THANKS for doing that

Heather Winchell

A podcast CELEBRATING people and ideas that make this world a better place by exploring the things we do, the reasons we do them, and why IT MATTERS.

  1. He Is Still Good: Holding Grief with Hopeful Lament

    4D AGO

    He Is Still Good: Holding Grief with Hopeful Lament

    Grief doesn’t just hurt — it rearranges a person. In this episode, host Heather Winchell is joined by writer and counselor Kirsten Black, who invites listeners into honest conversation about grief, suffering, and the faithful wrestle of believing God is good when life doesn’t feel kind. Kirsten shares how writing became both a lifeline and a way of shepherding others through sorrow after the loss of her son, Ezra. Together, they talk about the difference between having a theology of suffering and actually walking through it, why “not grieving as those without hope” doesn’t mean grief gets smaller, and how the kindest thing someone can do for a grieving friend is often simply be present. The conversation also gets practical: boundaries with the news, the “bullseye” of emotional energy, solitude and silence as healing, and what it looks like to extend grace when people grieve in very different ways. In this episode: How Kirsten’s writing began (nonprofit blog ➝ CaringBridge during Ezra’s leukemia journey)What it means to wrestle with God and stay tethered to hope“Theology of suffering” vs. being met by Jesus in sufferingThe question underneath the question: worshiping God for who He is vs. what He doesGrief with hope ≠ less grief (it’s grief that isn’t hopeless)The “bullseye” framework for emotional energy and why boundaries are lovingTools for grieving: solitude, silence, reading when prayer feels impossibleHelping others: cling like Ruth, don’t lecture like Job’s friendsWhen grief styles collide in families (looking back vs. looking forward)Recommended resources: Seasons of Sorrow — Tim ChalliesPiercing Heaven (Puritan prayers in modern language)Gentle and Lowly — Dane OrtlundShout-out (Thanks for Doing That) Patrick Richardson — illustrator/designer IG: @januarybeganCatch more of the story @thanks.for.doing.that.podcast!

    47 min
  2. When Words Aren't Enough: Storied Art That Holds Out Hope

    JAN 7

    When Words Aren't Enough: Storied Art That Holds Out Hope

    Northern Colorado artist Jessica Kuddes (JMK) creates one-of-a-kind paintings that feel like windows into redemption—visual “spiritual landscapes” that hold out hope when life is hard. In this conversation, we talk about protected margin, art born from grief, and why imagery can carry us when words can’t.  She challenges my conviction that play doh should never be mixed (but really, how many shades of brown can you make?!?) and talks about how early influences shaped her belief that she is an artist and using that gift matters. In this episode: Jessica Kuddes (JMK) shares how protected margin has shaped both her family life and her creative workThe early influences that formed her as an artist—from color-mixing with Play-Doh to mentors who named her gifts before she believed themWhy much of her art begins with asking God for a picture of a “spiritual landscape”How grief and trauma transformed her relationship with creativity—and why imagery can carry us when words can’tA behind-the-scenes look at a commissioned painting that became a lived reminder of the both/and nature of lifeThe core values behind her work: connection, hope, beauty, and trust that God multiplies small acts of faithHow writing becomes necessary when an idea is “too complex for a two-dimensional image”The story of a Philippians 3–inspired piece that unexpectedly accompanied a friend through betrayal and rebuildingWhy Jessica believes hope doesn’t erase pain—but meets us inside itMentioned in the episode: Colossians 1:24–27 (ESV)  Philippians 3:7–14 (ESV)  Itzhak Perlman — “Greatest Hits (Spotify listing)  Catch more of the story @thanks.for.doing.that.podcast!

    53 min
  3. From Hutch to Household Name: The Rise of Baker Aaker

    12/03/2025

    From Hutch to Household Name: The Rise of Baker Aaker

    Since launching her cottage bakery earlier this year, Tori Aaker has been delighting Northern Colorado with sourdough loaves, cinnamon rolls, baking mixes, and what many now call the best chocolate chip cookie they’ve ever had - aka "The Number One". Around here, most people don’t even say “Tori” anymore—they just say Baker Aaker. In this cozy conversation, Heather and Tori talk about what a cottage bakery actually is, how Tori set up her porch hutch, and why her background in photography, design, and branding made it easier to launch quickly. They also get honest about pricing homemade goods, baking at altitude, the joy of feeding people, and the freedom to try things without having to stick with them forever. Whether you’re a home baker, a small business dreamer, or just someone who loves a good cookie, this episode is a warm invitation to try, taste, and enjoy the season you’re in. In this episode, we talk about: What a cottage bakery is and how the Colorado cottage food law works for home bakersHow Tori’s upbringing—watching her mom cook for hundreds at church events—shaped her love of serving people through foodThe story behind the now-famous “number one cookie” and the neighbor who insisted she start selling itWhy the biggest challenge isn’t always pricing, but deciding how much to bake and what sizes to sellBaking at altitude in Colorado (including Tori’s tip to slightly reduce butter in cookies so they don’t spread)The hidden time cost of cookies versus other baked goodsTori’s favorite kitchen tools, including those magnetic measuring spoons and restaurant-style sheet pans with lidsHow her background in photography, branding, and web design made Baker Aaker quicker and easier to launchThe emotional side of pricing your work and facing imposter syndrome when you sell what you can “just make at home”Tori’s fast-start personality, why she’s had multiple businesses, and her permission slip to stop something when it’s no longer right for your seasonEncouragement for kid (and grown-up) bakers: reading the recipe, trying again when it doesn’t work, and learning from mistakesWhere to find Tori / Baker Aaker: Website: bakeraaker.com Instagram: @bakeraaker Catch more of the story @thanks.for.doing.that.podcast!

    39 min
  4. 12,000 and counting: The Mission and Story of Faircloth

    11/19/2025

    12,000 and counting: The Mission and Story of Faircloth

    In this heartfelt episode of Thanks for Doing That, Heather chats with the inspiring husband-and-wife team, Marissa and Chris, the founders of the Nashville Blanket Project. From their cozy Airbnb hosting experience to the mission-driven journey of creating beautiful blankets that give back, their story is one of compassion and community. Learn how they turned a simple idea into a thriving social enterprise that donates a blanket for every one sold (12,000 to date!), providing warmth and comfort to those in need across Nashville. Marissa and Chris share: The origins of the Nashville Blanket Project and its evolution into FairclothHow they balance family life and running a business togetherThe impact of community partnerships and the power of giving backInsights into their creative process for designing unique, cozy blanketsExciting plans for expanding their offerings and mission in the futureJoin us for a conversation that celebrates the spirit of giving, creativity, and the importance of community support. Don’t miss out on the chance to keep Nashville cozy! Faircloth (formerly Nashville Blanket Project) Website → getfaircloth.com AirBNB  →  https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/47872359?source_impression_id=p3_1762455662_P3gbM0bzQ-HgK45G Instagram → @getfaircloth Wholesale → fair.com (search “Faircloth”) Custom blankets → info available at getfaircloth.com Nonprofit partner: People Loving Nashville → peoplelovingnashville.com The Ethos Market — collective of local social enterprises → theethosmarket.com Strings for Hope → stringsforhope.com Cement Six → cementsix.com Thistle Farms → thistlefarms.org The Well Coffeehouse → wellcoffeehouse.com Books Mentioned: Snake Oil by Becca Stevens Start Something That Matters by Blake Mycoskie Three Cups of Tea by Greg Mortenson & David Oliver Relin Building a StoryBrand by Donald Miller Places Mentioned: Sky Blue Café (Nashville) Get Along / Scout Baby Collective (Nashville) Catch more of the story @thanks.for.doing.that.podcast!

    43 min
  5. Every Moment, Holy: Douglas McKelvey on Creating for the Common Good

    10/15/2025

    Every Moment, Holy: Douglas McKelvey on Creating for the Common Good

    In this craft-rich conversation, writer and lyricist Douglas McKelvey shares the winding path that led to Every Moment Holy, why Volume Two (grief, death, and hope) was formed in community, and how he thinks about vocation through a Kingdom economy—serving real people first. He previews his next book: a young-adult-focused collection (late HS through mid-20s) with longtime illustrator Ned Bustard. We also talk about the Art House in the ‘90s, Rabbit Room, and what it means to “mourn with those who mourn” while keeping hold of joy. Plus a fun closer: Doug invents a Chesterton-inspired coffee drink (“The Father Brown”). You’ll hear about: The loaves-and-fishes posture in what you bringHow community shapes our livesWhy joy and sorrow don’t cancel each other outA forthcoming EMH book crafted for young adults entering adulthoodServing your community vs. chasing what sellsMentioned in this episode: Every Moment Holy, Vols. 1–3 — Rabbit Room PressNew EMH for young adults (forthcoming; with artist Ned Bustard)The Art House (Charlie Peacock & Andi Ashworth)Book: Adorning the Dark — Andrew PetersonBook: Why Everything That Doesn’t Matter Matters So Much — Charlie Peacock & Andi AshworthAuthors mentioned: G.K. Chesterton, C.S. Lewis, J.R.R. Tolkien, Susanna Clarke (Jonathan Strange & Mr Norrell)Book: Lament for a Son — Nicholas WolterstorffHelp The Persecuted (Doug’s shout-out)Catch more of the story @thanks.for.doing.that.podcast!

    1h 14m
5
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30 Ratings

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A podcast CELEBRATING people and ideas that make this world a better place by exploring the things we do, the reasons we do them, and why IT MATTERS.