forward without stopping, eventually something begins to suffer. In this episode, we talk with author and professor Mark Buchanan about his book The Rest of God and why Sabbath is so important for those serving in ministry and missions. We discuss what Sabbath really means, why God designed us to rest, and what we risk when we refuse to slow down. Mark shares practical insight into how Sabbath can keep us from becoming brittle and breaking under the pressures of life and ministry. We also talk about some of the internal hurdles that make rest difficult, including guilt, feeling lazy, and struggling to trust that things will still get done when we stop. Mark also addresses the practical challenges of creating space for Sabbath in the middle of demanding ministry schedules and cross cultural life. In This Episode, We Cover:✅ What led Mark Buchanan to write The Rest of God✅ What Sabbath is and how we should think about it today✅ Why Sabbath matters to God and why it matters to us✅ The dangers of wearing busyness like a badge of honor✅ How regular rest can keep us from becoming brittle and burned out✅ Internal hurdles that keep missionaries and ministry leaders from resting✅ Practical challenges to building Sabbath into a busy schedule✅ How to overcome guilt and learn to trust God when we stop working✅ Principles for sabbaticals and extended seasons of rest in missions Sabbath is not simply about doing less. It is about learning to trust God, recognizing our limits, and creating space to receive the rest He designed us to need. Developing healthy rhythms of work and rest can help missionaries and ministry leaders remain strong, healthy, and faithful for the long haul. Mark Buchanan is an author and professor who lives between Calgary, Alberta, and Enderby, British Columbia. He is married to Cheryl, and they have three adult children. His writing and teaching have helped Christians think more deeply about spiritual formation, rest, faithfulness, and what it means to live well in the presence of God. Show notes and links: https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/38-the-rest-of-god-mark-buchanan We want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at kfarran@abwe.org with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi, we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

  3. Jul 7

    #37: The Peace Pursuit- Dr. Janeen Davis

    The Peace Pursuit with Dr. Janeen Davis Conflict is one of the hardest parts of missionary life and leadership, but it is also one of the most important areas for growth, healing, and unity. When conflict is ignored, teams suffer. When conflict is handled with humility, clarity, and biblical wisdom, it can become a doorway to deeper trust and stronger ministry. In this episode, we talk with Dr. Janeen Davis about The Peace Pursuit, a practical and biblical process designed to help people move toward one another in the middle of conflict. We discuss why missionaries and missionary leaders need to take conflict seriously, what often holds people back from addressing it, and how cross-cultural ministry adds unique challenges to reconciliation. Dr. Davis shares her own story of discovering Peace Pursuit, explains how the process works, and gives insight into why this approach can be especially helpful in missions, leadership, and cross-cultural ministry settings. We also talk honestly about what to do when the process does not go well and where people can find tools, training, and resources to help them pursue peace. In This Episode, We Cover: ✅ Why conflict resolution matters for missionaries and missionary teams ✅ What keeps people from dealing with conflict directly ✅ Unique challenges missionaries face in cross-cultural conflict ✅ Dr. Janeen Davis’s story and how she first encountered Peace Pursuit ✅ An overview of the Peace Pursuit process, roles, and resources ✅ How Peace Pursuit can help in missions, leadership, and team dynamics ✅ What to do when reconciliation efforts do not go well ✅ Encouragement for those currently walking through conflict Conflict can feel overwhelming, but there is hope. God calls us to pursue peace, and with the right tools, support, and humility, even difficult conversations can become part of His work of restoration. Dr. Davis is a doctor of psychology, marriage and family therapist, and former missionary who has served in cross-cultural ministry since 2007. She is a specialist in global member care and supervised a Member Care team that supported over 1,000 ministry workers. Through her company, Purpose & Peace Solutions, she delivers counseling and member care services and provides trainings on healthy teaming, biblical conflict resolution, and organizational health. Dr. Davis frequently speaks at conferences and retreats, and is known for her captivating, humorous style and her compelling integration of psychological insight and biblical wisdom in member care and ministry leadership. We want to hear from you! Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode? Send us a message at kfarran@abwe.org with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farran Whether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it. Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

  4. Jun 2

    #36: Third Culture Kids- Ruth E. Van Reken

    What does it mean to grow up “among worlds”? In this episode of Missions Life, we talk with Ruth E. Van Reken, co-author of Third Culture Kids: Growing Up Among Worlds, about the unique joys, challenges, strengths, and hidden griefs that often shape the lives of missionary kids and other globally mobile children. For many missionary families, cross-cultural life gives children incredible gifts: a broader worldview, cultural adaptability, deep empathy, and the ability to become bridge-builders between people and places. But repeated transitions, unresolved grief, identity questions, and the constant cycle of hellos and goodbyes can also leave lasting marks. Ruth helps us understand how parents can better recognize the needs of their Third Culture Kids, walk with them through loss, help them build a healthy sense of identity and belonging, and prepare them for re-entry into their passport culture. In This Episode, We Cover: ✅ What a Third Culture Kid is and why their experience is unique ✅ The advantages and hidden costs of growing up cross-culturally ✅ How repeated transitions can affect children long term ✅ Why unresolved grief is so common for TCKs and their parents ✅ Helping kids process goodbyes in healthy ways ✅ How to answer the question, “Where are you from?” ✅ The “migratory instinct” and the struggle to feel settled ✅ Uneven maturity in TCKs and what parents need to understand ✅ Common relational patterns caused by frequent moves ✅ Preparing children for reverse culture shock and re-entry ✅ How TCKs can become leaders, teachers, and bridge-builders ✅ Encouragement for missionary parents in hard seasons overseas Whether you are raising missionary kids, preparing to move overseas, supporting a globally mobile family, or are an adult TCK yourself, this conversation offers wisdom, compassion, and practical help for navigating life across cultures. Show notes and links: https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/36-third-culture-kids-ruth-e-van-reken We want to hear from you! Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode? Send us a message at kfarran@abwe.org with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farran Whether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it. Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

  5. May 5

    #35: Chasing Contentment- Erik Raymond

    Contentment can feel almost impossible in a world that constantly trains us to compare, complain, and chase after the next thing. In this episode of Missions Life: Navigating Life, Leadership, and Ministry Abroad, we talk with Erik Raymond, pastor in Boston and author of Chasing Contentment, about what true Christian contentment looks like and how believers can learn to rest in God in both blessing and hardship. Erik helps us think biblically about grumbling, complaining, envy, hardship, church community, and the deeper battle taking place in the heart. We also talk about the difference between Stoic self-reliance and Christian contentment, which is rooted in the strength, goodness, and sufficiency of God. In This Episode, We Cover: ✅ Where the idea for Chasing Contentment came from ✅ Why contentment is more than simply “being okay” with hard circumstances ✅ How grumbling and complaining reveal what we believe about God ✅ Why discontentment often comes from believing false promises ✅ How trials can become tools God uses to train us in godliness ✅ Why both blessing and affliction can expose our hearts ✅ How the church can move beyond superficial gathering and stir one another toward contentment ✅ How compassion, rather than envy, helps us respond when unbelievers prosper Key Themes: Spiritual Resilience & Personal Growth in MissionsContentment is not passive resignation. It is a learned strength that grows as we trust God in the middle of real hardship, unanswered questions, and daily pressures. Leadership & Team DynamicsGrumbling and comparison can quietly shape the culture of a team, church, or ministry. Learning contentment helps leaders model trust, gratitude, and spiritual maturity. Cross-Cultural Ministry & AdaptationMissionary life often exposes discontentment through transition, loss, unmet expectations, and comparison. This conversation offers practical encouragement for resting in God when life and ministry do not look the way we expected. Missionary Family Life & MarriageContentment affects how we respond to our spouse, children, teammates, churches, and circumstances. It shapes the tone of the home and the health of our relationships. Episode Encouragement: Christian contentment is not found by pretending life is easy. It is learned by seeing God clearly, trusting His goodness, and resting in His care even when circumstances are painful or confusing. Erik Raymond is the pastor of Redeemer Fellowship Church in Boston. He is also the author of a number of books, including Chasing Contentment. We want to hear from you! Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode? Send us a message at kfarran@abwe.org with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farran Whether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it. Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

  6. Mar 3

    #33: Godly Grit: How to Be Unshakable When Bad News Hits

    Godly Grit: Unshakable Resilience and Grit for Life and Leadership launches today—in this episode we’re talking about how to stay steady when life gets hard and bad news hits. What if hard seasons didn’t have to shake you to the core? In Psalm 112, God gives us a picture of the person who is steady, calm, and unafraid—even when bad news comes. In this episode, we talk about how Godly Grit grows when we stop expecting life to be easy and start building our life on the One who never moves. “In the world you will have tribulation.” (John 16:33). “For the righteous will never be moved… He is not afraid of bad news; his heart is firm, trusting in the LORD. His heart is steady; he will not be afraid…” (Psalm 112:6–8). “I have set the LORD always before me; because he is at my right hand, I shall not be shaken” (Psalm 16:8). In This Episode, We Cover: ✅ Why expecting “easy” sets us up for discouragement and quitting ✅ What it means to be unshakable (and how resilience is different than being shaken) ✅ Psalm 112: the marks of a steady heart that doesn’t fear bad news ✅ How fear is often rooted in comfort, control, and wanting to know the plan ✅ Why real faith isn’t trusting a plan—it’s trusting a Person ✅ A story about a charging rhino (and what it taught us about trusting God) ✅ How your response to challenges can make God look big to the people watching View Godly Grit on Amazon Show notes and links: https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/33-godly-grit-how-to-be-unshakable-when-bad-news-hits We want to hear from you! Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode? Send us a message at kfarran@abwe.org with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farran Whether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it. ​ Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life: Navigating Life, Leadership, and Ministry Abroad!

  7. Feb 3

    #32: Grounded In The Word: How To Endure Faithfully- E.D. Burns

    In this episode, we talk with E.D. Burns about why being deeply grounded in Scripture is essential for missionaries who want to endure faithfully for the long haul. Drawing from his book The Missionary-Theologian, Evan challenges common assumptions about preparation, ministry methods, and success in missions, pointing us back to a Word-centered vision shaped by theology rather than trends or results.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ The central message of the book and why theology matters for everyday ministry on the field✅ The dangers of shaping ministry methods around culture, trends, or measurable results instead of Scripture✅ What modern missionaries and everyday Christians can learn from the Word-centered lives of Adoniram and Ann Judson✅ How missionary methods reveal underlying theology—and practical ways to evaluate whether our approaches flow from biblical convictions or pressure for quick outcomes✅ Preparing the heart to endure suffering, weakness, and hardship without losing joy, hope, or faithfulnessThis conversation is a timely reminder that lasting fruit in missions does not come from clever strategies, but from leaders who are immersed in the Word, anchored in sound doctrine, and willing to endure faithfully for God’s glory.E.D. Burns is the executive director for training and development at ABWE, and  also directs the MA in Cultural Apologetics at Founders Seminary. He is on faculty at Asia Biblical Theological Seminary, and he and his family live in a small hilltribe village in Northern Thailand, where he works with training and translating materials into hilltribe languages.We want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at kfarran@abwe.org with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.​Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life: Navigating Life, Leadership, and Ministry Abroad!

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Join Kyle & Heather Farran as they share practical strategies, leadership insights, and encouragement for missionaries, ministry leaders, and faith-based workers. Through engaging interviews and real-life discussions, they explore team dynamics, leadership, cross-cultural living, resilience, raising MKs, and ministry challenges. Serving overseas since 2007 in South Africa, Tanzania, and Portugal, they bring real-world wisdom to help you thrive. Kyle is the Western Europe Regional Director for ABWE and author of Overflowing. Heather serves alongside him in leadership and is a Registered Nurse.

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