Happy Beyond 40

Marcy Sutherland and Sarah Breigle
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Are you 40+ and still trying to figure out what, who, or where you want to be, when you grow up? Then you are in the right place. This is Happy Beyond 40… Together, we are connecting with guests and listeners to discuss ways to live authentically while honoring our inner child, and genuine spirit, all while aging and adulting. Our intention is to support each other through shared stories, lived experiences and meaningful questions to help all of us uncover our paths forward. Beware of dry humor, sarcasm, vulnerability, and everything in between. 

  1. 3d ago

    Get Curious, Not Critical: Rethinking How We Lead and Live

    What if the key to becoming a better leader and living a more fulfilling life starts with understanding yourself? In this episode of Happy Beyond 40, we sit down with Norm Pure, who brings over 20 years of experience in human potential development, leadership growth, and organizational change.  Together, we explore how self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and the fear of what others think can keep us stuck in survival mode. Norm offers a fresh perspective on emotions as data, explaining how tuning into our feelings and physical cues can help us recognize our triggers, challenge the stories we tell ourselves, and respond more intentionally. We also discuss the role of curiosity and humility in leadership, the power of asking questions rather than providing all the answers, and simple practices that can help us shift our energy and show up more fully in our lives and relationships. In this conversation, we explore: How to navigate self-doubt and let go of the feeling of not being “enough.”Why emotions are valuable data and how to use them to respond more intentionally.Practical ways to manage our energy, recognize survival mode, and reconnect with ourselves.How curiosity, humility, and self-awareness can transform the way we lead and live.By becoming more curious about ourselves, making space for different perspectives, and learning to get out of our own way, we can create new possibilities for how we lead, connect, and live. More info: The Energy Project: https://theenergyproject.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/norm-pure-23266a11/

  2. Sep 29

    Human Rights, Hope & the Courage to Show Up with Dr. Kristi Rudelius-Palmer

    What does it mean to turn a lifelong awareness of injustice into meaningful action and still find joy, hope, and connection along the way? In this episode of Happy Beyond 40, we sit down with Dr. Kristi Rudelius-Palmer, a longtime human rights educator, advocate, mentor, and community builder whose work has taken her around the world and brought together people committed to creating a more just society. Kristi shares how her early experiences shaped her commitment to human rights, what decades of working with educators and activists have taught her about our deep interconnectedness, and why the people who continue to show up—often in small but meaningful ways—inspire her every day. And she leaves us with powerful wisdom for anyone navigating the second half of life: stay true to yourself, don’t get too down on yourself, trust your gut, and keep creating space for what matters. Whether you're passionate about human rights or simply wondering how to live with greater purpose, connection, and joy, this conversation is an invitation to keep showing up and to ask yourself, What can I do today to raise my joy ceiling? Connect with Kristi: kristi@hreusa.org Learn more about Human Rights Educators USA: hreusa.org

  3. Sep 2

    Opening the Lid: Finding Belonging, Purpose & Possibility Beyond the Labels

    What if the things that make us different are actually the things that help us see the world more fully? In this episode of Happy Beyond 40, co-hosts Sarah and Marcy sit down with Lydia Dolch, founder of Open the Lid, a community and educational platform that helps individuals, families, and organizations navigate disability, neurodiversity, and belonging. Lydia brings more than 20 years of experience in exceptional education, along with her own lived experience with sensory processing challenges following traumatic brain injuries. Lydia's journey toward this work began at age 11, when she moved to Ithaca and experienced a radically inclusive school community where everyone was encouraged to belong. Years later, while working at a center for people with autism in Argentina, a young person who had never spoken said her name. That moment helped Lydia recognize her life's purpose: helping people find their voices, both literally and figuratively. In this conversation, Sarah, Marcy, and Lydia explore: What neurodiversity can teach us about seeing the world from different perspectivesWhy meeting people where they are can create space for empowerment, connection, and growthHow we can move beyond labels and stigma to create communities where everyone feels seen, heard, and valuedLydia reminds us that we do not have to have all the answers. Sometimes the most powerful thing we can do is listen, stay curious, and create space for people to discover their own answers. Because we are only complete together. Learn more about Lydia and Open the Lid at openthelid.com.

  4. Jul 23

    Stop Chasing Purpose. Start Choosing Joy.

    What if the key to a happier life isn't finding your purpose, but learning to enjoy the life you're already living? In this inspiring episode of Happy Beyond 40, Sarah sits down with leadership consultant and executive coach Samantha Tan to explore how expanding self-awareness can transform the way we live, work, and connect with ourselves and others. Together, they discuss why slowing down and listening to your body is often the first step toward meaningful change, how to reconnect with your authentic self after years of meeting everyone else's expectations, and why our humanity may become our greatest advantage in an AI-driven world. Samantha shares her personal journey of moving beyond perfectionism and the pressure to "find her purpose." She reveals how she discovered that enjoyment itself can become a compass for living well. From dancing salsa with her teenage son to embracing simple daily pleasures, she offers practical ways to cultivate more joy, even in the middle of life's transitions. In this episode, you'll learn: Why expanded self-awareness is the foundation for lasting change.How to reconnect with your authentic self beyond labels and expectations.The surprising power of asking, "How can I make this moment 10% more enjoyable?"Why enjoyment is a skill you can strengthen through daily practice.How to navigate change after 40 with greater confidence, freedom, and purpose.Why meaningful experiences often matter more than chasing the "perfect" life.If you've been feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or wondering what's next, this conversation offers a refreshing reminder that joy doesn't have to wait until you reach your next goal. It can begin right where you are. Connect with Samantha Tan: 🌐 https://www.samanthajtan.com/ 💼 https://www.linkedin.com/in/samantha-tan-0b955/ If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who could use a little more joy in their life.

  5. Jun 25

    Finding Hope, Purpose, and Peace in Uncertain Times

    What happens when the work that once gave your life meaning suddenly disappears? In this powerful return conversation, leadership coach, mindfulness practitioner, yoga teacher, and host of the ThriveMind Podcast, Courtney Finstad, joins us to explore the deep connection between purpose, identity, grief, and healing. Over the past year, Courtney has supported individuals impacted by the dismantling of humanitarian and mission-driven organizations, helping people navigate career loss, identity disruption, and the search for meaning during uncertain times. Together, we discuss why losing purpose-driven work can feel like losing a part of yourself, how hope can become an anchor during periods of transition, and why genuine healing begins not with fixing ourselves, but with creating space for rest, reflection, and connection. Courtney also shares insights from her work with communities like My Career Pivot, her growing ThriveMind Podcast, and The Soft Rebellion, a movement encouraging people to push back against hustle culture, constant productivity, and the pressure to optimize every moment. In a world increasingly driven by AI, speed, and achievement, this conversation is a reminder that our humanity, presence, creativity, and capacity for connection may be our greatest strengths. In this episode, you'll learn: Why purpose and identity are so deeply connectedHow to navigate grief after major life or career disruptionsThe role of rest, nervous system regulation, and community in healingWhy presence may be more valuable than productivityHow to trust intuition, ease, and the "wise agent within"Simple ways to reconnect with meaning right where you areWhether you're facing a career transition, questioning what's next, or simply craving a slower, more intentional way of living, this episode offers wisdom, hope, and practical reminders for the journey. Connect with Courtney: Host of the ThriveMind Podcast, leadership coach, mindfulness practitioner, and advocate for creating spaces where people can feel seen, supported, and empowered to thrive.

  6. May 27

    Leading with Integrity, Curiosity & Compassion with Dr. Sherry Deckman

    In this episode of Better Understanding, Sarah and Marcy sit down with Dr. Sherry Deckman, Professor of Education at Lehman College, Executive Officer of the PhD Program in Urban Education at the CUNY Graduate Center, author, researcher, and lifelong educator. Sherry shares her deeply personal and mission-driven journey, reflecting on how her multiracial upbringing, early conversations about racism and social justice, and teaching experiences around the globe have shaped her worldview and career path. Together, they explore: • What students and adults alike truly need in order to grow and thrive • Why integrity, humility, and listening are essential qualities in leadership • How leadership becomes more meaningful when it is relational and reciprocal • How mindfulness, compassion, and curiosity help her navigate difficult conversations and systemic challenges This episode is an honest, grounding, and hopeful conversation about education, leadership, identity, kindness, and the power of making people feel seen, valued, and heard. Whether you’re an educator, leader, parent, student, or simply someone trying to navigate the world with more intention and humanity, this conversation offers wisdom that will stay with you long after listening.

  7. Apr 28

    From Addiction to Impact: How One Story Can Change Lives

    What if the thing you’re most afraid to share… is the very thing someone else needs to hear? In this raw and powerful episode, Drew Sullivan opens up about his 17-year battle with addiction—and the unexpected mindset shift that finally helped him choose a different path. But this isn’t just a story about recovery. It’s about identity. Honesty. And what happens when you stop hiding and start showing up fully as yourself. Drew shares the moment that changed everything, how going public with his journey became a turning point, and why he now sees his story as a responsibility not just a reflection of his past. We also dive into: Why “small steps” are more powerful than big overhaulsThe surprising role attention and accountability played in his sobrietyHow community can form in the most unexpected waysWhy addiction isn’t always what we think it isAnd how to know when it’s time to make a changeToday, Drew helps bring some of the world’s most impactful voices to stages around the world, but in this conversation, he reminds us that our own voice might be the one that matters most. If you’ve ever struggled, felt stuck, or wondered whether change is really possible, then this episode is for you.

  8. Apr 1

    What Comes After “Enough”? Rethinking Success with Carolyn Regan

    Are you feeling stuck in your career—even though you’ve achieved success on paper? Wondering what’s next, but unsure where to start? In this episode, co-hosts Sarah and Marcy sit down with Carolyn Regan, former Chief People Officer turned leadership coach and creator of The Vital Shift, to explore how high achievers can reinvent their work and life for more meaning, alignment, and fulfillment. After a successful corporate career, Carolyn took a “power pause” and discovered that many accomplished professionals feel burned out, disconnected, and unclear about their next chapter. This conversation offers a practical path forward. In this episode, you’ll learn:  How to recognize the difference between burnout and lack of fulfillment  Why traditional success (money, titles) stops feeling meaningful—and what comes next  The concept of “enough” and how it reshapes your career decisions  The 4 key freedoms: time, relationships, purpose, and wealth  Simple micro-actions to help you get unstuck and start your next chapter If you’re navigating a career transition or craving more meaningful work, this episode will help you reset and move forward with clarity. Connect with Carolyn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carolynregan/  Subscribe to The Vital Shift: https://thecarolynregan.substack.com/

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Are you 40+ and still trying to figure out what, who, or where you want to be, when you grow up? Then you are in the right place. This is Happy Beyond 40… Together, we are connecting with guests and listeners to discuss ways to live authentically while honoring our inner child, and genuine spirit, all while aging and adulting. Our intention is to support each other through shared stories, lived experiences and meaningful questions to help all of us uncover our paths forward. Beware of dry humor, sarcasm, vulnerability, and everything in between. 

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  • Creator
    Marcy Sutherland and Sarah Breigle
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    48
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Happy Beyond 40
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