Next Third Best Third

David Fenwick

Today is the first day of the rest of your life! Our mission is to ignite hope, vision and passion so your life will impact the world around you. Conquer Life's Stages with Passion, Love, and Adventure. Forge your path through life's Thirds with strength at "Next Third Best Third." Join a brotherhood of men refusing to settle. Discover confidence, authentic connections, and unbreakable camaraderie tailored for your prime. Redefine success, embracing change with true masculinity. Navigate the later stages of life as a conquest. Your prime awaits, conquer it with us.David Fenwick, founder of Next Third Best Third, is an author, life coach, and inspirational speaker. He has a journey that includes pastoring, church planting and entrepreneurship. David's mission is to inspire others to dream, discover their true identity, live with intention, and impact their spheres of influence.Connect with us: https://www.nextthirdbestthird.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/next3rdbest3rd/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/next3rdbest3rdYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyyd2j6cggsLvDTCfLpPjKA

  1. 1D AGO

    099: The Communication Mistake 9 Out of 10 Couples Make (Dr. John Beltramo Explains)

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode, I sit down again with my friend Dr. John Beltramo, clinical psychologist and educator, to tackle something almost every guy I talk to is wrestling with — how do you actually communicate with your spouse, your kids, and the people closest to you when life is squeezing you from every direction? John shared something that stopped me in my tracks: nine times out of ten when couples walk into his office and say "we have a communication problem," it's really not about communication at all. It's about how they handle conflict — and whether they've ever been taught that conflict, done right, is one of the most powerful drivers of emotional intimacy in a relationship. We got into the hard stuff — vulnerability, the risk of exposing yourself to your partner, why men so often get acculturated to mask their hurt with anger, and how the "ghosts of the past" can quietly haunt a marriage if they're never addressed. I opened up about my own journey through a broken marriage, the work I've done to take ownership of my part, and a conversation with my daughter that wrecked me in the best way — when she told me I never taught her how to have healthy conflict, and later, that she liked this version of me better than any other. John walked us through a tool he calls "Inquiry and Invitation" — ask more questions, make fewer statements — and it's a game-changer for anyone who wants to build real emotional safety at home. If you're in the thick of it right now — work, kids, finances, marriage, all of it — this conversation is for you. The goal isn't a conflict-free life. The goal is learning to sit in discomfort with the people you love because they're worth it. Hit subscribe, like, share, and leave a comment — this is the kind of content that helps you make your next third your best third. We're in this together. Chapters: 00:00 — Welcome Back & Introducing Dr. John Beltramo 02:46 — The #1 Issue Couples Bring to Therapy (It's Not What You Think) 05:32 — Vulnerability, Risk & Why Initiation Matters 08:18 — Why Women Initiate Therapy & Men Resist Vulnerability 11:04 — Ghosts of the Past: Revisiting Old Wounds the Healthy Way 13:50 — "You Never Taught Us How to Fight" — A Daughter's Wake-Up Call 16:36 — Modeling Conflict at Home & What Kids Are Really Learning 19:22 — Examining Your Own Culpability & The Gottman Research 22:08 — Inquiry and Invitation: Ask More, State Less 24:54 — Sitting in Discomfort, the Five Pillars & Why Conflict Is Worth It Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on: - Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age. - Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress. - Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships. - Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections. - Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook. Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third! Website: (https://www.nextthirdbestthird.com/)

    28 min
  2. APR 27

    098: Why “Tough Guys” Still Need Vulnerability | Dr. John Beltramo

    Send us Fan Mail Website: drbeltramo.com  Mail: info@drbeltramo.com In this episode of Next Third Best Third, I sit down with Dr. John Beltramo to talk about something many men were never taught how to understand: emotions. We unpack where emotions come from, why anger is often misunderstood, and how men can begin to see emotions as information instead of weakness. I share some of my own story around avoidance, marriage, and learning the hard way that “never fighting” is not always a sign of health. Dr. John explains why anger is not the problem, why behavior matters, and how men can begin building emotional competence by noticing their body, naming what they feel, and learning how to respond instead of react. If you are a man trying to become healthier in your relationships, your identity, and the next third of your life, this conversation is for you. Emotional strength is not about shutting everything down. It is about learning how to feel what you feel, put words to it, and become the best version of yourself. Chapters: 00:00 Welcome to Next Third Best Third 03:19 Why Emotions Help Us Survive 06:39 Anger Is Not Your Identity 09:58 Faith, Hardwiring, and Core Emotions 13:18 How Men Were Taught to Hide Vulnerability 16:37 Emotional Intimacy and the Risk of Being Hurt 19:57 Learning Emotional Competence 23:16 Reading Your Body Before You React 26:36 Avoidance, Marriage, and Relationship Time Bombs 29:55 Do the Work Even If Others Don’t Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on: - Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age. - Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress. - Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships. - Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections. - Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook. Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third! Website: (https://www.nextthirdbestthird.com/)

    34 min
  3. APR 20

    097: 3 Life-Changing Tools Every Man Needs to Make: If You Want Your Best Years Ahead of You, Start Here

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode, I unpack three powerful tools that can help you honestly evaluate your life and intentionally move toward making your next third your best third. I share a message that deeply challenged me after hearing a pastor and longtime friend talk about the areas we must regularly examine if we want to stay healthy, growing, and fully engaged in life. This conversation is practical, personal, and incredibly relevant for any man who wants to live with greater purpose and clarity. I walk through what it means to check your gauges in your body, soul, and spirit. That includes how you care for your physical health, what you are feeding your mind, how you handle your emotions, and whether your spiritual life is full or running on empty. I also talk about the importance of paying attention to what has your focus, because what you fix your gaze on will shape the direction and quality of your life. Finally, I explore one of the most important questions a man can ask: who is in your garden when life gets hard? We all need trusted people around us when we are facing fear, pressure, or pain. If you are serious about growth, healing, legacy, and becoming the man you were meant to be, this episode will give you a framework to reflect, journal, and take your next step with intention. Chapters: 00:00 Welcome to Next Third Best Third 02:02 Check Your Gauges Framework 04:04 Physical Health and Honest Self-Assessment 06:07 Feeding Your Mind and Emotional Awareness 08:09 What Anger Revealed Beneath the Surface 10:11 Filling Your Spirit and Staying Grounded 12:14 What Are You Gazing At? 14:16 The Power of Focus, Legacy, and Joy 16:19 Who Belongs in Your Garden? 18:21 The Five Pillars and Final Challenge Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on: - Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age. - Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress. - Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships. - Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections. - Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook. Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third! Website: (https://www.nextthirdbestthird.com/)

    21 min
  4. APR 13

    096: What Is Happening Spiritually Among Men in America? 5 Reasons Men Need a Spiritual Journey

    Send us Fan Mail What is happening spiritually among men in America right now? In this episode, I sit down with Taylor Lees to talk about the noticeable shift happening among Gen Z and Millennial men, why more young men are engaging with faith again, and what may be driving this hunger for truth, purpose, and something deeper than the empty promises of modern culture. We unpack the role of social media, church culture, authenticity, masculinity, and why traditional expressions of faith may be drawing younger men back in. We also talk honestly about the spiritual confusion so many men are facing today. From identity struggles and cultural instability to the search for absolutes in a world full of noise, this conversation gets to the heart of why so many men are craving real meaning and real transformation. I also share why I believe men are wired for challenge, purpose, sacrifice, and legacy, and why a spiritual journey is not optional if we want to live with intentionality. In the second half of the episode, we break down five reasons every man needs to go on a spiritual journey and five practical ways to begin. Whether you are a young man searching for direction, a husband and father wanting to lead better, or someone asking deeper questions about life and faith, this episode is for you. My hope is that this conversation challenges you to pursue truth, build a lasting legacy, and make your next third your best third. Chapters: 00:00 - What Is Happening Spiritually Among Men? 04:32 - Revival, Social Media, and a New Spiritual Curiosity 09:05 - Why Gen Z Men Are Returning to Church 13:38 - Why Traditional Church Is Attracting Young Men 18:10 - The Search for Authenticity, Reverence, and Truth 22:43 - Why Men Need Challenge, Discipline, and Purpose 27:16 - The Failure of Soft Faith and the Cost of Discipleship 31:48 - 5 Reasons Every Man Needs a Spiritual Journey 36:21 - Brotherhood, Community, and Building Legacy 40:54 - 5 Practical Ways to Start Your Spiritual Journey Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on: - Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age. - Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress. - Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships. - Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections. - Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook. Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third! Website: (https://www.nextthirdbestthird.com/)

    46 min
  5. APR 6

    095: Danny Silk Explains the Relationship Skills Most Men Were Never Taught

    Send us Fan Mail Connect with Danny: Website: https://www.dragonslayers.co/ Book: https://www.dragonslayers.co/store In this episode of Next Third Best Third, I sit down with Danny Silk for a powerful conversation about communication, conflict, marriage, and leadership in relationships. We talk about why so many men struggle to communicate well, how defensiveness and fear damage connection, and what it looks like to become the kind of man who leads with honesty, responsibility, and love. Danny shares practical wisdom on what healthy communication actually sounds like in real life. We unpack the difference between powerful and powerless people, why listening is often more important than talking, and how learning to tell the truth about what is really going on inside of us can completely change our relationships. This is not just about marriage. It applies to family, friendships, leadership, and every connection that matters. If you have ever felt stuck in conflict, frustrated in communication, or unsure how to lead well in your relationships, this episode will give you language, clarity, and next steps. Be sure to like, subscribe, and share this with someone who needs encouragement in their marriage, leadership, or personal growth journey. Chapters: 00:00 - Welcome and Why Relationships Matter 02:22 - Why Communication Changes as Men Mature 04:44 - Defensiveness and the Breakdown of Connection 07:06 - The Real Emotions Men Try to Hide 09:28 - Powerful People Take Responsibility 11:50 - Connection, Boundaries, and Respectful Communication 14:12 - How Honest Conversations Transform Conflict 16:34 - A Personal Story About Fear and Overreaction 18:56 - Vulnerability, Leadership, and Asking Better Questions 21:18 - Practical First Steps to Communicate and Lead Well Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on: - Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age. - Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress. - Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships. - Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections. - Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook. Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third! Website: (https://www.nextthirdbestthird.com/)

    24 min
  6. MAR 30

    094: Danny Silk: Why Men Are So Lonely Today & Why Most Men Don’t Have Close Friends

    Send us Fan Mail Connect with Danny: Website: https://www.dragonslayers.co/ Book: https://www.dragonslayers.co/store In this episode of Next Third Best Third, I sit down with Danny Silk to talk about why men need men in their lives. We unpack the isolation so many men experience, the self-imposed obstacles that keep them from deep friendship, and why real brotherhood is not a luxury but a necessity. Danny shares the heart behind The Way of the Dragon Slayer and why covenant relationships between men can change the course of a life. We also get into what makes this kind of brotherhood different from typical men’s groups. This conversation is about more than surface-level accountability or talking about problems. It is about calling men into greatness, building lifelong trust, and surrounding yourself with brothers who can speak strength into your life when you need it most. Danny offers practical wisdom on how to identify the right men, what healthy masculinity actually looks like, and why enjoying the men in your circle matters more than most people realize. If you have ever felt the pull toward isolation, wondered how to build stronger male friendships, or wanted to understand what true manhood looks like in this season of life, this conversation is for you. My hope is that this episode challenges you to take an honest look at your relationships and start building the kind of brotherhood that will carry you into the best third of your life. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Brotherhood 03:02 Billy Graham and the Power of Multiplication 06:04 Choosing the Right Men for Life 09:06 Why Most Men’s Groups Fall Short 12:08 The Isolation Crisis in Men 15:10 Why Men Need Brothers Across Generations 18:12 What Keeps Men From Vulnerability 21:14 Accountability That Calls Men Higher 24:16 Real Masculinity vs the Lone Wolf Lie 27:18 How to Start Building Brotherhood Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on: - Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age. - Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress. - Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships. - Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections. - Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook. Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third! Website: (https://www.nextthirdbestthird.com/)

    31 min
  7. MAR 23

    093: Why You’re Still Single & How to Find Love After Heartbreak, Divorce & Letdown | Jackie Dorman

    Send us Fan Mail Connect with Jackie: https://www.jackiedorman.com/home Welcome to Next Third Best Third! I’m David Fenwick, your host, and in this episode, I had the incredible privilege of sitting down with my good friend Jackie Dorman. Jackie is a relationship expert, coach, and founder of the “Last Year Single” program. She’s passionate about helping people find love and uncover the heart issues that hold them back from meaningful relationships. During our conversation, Jackie shares her personal journey of overcoming a broken family dynamic, her commitment to marriage and family, and the deep importance of inner healing. We dive into her unique “heart work” process, which focuses on surrendering, unpacking lies, and embracing forgiveness. Jackie also explains her innovative matchmaking platform, Spirit Mate Match, which goes beyond physical attraction to foster deep, spiritual connections for long-lasting partnerships. This episode is full of actionable insights for anyone seeking fulfillment in their relationships or looking to build a legacy of love and purpose. Whether you’re single, married, or somewhere in between, there’s something here for you. Let’s refire those dreams, break free from false narratives, and move boldly into your next chapter! Chapters: 00:00 - Welcome and Introduction 00:09 - Meet Jackie Dorman: Helping People Find Love 01:11 - The Origin of Jackie’s Matchmaking Passion 02:46 - Inner Healing: The Secret Sauce to Love 05:49 - Why Lies Keep Us Stuck in Life and Love 09:43 - Taking Action to Meet Your Partner 12:52 - Jackie’s Personal Journey Through Marriage and Divorce 17:14 - What Men and Women Really Want in a Partner 20:02 - Spirit Mate Match: Beyond Physical Attraction 23:29 - The Power of Legacy in Relationships 28:08 - Understanding Men's Sensitivity and Emotional Needs 36:59 - Why Vulnerability is Key to Building Lasting Love Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on: - Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age. - Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress. - Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships. - Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections. - Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook. Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third! Website: (https://www.nextthirdbestthird.com/)

    39 min
  8. MAR 16

    092: Why So Many Men Fail to Lead | The Truth About Leadership, Legacy, and Identity

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Next Third Best Third, I sit down with Cornellus Craft for a powerful conversation on what true leadership really means. We unpack the phrase, “No man alone, every man a leader,” and talk about why leadership cannot be separated from identity, humility, formation, and intentionality. This conversation is especially for men who want to lead well in their homes, relationships, work, and community, but it is also for anyone who wants to understand how real leadership is developed over time. We dive into the characteristics of a real leader, including humility, stewardship, honor, compassionate curiosity, and servant leadership. We talk about why being challenged is necessary for growth, why leaders must ask better questions instead of always giving answers, and why leadership is not about control, performance, or demanding honor. It is about helping people become who they were designed to be. We also explore practical examples from parenting, business, ministry, and marriage to show how leadership plays out in everyday life. If you have ever wondered what makes someone a trustworthy leader, how to become more intentional with your influence, or how to build a legacy that outlives you, this episode will challenge and encourage you. My hope is that this conversation helps you examine your own life, strengthen the way you lead, and step more fully into the kind of man who leaves people, families, and communities stronger because you were there. 00:00 - No Man Alone, Every Man a Leader 04:13 - Why Humility Is the Foundation of Leadership 08:27 - Stewarding Your Life to Its Highest and Best Use 12:04 - Leadership That Helps People Become Themselves 16:08 - Why Great Leaders Ask Great Questions 20:22 - Identity, Productivity, and Measuring Real Leadership 24:00 - Honor, Responsibility, and Leading at Home 28:28 - Intentional Leadership vs. Drifting Through Life 32:29 - Servant Leadership, Example, and Being Accessible 37:48 - Replication, Legacy, and Building Beyond Yourself Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on: - Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age. - Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress. - Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships. - Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections. - Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook. Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third! Website: (https://www.nextthirdbestthird.com/)

    42 min
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Today is the first day of the rest of your life! Our mission is to ignite hope, vision and passion so your life will impact the world around you. Conquer Life's Stages with Passion, Love, and Adventure. Forge your path through life's Thirds with strength at "Next Third Best Third." Join a brotherhood of men refusing to settle. Discover confidence, authentic connections, and unbreakable camaraderie tailored for your prime. Redefine success, embracing change with true masculinity. Navigate the later stages of life as a conquest. Your prime awaits, conquer it with us.David Fenwick, founder of Next Third Best Third, is an author, life coach, and inspirational speaker. He has a journey that includes pastoring, church planting and entrepreneurship. David's mission is to inspire others to dream, discover their true identity, live with intention, and impact their spheres of influence.Connect with us: https://www.nextthirdbestthird.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/next3rdbest3rd/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/next3rdbest3rdYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyyd2j6cggsLvDTCfLpPjKA