Butt Honestly with Doctor Carlton and Dangilo

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Doctor Carlton, The internet's favorite gay, Mayo Clinic trained board certified gastroenterologist and mouthy yet sensitive gay guy, Dangilo Brian Bonilla tackle the messy life challenges that Sex, Socializing, Love and Butt Stuff present in the lives of LGBTQ+ men and their friends.

  1. 12h ago

    Two Years Later... We're Still Talking About Butts -105

    Happy Anniversary, Booty Gang! 🥳 We can't believe it either, but BUTT HONESTLY is celebrating TWO YEARS of answering your questions, busting myths, oversharing just enough, and proving that no topic is too awkward when you've got Dr. Carlton and Dangilo behind the microphones. To celebrate, we've got an episode that's equal parts heartfelt, hilarious, and just a little explosive. A listener who's spent more than 30 years hiding his authentic self is finally ready to embrace who he is—and yes, he has questions about plugging in safely. Another Booty Gangster writes in all the way from the Middle East, wondering if his boyfriend's impressive proportions have permanently recalibrated his expectations. (Dr. Carlton assures us the human body is remarkably adaptable... emotionally, however, is another story.) Planning a getaway? One traveler headed to Mexico wants to know whether it's safe to take PrEP with water you wouldn't normally drink. Because nothing says "vacation planning" quite like discussing pharmaceuticals and questionable ice cubes. Then it's time for GIMME HEADLINES, where the guys break down the latest health news, including an intestinal parasite causing explosive diarrhea that's now been reported in 17 states. Suddenly, "running errands" takes on a whole new meaning. Along the way, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo celebrate two incredible years of laughs, learning, unforgettable listener stories, and the amazing community that has made the Booty Gang one of the most open, curious, and wonderfully unfiltered groups around. Whether you've been with us since Episode 1 or you just stumbled into this beautifully inappropriate corner of the internet, thank you for making Butt Honestly what it is today. As always, the guys close out the show with Love Language of the Week, because after two years of talking about butts, bodies, relationships, and occasionally parasites, we still believe connection is the healthiest thing of all. So hit play, celebrate with us, and here's to many more years of keeping it honest... Butt Honestly. 🍑🥂 https://www.healthline.com/health-news/cdc-warns-explosive-diarrhea-parasite-protect-yourself Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    54 min

  2. Jul 1

    Urethra Franklin- 104

    This week, the guys prove that life comes at you fast—and sometimes all in the same week. Dr. Carlton celebrates Pride in style with a trip to his local casino, where the drinks were flowing, the thongs were plenty for, and the people-watching was practically an Olympic sport. Meanwhile, Dangilo heads to Florida for a funeral, proving that even during life's heavier moments, family, reflection, and a little humor can still find a seat at the table. The guys also weigh in on the World Cup, because nothing brings people together quite like international competition... and the occasional shirtless athlete. Then it's time to open the mail sack. One Booty Gangster leaves us a heartfelt voicemail asking how Crohn's disease can impact intimacy and what it means for maintaining a healthy sex life. Dr. Carlton offers practical advice and reassurance for navigating sex when your body has other plans. Another listener is completely baffled after dealing with recurrent UTIs despite doing everything "right." Is it bad luck? Bad timing? Or is there something everyone overlooks? The guys break down the possibilities. And finally, one listener asks for advice on reopening an open relationship after pressing pause. Can you pick up where you left off? Do the rules change? And who exactly gets to rewrite the playbook? It's another episode full of medical insight, relationship advice, questionable life choices, and just enough side-eye to keep everyone honest. As always, the guys wrap things up with Love Language of the Week, reminding us that communication, trust, and a healthy sense of humor are still the sexiest things you can bring to any relationship. So grab your headphones, settle in, and join the Booty Gang. Because whether you're navigating Pride, partnerships, or plumbing issues... you're never alone when we're talking Butt Honestly. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 6m

  3. Jun 24

    Gym D**k-103

    This week, the mail sack is overflowing with questions that range from medically curious to " "well, that's definitely not supposed to look like that." One listener writes in after noticing that what's being shot out seems to have taken on a very unexpected color and texture. Is it cause for concern, or has Google simply convinced him he's moments from death? Dr. Carlton weighs in. Another Booty Gangster is dealing with a husband who brought home a gift that keeps on giving—and unfortunately, it wasn't flowers, jewelry, or a surprise vacation. The guys discuss what happens when trust, communication, and a little medical intervention all need to work together. Meanwhile, another listener wants to know why one specific body part refuses to get as swole as the rest of him at the gym. Is it genetics? Technique? Bad luck? Or is the body simply choosing favorites? Outside the inbox, the guys talk World Cup fever, sports, fandoms, and the things people will do in the name of competition. Then the conversation takes a turn down memory lane as they swap stories about their earliest encounters with adult entertainment and the moments that shaped an entire generation's questionable search histories. As always, they wrap things up with Love Language of the Week and What's Making You Feel Sexy, because after discussing bodily fluids, gym frustrations, and relationship surprises, everyone deserves to end on a positive note. So grab your headphones, join the Booty Gang, and remember: sometimes life gives you lemons... and sometimes it gives you symptoms. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1 hr

  4. Jun 17

    Edging From The Inside- 102

    Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY — the podcast where no question is too personal, no topic is too awkward, and somehow we're all learning things we never expected to know about the human body. This week, it's another packed episode full of butts, bodies, and breaking news. A Booty Gangster from Ukraine shares a deeply personal story about navigating the complicated crossroads of identity, guilt, shame, and sexuality. It's an honest and thoughtful conversation that reminds us how messy, complicated, and very human our relationships with ourselves can be. Meanwhile, another listener wants the guys to weigh in on rosebudding. Yes, that rosebudding. If you've heard the term and immediately regretted Googling it, you're not alone. Dr. Carlton breaks down what it is, what causes it, and why some things are better discussed on a podcast than searched at two in the morning. We also hear from a listener who recently received heart stents and has one very important question: are poppers officially off the menu, or is there still room for a little chemical-enhanced recreation? The answer, as always, is more complicated than the internet would have you believe. In Gimme Headlines, we're covering reports of a newly identified STI outbreak that investigators have traced to a bathhouse in France, proving once again that what happens in a bathhouse doesn't always stay in a bathhouse. The guys also discuss the Department of Veterans Affairs eliminating certain health services that impact LGBTQ+ veterans and what that could mean for the community. Outside the exam room, Dangilo recaps his trip to Los Angeles, where he spent time with some queer icons and lived his best celebrity-adjacent life. Naturally, there are stories. And because even a podcast about sex, health, and occasionally questionable decision-making has a softer side, the gang wraps things up with their Love Language of the Week. Whether you're here for the medical advice, the headlines, or simply because no other podcast says the word "rosebudding" with such professionalism, we've got you covered. Grab your headphones, join the Booty Gang, and remember: curiosity is healthy. Some Google searches, however, are not. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 19m

  5. Jun 10

    Bottom Fever Dreams- 101

    This week on Butt Honestly, we're taking another deep dive into life's most pressing questions—most of which seem to be happening... down there. First up, we get an update from a Booty Gangster whose anatomy has decided to add a little extra curve to the conversation. A closeted listener writes in with concerns about an enlarged prostate and some unexpected numbness, proving once again that the human body loves surprises and rarely the fun kind. Meanwhile, several listeners want the truth about shockwave therapy. Is it a breakthrough treatment? A wellness trend? Or just another expensive way to make your wallet feel lighter? Dr. Carlton breaks down what we know, what we don't know, and what you should know before pointing any machinery toward your nether regions. The guys also stumble upon a social media post that sparks a heated debate about "Bottom Fever." Is it a real condition? A seasonal illness? A side effect of spending too much time on certain apps after midnight? The jury may still be out, but the conversation is definitely in. Outside the medical charts, Dr. Carlton recaps his weekend adventure in Las Vegas, where the lights were bright, the stories were plentiful, and what happened there absolutely did not stay there. The gang also weighs in on the latest from Drag Race, shares thoughts on the Tony Awards, and somehow manages to connect theater, drag queens, and sexual health without missing a beat. As always, they wrap things up with their Love Language of the Week, sending you off with a little warmth, a little wisdom, and hopefully fewer questions about your prostate than when you started. Whether you're here for the medical advice, the questionable humor, or because you've convinced yourself that Googling symptoms counts as preventative care, we've got you covered. Pull up a seat, put in your earbuds, and join the Booty Gang. Side effects may include laughter, learning, and suddenly becoming very aware of everything happening... down there. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    50 min

  6. Jun 3

    Keeping It 100-100

    Hello Booty Gang, and welcome to Episode 100 of BUTT HONESTLY. One hundred episodes. Hundreds of questions. Thousands of laughs. Countless discussions about things most people would never dare bring up in public. And for this milestone episode, we're handing the microphone over to the people who made it all possible: you. This week is all about the Booty Gangsters and the stories, questions, confessions, and experiences you've trusted us with over the years. One listener is facing a shocking diagnosis. Another is navigating the frustrating reality of a sex life temporarily sidelined by medication and all the unexpected challenges that come with it. We also hear from a Booty Gangster whose story serves as a powerful reminder that grief, healing, pleasure, and joy aren't mutually exclusive—sometimes they all show up together, often when you least expect them. And because this is Butt Honestly, we couldn't get through Episode 100 without a little adventure. One listener checks a major item off his sexual bucket list and sends us a detailed play-by-play of a first-time experience he'll never forget—and frankly, neither will we. Along the way, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo reflect on 100 episodes of medical questions, questionable decisions, life lessons, laughter, community, and the incredible group of listeners who continue to make this show what it is. From the heartfelt to the hilarious, the educational to the outrageous, you've trusted us with your stories, and we've been honored to share them. So grab your headphones, settle in, and join us as we celebrate Episode 100 the best way we know how: by keeping it honest, keeping it real, and keeping it 100. And of course, the guys wrap things up with their Love Language of the Week—because after 100 episodes, a little love still goes a long way. Thank you for listening. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for being part of the Booty Gang. Here's to the next 100. 🍑🎙️ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    58 min

  7. May 27

    Guts, Glory & IML- 99

    This week on Butt Honestly, The guys dive headfirst into IML with a recap from Dr. Carlton’s very own experience on the scene. Yes, there were laughs, yes there were lessons. From the neon-lit chaos to the surprisingly tender moments in between, we unpack it all.  We also get a special “yay Honey Davenport!” moment, because if you can’t celebrate a little drag royalty while discussing gastrointestinal logistics, what are we even doing here? Elsewhere in the inbox, a booty gangster writes in with a question that takes us back to the absolute basics of anal intercourse—think “Anal 101,” but with less syllabus and more emotional vulnerability. Meanwhile, Tramps checks in after having his “guts rearranged” at a conference in Chicago. On Gimme Headlines, things take a slightly alarming turn as STI rates in Europe decide to hit all the high notes, while the CDC in the U.S. is serving up something closer to a low-budget funeral dirge. Educational? Yes. Comforting? Absolutely not And of course, we close things out with Love Language of the Week—where emotional intelligence meets questionable life choices in the most honest way possible. If you came for sex education, you’ll leave slightly more informed. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 6m

  8. May 20

    Am I the B-Hole?-98

    Hello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the inbox is full, the headlines are heavy. This week, we hear from a Booty Gangster in an open relationship who’s asking the age-old modern question: Am I being reasonable… or am I the B-hole? The guys unpack jealousy, expectations, communication, and the complicated math of balancing freedom with feelings. Relationships: easy in theory, advanced placement course in practice. Then it’s time for GIMME HEADLINES, and the news cycle is serving everything from meaningful to maddening. Dr. Carlton talks about his recent contribution to The Advocate, because occasionally the chaos comes with credentials. The guys also discuss the cancellation of Long Beach Pride’s festival, and take a moment to acknowledge the tragic loss impacting Chicago’s leather community. Because this is still Butt Honestly, the emotional depth is immediately followed by another listener asking a practical question for the ages: Can you double your disco dose? Medical inquiry or ambitious scheduling? Dr. Carlton weighs in before anyone starts experimenting with pharmaceutical optimism. Outside the inbox, Dangilo reports back from a suspiciously calm weekend, Dr. Carlton somehow survives a jam-packed weekend that includes Pink in concert, and Producer Tony takes us into the dramatic, glitter-covered battlefield that is Eurovision, where geopolitics and sequins have entered a legally binding relationship. As always, the episode wraps with the guys’ Love Language of the Week, because after open relationships, heartbreak, Pride politics, and European pop diplomacy… we all deserve a little affection. Press play. It’s thoughtful, messy, and just enough chaos to remind you why you keep coming back. 🍑🎙️ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 12m
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Doctor Carlton, The internet's favorite gay, Mayo Clinic trained board certified gastroenterologist and mouthy yet sensitive gay guy, Dangilo Brian Bonilla tackle the messy life challenges that Sex, Socializing, Love and Butt Stuff present in the lives of LGBTQ+ men and their friends.

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