Rooted & Rising: Stories of Transformation, Intuition, and Soul-Led Healing

Tara Mychelle
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Formerly the Intuitive Mentor Mom Podcast, now Rooted & Rising is a space for those ready to stop living life on autopilot and start living it by design. Hosted by Tara Mychelle — woman, mother, entrepreneur, friend, daughter, corporate professional, and energy practitioner — this podcast is born from the roots of challenge and the rise of self-discovery. Here, we explore the truth that life isn’t happening to us, it’s happening for us. When we release the victim within, we reclaim our power as the hero of our own story. Through healing and transformation, we create an inner world so rich and aligned that our outer world naturally reflects it. With personal stories, raw reflections, and inspiring conversations, each episode invites you to deepen your roots in self-awareness, self-love, and truth — and rise into your fullest self-expression. Together, we’ll explore everything from love, relationships, and parenting to health, spirituality, and the courage it takes to live fully awake. This is your invitation to heal, transform, and create a life you love — from the inside out. Get rooted. Rise high. And live the story you were born to tell. https://www.souldspaces.com/https://www.taramychelle.com/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXAqUOQmXbileD1LA-JE83Q

  1. 52: High-Functioning Survival Mode: Job Anxiety, Relationship Fear & the Illusion of Safety

    4D AGO

    52: High-Functioning Survival Mode: Job Anxiety, Relationship Fear & the Illusion of Safety

    Send a text Let’s say it plainly. The fear of being fired. The fear of being left. The fear of losing income. The fear of losing love. Different scenes. Same root. In this episode of Rooted & Rising, Tara calls out the quiet survival pattern driving high performers and deep feelers alike. When fear runs the system: • You overwork to stay valuable • You overgive to stay chosen • You edit your truth to stay secure • You live bracing for loss It looks like responsibility. It feels like control. It is survival mode. This conversation dives into job insecurity, workplace anxiety, abandonment fear, and the illusion of external safety — and what shifts when you stop building your life around “don’t lose.” Because a life built around not losing is very different from a life built on purpose. If you’re ready to stop living on edge and start standing rooted, this episode is for you. Support the show 🌿 Done Negotiating with Almost? You don’t need better luck. You need better standards. F*CK ALMOST is your guide to recognizing emotional limbo, breaking the pattern of ambiguity, and choosing clearly in love, work, and life. Inside you’ll learn how to: • Stop interpreting mixed signals • Stop softening your needs • Stop confusing intensity with alignment • Set standards without apology • Leave sooner when something isn’t fully aligned This is not about chasing commitment. It’s about becoming unavailable for almost. Fully chosen starts with fully deciding. 👉 You can explore the guide here: F*CK ALMOST - Your Guide to be Fully Chosen in Love, Work & Self Worth Whether you’re ready to take that step now or simply sit with what surfaced today, trust this: You’re not here to live in limbo. You’re not here to shrink yourself to fit into someone else’s maybe. You’re here to be rooted. And you’re here to rise. Support the show If you love the show, become a supporter! Looking for confirmation, guidance, or support in an area of life where you feel stuck, stagnant, or simply unclear of what ...

    18 min
  2. 51: Ready to Get Out of a Situationship? How to Stop Waiting & Choose Commitment

    FEB 8

    51: Ready to Get Out of a Situationship? How to Stop Waiting & Choose Commitment

    Send a text Are you stuck in a situationship and wondering why insight hasn’t been enough to break the pattern? In this final episode of the Situationship Series, Tara explores why understanding the cycle doesn’t always lead to change — and where rooted choice actually begins. This episode goes beyond dating advice to uncover the deeper reasons people stay in “almost” relationships: emotional safety, pre-rejection, and the quiet hope that clarity will come later. You’ll learn why situationships aren’t about bad timing, why waiting can feel safer than choosing, and what truly shifts when commitment becomes possible — internally and externally. If you’re tired of waiting to be chosen, over-explaining your needs, or feeling stuck in emotional ambiguity, this conversation offers a grounded path forward. This episode completes the situationship conversation and opens a new one — focused on safety, embodiment, and choosing yourself fully in relationships, work, and life. 🎧 Listen now — and take the next step with the guide linked in the show notes. 🌿 Ready to Go Deeper? If this resonated, and you recognize yourself in the pattern of almost relationships, I created something to support you beyond this post. My e-guide, From Almost There to All the Way, walks you through: Why situationships feel so hard to leaveHow nervous system patterns keep you attached to uncertaintyThe hidden payoffs that keep “almost” relationships aliveHow to rebuild self-trust and choose clarity without abandoning yourselfThis isn’t about forcing commitment. It’s about coming home to yourself—so commitment becomes natural, mutual, and grounded. 👉 You can explore the guide here: From Almost There to All the Way: A bold guide to ending Situationships and choosing Commitment Whether you’re ready to take that step now or simply sit with what surfaced today, trust this: You’re not here to live in limbo. You’re not here to shrink yourself to fit into someone else’s maybe. You’re here to be rooted. And you’re here to rise. Support the show 🌿 Done Negotiating with Almost? You don’t need better luck. You need better standards. F*CK ALMOST is your guide to recognizing emotional limbo, breaking the pattern of ambiguity, and choosing clearly in love, work, and life. Inside you’ll learn how to: • Stop interpreting mixed signals • Stop softening your needs • Stop confusing intensity with alignment • Set standards without apology • Leave sooner when something isn’t fully aligned This is not about chasing commitment. It’s about becoming unavailable for almost. Fully chosen starts with fully deciding. 👉 You can explore the guide here: F*CK ALMOST - Your Guide to be Fully Chosen in Love, Work & Self Worth Whether you’re ready to take that step now or simply sit with what surfaced today, trust this: You’re not here to live in limbo. You’re not here to shrink yourself to fit into someone else’s maybe. You’re here to be rooted. And you’re here to rise. Support the show If you love the show, become a supporter! Looking for confirmation, guidance, or support in an area of life where you feel stuck, stagnant, or simply unclear of what ...

    17 min
  3. 50: Situationships (Ep.5) When Faith Becomes Waiting: Situationships, Divine Timing, and Choosing Clarity

    FEB 1

    50: Situationships (Ep.5) When Faith Becomes Waiting: Situationships, Divine Timing, and Choosing Clarity

    Send a text When Faith Becomes Waiting: Situationships, Divine Timing, and Choosing Clarity Situationships often don’t end because something is wrong — they continue because faith quietly turns into waiting. In this episode of Rooted & Rising, Tara explores how spiritual language like “trusting divine timing”, “surrender”, and “having faith” can unintentionally keep people stuck in unclear relationships. When clarity is avoided in the name of patience, situationships thrive — not because love is present, but because choosing feels risky. This conversation is for anyone navigating a situationship, waiting for commitment, or questioning whether faith has become a way to avoid asking for what they truly need. Tara breaks down the difference between grounded faith and fear-based waiting, how the nervous system learns to tolerate “almost” relationships, and why asking for clarity is an act of self-trust — not control. Listeners will explore: Why situationships often hide behind spiritual languageHow “divine timing” can become emotional avoidanceThe difference between surrender and self-abandonmentWhy clarity strengthens relationships — or reveals the truthHow choosing yourself restores sovereignty and peaceThis episode invites you to stop spiritualizing uncertainty and start honoring your needs with grounded faith, self-trust, and clarity. 🌿 Ready to Go Deeper? If this resonated, and you recognize yourself in the pattern of almost relationships, I created something to support you beyond this post. My e-guide, From Almost There to All the Way, walks you through: Why situationships feel so hard to leaveHow nervous system patterns keep you attached to uncertaintyThe hidden payoffs that keep “almost” relationships aliveHow to rebuild self-trust and choose clarity without abandoning yourselfThis isn’t about forcing commitment. It’s about coming home to yourself—so commitment becomes natural, mutual, and grounded. 👉 You can explore the guide here: Support the show 🌿 Done Negotiating with Almost? You don’t need better luck. You need better standards. F*CK ALMOST is your guide to recognizing emotional limbo, breaking the pattern of ambiguity, and choosing clearly in love, work, and life. Inside you’ll learn how to: • Stop interpreting mixed signals • Stop softening your needs • Stop confusing intensity with alignment • Set standards without apology • Leave sooner when something isn’t fully aligned This is not about chasing commitment. It’s about becoming unavailable for almost. Fully chosen starts with fully deciding. 👉 You can explore the guide here: F*CK ALMOST - Your Guide to be Fully Chosen in Love, Work & Self Worth Whether you’re ready to take that step now or simply sit with what surfaced today, trust this: You’re not here to live in limbo. You’re not here to shrink yourself to fit into someone else’s maybe. You’re here to be rooted. And you’re here to rise. Support the show If you love the show, become a supporter! Looking for confirmation, guidance, or support in an area of life where you feel stuck, stagnant, or simply unclear of what ...

    19 min
  4. 49: Situationships (Ep4): Expecting the No | The Pre-Rejection Pattern Keeping You in Situationships

    JAN 25

    49: Situationships (Ep4): Expecting the No | The Pre-Rejection Pattern Keeping You in Situationships

    Send a text Have you ever told yourself “I’m not getting my hopes up,” “I’m just going with the flow,” or “If it’s meant to be, it will be”? In this episode of Rooted & Rising, Tara Mychelle names the quiet sabotage pattern that keeps so many people stuck in situationships: pre-rejection—rejecting yourself before anyone else can. You’ll learn what “expecting the no” sounds like, how it shows up (softening your needs, reading silence as rejection, staying guarded when things are good, choosing emotionally unavailable partners), and why it can feel safer to stay in uncertainty than to risk real clarity. Tara also shares a science-backed lens on rejection sensitivity and how the brain can become hyper-alert to social threat—then gives you a simple weekly practice: The Pre-Rejection Audit, to start choosing from clarity instead of fear. If you’re ready to stop settling for “almost,” this is your next step. Get the e-guide: From Almost There to All the Way (linked here). Educational content only. Not therapy or medical advice. Science Corner (sources): Brain imaging research using social exclusion paradigms (e.g., Cyberball) finds that rejection and exclusion reliably engage regions involved in distress and threat monitoring, including the anterior/dorsal cingulate and anterior insula. Find link here  Individual differences matter: higher rejection sensitivity and attachment anxiety have been linked to stronger neural responses to social disapproval and exclusion. Find link here Studies also show that simply anticipating social feedback can activate the brain’s monitoring/alarm systems—meaning we can start “bracing” before anything happens. Find link here (Note: overlap between social rejection and physical pain networks is supported in parts of the Support the show 🌿 Done Negotiating with Almost? You don’t need better luck. You need better standards. F*CK ALMOST is your guide to recognizing emotional limbo, breaking the pattern of ambiguity, and choosing clearly in love, work, and life. Inside you’ll learn how to: • Stop interpreting mixed signals • Stop softening your needs • Stop confusing intensity with alignment • Set standards without apology • Leave sooner when something isn’t fully aligned This is not about chasing commitment. It’s about becoming unavailable for almost. Fully chosen starts with fully deciding. 👉 You can explore the guide here: F*CK ALMOST - Your Guide to be Fully Chosen in Love, Work & Self Worth Whether you’re ready to take that step now or simply sit with what surfaced today, trust this: You’re not here to live in limbo. You’re not here to shrink yourself to fit into someone else’s maybe. You’re here to be rooted. And you’re here to rise. Support the show If you love the show, become a supporter! Looking for confirmation, guidance, or support in an area of life where you feel stuck, stagnant, or simply unclear of what ...

    22 min
  5. 48: Situationship (Ep.3) | Why You Keep Choosing Situationships (The Hidden Payoff of “Almost There”)

    JAN 18

    48: Situationship (Ep.3) | Why You Keep Choosing Situationships (The Hidden Payoff of “Almost There”)

    Send a text Why do we keep choosing “almost there” relationships—close, but not chosen… intimate, but not committed… full of chemistry, but low on clarity? In Episode 3 of the Situationships series, we name the truth most of us avoid: “almost there” isn’t random — it’s strategic. Not because you’re broken, but because your nervous system learned to survive inside uncertainty. Today we’re exposing the hidden payoff that keeps you in limbo: the way ambiguity can protect you from rejection, keep you in control, and save you from the vulnerability of being fully seen… and fully received. And we’re grounding it in real science, too: how reward prediction error and unpredictable “hits” of attention can condition your brain to stay hooked on inconsistencyhow attachment anxiety can heighten sensitivity to rejection cueswhy chronic stress patterns can make calm feel unfamiliar at firstThen we pivot into the shift: practical steps to stop bonding with potential, set your clarity clock, and choose relationships that are rooted, steady, and true. If you’re ready to go deeper, my eGuide From Almost There To All The Way is linked in the show notes — it’s the guided process to end situationships and start choosing commitment. Reflection question for you: What scares you more — being rejected… or being fully chosen? In this episode Why “almost there” relationships aren’t an accident — they’re a compromiseThe 5 hidden payoffs that keep you in limbo (rejection, control, intimacy avoidance, not having to choose back, conditioning)Why hot-and-cold attention can feel addictive (and what the brain is doing)How to shift out of ambiguity with standards, evidence, and a clarity clockA reflection prompt to tell the truth without shameYour next right step The Clarity Clock: Decide the maximum amount of time you’ll stay in ambiguity before you ask for clarity — and honor your answer. Reflection question: (DM Me or Comment) Pick one: Support the show 🌿 Done Negotiating with Almost? You don’t need better luck. You need better standards. F*CK ALMOST is your guide to recognizing emotional limbo, breaking the pattern of ambiguity, and choosing clearly in love, work, and life. Inside you’ll learn how to: • Stop interpreting mixed signals • Stop softening your needs • Stop confusing intensity with alignment • Set standards without apology • Leave sooner when something isn’t fully aligned This is not about chasing commitment. It’s about becoming unavailable for almost. Fully chosen starts with fully deciding. 👉 You can explore the guide here: F*CK ALMOST - Your Guide to be Fully Chosen in Love, Work & Self Worth Whether you’re ready to take that step now or simply sit with what surfaced today, trust this: You’re not here to live in limbo. You’re not here to shrink yourself to fit into someone else’s maybe. You’re here to be rooted. And you’re here to rise. Support the show If you love the show, become a supporter! Looking for confirmation, guidance, or support in an area of life where you feel stuck, stagnant, or simply unclear of what ...

    19 min
  6. 47: Situationships (Ep.2) | Fear of Being Safe: Activation vs Connection

    JAN 11

    47: Situationships (Ep.2) | Fear of Being Safe: Activation vs Connection

    Send a text If you’ve been stuck in the space between potential and commitment, this episode is your next layer. In Episode 2 of my “Situationships to Commitment” series, we talk about what nobody warns you about: when you start shifting into something rooted, it doesn’t always feel amazing at first. Sometimes it feels quiet. Slower. Less charged. And that can confuse your nervous system—especially if you’ve spent years equating activation with connection. We’re naming the nervous system truth: why the highs and lows can feel like intimacy, why “bracing” can start to feel like love, and why steady, emotionally available connection can initially register as “boring” or “no spark.” (Spoiler: boring isn’t always a red flag—sometimes it’s the absence of anxiety.) You’ll also get a simple practice to help you discern peace vs numbness, and a powerful question to bring you back to truth: What sensations do you associate with connection—and where did you learn that? ✨ Want to go deeper? My e-guide is linked below: From Almost There to All the Way: A Bold Guide to Ending Situationships and Choosing Commitment (“Super affordable” + built to help you stop cycling and start choosing your truth.) Next episode: We get brutally honest about why we choose “almost there” in the first place—the protection, the pattern, the hidden payoff, and how to shift out of it for real. In this episode, we cover: Why “rooted” can feel quiet (and why quiet can feel scary)Activation vs connection (and how the nervous system gets trained)Why people leave good love and call it “intuition”The difference between peace and numbnessHow to let your body catch up to your truthTry this practice (quick + real): When you’re with someone steady, ask: Do I feel peaceful or numb? Peace feels open + grounded. Numb feels shut down + disconnected. If you feel peace but your mind is searching for a problem, that’s often recalibration—not a warning sign.Reflection question: What sensations do you associat Support the show 🌿 Done Negotiating with Almost? You don’t need better luck. You need better standards. F*CK ALMOST is your guide to recognizing emotional limbo, breaking the pattern of ambiguity, and choosing clearly in love, work, and life. Inside you’ll learn how to: • Stop interpreting mixed signals • Stop softening your needs • Stop confusing intensity with alignment • Set standards without apology • Leave sooner when something isn’t fully aligned This is not about chasing commitment. It’s about becoming unavailable for almost. Fully chosen starts with fully deciding. 👉 You can explore the guide here: F*CK ALMOST - Your Guide to be Fully Chosen in Love, Work & Self Worth Whether you’re ready to take that step now or simply sit with what surfaced today, trust this: You’re not here to live in limbo. You’re not here to shrink yourself to fit into someone else’s maybe. You’re here to be rooted. And you’re here to rise. Support the show If you love the show, become a supporter! Looking for confirmation, guidance, or support in an area of life where you feel stuck, stagnant, or simply unclear of what ...

    16 min
  7. 46: From Situationship to Commitment (Ep.1): Why “Almost There” Keeps Happening

    JAN 4

    46: From Situationship to Commitment (Ep.1): Why “Almost There” Keeps Happening

    Send a text Have you been stuck in “almost there” relationships—close, connected, full of chemistry… but never clear, consistent, or committed? In Episode 1 of Rooted & Rising, I talk about the pattern behind situationships and the deeper truth most people avoid: sometimes it’s not fear of being alone… it’s fear of being fully chosen. In this episode, you’ll hear: What “almost there” actually looks like (and why it’s not neutral)The difference between connection and commitmentHow ambiguity becomes an “escape hatch” for the nervous systemWhy you can “upgrade the packaging”… and still repeat the same cycleA clean boundary for 2026: no more calling “almost” progress✨ Want the step-by-step shift beyond the episode? The Rooted & Rising eGuide is available now: From Almost There To All The Way: A Bold Guide to Ending Situationships and Choosing Commitment — A Rooted & Rising Guide Grab it in the show notes. Next episode: why rooted love can feel unfamiliar (and how to tell the difference between peace and “no chemistry”). Support the show 🌿 Done Negotiating with Almost? You don’t need better luck. You need better standards. F*CK ALMOST is your guide to recognizing emotional limbo, breaking the pattern of ambiguity, and choosing clearly in love, work, and life. Inside you’ll learn how to: • Stop interpreting mixed signals • Stop softening your needs • Stop confusing intensity with alignment • Set standards without apology • Leave sooner when something isn’t fully aligned This is not about chasing commitment. It’s about becoming unavailable for almost. Fully chosen starts with fully deciding. 👉 You can explore the guide here: F*CK ALMOST - Your Guide to be Fully Chosen in Love, Work & Self Worth Whether you’re ready to take that step now or simply sit with what surfaced today, trust this: You’re not here to live in limbo. You’re not here to shrink yourself to fit into someone else’s maybe. You’re here to be rooted. And you’re here to rise. Support the show If you love the show, become a supporter! Looking for confirmation, guidance, or support in an area of life where you feel stuck, stagnant, or simply unclear of what ...

    15 min
  8. 45: Wine as Medicine: Sacred Ritual & Conscious Drinking w/ Sophia Cecilia

    12/21/2025

    45: Wine as Medicine: Sacred Ritual & Conscious Drinking w/ Sophia Cecilia

    Send a text In this episode of Rooted & Rising, we explore wine as medicine, story, and spirit. What if the glass you hold isn’t an escape… but a portal to presence? I’m joined by Sophia Cecilia, a wine professional and shamanic storyteller who bridges natural wine, indigenous wisdom, and ritual to help us remember the sacred inside every bottle.  We talk about wine as ceremony instead of numbing, how alcohol is highly programmable with intention and prayer, and why so much mass-produced alcohol carries the imprint of greed, disconnection, and burnout in the body. Sophia shares how working with small artisanal growers in Europe, volcanic soils, storm energy, and biodynamic practices opened her eyes to wine as a living, elemental ally—not just something to “drink to forget.”  You’ll hear about: Seeing wine as spirit and alchemy, not just alcoholHow intention, blessing, and ritual can change how wine lands in your bodyWhy natural, artisanal wines feel different than industrial alcoholClimate, soil, and planetary rhythms as part of the story in your glassTurning holiday drinking into sacred, conscious celebration instead of self-abandonment If you’re rethinking your relationship with alcohol, curious about natural wine, or craving more intentional rituals in your daily life, this conversation will shift how you pour, taste, and commune. Guest: Sophia Cecilia – wine professional, shamanic storyteller, “speaker for the vines”  find her on IG: @thealchemyofwine Neumeister Wine Host: Tara Mychelle, Rooted & Rising Support the show 🌿 Done Negotiating with Almost? You don’t need better luck. You need better standards. F*CK ALMOST is your guide to recognizing emotional limbo, breaking the pattern of ambiguity, and choosing clearly in love, work, and life. Inside you’ll learn how to: • Stop interpreting mixed signals • Stop softening your needs • Stop confusing intensity with alignment • Set standards without apology • Leave sooner when something isn’t fully aligned This is not about chasing commitment. It’s about becoming unavailable for almost. Fully chosen starts with fully deciding. 👉 You can explore the guide here: F*CK ALMOST - Your Guide to be Fully Chosen in Love, Work & Self Worth Whether you’re ready to take that step now or simply sit with what surfaced today, trust this: You’re not here to live in limbo. You’re not here to shrink yourself to fit into someone else’s maybe. You’re here to be rooted. And you’re here to rise. Support the show If you love the show, become a supporter! Looking for confirmation, guidance, or support in an area of life where you feel stuck, stagnant, or simply unclear of what ...

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Formerly the Intuitive Mentor Mom Podcast, now Rooted & Rising is a space for those ready to stop living life on autopilot and start living it by design. Hosted by Tara Mychelle — woman, mother, entrepreneur, friend, daughter, corporate professional, and energy practitioner — this podcast is born from the roots of challenge and the rise of self-discovery. Here, we explore the truth that life isn’t happening to us, it’s happening for us. When we release the victim within, we reclaim our power as the hero of our own story. Through healing and transformation, we create an inner world so rich and aligned that our outer world naturally reflects it. With personal stories, raw reflections, and inspiring conversations, each episode invites you to deepen your roots in self-awareness, self-love, and truth — and rise into your fullest self-expression. Together, we’ll explore everything from love, relationships, and parenting to health, spirituality, and the courage it takes to live fully awake. This is your invitation to heal, transform, and create a life you love — from the inside out. Get rooted. Rise high. And live the story you were born to tell. https://www.souldspaces.com/https://www.taramychelle.com/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXAqUOQmXbileD1LA-JE83Q

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