Create Meaning in Medicine

Dr. Joanne Sotelo and Dr. Erin Hurley

Are you a woman in medicine looking to rediscover joy and balance in your career and personal life? Welcome to "Create Meaning in Medicine," the podcast where women physicians come to rewrite the rules and reclaim their fulfillment. Hosted by Dr. Joanne Sotelo and Dr. Erin Hurley, this podcast offers a sanctuary for candid discussions on the tough topics no one else is talking about, such as burnout, mental health, and the intricate balance of relationships and professional obligations. Each episode brings insights from expert guests, offering you strategies to overcome the unique challenges faced by women in healthcare. Subscribe to our podcast to navigate the complexities of your career with greater clarity and intention. Join us and explore actionable steps to enhance your well-being and achieve a sustainable, fulfilling lifestyle. Your path to creating meaning in medicine starts here!

  1. 169 Dr. Amna Shabbir, MD: From Perfectionism to Excellenceism

    3D AGO

    169 Dr. Amna Shabbir, MD: From Perfectionism to Excellenceism

    Is perfectionism really the gold standard in medicine, or is it actually harming us? In this powerful conversation, Dr. Amna Shabbir challenges the deeply ingrained belief that perfectionism is necessary for high performance. Instead, she introduces the concept of excellenceism, a more expansive, growth-oriented alternative that protects well-being without lowering standards. Through personal stories of motherhood, burnout, trauma, and professional identity, Dr. Shabbir unpacks the hidden cost of perfectionism in women physicians and offers a courageous framework for change. Press play to examine your intentions, soften self-criticism, and cross the courage bridge toward a more human way of practicing medicine.   Key Takeaways To Listen For Why perfectionism isn't the same as excellence and how "excellenceism" protects both performance and well-being The three domains of perfectionism: self-oriented, other-oriented, and socially prescribed How perfectionism activates fear responses, sympathetic overdrive, and chronic stress physiology The link between trauma and perfectionism as a survival strategy The cognitive distortion of all-or-nothing thinking and how it limits growth   "The high standards are not the problem. The problem is what happens when you don't meet those standards." - Dr. Amna Shabbir   About Dr. Amna Shabbir: Dr. Amna Shabbir, MD, is a dual board-certified physician with advanced training in integrative well-being, performance, behavior change, and leadership development. As a high achiever herself, she understands the pressures of perfectionism in medicine and helps individuals and organizations cultivate sustainable excellence without sacrificing their health or humanity. Through speaking, coaching, and her TEDx talk, "Perfectionism Has a Solution. It's Not What You Think," Dr. Shabbir challenges the cultural glorification of perfectionism and introduces a more expansive framework for growth. She is also the host of the podcast Success Reimagined with Amna Shabbir, MD, where she explores how ambitious professionals can elevate their impact while protecting what matters most, their well-being.   Connect with Dr. Amna Shabbir, MD: Website: https://success-curated.com/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amna-shabbir-md/  Podcast: Success Reimagined with Amna Shabbir, MD TEDxTalk: Perfectionism has a solution - It's not what you think - https://youtu.be/oNIzzM4Vg3s?si=AK6CXqMtQjBAosyh  Connect With Us Do you want to hear more from the doctors of the Create Meaning In Medicine podcast? Discover more empowering content when you go to https://www.createmeaninginmedicine.com!   ▶️ Watch our videos: https://youtube.com/@createmeaninginmedicine 🎧 Want to hear more? Find us on Apple Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/create-meaning-in-medicine/id1752701820

    41 min
  2. 168. Realigning Priorities for Fulfillment in Medicine

    FEB 17

    168. Realigning Priorities for Fulfillment in Medicine

    When reconnection creates awareness, realignment provides direction. In this episode, Dr. Joanne Sotelo and Dr. Erin Hurley explore why so many women in medicine feel exhausted, resentful, and misaligned despite career success. They unpack how "doctor programming," outdated values, and endless shoulds quietly run daily decisions and how clarifying what truly matters now allows priorities, boundaries, time, and energy to finally align. This conversation offers practical reflection questions and simple action steps to help you move from autopilot to intentional living.   Key Takeaways To Listen For Why your priorities, not your intentions, reveal what you are truly committed to How outdated "doctor programming" keeps women in medicine misaligned and exhausted The power of asking better questions to clarify what matters most now Why you can't work on everything at once, and how focus creates ripple effects How boundaries naturally strengthen when values and priorities become clear   "Reconnection gives you awareness, and realignment gives you direction." - Dr. Joanne Sotelo   Connect With Us Do you want to hear more from the doctors of the Create Meaning In Medicine podcast? Discover more empowering content when you go to https://www.createmeaninginmedicine.com!   ▶️ Watch our videos: https://youtube.com/@createmeaninginmedicine 🎧 Want to hear more? Find us on Apple Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/create-meaning-in-medicine/id1752701820

    15 min
  3. 167. Reconnecting With Yourself in Medicine with Dr. Joanne Sotelo

    FEB 10

    167. Reconnecting With Yourself in Medicine with Dr. Joanne Sotelo

    Many women in medicine appear successful on the outside while quietly feeling disconnected, numb, or unfulfilled on the inside. In this episode, Dr. Joanne Sotelo and Dr. Erin Hurley explore the often-overlooked foundation of personal fulfillment: reconnecting with yourself. They unpack how emotional suppression, over-functioning, and identity built solely around productivity lead to exhaustion and burnout, and how asking better questions, listening to your inner voice, and redefining success can restore clarity, motivation, joy, and balance both at work and at home.   Key Takeaways To Listen For Why is reconnection with yourself the foundation before goals, productivity, or change? How emotional suppression and over-functioning are normalized and why they come at a cost. The role identity plays in exhaustion, fulfillment, and sustainable success. Simple but powerful questions that rebuild awareness, clarity, and motivation. How connecting with your future self makes boundaries, alignment, and joy easier to sustain.   "Awareness is that first act of reconnection, and then you can meet that future self." - Dr. Joanne Sotelo   Connect With Us Do you want to hear more from the ladies of the Create Meaning In Medicine podcast? Discover more empowering content when you go to https://www.createmeaninginmedicine.com!   ▶️ Watch our videos: https://youtube.com/@createmeaninginmedicine 🎧 Want to hear more? Find us on Apple Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/create-meaning-in-medicine/id1752701820

    20 min
  4. 166. Dr. Erin Hurley: Discernment, Energy, and Better Decisions in Medicine

    FEB 3

    166. Dr. Erin Hurley: Discernment, Energy, and Better Decisions in Medicine

    Why does everything feel urgent, important, and exhausting at the same time? In this episode, Dr. Joanne Sotelo and Dr. Erin Hurley unpack the missing skill many women in medicine were never taught: discernment. From over-documenting charts to spending type-one energy on type-two decisions, they explore how learning to pause, clarify priorities, and manage both time and energy can transform patient care, leadership, and life outside of work. This conversation offers practical frameworks and mindset shifts to help you move off autopilot and into alignment. Key Takeaways To Listen For Why overwhelm isn't a time-management problem, it's a discernment problem. The difference between type one (one-way door) and type two (swinging door) decisions. How over-documentation and perfectionism quietly drain time and energy. Why energy, not just time, must be treated as a limited resource. How to transition roles intentionally (doctor, leader, partner, parent) instead of living on autopilot.   "It's really important to use a pause and use discernment to your advantage, because if we don't, we're going to end up most of our days completely exhausted." - Dr. Erin Hurley Resources Mentioned In This Episode  Reset by Dan Heath - https://www.amazon.com/Reset-How-Change-Whats-Working/dp/1668062097      Connect With Us Do you want to hear more from the ladies of the Create Meaning In Medicine podcast? Discover more empowering content when you go to https://www.createmeaninginmedicine.com!   ▶️ Watch our videos: https://youtube.com/@createmeaninginmedicine 🎧 Want to hear more? Find us on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/create-meaning-in-medicine/id1752701820

    18 min
  5. 165. Dr. Joanne Sotelo: A Wake-Up Call for Women in Medicine

    JAN 27

    165. Dr. Joanne Sotelo: A Wake-Up Call for Women in Medicine

    If you've been telling yourself you'll change when life "calms down," this episode is your sign that the time is now. Dr. Joanne Sotelo and Dr. Erin Hurley offer a compassionate but honest wake-up call for women in medicine, reminding us that high-functioning does not equal healthy. They explore the real cost of burnout, the importance of reclaiming personal agency, and how identity shifts, especially with the rise of AI, are forcing physicians to rethink fulfillment, purpose, and self-leadership. Key Takeaways To Listen For High-functioning is not the same as healthy. Doing all the things doesn't mean you're well. Radical honesty matters: where are you living on autopilot, and what is it costing you? Why reclaiming your agency ("I choose. I decide.") is essential for preventing burnout and disengagement. The rise of AI is reshaping how physicians view relevance, purpose, and identity in medicine. A powerful reflection question: If nothing changes in the next five years, how would you feel about your life?   "The first step is that we need to wake up to the truth. We need to have that radical honesty with ourselves and ask good questions." - Dr. Joanne Sotelo Connect With Us Do you want to hear more from the ladies of the Create Meaning In Medicine podcast? Discover more empowering content when you go to https://www.createmeaninginmedicine.com! ▶️ Watch our videos: https://youtube.com/@createmeaninginmedicine 🎧 Want to hear more? Find us on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/create-meaning-in-medicine/id1752701820

    16 min
5
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34 Ratings

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Are you a woman in medicine looking to rediscover joy and balance in your career and personal life? Welcome to "Create Meaning in Medicine," the podcast where women physicians come to rewrite the rules and reclaim their fulfillment. Hosted by Dr. Joanne Sotelo and Dr. Erin Hurley, this podcast offers a sanctuary for candid discussions on the tough topics no one else is talking about, such as burnout, mental health, and the intricate balance of relationships and professional obligations. Each episode brings insights from expert guests, offering you strategies to overcome the unique challenges faced by women in healthcare. Subscribe to our podcast to navigate the complexities of your career with greater clarity and intention. Join us and explore actionable steps to enhance your well-being and achieve a sustainable, fulfilling lifestyle. Your path to creating meaning in medicine starts here!