Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop Culture

Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown
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Join feminist coaches Taina Brown and Becky Mollenkamp for casual (and often deep) conversations about business, current events, politics, pop culture, and more. We’re not perfect activists or allies! These are our real-time, messy feminist perspectives on the world around us. This podcast is for you if you find yourself asking questions like: • Why is feminism important today? • What is intersectional feminism? • Can capitalism be ethical? • What does liberation mean? • Equity vs. equality — what's the difference and why does it matter? • What does a Trump victory mean for my life? • What is mutual aid? • How do we engage in collective action? • Can I find safety in community? • What's a feminist approach to ... ? • What's the feminist perspective on ...?

  1. Living Through Trumpism: How Do You Stay Sane?

    21H AGO

    Living Through Trumpism: How Do You Stay Sane?

    The news cycle feels relentless. The politics feel terrifying. And somehow we’re still expected to answer emails, pay bills, and live our lives. In this episode, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown talk about what it’s like living through Trumpism, rising authoritarianism, and the growing sense that fascism isn’t just a history lesson—it’s something people are trying to understand in real time. They unpack the emotional impact of political overwhelm, news fatigue, and political anxiety, especially for people whose privilege once shielded them from the realities many marginalized communities have faced for generations. This conversation explores how systems like white supremacy and authoritarian politics function almost like belief systems—or even cults—and why leaving those systems can feel disorienting, lonely, and scary. Becky and Taina also talk about the role of education, privilege, media literacy, and social media in shaping how people understand politics today. Why do so many online conversations turn hostile instead of productive? What happens when people begin waking up to systems of power they were once part of? Most importantly, they talk about how to cope with political burnout and overwhelm without shutting down completely. Research shows that action—whether activism, community care, or even small personal steps—can help restore a sense of agency when everything feels out of control. If you’ve been feeling exhausted by politics, struggling with the constant bad news cycle, or wondering how to stay engaged without burning out, this episode is for you. Because surviving times like these has never been an individual project. It has always been collective. Topics Covered: Trumpism and rising authoritarian politicsWhat fascism can feel like in everyday lifePolitical anxiety, news fatigue, and overwhelmPrivilege and the moment the “bubble” cracksWhite supremacy as a belief systemSocial media and political discoursePolitical burnout and activism fatigueHow community and collective action help people survive political crises🎤 JOIN US IN THE FEMINIST PODCASTERS COLLECTIVE

    46 min
  2. Unpacking Misogyny in Modern Life (State of the Union, The Bride, perimenopause)

    MAR 2

    Unpacking Misogyny in Modern Life (State of the Union, The Bride, perimenopause)

    Taina Brown and Becky Mollenkamp reflect on the recent State of the Union address, discussing its implications and the notable actions of representatives like Al Green. They delve into the pervasive issue of misogyny in society, exploring its manifestations and the cultural commentary surrounding media representations. The conversation also touches on personal anecdotes, humor, and the importance of diverse perspectives in storytelling, particularly in film and television. Discussed in this episode:• The State of the Union often lacks substance and engagement.• Al Green's actions highlight the importance of making 'good trouble.'• Misogyny is deeply ingrained in societal structures and needs to be addressed.• Media representation matters; diverse voices lead to richer narratives.• Personal anecdotes can provide humor and relatability in serious discussions.• The impact of cultural commentary on societal perceptions is significant.• Women directors bring unique perspectives to storytelling.• The conversation around aging and women's health is often overlooked.• Humor can be a coping mechanism in challenging times.• Celebrating personal milestones can bring joy amidst societal issues. Chapters00:00 State of the Union Reflections02:38 Misogyny and Its Manifestations05:26 The Slippery Slope of Toxic Thinking08:18 The Intersection of Racism and Misogyny11:01 The Role of Women in Film13:54 Anticipating New Cinematic Releases21:14 Exploring New Narratives in Media24:12 The Importance of Diverse Perspectives28:36 Cultural Reflections in Modern Storytelling33:49 Navigating Perimenopause and Aging39:37 Humor and Relationships: A Personal Touch 🎤 JOIN US IN THE FEMINIST PODCASTERS COLLECTIVE

    43 min
  3. Why Language Matters When Teaching Slavery

    FEB 23

    Why Language Matters When Teaching Slavery

    In this episode, we unpack a real-time messy situation that started with a classroom conversation about language, and quickly spiraled into social media backlash, reflection, and deeper questions about responsibility. We explore the difference between calling in and calling out, why language matters when teaching history, and what it looks like when people respond to feedback with humility. Along the way, we talk about parenting, educator accountability, online criticism, and the ongoing work of holding nuance in public conversations, plus a lighter detour into Olympic drama and what it reveals about pressure, humanity, and expectations. Discussed in this episode: A messy moment: reaching out to a teacher about languageWhen social media amplifies conflictCalling in vs public accountabilityWhy “enslaved people” vs “slaves” mattersBlack history as shared history and responsibilityEducator responses and learning in publicNavigating trolls and criticismEmotional maturity, pressure, and public scrutinyOlympics tangent: performance, humanity, and expectationsInvitation to practice nuance in hard conversations🎤 JOIN US IN THE FEMINIST PODCASTERS COLLECTIVE

    44 min
  4. Why hobbies matter in a capitalist world

    FEB 16

    Why hobbies matter in a capitalist world

    In this episode of Messy Liberation, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown start with the cultural moment — unpacking the Bad Bunny halftime performance — and end up somewhere deeper: a conversation about care, creativity, and what it means to live inside systems that don’t value our humanity. They explore revenge bedtime procrastination, why so many of us push the things we love to the edges of our day, and how capitalism teaches us to dismiss anything that doesn’t generate income. Becky shares a personal story about caring for her injured dog and the emotional labor that often goes unseen — especially in relationships — while Taina reflects on creative work, attention, and honoring what matters. Together, they ask big questions: • What if hobbies aren’t frivolous?• What if care work is real work?• What does it look like to honor our emotional lives instead of minimizing them?• And how do we navigate relationships when we experience the world differently? This conversation weaves culture, feminism, mental health, and lived experience into an honest exploration of being human in a productivity-obsessed world. If you’ve ever stayed up too late chasing a moment of freedom… felt unseen in your care work… or wondered why rest feels so hard to claim — this one’s for you. 🎤 JOIN US IN THE FEMINIST PODCASTERS COLLECTIVE

    51 min
  5. What liberatory coaching actually means (and why it matters right now)

    FEB 9

    What liberatory coaching actually means (and why it matters right now)

    This conversation is specifically for people who practice coaching or run coaching businesses (no certification required). Becky and Taina unpack how well-meaning coaches can unintentionally repeat patterns of harm rooted in capitalism, patriarchy, and white supremacy — even when they genuinely care about their clients. They introduce a framework for building a liberatory coaching practice that centers identity, power, privilege, community, and care — not just goals, outcomes, or productivity. The episode also previews the interactive workshop happening February 25, where participants will begin building their own Liberatory Coaching Manifesto. This isn’t about gatekeeping, hustle, or “fixing” clients. It’s about practicing coaching in a way that expands choice, agency, and humanity — for both coaches and the people they serve. What liberatory coaching actually meansHow coaching can unintentionally reinforce harmful systemsWhy phrases like “limiting beliefs” and “we all have the same 24 hours” can cause harmThe role of identity, power, and privilege in coaching spacesWhy community is essential to sustainable coaching workWhat a Liberatory Coaching Manifesto is — and why you’ll build oneHow to practice coaching without gatekeeping or hustle cultureWhy this work can’t be done aloneBuild Your Liberatory Coaching Manifesto (free, live workshop) February 25 at 12pm Eastern on ZoomReplay available only to those who sign upSign-up for free at messyliberation.com. 🎤 PROUD MEMBERS OF THE FEMINIST PODCASTERS COLLECTIVE: http://feministpodcastcollective.com/

    10 min
  6. From Snowstorms to Support Husbands: What Mutual Aid Really Looks Like

    FEB 2

    From Snowstorms to Support Husbands: What Mutual Aid Really Looks Like

    From neighbors shoveling driveways to the quiet labor of holding community spaces, this episode explores how care becomes invisible, and how naming it can be radical. Becky shares a story about hosting invitation-only “secret salons” and grappling with the discomfort of being compensated for community-building work. Taina reflects on moments when emotional labor was unexpectedly acknowledged—and how powerful that recognition can be. The conversation expands into privilege, power, and relationships: what it means when someone checks their privilege out loud, how that can change the nervous system in a room, and why pretending we’re “past” bias is far more dangerous than admitting it exists. They also talk about gendered entitlement, “support husbands,” emotional safety, and the exhausting reality of always wondering when contempt might surface. What mutual aid looks like in everyday life (and why it’s not charity)Snowstorms, disability, aging, and who gets left behindThe invisible labor of care, organizing, and community-buildingWhy being seen matters as much as being paidEmotional labor, race, gender, and power dynamicsChecking privilege—and why it changes the roomSupportive partnerships vs. entitled masculinityWhy “I’d never do that” is a red flagCapitalism, commodification, and collective responsibilityHow acknowledgment can be an act of liberationResource: "Mutual Aid: Building Solidarity During This Crisis (and the Next)" by Dean Spade🎤 WE ARE PROUD MEMBERS OF THE FEMINIST PODCASTERS COLLECTIVE

    44 min
  7. Another show you may love from the Feminist Podcasters Collective

    JAN 26

    Another show you may love from the Feminist Podcasters Collective

    Check out the Season 10 trailer for Here’s What I Learned with Jacki Hayes, a fellow member of the Feminist Podcasters Collective. This season is built around real experiments. Jacki isn’t just talking about ideas. She’s inviting coaches and service providers to assign her an actual experiment from their area of expertise. She runs it in her business, then they come back together to break down what worked, what didn’t, and what the results actually show. If you like practical insight, honest reflection, and learning from real-world tests instead of polished theories, this season is worth a listen. Find the show wherever you listen to podcasts or visit https://www.jackihayes.co/podcast

    1 min
  8. The US is falling apart: Collective grief, privilege, and surviving the Trump regime

    JAN 26

    The US is falling apart: Collective grief, privilege, and surviving the Trump regime

    NOTE: This episode was recorded before the murder of Alex Pretti in Minneapolis. Our hearts are with his family and we share your outrage about his murder. Abolish ICE. In this episode of Messy Liberation, Becky and Taina sit inside two overlapping kinds of grief: personal loss and collective unraveling. Becky names the heavy, destabilizing grief of watching U.S. power erode on the global stage—and what it means to confront the loss of privilege, safety, and certainty in real time. Taina shares the complicated aftermath of her mother’s death, including the anger, relief, and dissonance that come from being told a story about someone that doesn’t match your lived experience. Together, they explore grief as a political and embodied experience, the difference between healthy and harmful anger, and why being “aware” isn’t enough without guardrails, resourcing, and community. This episode is about naming the mess without rushing to fix it—and learning how to stay human when the world makes it very tempting not to. 🧠 Discussed in This Episode• The grief of losing global privilege—and why it still matters even when privilege is complicated• Why awareness without action (or guardrails) can keep us stuck• Seasonal depression, political despair, and “who gives a shit” energy• Resource mapping as a tool for emotional regulation and capacity• Healthy anger vs. destructive anger—and why movements can’t survive on rage alone• Parenting, power dynamics, and what under-resourcing does to relationships• Complicated grief after the death of an abusive or estranged parent• The dissonance of hearing glowing stories about someone who harmed you• Relief as a valid response to death—and why that doesn’t mean you didn’t love them• Dehumanization, polarization, and the cost of refusing to seek understanding• Why systems benefit when we fight each other instead of looking up 🎤 WE ARE PROUD MEMBERS OF THE FEMINIST PODCASTERS COLLECTIVE: http://feministpodcastcollective.com/

    56 min
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Join feminist coaches Taina Brown and Becky Mollenkamp for casual (and often deep) conversations about business, current events, politics, pop culture, and more. We’re not perfect activists or allies! These are our real-time, messy feminist perspectives on the world around us. This podcast is for you if you find yourself asking questions like: • Why is feminism important today? • What is intersectional feminism? • Can capitalism be ethical? • What does liberation mean? • Equity vs. equality — what's the difference and why does it matter? • What does a Trump victory mean for my life? • What is mutual aid? • How do we engage in collective action? • Can I find safety in community? • What's a feminist approach to ... ? • What's the feminist perspective on ...?

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