Butt Honestly with Doctor Carlton and Dangilo

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Doctor Carlton, The internet's favorite gay, Mayo Clinic trained board certified gastroenterologist and mouthy yet sensitive gay guy, Dangilo Brian Bonilla tackle the messy life challenges that Sex, Socializing, Love and Butt Stuff present in the lives of LGBTQ+ men and their friends.

  1. 5h ago

    Edging From The Inside- 103

    Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY — the podcast where no question is too personal, no topic is too awkward, and somehow we're all learning things we never expected to know about the human body. This week, it's another packed episode full of butts, bodies, and breaking news. A Booty Gangster from Ukraine shares a deeply personal story about navigating the complicated crossroads of identity, guilt, shame, and sexuality. It's an honest and thoughtful conversation that reminds us how messy, complicated, and very human our relationships with ourselves can be. Meanwhile, another listener wants the guys to weigh in on rosebudding. Yes, that rosebudding. If you've heard the term and immediately regretted Googling it, you're not alone. Dr. Carlton breaks down what it is, what causes it, and why some things are better discussed on a podcast than searched at two in the morning. We also hear from a listener who recently received heart stents and has one very important question: are poppers officially off the menu, or is there still room for a little chemical-enhanced recreation? The answer, as always, is more complicated than the internet would have you believe. In Gimme Headlines, we're covering reports of a newly identified STI outbreak that investigators have traced to a bathhouse in France, proving once again that what happens in a bathhouse doesn't always stay in a bathhouse. The guys also discuss the Department of Veterans Affairs eliminating certain health services that impact LGBTQ+ veterans and what that could mean for the community. Outside the exam room, Dangilo recaps his trip to Los Angeles, where he spent time with some queer icons and lived his best celebrity-adjacent life. Naturally, there are stories. And because even a podcast about sex, health, and occasionally questionable decision-making has a softer side, the gang wraps things up with their Love Language of the Week. Whether you're here for the medical advice, the headlines, or simply because no other podcast says the word "rosebudding" with such professionalism, we've got you covered. Grab your headphones, join the Booty Gang, and remember: curiosity is healthy. Some Google searches, however, are not. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 18m

  2. Jun 10

    Bottom Fever Dreams- 101

    This week on Butt Honestly, we're taking another deep dive into life's most pressing questions—most of which seem to be happening... down there. First up, we get an update from a Booty Gangster whose anatomy has decided to add a little extra curve to the conversation. A closeted listener writes in with concerns about an enlarged prostate and some unexpected numbness, proving once again that the human body loves surprises and rarely the fun kind. Meanwhile, several listeners want the truth about shockwave therapy. Is it a breakthrough treatment? A wellness trend? Or just another expensive way to make your wallet feel lighter? Dr. Carlton breaks down what we know, what we don't know, and what you should know before pointing any machinery toward your nether regions. The guys also stumble upon a social media post that sparks a heated debate about "Bottom Fever." Is it a real condition? A seasonal illness? A side effect of spending too much time on certain apps after midnight? The jury may still be out, but the conversation is definitely in. Outside the medical charts, Dr. Carlton recaps his weekend adventure in Las Vegas, where the lights were bright, the stories were plentiful, and what happened there absolutely did not stay there. The gang also weighs in on the latest from Drag Race, shares thoughts on the Tony Awards, and somehow manages to connect theater, drag queens, and sexual health without missing a beat. As always, they wrap things up with their Love Language of the Week, sending you off with a little warmth, a little wisdom, and hopefully fewer questions about your prostate than when you started. Whether you're here for the medical advice, the questionable humor, or because you've convinced yourself that Googling symptoms counts as preventative care, we've got you covered. Pull up a seat, put in your earbuds, and join the Booty Gang. Side effects may include laughter, learning, and suddenly becoming very aware of everything happening... down there. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    50 min

  3. Jun 3

    Keeping It 100-100

    Hello Booty Gang, and welcome to Episode 100 of BUTT HONESTLY. One hundred episodes. Hundreds of questions. Thousands of laughs. Countless discussions about things most people would never dare bring up in public. And for this milestone episode, we're handing the microphone over to the people who made it all possible: you. This week is all about the Booty Gangsters and the stories, questions, confessions, and experiences you've trusted us with over the years. One listener is facing a shocking diagnosis. Another is navigating the frustrating reality of a sex life temporarily sidelined by medication and all the unexpected challenges that come with it. We also hear from a Booty Gangster whose story serves as a powerful reminder that grief, healing, pleasure, and joy aren't mutually exclusive—sometimes they all show up together, often when you least expect them. And because this is Butt Honestly, we couldn't get through Episode 100 without a little adventure. One listener checks a major item off his sexual bucket list and sends us a detailed play-by-play of a first-time experience he'll never forget—and frankly, neither will we. Along the way, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo reflect on 100 episodes of medical questions, questionable decisions, life lessons, laughter, community, and the incredible group of listeners who continue to make this show what it is. From the heartfelt to the hilarious, the educational to the outrageous, you've trusted us with your stories, and we've been honored to share them. So grab your headphones, settle in, and join us as we celebrate Episode 100 the best way we know how: by keeping it honest, keeping it real, and keeping it 100. And of course, the guys wrap things up with their Love Language of the Week—because after 100 episodes, a little love still goes a long way. Thank you for listening. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for being part of the Booty Gang. Here's to the next 100. 🍑🎙️ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    58 min

  4. May 27

    Guts, Glory & IML- 99

    This week on Butt Honestly, The guys dive headfirst into IML with a recap from Dr. Carlton’s very own experience on the scene. Yes, there were laughs, yes there were lessons. From the neon-lit chaos to the surprisingly tender moments in between, we unpack it all.  We also get a special “yay Honey Davenport!” moment, because if you can’t celebrate a little drag royalty while discussing gastrointestinal logistics, what are we even doing here? Elsewhere in the inbox, a booty gangster writes in with a question that takes us back to the absolute basics of anal intercourse—think “Anal 101,” but with less syllabus and more emotional vulnerability. Meanwhile, Tramps checks in after having his “guts rearranged” at a conference in Chicago. On Gimme Headlines, things take a slightly alarming turn as STI rates in Europe decide to hit all the high notes, while the CDC in the U.S. is serving up something closer to a low-budget funeral dirge. Educational? Yes. Comforting? Absolutely not And of course, we close things out with Love Language of the Week—where emotional intelligence meets questionable life choices in the most honest way possible. If you came for sex education, you’ll leave slightly more informed. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 6m

  5. May 20

    Am I the B-Hole?-98

    Hello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the inbox is full, the headlines are heavy. This week, we hear from a Booty Gangster in an open relationship who’s asking the age-old modern question: Am I being reasonable… or am I the B-hole? The guys unpack jealousy, expectations, communication, and the complicated math of balancing freedom with feelings. Relationships: easy in theory, advanced placement course in practice. Then it’s time for GIMME HEADLINES, and the news cycle is serving everything from meaningful to maddening. Dr. Carlton talks about his recent contribution to The Advocate, because occasionally the chaos comes with credentials. The guys also discuss the cancellation of Long Beach Pride’s festival, and take a moment to acknowledge the tragic loss impacting Chicago’s leather community. Because this is still Butt Honestly, the emotional depth is immediately followed by another listener asking a practical question for the ages: Can you double your disco dose? Medical inquiry or ambitious scheduling? Dr. Carlton weighs in before anyone starts experimenting with pharmaceutical optimism. Outside the inbox, Dangilo reports back from a suspiciously calm weekend, Dr. Carlton somehow survives a jam-packed weekend that includes Pink in concert, and Producer Tony takes us into the dramatic, glitter-covered battlefield that is Eurovision, where geopolitics and sequins have entered a legally binding relationship. As always, the episode wraps with the guys’ Love Language of the Week, because after open relationships, heartbreak, Pride politics, and European pop diplomacy… we all deserve a little affection. Press play. It’s thoughtful, messy, and just enough chaos to remind you why you keep coming back. 🍑🎙️ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 12m

  6. May 13

    Gay Bttm Death Grip- 97

    Hello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY This week, the guys hear from a listener whose member has apparently taken a sudden hard turn south—literally. Is it age? Is it stress? Is gravity finally collecting its debt? Dr. Carlton breaks down the possible causes while Dangilo reacts with the exact level of concern you’d expect from someone hearing the phrase “unexpected curve” before coffee. Then another listener wonders if years of championship-level grip strength may have sabotaged his ability to finish while topping. It’s a surprisingly common issue, apparently, and the conversation quickly turns into a blend of anatomy lesson, emotional support group, and cautionary tale. In GIMME HEAD-LINES, the boys tackle the mysterious and endlessly debated phenomenon known online as “PrEP Belly.” Is it real? Is it internet paranoia? Is everyone suddenly a gastroenterologist with a TikTok account? Opinions are shared. Science is consulted. Feelings are had. Meanwhile, a listener named Squirt is out here exposing the hottest places for a very public encounter, proving once again that some members of the Booty Gang truly believe discretion is a myth invented by straight people. As always, the guys bring their signature blend of dry humor, real talk, and lovingly inappropriate commentary before wrapping things up with their Love Language of the Week—because after all the curves, concerns, and questionable locations, we still believe romance deserves a seat at the table. Press play. It’s educational, slightly chaotic, and probably not something you should listen to at full volume in public. 🍑🎙️ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 6m

  7. May 6

    Sh*ting Bricks-96

    Hello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the headlines are alarming, the emails are deeply personal, and apparently… we now have to monitor the lube too. This week, the guys tackle a voicemail from a Booty Gangster living with IBS who still wants to bottom, because the spirit may be willing even when the digestive system is filing formal complaints. Dr. Carlton offers practical advice, while Dangilo reacts exactly the way someone should when words like “flare-up” enter the chat. Then another listener asks the age-old modern question: Should I wait to poop after taking my PrEP? Finally—a podcast brave enough to discuss timing, fiber, and pharmaceutical scheduling in the same conversation. In GIMME HEADLINES, the boys unpack disturbing new stories warning people to watch more than just their drinks after reports involving spiked lube. Because apparently trust issues are now a public health initiative. They also revisit the latest developments surrounding the Dallas Cumunion raid, proving once again that every week brings another sentence we never expected to say out loud professionally. Meanwhile, drama erupts out of Palm Springs, where communication could have been handled better by literally everyone involved. Vague statements, missing context, passive aggression—it’s basically queer corporate theater. And as always, after all the bowel talk, scandal, and side-eye, the guys wrap the episode with their Love Language of the Week—because connection is important, even when the headlines are terrifying. Press play. It’s informative, mildly concerning, and somehow still hilarious. 🍑🎙️ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 20m

  8. Apr 29

    Girth, Spike and Bleached Holes - 95

    ello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the serves are strong, the questions are stronger, and the locker room stories… well, they speak for themselves. This week, the guys hit the court and talk all things gay volleyball, spotlighting queer volleyball star Jordan Lucas—because athleticism, community, and short shorts deserve their moment. Then it’s back to the inbox, where your Butt Dials and Booty Calls keep things educational and slightly uncomfortable—in a good way. We’re talking anal fissures (yes, we said it), with Dr. Carlton breaking things down medically while Dangilo reacts like the rest of us… cautiously. Next up, it’s time for Hit It or Quit It, where nothing is off the table: – Girth vs. length (the debate continues) – Penis placement (strategy matters) – And anal bleaching (because aesthetics are subjective, but curiosity is universal) And just when you think you’ve heard it all… we dive into Ready Set Confess, featuring stories about hooking up at work and a particularly bold moment in a locker room shower. HR is shaking somewhere. As always, the guys bring their signature mix of humor, honesty, and just enough side-eye to keep things grounded. And because balance is everything, they wrap it all up with their Love Language of the Week—a little tenderness after all the chaos. Press play. It’s sporty, spicy, and just the right amount of inappropriate. 🍑🎙️ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 18m
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Doctor Carlton, The internet's favorite gay, Mayo Clinic trained board certified gastroenterologist and mouthy yet sensitive gay guy, Dangilo Brian Bonilla tackle the messy life challenges that Sex, Socializing, Love and Butt Stuff present in the lives of LGBTQ+ men and their friends.

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