Midlife Unfiltered: The Season Of Me

Midlife Unfiltered

Take back your power and choose yourself in midlife. Exploring often taboo topics and busting outdated stereotypes with your hosts, Anita & Erica. midlifeunfiltered.substack.com

  1. 4d ago

    Grey Divorce and the Use of AI.

    In midlife the changes are BIG. The rate of those divorcing over the age of 50 is at an all time high. Increasingly too, the ‘relationships’ we have with AI are becoming deeper and wider in application and in frequency. When it comes to Grey Divorce, AI’s role is also deepening, some may say becoming a dependence. As much as those conversations about your divorce, your relationship, your marriage you may be having with Claude, Chat GPT (name your preferred AI) seem helpful, they do come with certain risks you may not be aware of. That’s the focus of this podcast chat. Not to scare, to inform. For awareness. I sat down with Kiki Hart (aka Louise Cooper). Louise is a lawyer, accredited mediator, and someone who’s been through a divorce herself, to unpack where midlife, divorce and artificial intelligence are all colliding at once. I came away with a lot to think about, and I suspect you will too. In this episode… Grey divorce is real, and it’s us Kiki lead the conversation with some stats around divorce trends here in Australia (which are not that dissimilar to those in the US and elsewhere). Whilst divorce rates have remained reasonably steady overall it’s the divorces involving marriages of 20 years or more that have proportionally risen 20% in Australia since the 1980s. The shift is happening at the 50-plus stage of life. Some of the numbers we discussed: * Median age at divorce in Australia in 2025: 47.3 for men, 44.4 for women * 29% of Australian divorces are now ‘grey divorces’ (people 50+) * In the US, the rate of over-50s divorcing roughly doubled between 1990 and 2010. * Overall divorce rates are sitting near their lowest since the mid-1970s - it’s specifically midlife driving the trend upward, not divorce in general The HILDA data: love isn’t the problem, workload might be The newly released HILDA survey (the Household, Income and Labour Dynamics in Australia study), has tracked around 17,000 Australians annually since 2001. The latest release says: * 88% of women and 92% of men in long-term relationships report strong love for their partner * Men’s weekly housework hours: 12.8 hours in 2022 - unchanged from 2002 * Women’s weekly housework hours: 18.4 hours, about 44% more than men, on top of far more paid work than 20 years ago * 17% of men believed they were doing more than half the household load We had a bit of a laugh about the ‘did you notice what I did?’ phenomenon - the tendency for a small domestic contribution to be announced and then quietly waited on for praise. Women report slightly but statistically lower relationship satisfaction than men, and women are more likely to eventually initiate separation. Menopause, less f***s to give, and the Walkaway Wife We talked about the pattern Louise saw repeatedly in her mediation work, where one partner (usually the woman in a heterosexual relationship) is further along the journey to wanting to end the relationship than the other; often after years of trying to communicate that something was wrong. Years of being met with avoidance, dismissal, or ‘she’s just going through a phase.’ Midlife as a time of BIG change. At the confluence of the Menopause transition and post menopause years. Not to say it’s a cause of divorce. It is, however, a time when women often remove their willingness to keep performing a role that no longer fits. Less want for keeping the peace, to be the one that holds others and things together. A greater desire to spend that energy on themselves. These are a values shift. Where her grieving was done in advance, often well before asking for the divorce. [Menodivorce is an informal term used to describe a separation or divorce that happens during the menopause transition as women re-evaluate their long-term relationships and priorities.] Women 50+ now are of a generation that increasingly believes they’re allowed to want more than stability. Unlike the generation before them, when marriage was often regarded as a means for security and stability. The HILDA supports this too with more women of this generation in paid work and careers, whilst also doing the vast majority of the at home duties and parenting too. The Walkaway Wife is a term coined by clinical social worker and marriage therapist, Michele Weiner-Davis in 2008. A pattern (not a diagnosis) she named based on what she was consistently seeing in her therapy practice. Researchers have been calling this the demand-withdraw pattern for decades, one of the most replicated findings in marital communication research. [Interestingly, much of this research has been done on younger couples rather than older, married for longer, couples]. We also touched on how quickly this reality gets pathologised, including in the language of medicine itself. Hysterectomy shares its literal root with ‘hysteria’ both stemming from hystera, the Greek word for womb. An uncomfortable reminder of how long women’s midlife changes have been framed as a problem to be managed rather than a legitimate turning point. Hmmm. Hysteria aside, as women rethink their roles and what they want from the next chapter, many are turning not just to therapists or lawyers - but to AI. AI As A Confidant And As A Tool Our chat focused largely around these two distinct ways AI is showing up in grey divorce right now. AI as a confidant. People are using ChatGPT, Claude and similar AI platforms and chat bots as a sounding board to help process feelings, drafting hard messages and asking “am I being unreasonable here?” before ever raising it with a partner or their lawyer. Helpful, but it comes with risks – potentially serious ones depending on your circumstance. Risks you may never have seen coming. If AI conversations are used instead of legal counsel, it’s important to understand that they are not ‘privileged’(private and confidential) conversations, like those with a lawyer are. From a legal standpoint, anything that is mentioned in that chat is potentially discoverable, meaning that it could be used as evidence in divorce proceedings if subpoenaed – to be used in court. Your AI conversation (prompt) history can absolutely be used to show a party’s state of mind, intent, or hidden assets. AI can help you prepare - but never replace a lawyer, and assume anything you type could end up in court. Louise’s warning here was clear and practical: * De-identify everything. No names, addresses, or account details - anything you wouldn’t want surfacing in a legal dispute shouldn’t go in as a prompt (what you type in), in the AI conversation. * Keep prompts neutral and factual. State the situation, not your case for why you’re right. AI validation feels good but doesn’t prepare you for a real negotiation. And AI will validate your feelings. * Understand data retention. Deleting a chat from your screen doesn’t necessarily delete it from a provider’s servers. Temporary or incognito-style chat modes (like ChatGPT’s temporary chat) offer an extra layer of protection. But check each platform’s settings and turn off any option that allows your conversations to be used for model training. * Protect your legal privilege. Never feed advice from your own lawyer into an AI tool, even to test it. Once privilege is waived, it can’t be clawed back. It can be waived far more easily than you may realise, sometimes just by handing over a document or referencing advice in the wrong context. * Fact-check anything AI tells you about the law. It can get things wrong, or answer from the wrong jurisdiction entirely. AI as a tool built into the process Purpose-built platforms to help with divorce and mediation are on the rise. A fast-growing category of purpose-built platforms (with AI enabling them most probably). We ran through a few Australian examples like Amica, Adieu and Split Ways. International options are also included in the Resources section below with active links for you. Louise’s article has more too. These free or cost effective tools are designed to inform and help in the division of property and assets including superannuation splitting which, for grey divorcees, can be a considerable asset to split. They can also assist in parenting allocations too. It’s surprising how many relationships even in this stage of life, involved parenting considerations. Some sites can be used as a couple whilst other are for single-sided assessments and information gathering. Some can help refer you on to mediators, counselors , lawyers or financial advisors. The risk of using AI instead of talking to your partner Drawing on Louise’s experience, we also talk about how turning to AI for the hard conversations rather than to your actual partner is its own problem. It’s not just avoidance, it becomes a third dynamic in the relationship, one that lets resentment build in the dark rather than getting things resolved. Where Grey Divorce and AI Could Be Heading We closed by looking a little further down the road: AI mediators are already emerging in commercial dispute settings in the US, and Louise expects family law won’t be far behind. Her concern is that mediation involves reading a room, sensing discomfort, and holding paradox in a way that’s genuinely hard to imagine AI replicating well. She predicts a future ‘second wave’ of work for humans helping people fix outcomes reached through AI-assisted processes that didn’t hold up legally or emotionally. Marrying an AI Slightly off core focus but driven by deep curiosity, I confessed on air that I’d actually asked Claude whether anyone had ever proposed marriage to it. I read its reply in the podcast. Whilst it was intended as a bit of fun, it’s not entirely a joke. Louise knows of cases where people are wanting to leave long-term marriages for an AI relationship, including a symbolic AI marriage conducted using AR (augmented reality) glasses. Final Thoughts As AI companionship becomes more normalise

    Grey Divorce and the Use of AI.
  2. Sep 22

    Squash: The World’s Healthiest Sport. With Caleb Johnson, squash pro and my coach.

    Squash is often called the world’s healthiest sport. In this episode of the Midlife Unfiltered podcast my squash coach Caleb Johnson joins me to unpack why. I also share my own return to the game after 30 years. Squash is on the rise again. Is it for you? The ball’s in your court 🙂 In this episode we talk about: * Caleb – as an Australian professional squash player, squash and fitness coach, runs a junior academy and squash advocate. * What makes squash different from most racquet sports - it has no net that separates players (for starters) and the benefits of that. * Racquet sports – in order of popularity * A brief history of squash and its evolution – the popular years and its rapid decline * Squash as an inclusion in the 2028 LA Olympics – and its rise again. * The health benefits of racquet sports in general * The physical health benefits of squash specifically: high calories burned (600–1,000 calories/hour), cardio challenging, muscles and bone benefits from multi-movements and multi-directional impacts – without the level of injury of other forms of sport * Tarek Momen vs. Rafael Nadal: a wild real-world comparison of match intensity – how tennis and squash compare. Not to knock tennis (we both love tennis) but to highlight the differences and impacts on health. * High intensity, ‘interval training’ nature of the sport PLUS endurance. * Brain and neural health benefits – squash is called ‘chess on legs’ – split second decision making and anticipation of where the ball is going next and where to place it. * Caleb shares a personal story about his friend with 7% vision who restored vision. through playing squash – he’s hoping it will be studied in the future. * Bone & Muscle health – how it helps our bones and muscles (and the study that shows this) * The ease to integrate it into life – doesn’t take up much time, can practice on your own (no balls to chase on the other side of the net!), build skills, play socially, competitively and it’s inexpensive. * Squash’s Olympic debut at LA 2028, and what it means for the sport’s future * The sport everyone’s Dad used to play – now it’s on the rise again. * How to start playing squash – as a new sport; * How to get back into squash again – the mind-body gap, and how to do it safely – people like me coming back to squash after 3 decades away (we are the risk group guys); warming up for as long as you play for starters. Here’s to squash in the 2028 in the LA Olympics and then 2032 in our home town of Brisbane, Australia. Get out there and start squashing in your local area. Unfortunately, our audio mucked up in the final minutes of our chat, sorry. Thank goodness for the subtitles! Find Caleb: Caleb Johnson Squash - Instagram, Facebook, and website Related Midlife Unfiltered episodes: * Bone Chatter: Strong Bones Are More Than Density * Re-Entry in Midlife: Who You Were Before Kids If you’d like a full deep-dive - history, global participation, the studies behind every claim, and more…keep reading below. The full story: I picked up a squash racquet when I was about 6. After 30 years since competing, I’m back playing squash for the health benefits I know it brings. Join Caleb Johnson, my fabulous squash coach and I as we explore this brilliant, unique racquet sport. It’s been called the #1 all-round healthiest sport and is often referred to as ‘chess on legs’. Meet Caleb. Caleb is a professional squash player and coach, currently ranked 311 in the world and #15 in Australia. He started playing at 14, (late by professional standards, where most competitors start at 4, 5, or 6) and became Australia’s #1 under-19 player by 18. He turned professional at 22. His goal…crack the top 100, and maybe, just maybe, an Olympic team spot in 2028. Alongside his own playing career, he coaches clients from age 5 to 85. Squash is different from other racquet sports. Unlike tennis, table tennis, pickleball, badminton, or padel, players share the exact same physical space. There’s no net that separates. That proximity is part of why relationships form so quickly in squash. That, and numerous other benefits. The numbers behind squash’s ‘healthiest all-round sport’ reputation. Racquet sports as a category are linked to notable longevity gains. Research suggests somewhere between roughly 4.7 and 9.7 years of added life expectancy; driven by a mix of social connection, cardiovascular demand and muscular endurance. But what sets squash apart within that category is its sheer continuous intensity. An hour of squash burns somewhere in the range of 600–1,000 calories (depend heavily on methodology, body weight and intensity). The sport that comes close is boxing and kickboxing, followed by jump rope and cross country skiing. The sports that match squash’s intensity all share the same signature. Minimal built-in rest, whole-body engagement and either explosive bursts or sustained continuous effort. Caleb shared stats on a first-round match played by Egyptian pro squash player Tarek Momen, lasting 97 minutes, versus Rafael Nadal’s tennis match, at 288 minutes. Nearly three times as long in duration yet statistically quite different. · Momen covered 5kms of ground versus Nadal’s 3.5km, · the ball was in play for 60% of Momen’s match compared to just 15% of Nadal’s. Squash delivers more physiological payoff in less little time giving great value for an hour of effort. Cardio, muscular, bone and calories burned. It’s basically interval training disguised as a game. Caleb described squash as mimicking high-intensity interval training - intense bursts within each rally, repeated across the match. And because it moves through multiple planes (forward, backward, diagonal, lateral), it puts squash in a rare category - high enough intensity to rival sports like rowing or boxing in calorie burn, without the single-plane repetitive strain that makes something like running so hard on ageing knees, or the contact-injury risk of combat sports. Squash is multi-directional, short bursts, lunges, steps and jumps, with endurance as the rallies typically keep the ball in play for much longer with gaps between points, less. With the chance of injury at the same level of intensity, lessened too (assuming the proper preparation pre-match as with all the other sports). Brain health. Because you’re tracking a small, fast-moving ball and making split-second tactical shot-play and positional decisions constantly (where do I need to be to return the shot, what shot to play, then immediately, where will my opponent send it back), there are significant neuroplasticity benefits. This is why squash is often referred to as ‘chess on legs.’ An extraordinary anecdote: vision restored. Caleb shared a story about a friend, Brian, who was legally blind in one eye and took up squash. He has restored functional vision in that eye over years of play, to the astonishment of his doctors. This is clearly as a remarkable personal anecdote, not an established or peer-reviewed medical finding. I haven’t been able to verify it against published research and neither has Caleb. We are not suggesting squash as vision treatment. It’s included here as a fascinating story, witnessed first hand by Caleb. Perhaps the research will turn up one day. A quick history of Squash and just how international this sport is. Squash has a longer pedigree than you may realise. It grew out of an older game called Royal (Real) Tennis then Rackets, which developed at England in the 1800’s. Students in Harrow School in the 1830s found that a punctured, ‘squashed’ rubber ball produced a softer, more strategic game than the hard-ball rackets they’d been playing and squash took shape from there. It spread through British public schools and then across the British Empire, which is why its heartlands today sit in places with strong historical ties to Britain: England, Egypt, Pakistan, India, Australia, and Malaysia, alongside the US and Canada. It’s global. Estimates put the number of players worldwide well into the tens of millions, and the professional tour, run by the PSA (Professional Squash Association), has over 1,200 registered players from more than 60 countries across five continents, competing in 250+ tournaments a year. Who’s dominating right now? It’s Egypt. Egyptian players currently hold the majority of world titles on both the men’s and women’s tours. Nour El Sherbini alone has won seven women’s world titles, and Egyptian men occupy most of the top of the current world rankings. It’s a changing of the guard with earlier eras belonging to Pakistan (Jahangir Khan’s staggering 555-match unbeaten streak in the 1980s, followed by Jansher Khan through the ‘90s) and to Australia, which has produced seven all-time world No. 1 players, including Geoff Hunt and Heather McKay, through its own golden era in the 1980s and early ‘90s. Australia’s story is a useful one for local listeners. Participation here has fallen a long way from its 1980s peak of roughly a million regular players to around 100,000 today. It is showing signs of a comeback, with new government funding and development programs tied directly to the Olympic announcement. Brisbane hosting a possible home Games in 2032 only adds to that momentum. With Caleb doing his bit to give it a healthy push along too. Where squash sits among racquet sports. Curious where Squash sits amongst other racquet sports? Here is the list from most popular (from a registered players perspective) to least: Tennis, table tennis, badminton, padel, squash, pickleball then racquetball. Questions you might be asking? Below are a couple of things that come up constantly when people are curious about squash: “Isn’t squash basically the same as racquetball?” No. They’re different sports, even though they look similar at a glance (both played solo or doubles, in an enclosed four-

  3. Sep 16

    Dry, Watery, Blurry Eyes: Why Menopause Messes With Your Eyes (And What Can Help). With optometrist Sarah Wright.

    Sarah is my optometrist. Actually, Sarah and Sally both are. I’ve been asking my health team members specifically about what their ‘area of body expertise’ is affected in peri-menopause and post-menopausally. To get the facts straight from the expert’s mouth. I had my bi-annual eye exam recently and asked Sally if there are any conditions she knew of that are more prominent in midlife, that are attributable to menopause? Instantly, she said “yes, Dry Eye Disease“ and “Sarah is the one to speak about it. (Yep, she threw Sarah straight under the bus. Thankfully they’re great mates). And Sarah said “yes”. We talk a lot about how menopause dries things up - skin, mouth, vagina. You know. You can probably add a few more to the list. Turns out, dry eyes are too and most of us have no idea. Why is that? Is it the lack of research? Lack of clinical knowledge? Or the simple fact that we’re just not talking about it? Probably all 3. So today Sarah and I are changing that. With her 20+ years of clinical and academic experience in optometry, running a dedicated Dry Eye Clinic and as a woman in midlife, Sarah is perfectly positioned to talk to us about what happens to our eyes in this time of life and what we can do to help them as we age. Yep, she’s our gal! Because that blurry vision you blame on needing a new prescription, or thinking your watery, gritty, tired eyes are because of seasonal changes (and the season of your life), this episode is for you. Let’s go! In this conversation Sarah and I talk about… Some of the most common eye conditions women in midlife experience and their symptoms. Conditions we experience more than our male counterparts. Conditions that are not just because we’re getting older. Some are, some are not. Conditions like: * Dry Eye Disease * Glaucoma & * Cataracts Dry Eye Disease: it’s sneakier than you think. Hormonal fluctuation (not just decline) of the usual suspects, oestrogen, progesterone and testosterone, sets off an inflammatory response that messes with our tear film. Causing… * Vision that blurs, clears when you blink, then blurs again * Eye fatigue (yes, on top of all the other fatigue) * Light sensitivity * Red eyes * Watery eyes - counter-intuitive really when thinking about dry eyes. Often it’s either unstable tears sliding right off the eye, or your eyes overcorrecting with reflex tears because they’re actually too dry * Contact lenses suddenly feeling impossible after 20 problem-free years * Worse symptoms by end of day (screen time = fewer blinks = more evaporation) OR worse, first thing in the morning (your eyelids may not be sealing fully overnight - eek!) Why Care About Dry Eyes?: Because if you don’t address it, it slowly escalates. Sarah has clients in their 80’s dealing with severe, constant dry eye discomfort. Something that could have been avoided or at least eased with age. What actually helps: * Get properly assessed by a reputable optometrist. There are specific questionnaires and examinations on purpose designed equipment that show which part of your tear system isn’t working. Facts about your eyes you have no way of knowing just by looking at them in the mirror! * Preservative-free eye drops, twice daily, as a starting point (maybe up to 4 times a day) * Warm compresses * Omega-3s (1–2 a day) - these work directly on the oil glands themselves, may help the oil stay more fluid and less inflammatory * Vitamin D (of course it’s vitamin D, it’s always vitamin D - the great all-rounder) * Probiotics - gut inflammation shows up on your eye’s surface too (who knew?!). Gut bacteria produce their own anti-inflammatory compounds that travel to the eye whilst some can degrade our eyes. * In-clinic treatments like IPL (Intense Pulsed Light) to unclog and restart those oil glands 👀 Glaucoma: in midlife, menopause and beyond This is about blood supply to the optic nerve, not tears. Migraines, snoring/sleep apnea and low blood pressure (especially overnight dips) are all associated with increased risk of Glaucoma (especially Normal‑Tension Glaucoma). Genetics also play a part. First-degree relatives matter most here. If it’s your mum or your gran, pay attention. There’s now a genetic test (about $200AUD) that checks for the relevant genes. The Eye Pressure Myth - you can have totally normal eye pressure and still have nerve damage from reduced blood flow. Oestrogen has a hand in this one too. Oestrogen receptors are in the eye’s internal drainage system where it appears to help keep fluid flowing out properly. It’s a newer research thread, so it’s ‘watch this space’ but it’s a plausible extra piece of why women’s glaucoma risk shifts around midlife. 🌫️ Cataracts: the great equaliser. Unlike Dry Eye and Glaucoma, this one’s not particularly female-forward so is attributed more to aging. As Sarah put it, “a sign of a well-lived life.” Cataracts occur in the lens inside your eye, slowly clouding from a lifetime of UV exposure. Watch for needing more light to read, seeing best in sunlight and night driving throwing light as a detracting and interfering ‘starburst’. Usually shows up 70’s–80’s, though some types appear earlier. What Can You Do To Optimise Your Eye Health? The Australian Optometry Association guidance says to have a reputable Optometrist check the health of your eyes every 2 years until you’re 65. Then go annually. In Australia Medicare only fully rebates every 3 years for those of under 65 - a gap between what’s recommended and what’s funded. Over 65, Medicare matches the annual recommendation. As with many aspects of health, the earlier problems are detected, the more likely a better outcome. For Future You (and Me). Odds on you won’t have the eye health conversation with your GP (primary provider) in your annual check up. It will be up to you to get on top of your eye checks and keep them up. Sarah’s Closing Advice “Don’t let it go. The longer you leave it, the harder it is to get effective help and treatment.” Whatever’s going on with your eyes…dry, gritty, blurry, watery, whatever, the earlier you get it looked at, the easier it is to treat and the less effort is needed to have optimal eye health, in midlife and beyond. Don’t wait. Consider this your permission, your loving nudge to get it done. Resources: Dive in a little deeper Sarah mentioned some research behind the inflammation angle, so here’s the deeper reading if you want to go down the rabbit hole with me: On inflammation as the real driver of Dry Eye: * TFOS DEWS III (diagnosis/framework) * Source: Tear Film & Ocular Surface Society (TFOS). DEWS III Diagnostic Methodology. 2025. * Link: https://www.ajo.com/article/S0002-9394(25)00275-2/fulltext * Immuno‑inflammatory axis of menopausal dry eye (hormone‑driven inflammation) * Source: [Authors]. Immuno‑inflammatory axis of menopausal dry eye: from hormonal changes to ocular surface inflammation. Frontiers in Immunology. 2026. * Link: https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/immunology/articles/10.3389/fimmu.2026.1732320/full Glaucoma - blood flow, not tears: * “Beyond IOP: The Vascular Side of Glaucoma” (migraines, OSA, nocturnal BP dips, perfusion pressure) * Source: [Authors]. Beyond IOP: The vascular side of glaucoma. Review of Optometry. 2026. * Link: https://www.reviewofoptometry.com/article/beyond-iop-the-vascular-side-of-glaucoma The gut-eye connection: * The impact of probiotics and prebiotics on ocular and systemic inflammation in dry eye disease — a randomised controlled trial (2025) * Source: [Authors]. The impact of probiotics and prebiotics on ocular and systemic inflammation in dry eye disease — a real randomised controlled trial. 2025. * Link: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/40401608/ * Gut-derived butyrate suppresses ocular surface inflammation — mechanism paper * Source: [Authors]. Gut-derived butyrate suppresses ocular surface inflammation. [Journal]. 2022. * Link: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8927112/ Get in Touch with Sarah Sarah practices at EyeCarePlus, Ashgrove (Brisbane). If you’re local and want to get your eyes properly checked that’s where to find her. I personally vouch for her and Sally as exceptional professionals. So knowledgeable, capable and caring. And they’ve got the latest equipment too! This podcast episode and show notes are for general information and conversation. A quick note: Remember, this episode and these show notes are for general info and a good chat. Not personal medical advice. Everyone’s eyes (and hormones) are different, so please check in with your own optometrist or doctor before changing anything, especially if something feels off. When in doubt, get it checked. I hope you found a few gems in this episode? If you did, share it on with someone you think will find it helpful. See you next time on Midlife Unfiltered. 💛 Anita xx p.s. A big thank you to everyone who tuned into the live video! Join me for my next live video in the app. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit midlifeunfiltered.substack.com

    Dry, Watery, Blurry Eyes: Why Menopause Messes With Your Eyes (And What Can Help). With optometrist Sarah Wright.
  4. Sep 5

    Why Women Over 60 Are Quietly Walking Away From The Lives They Built : with Carol Seymour (Gray Campervan Writer)

    In this very special episode, Carol Seymour reads one of her deeply stirring pieces that’s struck a chord with 100’s of women who feel like guests in their own lives. Honest and knowing. For women who sense it’s time to choose themselves. A little while back I read a piece Carol Seymour had written on Substack, and it resonated so deeply with me that I had an overwhelming urge to reach out to her. Not just to say thank you for writing it, but to ask if she’d come on and read it for us and then talk with me about what inspired it. She said “yes”. Yes! Carol writes at The Gray Campervan Writer on Substack. She lives in Louisiana and travels most of the year in her campervan, writing stories mostly for women over 60 who are figuring out what they want the rest of their life to look like. In this episode * Carol reads her piece, “Why Women Over 60 Are Quietly Walking Away From the Lives They Built” . It’s about quietly walking away from the roles and expectations we were raised to carry and choosing what we desire instead. It brought tears to my eyes while she was reading it and I could see the love-heart reactions pouring in from everyone watching live. * I ask Carol about the moment she decided to write it - the inspiration for her words. * We talk about ‘letting go’ and the idea of what a ‘good woman’ is supposed to be. And so much more. Carol shares much wisdom. About Carol Seymour At 76, Carol’s learning that starting over isn’t for the faint of heart. She writes for women who have reached that place in life where they look around and quietly wonder is this all there is? She’s had to make some hard choices about money, home, family, aging, and what she’s wanted the last chapters of her life to look like. “I’ve slept in my van, traveled alone, worried about money, wrestled with fear, and wondered more than once whether I was too old to start again. I decided I wasn’t.” Carol Writes Honestly About * Starting over after 60 * Learning to live with less * Money and the realities of retirement * Solo travel and camping * Fear, loneliness and freedom * Letting go of the life you thought you were supposed to have * Finding the courage to choose yourself again Not from a mountaintop after figuring everything out. She’s writing while living it. Carol’s Writings and Guides * Carol routinely posts on Substack Tuesdays and Thursday on The Gray Campervan Writer. She also writes on Medium and Vocal Media. * Carol’s guides and bundle for women navigating this stage of life, which she sells on Gumroad and links from her Substack (links below). On September 10 Carol is releasing a new piece: The Things I Own No Longer Own Me Inside the story is a link to a new bundled guide that has 5 sections to it. This guide will cover almost any question that you can think of to help answer this question. ”What am I gonna do for the rest of my life?” There are worksheets, self-discovery prompts and budgets for living the new reinvented life. Subscribe to Carol at The Gray Campervan Writer to get the word when they’ve dropped. For now, keep an eye on her Gumroad shop. Links & Resources * 📖 Read the piece Carol read for us on the podcast: Why Women Over 60 Are Quietly Walking Away From the Lives They Built * ✍️ Subscribe to Carol’s Substack: The Gray Campervan Writer: graycampervanwriter.com * 🛍️ Carol’s guides & bundles on Gumroad: carolseymour.gumroad.com Connect with Carol Seymour * Substack: @graycampervanwriter * Gumroad shop: carolseymour.gumroad.com If this conversation landed with you please share it with women in your life who would appreciate it - who might need it. And don’t miss Carol’s September 10th release! Follow or subscribe to her here on Substack to find out when they’re available. Thank you Susan Gaustad, Maura, and many others for tuning into my live video with Carol Seymour! Join me for my next live video in the app. Anita xx This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit midlifeunfiltered.substack.com

    Why Women Over 60 Are Quietly Walking Away From The Lives They Built : with Carol Seymour (Gray Campervan Writer)
  5. Aug 27

    Bone Chatter: sTrong bones are more than density. Let’s talk Quality.

    Bone health is close to my heart, professionally and personally. As a former radiographer who has reversed my own osteoporosis through lifestyle changes, I know firsthand how many gaps there are in what women are told about their bone health and what can be done to optimise it. This episode is my attempt to close a gap that is one of the biggest we’re not filling. Here’s the idea the whole episode is built on: Bone Strength = Bone Density + Bone Quality Most of us only ever hear about the first half. Today I’m giving equal airtime to the second. In This Episode… The density dominant health system: I walk through how the standard, conventional Australian medical pathway works, how our health system ‘supports’ bone health. It’s similar to the US, UK, Canada and perhaps where you are too. The conventional framework: 1. Hit age 70 and you’re eligible for a Medicare subsidised DEXA bone scan (unless you have other health issues that warrant a scan or you’ve had a fracture from low force). 2. Your GP (primary provider) writes a referral for a standard DEXA scan which measures ‘density’. 3. If your T-score comes back below −2.5 (the threshold for osteoporosis) usually a conversation about medication then happens. I explain why Bone Mineral Density (BMD) or ‘density’ alone is not capturing the whole fragility picture. I use a wall analogy throughout the episode to talk about the types of bone we have and a construction analogy for how they come together. {yes, I was a project manager in a previous life - can you tell?} Meet the third bone cell we’re not talking enough about: You’ve probably heard of osteoblasts (builders) and osteoclasts (demolition crew) and the bone Remodelling process. I introduce the one that’s missing from that story, the osteocyte and explain why I think of it as the foreman on the site, sending the signals that coordinate the other two. I also share where osteocytes come from, and why the demolition crew is, cellularly speaking, a complete stranger to the builders; why the osteocyte foreman plays such an important role. Measuring bone quality: I share the tools, the ways to measure bone quality, that go beyond a standard DEXA. Scans such as DEXA with TBS, REMS and CT as well as bone turnover markers that can be assessed with a blood test. I do DEXA, REMS and bone turnover markers myself, for exactly this reason. They’re all bone health clues that offer up different information. The drugs - how they work: With bone cell knowledge shared, I then explain the three very different forms of osteoporosis medications in Australia. They may have different brand names where you are. · Antiresorptives (”the brakes”) like denosumab (Prolia) and alendronate (Fosamax) · Bone-Forming (”the builders”) like teriparatide (Forsteo) · Signal Modulator/Dual-Action (“The Renovators”) like romosozumab (Evenity) My goal is NOT to tell you which one is best or right, it’s to help you to know the basics so you can ask better questions of your own doctor, with greater confidence, because you understand broadly how they work. What strengthens the signal — and what quietly breaks it: Why mechanical loading is the trigger osteocytes respond to (to listen in and generate their signal) and why the oestrogen drop in perimenopause and post-menopause is a double hit - fewer signal-senders, and the ones left, leaning toward degrading. The movement that matters most: Appreciating that mechanical loading is the trigger for osteocytes I talk about the forms of mechanical load that they prefer - impact, multidirectional loading, and ‘surprise’ – yes, even osteocytes can become ‘bored’ and tune out. I also walk through some of the best human research on this including a one-legged hopping trial and an Army training study – both using HR-pQCT imaging to measure specifically, bone Quality. And I share why I’ve recently gone back to squash after 30 years away – because this sport has it all. [The research studies and links to them are in the Resources section below so you can dive in more yourself]. Protein - the raw material behind it all: Not to weigh or rather ‘whey’ into this because it’s very topical right now. No. Rather because protein (collagen) determines our wall’s build quality. It’s what osteoblasts lay down first when they build bone. I get into anabolic resistance which gives clues to why we need more protein as we age, the most beneficial forms and how best to have it across the day. And I talk about the ‘conversion’ – how much of actual meat weight it takes to hit an ideal protein target. I say in the podcast that I’d add the protein information in the show notes so here it is: Bodies like ESPEN (the European clinical nutrition society) recommend older adults aim for roughly 1.0–1.2 g/kg/day – meaningfully above the general RDA of about .8. What’ that in pounds? about 0.45-0.54g/pound/day. However, requirements vary with body size, illness, kidney function, activity level and whether the person is under-fuelling. The right form of protein matters too. It’s thought that Leucine acts like a physical “on switch” for protein synthesis. Ideal sources: whey protein isolate (WPI), dairy, lean meats, poultry, fish, and eggs. Distribution matters, not just total intake. Research on older adults suggests protein needs to be spread across the day – around 30 g per meal, three times a day rather than loaded into one meal, to actually support the anabolic (building) response. That’s not 30g by weight. 30g of what the body uses is about a deck of cards size of meat protein. To get 30g of actual, usable protein, you need to eat roughly 100 to 120 grams of total meat weight (depending on whether it is lean chicken, fish, or beef). The Diabetic Bone Paradox: I mention this as a real-life example of how a particular (and rather common) condition can present as having a good quality bone Density on a DEXA scan but underneath, the bone Quality is frail. Something a standard DEXA scan does not show. Why some women can have a great-looking DEXA scan and still be at real risk, because density and quality are not the same thing. The Bottom Line… Strong bones = good density and good quality. Built by a signal you can strengthen, and a matrix you can nourish. My one ask this week: know your bones to help your bones. Consider asking for DEXA with TBS or a REMS alongside your next DEXA when next you scan to measure you bone health status. And if you haven’t yet, don’t wait. Take the initiative and do it! Ask. For your bone health, find a movement practice that includes impact. Move in ways that are safe for you that will strengthen that bone signal. Maybe that means introducing a new ‘surprise’ move. With a strong caveat here… Movement under the supervision or advice of a professional in the field who knows safe, effective moves and moves that will work best for you and your health status. This episode is information. Not an invitation for you to self-assess and dive in and do. While you’re at it, maybe take a good look at your protein intake. Next: in this episode we’ve talked about the conversation happening inside your skeleton. Next, I’m exploring how bone talks to the rest of your body as an incredible endocrine organ, sending signals to your kidneys, blood sugar, muscles, and possibly your brain. Our bones do so much for us. It’s time we stood back and appreciate just how amazing they are. Giving them what they need to be at their best. To avoid fracture. Because in midlife, you’re just getting started and Future You is cheering you on. Resources & Further Reading * Du, Y. et al., “Bone microstructure adaptation after 6-month unilateral hopping in postmenopausal women,” Osteoporosis International — PubMed · Open access full text * U.S. Army/University of British Columbia study on distal tibial microarchitecture during 8-week basic combat training — Wiley Online Library (JBMR Plus) * Deakin University systematic review & meta-analysis on exercise and trabecular microarchitecture — Calcified Tissue International · Full text on PMC * On the “diabetic bone paradox” — normal/high BMD with elevated fracture risk in type 2 diabetes — PubMed This episode is educational, not medical advice. Please bring your own results and questions to your GP or specialist. Thank you so much for being here. I do hope you found a few gems in this conversation. If you know of someone else in you your life who might, then please share this on with them! That would be awesome. Thank you. And thank you to everyone who tuned into my live video like Lea! Join me for my next live video in the app. Anita xx This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit midlifeunfiltered.substack.com

    Bone Chatter: sTrong bones are more than density. Let’s talk Quality.
  6. Aug 17

    AI & Wearables: What’s trending and the possible social and personal impacts with Kiki Hart.

    In this episode, I sit down with Kiki Hart for our regular deep dive, this time into AI and wearables (wearable technology) - smartwatches, rings, glucose monitors and those camera-equipped glasses that are flying off the shelves. We talk about what it means for us as individuals and for society, when our bodies start generating a continuous stream of data the tech collects. Who has it, who has access to it and what does that mean for our privacy? Kiki brings her legal background to the conversation, walking through privacy cases here in Australia and overseas. I also share what happened when I wore a continuous glucose monitor for my own “N of 1” experiment, as a real life example. It’s a conversation about the amazing potential of this technology and the very real risks that come with it. How do we hold both these often opposing views and impacts at once? We Talk About… * Why wearables are moving us from occasional snapshots of health data (like a weekly step count) to a continuous stream and what that means for predictive and preventative health * The privacy and legal storm around AI smart glasses, including the current US class action against Meta’s Ray-Ban glasses * Australia’s new tort of serious privacy intrusion, introduced in mid-2025, and how it might (and might not) protect us * An early Australian family law case where a child’s wearable data was used as evidence in a custody dispute * What happened when Google acquired Fitbit, and why Australia’s competition regulator got involved * My own experience wearing a continuous glucose monitor, and how I used AI to turn the data into something useful for my doctor * Practical, non-negotiable steps to take before you buy or set up any wearable: privacy policies, default settings and only connecting what you need * De-identify your personal data - how some organisations are doing this and what you can do too * Femtech (female technology), women’s health data and the tension between wanting to contribute to research and staying private * Why insurance (health, travel, life) is potentially a real threat to where our personal data from wearables is most likely to be used against us as we age Resources Mentioned * OAIC: Statutory tort for serious invasions of privacy : the official government explainer on Australia’s new privacy tort, which came into force on 10 June 2025 * Meta AI Glasses class action coverage (Engadget) : background on the US class action alleging Meta misled consumers about privacy on its Ray-Ban smart glasses * ACCC: Google rejected on Fitbit undertakings —:the Australian competition regulator’s response when Google moved to acquire Fitbit and its decade of health data About My Guest Kiki Hart (Louise Cooper) joins me regularly, roughly every six weeks on Midlife Unfiltered to unpack what AI actually means for us as humans – socially and personally. Not the tech specs, but the social, personal and legal implications. Kiki recently wrote an article related to this topic if you’d like to check that out - ‘How Is Tech Changing Ageing'?’ Find it here on Substack. Midlife Unfiltered - Take back your power and choose yourself in midlife and beyond. Honest conversations about AI, midlife and everything in between. Exploring often taboo topics and busting outdated stereotypes. Speaking of AI…these show notes were essentially generated using Claude.ai from the podcast transcript (and then edited by me). Thanks for joining our human conversation. We hope you find a few gems in there that are helpful and perhaps, has you thinking differently. It often has that effect on us. If you think there is someone in your life who’d find it helpful or interesting, please share it on. That would be fabulous. Until next week. A massive thank you Kiki Hart Anita xx Thank you to everyone who tuned into my live video! Join me for my next live video next week in the app. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit midlifeunfiltered.substack.com

    AI & Wearables: What’s trending and the possible social and personal impacts with Kiki Hart.
  7. Aug 12

    The Honest Truth: Loving & Caring For a Parent with Alzheimer's - Michelle's Story.

    “It’s a funny thing when someone tells you what you already know and then you think, no, I don’t want to hear that…There’s a relief and then at the same time, it’s like no, no, I don’t want it to be true, I want it to be wrong.” Michelle Spencer. Michelle’s mum is 85 and has Alzheimer’s. Michelle’s been her primary carer. Michelle’s story is absolutely hers but it’s far from unique. Many midlife women are the primary Carer of their aging parents and with women statistically living longer than men (current Australian estimates are 85.1 years for females versus 81.1 years for males), it’s often our Mum in our care after having spent years caring for our Dad. But Mum living longer does not always mean she’s living as well in her final years. Here in Australia, dementia is the #1 cause of death and Alzheimer’s is the predominant disease under that umbrella. Australian sources estimate that Alzheimer’s disease accounts for roughly 50–70% of dementia cases, although the estimate is not a precise 2026 national figure. Many older people have mixed dementia, most commonly Alzheimer’s pathology together with vascular changes. Therefore, Alzheimer’s disease may contribute to a person’s dementia even when it is not the only diagnosis. For Women: Around two-thirds of people living with dementia in Australia are women; the prevalence is approximately 1 in 7 in ages 80–84, 1 in 4 at 85–89, and nearly 1 in 2 at age 90 and over. Midlife Unfiltered — The Dementia Series This series exists because there’s still so much we don’t know - not just in the medical and research world, but in everyday, lived understanding. These aren’t conversations we typically have. So we’re having them. In this episode I sit down with Michelle, who has loved not one but two people with dementia - her mum, who has Alzheimer’s, and her father-in-law, who had frontotemporal dementia and passed away in 2014. Michelle and I hope that by sharing her story it helps you to appreciate what it’s like loving and caring for someone with Alzheimer’s. If you’re loving someone with dementia right now, I hope this feels like a warm, understanding hug. And if you’ve already walked this road, thank you for your love and care. And now…to this very honest and unfiltered conversation. The Signs The changes Michelle talks about here were signs that her mum was not herself. The woman she had known all her life who began to do things differently. * She stopped learning and engaging with new things. An avid learner her entire life, this was very unusual. An early adopter of technology — it became “the computer’s fault.” * She was not engaging as much - again, quite unusual for Michelle’s mum, who was always very social. * When something felt different, she’d brush it off when asked to explore it a little more, for deeper understanding. * Struggling more at home - not as organised as she used to be. * Skills decay. Stopped going to the library. Struggled with her knitting. Trying hard, but not ‘winning’. * Short-term memory failing - like remembering to take medication and falsely saying that she had. The blessing in disguise - a heart attack. Michelle talks about why this was actually a blessing. It taught them to ready themselves for what lay ahead as her mum’s condition declined. How Things Progressed Michelle’s mum was living alone at home. A very independent woman — she wanted it that way. Here’s how things progressed. 4 years ago - minor assistance needed with a few household tasks. 2 years ago - more intense help needed, because she was: * Losing weight, not eating well * Wandering out of her home at night - the neighbours had been kindly keeping an eye on her * Disoriented and getting lost when walking home * A smoker - advice from Dementia Australia was invaluable here, to help keep her safe from setting the house on fire * Burning food - literally catching the microwave on fire in the kitchen With the help of good neighbours: they were looking out for Michelle’s mum, without her even knowing. One of them had a security camera aimed at his own front door and quietly repositioned an extra one to cover her mum’s door too. When she wandered out at odd hours, someone would just “happen to be there for a lovely chat”. If there was more of that kind of quiet, dignified watching-out-for-each-other in the world, Michelle thinks everyone living with dementia would be safer. Her safety was becoming a deep concern. Dementia Support here in Australia suggested to Michelle that it would be safer for her mum to be in a care facility. Some Challenges Caring for and loving someone with Alzheimer’s has enormous challenges. Conversations that are difficult and awkward to navigate. Here are a few that came up in our chat. “Seeing the truth.” Her mum’s truth was not as Michelle knew it to be. Learning to accept that and to have conversations without confrontation. It’s not lying, it’s their reality. Michelle credits speech pathologist Adria Thompson (of Be Like Care) for a reframe that changed everything: people with dementia lose the ability to lie quite early on. So when they say “I’m absolutely fine,” they believe it. No amount of “but I told you” gets through once short-term memory goes. It’s pointless. You have to meet them in their reality, not drag them into yours. Masking It Well. For a long time, Michelle wondered if she was the only one who could see it. Everyone else thought her mum was fine because for a minute or two of conversation, she was. Her social skills and ability to have conversations were still rather good. “I don’t want to live if I get dementia”. Michelle’s mum had previously said she didn’t want to live if she ever had dementia. She was a nurse her whole working life. She knew what it looked like. Living at home alone. With her safety deeply compromised. Fiercely independent Michelle’s mum did not want anyone living with her. Going into full-time care after a stint in respite. “I will call the police. I will go home. I will never forgive you.” A few days later, she was okay. Four months later, she said she was happy there. That it’s a nice place. Love got them through. Being in an Aged Care Home Michelle and I go deep on this and talk about it very openly – myth busting. Society’s stigma. This is a very real and unfortunate stigma that’s prevalent in our society. The judgement is unwarranted and so hurtful. “I’m never going to do that. I would never put my mother into an aged care facility.” Until you do. Then perspectives change and the compassionate understanding comes with it. In the right care facility, those with dementia and their carers can have very positive experiences and outcomes just as Michelle and her mum have. Not to say it’s an easy decision. Far from it. It’s bloody hard, and it takes enormous strength to make it and carry it out. But once settled, both patient and carer can do well. Well in a situation where there is often little light in the dark. Let’s not sugarcoat this. A dementia condition is a downward slope of decline, with no cure. Ultimately leading to death. You never know what someone’s story is. The reasons are as varied as the conditions that force our hands. Michelle talks about a family member who was adamant he didn’t want another family member wiping his bottom (and this is what it often gets down to, when someone with dementia can no longer take care of themselves). His preference was external help - the care facility option, when the time came. So for goodness sake, don’t judge. Odds are and the stats are stacked here, it could be someone you love, and a decision you’ll have to face one day. The Carer’s Perspective We don’t fully appreciate what’s involved in caring for someone with dementia. The stress. The 24x7 care. The lack of sleep. The physical and emotional demands. It’s a lot. Relationship strain, as the relationship changes. In Michelle’s case with her mum, the person she’d gone to for advice and care most of her life is no longer able to offer that the way she once did. Roles flip. They now need everything from you. There are countless examples of this, depending on the nature of the relationship involved. And we grieve that loss. Relationship repair. This is another benefit of getting external help. As we care for those we love with dementia, our relationship with them changes too from say, Mother and Daughter, to Carer and Care Recipient. With full-time care in a home, there’s a chance to revive some of that previous relationship. There’s still much to be done even once a loved one is in a facility, but you know they’re safe and getting the level of care you’re not equipped to give. Carer’s guilt, embarrassment and shame. Why couldn’t I do more? Often carers have their own health conditions to manage at the same time, an added stress that makes it very difficult to deal with both. Michelle has POTS, a debilitating condition at times, which limits her ability to physically help and care for her mum. Having the skills. We may be willing, but we may not be able. Dealing with someone with dementia takes a certain skill set, a capability, an experience, that ensures the right standard of care is given in the right way. As family carers, most of us just don’t have that. Burnout and loss of empathy. Michelle was honest enough to tell a psychologist she felt herself becoming less patient, less empathetic. The response? That’s not a character flaw. That’s burnout. Care tends to fall on one person more than others in a family and let’s be honest, it’s usually a daughter. Carer’s allowance is a joke. Michelle doesn’t hold back. There’s little rest, and often little thanks. And when carers do reach their absolute limit it’s sometimes cruelly called “granny dumping”. Michelle asks that instead of judging,

    The Honest Truth: Loving & Caring For a Parent with Alzheimer's - Michelle's Story.
  8. Jul 29

    Why Your Menopause Transition Is Your Biggest Health Opportunity: with Dr Kelly Teagle, Women's Health Powerhouse.

    Hello and Welcome! Today I’m joined by one of Australia’s powerhouses in women’s health, Dr Kelly Teagle - GP, founder of WellFemme and a woman who knows about it as a respected doctor and as a woman. Kelly hit her own perimenopause in her early 40s while going through a separation, raising two kids under four and juggling a stressful job. Even as a women’s health professional, she didn’t see it coming until the hot flushes (flashes) started and things felt different. That experience is one of the reasons WellFemme exists today, as Kelly sought out health professionals knowledgeable about women’s health. Fueled by Covid and the uptake of telehealth consultations WellFemme was Australia’s first dedicated telehealth clinic specialising specifically in perimenopause and menopause care. It’s been recognised as the premier service provider in this space. In this episode, Kelly and I dig into what she calls the ‘sliding window’ of the menopause transition: a narrow period (pardon the pun) of time where the small decisions you make now compound into who you are at 70, 80 and beyond. It’s a rich, practical, occasionally colourful conversation about hormones and the downstream diseases that can present as we age; affecting our bones, hearts, brains…so many aspects of our health. And more importantly, why we’re not talking about any of it early enough! So in this episode, we do. In this episode we talk about… * Why perimenopause is a ‘sliding window of opportunity’ for our future health. Not just a list of symptoms to manage which is where most of the conversations on women’s health are centred. * Kelly’s own perimenopause story, and how it led her to start Australia’s first dedicated telehealth menopause and women’s health clinic in 2018. * Why regular periods don’t rule out perimenopause. Yes, you can still be having regular periods ladies, meanwhile the hormonal shifts are happening - the estrogen–progesterone ‘dance’ gets wobbly years before your last period. * How the symptoms are different in the perimenopause and postmenopausal years. * Why menopause is described as a ‘withdrawal state’ and what that means for the changes you feel and for the health of Future You as you age. * The downstream impacts of those hormonal shifts in our postmenopause years - impacts on bone health, cardio-vascular health, dementia. And why waiting 10+ years post menopause can close the window on effective hormone therapy for chronic disease prevention. * Bone health: up to 10–15% of bone density lost in the first five years after menopause. * The ridiculous waiting for a bone scan - Australia’s Dexa scan subsidy gap where women can’t access a subsidised bone density scan until they’re 70 without a pre-existing condition. Aaaargh!!! * Cardio-vascular disease: Why women present differently and later to emergency departments with heart attacks, which significantly impacts their appropriate treatment in a timely manner. * Symptoms of a female heart attack are not like they are for men - not like they are in the movies! * Dementia: the #1 cause of death in Australia now (equal first with cardio-vascular disease). * The hidden interaction between GLP-1 weight loss medications and hormonal treatments (including oral contraceptives and hormone therapy) - hint…GLP1’s can interfere with effectiveness of hormone dosages. * What Dr Kelly calls the ‘shrinking jellyfish effect’ of losing muscle and bone alongside fat. * Why it takes a village: GPs, dieticians, pelvic floor physios, exercise physiologists, psychologists (and other allied health professionals) all have a role to play on our health team. * Why Kelly is launching a new directory to help you find the right ones - to help you and your GP gather your team (if you are in Australia). * Kelly’s one piece of advice for this week: stop labouring under misconceptions and go find well-informed, evidence-based care. * Don’t wait! That sliding window of opportunity is closing and you don’t want to miss it. For Future You. Exciting News: Announcing MennoConnect! You heard it first, here (as they say on TV). Kelly gave me an exclusive first-look at WellFemme’s newest initiative, launching soon: MennoConnect - The Directory for Trusted Midlife Women’s Health Support across Australia. MenoConnect is a free directory of menopause-informed doctors and allied health professionals - dietitians, pelvic floor physios, exercise physiologists, psychologists and more. Those practitioners listed are fully vetted for their qualifications, experience, expertise, recommendations and passion. Not just listed after paying a membership fee as other directories do. Where women (and their GPs) can actually find the right support, wherever they are in Australia. If you’re a women’s health professional and would like to be considered, reach out to WellFemme to apply (link below). Resources * WellFemme — Kelly’s telehealth menopause clinic, servicing women Australia-wide * About Dr Kelly Teagle & WellFemme * Book a WellFemme Telehealth Consultation * Health professionals interested in WellFemme’s Preferred Provider directory (Menno Connect) can enquire via hello@wellfemme.com.au * Grab a sneak peek at MenoConnect here. Launching soon. A Question For You Have you got a midlife health sliding-window moment of your own? Hit reply or drop a comment, we’d love to see it and so might others who sense there’s something going on, but haven’t as yet taken action. A huge thank you for being here. I hope you found it helpful. If you did and think that others would too, then please share it on. If you’re on Substack, give it a Restack! That would be awesome. Thank you to everyone who tuned into my live video! Join me for my next live video in the app. Anita xx p.s. Kelly made a promise in this chat to come back and talk about Erectile Dysfunction in Women because…we have to set the record straight girls! Educate the bro’s about it. Look out for that one. If you’re looking forward to that chat let me know what you’d like to know about it and I’ll put it to Kelly :) Send me a message or leave me a comment. Axx This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit midlifeunfiltered.substack.com

    Why Your Menopause Transition Is Your Biggest Health Opportunity: with Dr Kelly Teagle, Women's Health Powerhouse.

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