Yes, Dear

Patrick and Dana Lyons

Hope for struggling marriages. Feeling alone? Been there. Feeling hopeless? Done that. But you are here now, and that's all about to change.  No matter where you are we can help. We've been to hell and back. Twenty years ago our marriage fell apart. We both visited attorneys, but God had other plans. Now we have the marriage of our dreams and have helped hundreds of couples do the same. We can help you too. 

  1. 5D AGO

    Heroes-Episode 14

    Some weeks are just… a lot.  In this episode of Yes, Dear, we start with jokes about putting each other on “shut the hell up” mode, fighting over the remote, and fantasy football meltdowns—and end up in a really honest conversation about heroes. Not the movie kind. The real-life kind sitting at your dinner table. Patrick shares how one hard week shifted after a simple phone call with our son Chris, and how that reminded him that our kids and a few key people in our lives are truly his heroes. Dana talks about walking through cancer with a “heroes binder” full of photos of the people who kept her going: their five kids, her husband, and her mom. This one is funny, tender, and very real. It’s about the people who hold you together when life feels heavy… and why we should probably tell them more often. In this episode, we talk about: The “shut the hell up” mode we wish our phones had Why it’s so hard to show up on the tough weeksHow a coaching call with our son completely changed Patrick’s moodWhy each of our five kids is a hero in their own wayDana’s cancer journey and the “mindset binder” she built around her heroesFantasy football, Jets fans, puke stories, and subs for dinner (real marriage, real life)If you’re married, a parent, a grandparent, or just someone trying to do life with your people the best you can, this one’s for you. Question for you: Who’s one unsung hero in your life—and do they know it? If this episode made you laugh, think of your people, or feel a little less alone, hit Like, Subscribe, and share it with a friend who needs some encouragement today. #YesDearPodcast #MarriagePodcast #FamilyLife #RealLifeRealMarriage #Heroes Don't forget to FOLLOW us so that you get notified of the latest podcast. Please SHARE it with others who need the encouragement. You can find us on Youtube as well if you prefer watching the video. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5f49ISuP74litB2vX7yzAQ Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE. Website: https://theyesdearpodcast.com Youtube Video Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5f49ISuP74litB2vX7yzAQ Itunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yes-dear/id1747329937

    48 min
  2. NOV 25

    Holidays, Family Drama, & Healthy Boundaries: A Real Conversation-Episode 13

    The holidays are here — which means food, family, expectations, stress, joy, and sometimes… a whole lot of tension. In this episode of the Yes, Dear Podcast, we get real about the messy, funny, challenging, and meaningful parts of navigating the holidays as a couple. From forgotten recordings and outdated vocabulary (“knapsack,” anyone?) to family conflicts, boundaries, grief, and choosing to show up differently this year — we cover it all. We talk about: Why expectations shape every holidayHow to stay grounded when family dynamics get toughWhy old conflicts feel louder during the holidaysThe power of showing up with no “sparring gloves”Healthy boundaries that bring peace, not distanceSeeing each other as teammates instead of opponentsWhat it looks like to leave a holiday saying, “We’re better than we’ve ever been.”Whether your holiday season brings joy, heaviness, tension, or a mix of everything, this episode offers support, perspective, and a whole lot of real-life encouragement. You’re on the same team. You get to hold each other’s hearts. And you get to write a new story this season. Don't forget to FOLLOW us so that you get notified of the latest podcast. Please SHARE it with others who need the encouragement. You can find us on Youtube as well if you prefer watching the video. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5f49ISuP74litB2vX7yzAQ Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE. Website: https://theyesdearpodcast.com Youtube Video Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5f49ISuP74litB2vX7yzAQ Itunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yes-dear/id1747329937

    55 min
  3. NOV 4

    Never Stop Dating-Episode 12

    In this episode of the Yes, Dear Podcast, Dana and Patrick dive into one of the most overlooked (and most needed) parts of marriage, dating your spouse. Whether you’ve been married a few years or a few decades, it’s easy to slip into “robot mode” and forget to intentionally pursue each other. They get real about the rhythms, ruts, and realities of long-term love—how to stoke the fire, rekindle friendship, and keep fun, laughter, and playfulness alive. From scheduling date nights to rediscovering what makes you laugh together, this episode is equal parts truth, humor, and heart. You’ll laugh, nod, and probably feel convicted (in a good way) as they share their own marriage lessons, why “intentional romance” matters, and what happens when work, kids, and life take over. Topics include: Dating your spouse vs. going on a dateWhy friendship is the foundation of romanceHow to stay curious about each otherWhat to do when work and family crowd out connectionAnd why keeping the playfulness alive really mattersReal marriage. Real laughter. Real talk. Hit subscribe, share this with a couple who needs the reminder, and remember… never stop dating. #YesDearPodcast #MarriageMatters #RelationshipGoals #MarriedLife #CouplesWhoLaugh #DateYourSpouse #GritAndGrace #RealTalk #LoveAndLaughter Don't forget to FOLLOW us so that you get notified of the latest podcast. Please SHARE it with others who need the encouragement. You can find us on Youtube as well if you prefer watching the video. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5f49ISuP74litB2vX7yzAQ Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE. Website: https://theyesdearpodcast.com Youtube Video Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5f49ISuP74litB2vX7yzAQ Itunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yes-dear/id1747329937

    47 min

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Hope for struggling marriages. Feeling alone? Been there. Feeling hopeless? Done that. But you are here now, and that's all about to change.  No matter where you are we can help. We've been to hell and back. Twenty years ago our marriage fell apart. We both visited attorneys, but God had other plans. Now we have the marriage of our dreams and have helped hundreds of couples do the same. We can help you too.