Big Gay Overalls - Stories of Love, Identity and Pride

Lisa Kirkman
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Big Gay Overalls - Stories of Love, Identity and Pride

My story as a someone who has come out later in life, and navigating my way to finding love, not only with another but also finding it for myself and accepting my whole self. A place to share stories to show those on the path that it can be a happy journey and worth the first steps.

  1. BGO E24 - Reclaiming the Words That Hurt: From Shame to Self Acceptance

    3 DAYS AGO

    BGO E24 - Reclaiming the Words That Hurt: From Shame to Self Acceptance

    In this heartfelt and raw episode of Big Gay Overalls, I dive deep into the complicated relationship I’ve had with words like “lesbian,” “dyke,” and “butch”, labels that once felt like weapons but are now part of my journey toward authenticity.  I share how unpacking childhood shame, societal judgment, and fear helped me reclaim my identity and embrace my truth.  This episode explores the power of words, the stories we tell ourselves, and the courage it takes to step out of hiding and into a life of self acceptance.  Join me as I navigate the messiness of coming out late in life, the challenges of letting go of old narratives, and the freedom that comes with owning who you are. Whether you’re on your own journey of self discovery or looking to support someone else, this conversation is for you.  Let's move from shame to pride together. 💌 Connect & Engage: Visit biggayoverallspodcast.com Dying Inside Ebook Amazon Stores US https://a.co/d/54QZFo6 AU  https://amzn.asia/d/2Hc9Cww UK https://amzn.eu/d/jefXR2x CA https://amzn.eu/d/jefXR2x 📲 Follow on socials @biggayoverallspodcast for more stories, insights, and conversations. If you’d like to connect with me, collaborate, or explore ways we can work together—whether it’s for coaching, storytelling projects, or speaking engagements—I’d love to hear from you!  Visit www.biggayoverallspodcast.com or email me directly  Let’s create something meaningful together! Join our supportive community: Embracing My Big Gay Overalls Skool  https://www.skool.com/embracing-my-big-gay-overalls-7167/about Subscribe, like, and share if you found this episode meaningful!  And please leave me a 5 Star Rating and Review if you love the Podcast! Connect with me Email Lisa@biggayoverallspodcast.com

    31 min
  2. BGO E23 - Strong, Proud, and Unstoppable: Owning Your Identity with Izzy Wagner

    JAN 3

    BGO E23 - Strong, Proud, and Unstoppable: Owning Your Identity with Izzy Wagner

    Season 2 kicks off with a powerhouse guest—fitness professional and LGBTQ advocate Izzy Wagner! 🌈💪 In this episode, we dig into Izzy's journey of discovering and owning her identity, navigating the challenges of growing up queer, and transforming her struggles into strength. From battling food relationships to finding empowerment through fitness, Izzy shares how she built a thriving coaching business aimed at helping queer women feel strong, confident, and unapologetically themselves. We talk authenticity, overcoming societal pressures, and the incredible mental and physical transformations that come when you start showing up as your true self. Plus, Izzy dishes on the power of creating a supportive community and her hilarious, relatable content that makes the fitness world a more inclusive space. If you’re ready to embrace who you are and get inspired by a coach who gets it, this episode is for you! Follow Izzy on Instagram and TikTok after this chat—you won’t regret it. 🎧✨ Follow Izzy -  www.instagram.com/izzywagnerqc www.tiktok.com/izzywagnerqc 💌 Connect & Engage: Visit biggayoverallspodcast.com Dying Inside Ebook Amazon Stores US https://a.co/d/54QZFo6 AU  https://amzn.asia/d/2Hc9Cww UK https://amzn.eu/d/jefXR2x CA https://amzn.eu/d/jefXR2x 📲 Follow on socials @biggayoverallspodcast for more stories, insights, and conversations. If you’d like to connect with me, collaborate, or explore ways we can work together—whether it’s for coaching, storytelling projects, or speaking engagements—I’d love to hear from you!  Visit www.biggayoverallspodcast.com or email me directly  Let’s create something meaningful together! Join our supportive community: Embracing My Big Gay Overalls Skool  https://www.skool.com/embracing-my-big-gay-overalls-7167/about Subscribe, like, and share if you found this episode meaningful!  And please leave me a 5 Star Rating and Review if you love the Podcast! Connect with me Email Lisa@biggayoverallspodcast.com

    53 min
  3. BGO E22 - Rewriting Your Narrative: Owning Your Authentic Story

    12/10/2024

    BGO E22 - Rewriting Your Narrative: Owning Your Authentic Story

    Ever feel like you’re living someone else’s story? I know I did for most of my life. In this episode, I’m opening up about how I broke free from the expectations and narratives that kept me trapped and started rewriting my story—a story that feels like mine. I’ll share the questions I asked myself to get unstuck, the small but powerful actions that changed everything, and why it’s never too late to turn the page. Whether you’re feeling stuck, questioning your path, or just curious about what it means to live authentically, this episode is for you. Let’s explore how you can take control of your narrative and create a life that truly fits who you are. Plus, I’ve got details on my free Authenticity 101 webinar and my brand-new eBook, Dying Inside: The Cost of Living Inauthentically. 🎙️ Hit play and start writing your next chapter—one that’s all about YOU. 💌 Connect & Engage: Visit biggayoverallspodcast.com AUTHENTICITY 101 WEBINAR REGISTRATION  https://bookme.name/lisakirkman/authenticity-101 Dying Inside Ebook Amazon Stores US https://a.co/d/54QZFo6 AU  https://amzn.asia/d/2Hc9Cww UK https://amzn.eu/d/jefXR2x CA https://amzn.eu/d/jefXR2x 📲 Follow on socials @biggayoverallspodcast for more stories, insights, and conversations. If you’d like to connect with me, collaborate, or explore ways we can work together—whether it’s for coaching, storytelling projects, or speaking engagements—I’d love to hear from you!  Visit www.biggayoverallspodcast.com or email me directly  Let’s create something meaningful together! Join our supportive community: Embracing My Big Gay Overalls Skool  https://www.skool.com/embracing-my-big-gay-overalls-7167/about Subscribe, like, and share if you found this episode meaningful!  And please leave me a 5 Star Rating and Review if you love the Podcast! Connect with me Email Lisa@biggayoverallspodcast.com

    27 min
  4. BGO E21 - From Quiet Suffocation to Bold Authenticity: The Hidden Cost of Hiding Yourself

    11/30/2024

    BGO E21 - From Quiet Suffocation to Bold Authenticity: The Hidden Cost of Hiding Yourself

    In this week’s episode of The Big Gay Overalls Podcast, Lisa gets real about the unspoken cost of living inauthentically. Drawing from her own journey, she paints a vivid picture of what it feels like to wear the "wrong outfit" in life—the quiet suffocation, the bone-deep exhaustion, and the constant hum of anxiety that comes from pretending to be someone you’re not. But it’s not all heavy. Lisa shares the life-changing shift that happens when you start embracing your true self—step by tiny step. With her trademark humour and vulnerability, she explores how authenticity is more than just a buzzword; it’s a liberation that impacts your relationships, your health, and your happiness. Whether you’re struggling with identity, stuck in a career that doesn’t feel right, or just feeling like life isn’t fitting quite right, this episode will resonate. Lisa also gives practical tips for beginning the journey toward your truth, no matter how daunting it feels. As she celebrates her 50th birthday, Lisa reflects on the life she’s curating with intention, freedom, and love—and invites you to start curating yours. 🎙️ Listen now, and start shedding the layers that no longer serve you. Your most authentic self is waiting. 💌 Connect & Engage: Visit biggayoverallspodcast.com 📲 Follow on socials @biggayoverallspodcast for more stories, insights, and conversations. If you’d like to connect with me, collaborate, or explore ways we can work together—whether it’s for coaching, storytelling projects, or speaking engagements—I’d love to hear from you! Visit www.biggayoverallspodcast.com or email me directly  Let’s create something meaningful together! 🌟 Connect with us on social: IG, Threads, TikTok: @biggayoverallspodcast Join our supportive community: Embracing My Big Gay Overalls Skool  https://www.skool.com/embracing-my-big-gay-overalls-7167/about Subscribe, like, and share if you found this episode meaningful!  And please leave me a 5 Star Rating and Review if you love the Podcast! Connect with me Email Lisa@biggayoverallspodcast.com

    30 min
  5. BGO E20 - Getting Real: My Journey to Living Authentically and Why It’s So Worth It

    11/25/2024

    BGO E20 - Getting Real: My Journey to Living Authentically and Why It’s So Worth It

    In this episode of Big Gay Overalls, I’m diving into something close to my heart—authenticity. For years, I lived a life that looked great on the outside but felt completely out of sync with who I really was. It wasn’t until I hit my mid-40s that I started doing the hard, messy work of figuring out who I truly am and living in alignment with that truth. I’m sharing my story—the ups, the downs, and the lessons I’ve learned along the way. From facing my fears to peeling back years of conditioning, it’s been a wild ride, but I can tell you this: living authentically has been the most freeing, joyful, and meaningful thing I’ve ever done. I’ll also talk about the little steps you can take to start showing up as your true self, even if it feels scary as hell. Whether it’s journaling, having those tough conversations, or just looking in the mirror and saying, “I’m enough,” there’s a way forward for you. So, grab your overalls (metaphorically or literally!) and join me for this deep, honest chat about what it means to live your truth. I hope my story inspires you to take that next step toward your own authenticity—because you deserve it, and the world needs your magic. Let’s do this together. Keep your overalls on and press play! Join the conversation, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs it. Together, let’s own our stories and make authenticity contagious. Keep your overalls on and dive in! If you’d like to connect with me, collaborate, or explore ways we can work together—whether it’s for coaching, storytelling projects, or speaking engagements—I’d love to hear from you! Visit www.biggayoverallspodcast.com or email me directly  Let’s create something meaningful together! 🌟 Connect with us on social: IG, Threads, TikTok: @biggayoverallspodcast Join our supportive community: Embracing My Big Gay Overalls Skool  https://www.skool.com/embracing-my-big-gay-overalls-7167/about Subscribe, like, and share if you found this episode meaningful!  And please leave me a 5 Star Rating and Review if you love the Podcast! Connect with me Email Lisa@biggayoverallspodcast.com

    28 min
  6. BGO E19 - In the Hot Seat with My Wife Sharon: Big Gay Overalls Q&A

    11/18/2024

    BGO E19 - In the Hot Seat with My Wife Sharon: Big Gay Overalls Q&A

    This week on the Big Gay Overalls Podcast, it’s a long-awaited, behind-the-scenes Q&A featuring my wife, Sharon! Join us for an honest, heartfelt, and occasionally hilarious conversation as Sharon puts me in the hot seat. From exploring the early days of my coming-out journey to reflecting on the power of connection, identity, and authenticity, we dive deep into the stories that have shaped my life and this podcast. We talk about: Navigating relationships and self-discovery. Overcoming fears and embracing authenticity. The importance of finding your tribe, online and offline. And yes, some wild and funny moments from my dating days. This special episode is packed with candid insights, laughter, and love. Don't forget to send in your questions for future Q&A episodes! Hit subscribe and follow the podcast on all the socials or check out the website at www.biggayoverallspodcast.com. If you’d like to connect with me, collaborate, or explore ways we can work together—whether it’s for coaching, storytelling projects, or speaking engagements—I’d love to hear from you! Visit www.biggayoverallspodcast.com or email me directly  Let’s create something meaningful together! 🌟 Connect with us on social: IG, Threads, TikTok: @biggayoverallspodcast Join our supportive community: Embracing My Big Gay Overalls Skool  https://www.skool.com/embracing-my-big-gay-overalls-7167/about Subscribe, like, and share if you found this episode meaningful!  And please leave me a 5 Star Rating and Review if you love the Podcast! Connect with me Email Lisa@biggayoverallspodcast.com

    59 min
  7. BGO E18 - Finding Strength and Allyship Amid Political Chaos: A Global LGBTQI+ Support Call with Denise from Rainbow Remix

    11/12/2024

    BGO E18 - Finding Strength and Allyship Amid Political Chaos: A Global LGBTQI+ Support Call with Denise from Rainbow Remix

    In this heartfelt episode I sit down with Denise from Rainbow Remix to unpack the complex emotions and fears surrounding recent political turmoil in the U.S.  Despite living oceans apart—Lisa in Australia and Denise in the UK—we explore how the LGBTQI+ community worldwide can come together, offering validation, support, and action to those who feel unseen and unsafe.  Together, we share valuable resources, practical ways to be an ally, and the critical importance of small gestures in creating safe spaces. This episode reminds us all that even across borders, the power of empathy and solidarity can make a profound difference.  Tune in for a grounding conversation that strengthens the resolve to stand with and for each other. 🌈💙 Mental Health and Support Resources Human Rights Campaign (HRC) Advocacy and support for LGBTQ+ rights. National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR) Legal support and advocacy for LGBTQ+ individuals and families. GLAD (Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders) Legal rights organization dedicated to ending discrimination. The Trevor Project Suicide Prevention for LGBTQ+ Young People Hotline: 1-866-488-7386 Crisis intervention and mental health support for LGBTQ+ youth. Q Chat Space Online chat community for LGBTQ+ teens. Garden of Peace Project Support for marginalized communities, including safe passage resources. Crisis Support Lines (U.S. Based) Trans Lifeline Hotline: 1-877-565-8860 Support line run by and for trans people. BlackLine Hotline: 1-800-604-5841 Support for Black, Native, LGBTQ+, and other marginalized communities. Thrive Lifeline Hotline: 1-313-662-8209 Crisis line led by trans individuals, focused on marginalized groups. LGBT National Help Center Hotline: 1-888-843-4564 Resources and peer-support hotline for the LGBTQ+ community. 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Hotline: 988 Available for anyone in crisis in the U.S., with trained counselors available 24/7. These resources provide essential support for the LGBTQ+ community and can be lifesaving for those in crisis. Share them widely and keep them handy to offer help to someone in need. Assistance in areas such as mental health, peer support, and general well-being. Here are some notable organizations: Australian National Services: QLife: Provides anonymous, LGBTIQ+ peer support and referral services via telephone and webchat from 3 pm to midnight daily. Contact them at 1800 184 527 or visit qlife.org.au. Beyond Blue: Offers mental health support with resources specifically for LGBTIQ+ individuals. Reach them at 1300 224 636 or explore their resources at beyondblue.org.au. Lifeline: Provides 24/7 crisis support and suicide prevention services. Call 13 11 14 or visit lifeline.org.au. Additional Resources: Rainbow Door: A free service providing support, information, and referrals to LGBTIQA+ individuals in Victoria. Contact them at 1800 729 367 or visit rainbowdoor.org.au. LGBTIQ+ Health Australia: The national peak health organization for LGBTIQ+ health, offering various resources and support services. Learn more at lgbtiqhealth.org.au. These organizations are dedicated to supporting the LGBTIQ+ community across Australia. If you or someone you know needs assistance, don't hesitate to reach out to these services. These resources are here for anyone who needs them, and sharing them is a simple way to show support, especially if you know someone who might be struggling. 🌟 Connect with us on social: IG, Threads, TikTok: @biggayoverallspodcast Join our supportive community: Embracing My Big Gay Overalls Skool Subscribe, like, and share if you found this episode meaningful! Connect with me Embracing My Big Gay Overalls Community https://www.skool.com/embracing-my-big-gay-overalls-7167/about Instagram www.instagram.com/mybiggayoverallspodcast Threads www.threads.com/mybiggayoverallspodcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@biggayoverallspodcast?_t=8pDLqxeBnzr&_r=1 Website www.biggayoverallspodcast.com Email Lisa@biggayoverallspodcast.com

    50 min
  8. BGO E17 - Navigating Friendships After Coming Out Later in Life: Embracing Change & Authenticity

    11/09/2024

    BGO E17 - Navigating Friendships After Coming Out Later in Life: Embracing Change & Authenticity

    In this episode of the Big Gay Overalls Podcast, I dive into the complex journey of navigating friendships after coming out later in life. I share my her personal experiences with shifting relationships, the anxiety of revealing her true self to longtime friends, and the challenges that come with redefining support networks. Whether you’re in the midst of your own journey or seeking to support a loved one, I offer insights on handling friendship shifts with courage and grace. I reflect on the grief and joy that come from embracing authenticity, recognising that true friendships will evolve alongside us. 🌈💙 Tune in for an honest conversation about finding your “soul friends” and building resilient, supportive circles as you step into your true self. Share your own experiences in the comments, connect with our amazing community, and, as always, keep embracing who you are. 🏳️‍🌈💪 🌟 Connect with us on social: IG, Threads, TikTok: @biggayoverallspodcast Join our supportive community: Embracing My Big Gay Overalls Skool (link in the show notes) Subscribe, like, and share if you found this episode meaningful! #BigGayOverallsPodcast #ComingOutJourney #FriendshipAndGrowth #LGBTQCommunity #Authenticity Connect with me Embracing My Big Gay Overalls Community https://www.skool.com/embracing-my-big-gay-overalls-7167/about Instagram www.instagram.com/mybiggayoverallspodcast Threads www.threads.com/mybiggayoverallspodcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@biggayoverallspodcast?_t=8pDLqxeBnzr&_r=1 Website www.biggayoverallspodcast.com Email Lisa@biggayoverallspodcast.com

    23 min
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My story as a someone who has come out later in life, and navigating my way to finding love, not only with another but also finding it for myself and accepting my whole self. A place to share stories to show those on the path that it can be a happy journey and worth the first steps.

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