Big Gay Overalls - Stories of Love, Identity and Pride

Lisa Kirkman
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Big Gay Overalls - Stories of Love, Identity and Pride

My story as a someone who has come out later in life, and navigating my way to finding love, not only with another but also finding it for myself and accepting my whole self. A place to share stories to show those on the path that it can be a happy journey and worth the first steps.

  1. BGO E27 - Boundaries, Family, and Choosing Yourself – with My Wife, Sharon!

    FEB 2

    BGO E27 - Boundaries, Family, and Choosing Yourself – with My Wife, Sharon!

    You asked for it, and I’m delivering, the long-awaited return of my amazing wife, Sharon, to The Big Gay Overalls Podcast! This time, we’re diving into a topic close to both our hearts: boundaries. How do we set them? How do we navigate tricky family relationships? And why is choosing ourselves sometimes the hardest (but most necessary) thing to do? Sharon, our resident counsellor, shares her wisdom on estrangement, cultural shifts in family expectations, and why “blood is thicker than water” isn’t always the healthiest mantra to live by. We also get real about our own experiences with family dynamics, cutting ties when necessary, and the power of self-awareness in making choices that align with our values. If you’ve ever struggled with setting boundaries, feeling guilty for prioritising yourself, or untangling from toxic relationships, this episode is for you. 💡 Takeaways:✔ Why boundaries aren’t selfish, they’re essential.✔ How to identify when a relationship isn’t serving you.✔ The difference between conscious disconnection and reactive cut-offs.✔ Why “family” isn’t just about DNA, it’s about love, respect, and mutual care. Join us for an honest, heartfelt, and (as always) slightly cheeky conversation about protecting your peace, living authentically, and making room for relationships that truly nourish you. 🎧 Hit play and let’s talk about it! And don’t forget to subscribe, follow, and leave a review, it helps more people find Big Gay Overalls! 🌈✨ Dying Inside Ebook Amazon Stores US https://a.co/d/54QZFo6 AU  https://amzn.asia/d/2Hc9Cww UK https://amzn.eu/d/jefXR2x CA https://amzn.eu/d/jefXR2x 📲 Follow on socials @biggayoverallspodcast for more stories, insights, and conversations. If you’d like to connect with me, collaborate, or explore ways we can work together—whether it’s for coaching, storytelling projects, or speaking engagements—I’d love to hear from you!  Visit www.biggayoverallspodcast.com or email me directly  Let’s create something meaningful together! Join our supportive community: Embracing My Big Gay Overalls Skool  https://www.skool.com/embracing-my-big-gay-overalls-7167/about Subscribe, like, and share if you found this episode meaningful!  And please leave me a 5 Star Rating and Review if you love the Podcast! Connect with me Email Lisa@biggayoverallspodcast.com

    41 min
  2. BGO E26 - Earning Love vs. Accepting It: Breaking Free from Conditional Love

    JAN 27

    BGO E26 - Earning Love vs. Accepting It: Breaking Free from Conditional Love

    What happens when love has always felt like something you had to earn? In this raw and honest episode of Big Gay Overalls, I dive into the lifelong struggle of learning to accept love when it was never freely given. Growing up in a home where affection was a transaction left me believing my worth was tied to what I did, not who I was. But now, as I embrace my true self, I’m facing the challenge of unlearning those beliefs and allowing love in, without conditions, without guilt, and without feeling like I have to prove myself. If you've ever found yourself pushing love away, questioning your worth, or feeling like you're only valued for what you provide, this episode is for you. Let’s unpack the journey of moving from survival mode to thriving in authenticity, and why accepting love is one of the hardest, but most important, lessons we can learn. It’s time to rewrite the story. You are worthy, just as you are. Dying Inside Ebook Amazon Stores US https://a.co/d/54QZFo6 AU  https://amzn.asia/d/2Hc9Cww UK https://amzn.eu/d/jefXR2x CA https://amzn.eu/d/jefXR2x 📲 Follow on socials @biggayoverallspodcast for more stories, insights, and conversations. If you’d like to connect with me, collaborate, or explore ways we can work together—whether it’s for coaching, storytelling projects, or speaking engagements—I’d love to hear from you!  Visit www.biggayoverallspodcast.com or email me directly  Let’s create something meaningful together! Join our supportive community: Embracing My Big Gay Overalls Skool  https://www.skool.com/embracing-my-big-gay-overalls-7167/about Subscribe, like, and share if you found this episode meaningful!  And please leave me a 5 Star Rating and Review if you love the Podcast! Connect with me Email Lisa@biggayoverallspodcast.com

    27 min
  3. BGO E25 - Navigating Loss and Finding Grace

    JAN 16

    BGO E25 - Navigating Loss and Finding Grace

    In this milestone 25th episode of the Big Gay Overalls podcast, I’m getting personal about grief, growth, and letting go. This week, I’ve been reflecting on some big moments, like selling a truck that once symbolised a piece of my identity, and the deeper emotional journey of coming out and redefining my life. I talk about what it means to grieve not just people but versions of ourselves and the lives we thought we’d have. For me, grieving my past doesn’t mean I regret it, it’s about honouring the journey and finding grace in the process.  Whether you’re in the middle of a big life change or looking back at your own path, I hope my story brings you comfort and encouragement to feel deeply and move forward authentically. Let’s talk about the hard stuff and keep breaking down those barriers. Thanks for being here. 🌈🎙️ 💌 Connect & Engage: Visit biggayoverallspodcast.com Dying Inside Ebook Amazon Stores US https://a.co/d/54QZFo6 AU  https://amzn.asia/d/2Hc9Cww UK https://amzn.eu/d/jefXR2x CA https://amzn.eu/d/jefXR2x 📲 Follow on socials @biggayoverallspodcast for more stories, insights, and conversations. If you’d like to connect with me, collaborate, or explore ways we can work together—whether it’s for coaching, storytelling projects, or speaking engagements—I’d love to hear from you!  Visit www.biggayoverallspodcast.com or email me directly  Let’s create something meaningful together! Join our supportive community: Embracing My Big Gay Overalls Skool  https://www.skool.com/embracing-my-big-gay-overalls-7167/about Subscribe, like, and share if you found this episode meaningful!  And please leave me a 5 Star Rating and Review if you love the Podcast! Connect with me Email Lisa@biggayoverallspodcast.com

    29 min
  4. BGO E24 - Reclaiming the Words That Hurt: From Shame to Self Acceptance

    JAN 9

    BGO E24 - Reclaiming the Words That Hurt: From Shame to Self Acceptance

    In this heartfelt and raw episode of Big Gay Overalls, I dive deep into the complicated relationship I’ve had with words like “lesbian,” “dyke,” and “butch”, labels that once felt like weapons but are now part of my journey toward authenticity.  I share how unpacking childhood shame, societal judgment, and fear helped me reclaim my identity and embrace my truth.  This episode explores the power of words, the stories we tell ourselves, and the courage it takes to step out of hiding and into a life of self acceptance.  Join me as I navigate the messiness of coming out late in life, the challenges of letting go of old narratives, and the freedom that comes with owning who you are. Whether you’re on your own journey of self discovery or looking to support someone else, this conversation is for you.  Let's move from shame to pride together. 💌 Connect & Engage: Visit biggayoverallspodcast.com Dying Inside Ebook Amazon Stores US https://a.co/d/54QZFo6 AU  https://amzn.asia/d/2Hc9Cww UK https://amzn.eu/d/jefXR2x CA https://amzn.eu/d/jefXR2x 📲 Follow on socials @biggayoverallspodcast for more stories, insights, and conversations. If you’d like to connect with me, collaborate, or explore ways we can work together—whether it’s for coaching, storytelling projects, or speaking engagements—I’d love to hear from you!  Visit www.biggayoverallspodcast.com or email me directly  Let’s create something meaningful together! Join our supportive community: Embracing My Big Gay Overalls Skool  https://www.skool.com/embracing-my-big-gay-overalls-7167/about Subscribe, like, and share if you found this episode meaningful!  And please leave me a 5 Star Rating and Review if you love the Podcast! Connect with me Email Lisa@biggayoverallspodcast.com

    31 min
  5. BGO E23 - Strong, Proud, and Unstoppable: Owning Your Identity with Izzy Wagner

    JAN 3

    BGO E23 - Strong, Proud, and Unstoppable: Owning Your Identity with Izzy Wagner

    Season 2 kicks off with a powerhouse guest—fitness professional and LGBTQ advocate Izzy Wagner! 🌈💪 In this episode, we dig into Izzy's journey of discovering and owning her identity, navigating the challenges of growing up queer, and transforming her struggles into strength. From battling food relationships to finding empowerment through fitness, Izzy shares how she built a thriving coaching business aimed at helping queer women feel strong, confident, and unapologetically themselves. We talk authenticity, overcoming societal pressures, and the incredible mental and physical transformations that come when you start showing up as your true self. Plus, Izzy dishes on the power of creating a supportive community and her hilarious, relatable content that makes the fitness world a more inclusive space. If you’re ready to embrace who you are and get inspired by a coach who gets it, this episode is for you! Follow Izzy on Instagram and TikTok after this chat—you won’t regret it. 🎧✨ Follow Izzy -  www.instagram.com/izzywagnerqc www.tiktok.com/izzywagnerqc 💌 Connect & Engage: Visit biggayoverallspodcast.com Dying Inside Ebook Amazon Stores US https://a.co/d/54QZFo6 AU  https://amzn.asia/d/2Hc9Cww UK https://amzn.eu/d/jefXR2x CA https://amzn.eu/d/jefXR2x 📲 Follow on socials @biggayoverallspodcast for more stories, insights, and conversations. If you’d like to connect with me, collaborate, or explore ways we can work together—whether it’s for coaching, storytelling projects, or speaking engagements—I’d love to hear from you!  Visit www.biggayoverallspodcast.com or email me directly  Let’s create something meaningful together! Join our supportive community: Embracing My Big Gay Overalls Skool  https://www.skool.com/embracing-my-big-gay-overalls-7167/about Subscribe, like, and share if you found this episode meaningful!  And please leave me a 5 Star Rating and Review if you love the Podcast! Connect with me Email Lisa@biggayoverallspodcast.com

    53 min
  6. BGO E22 - Rewriting Your Narrative: Owning Your Authentic Story

    12/10/2024

    BGO E22 - Rewriting Your Narrative: Owning Your Authentic Story

    Ever feel like you’re living someone else’s story? I know I did for most of my life. In this episode, I’m opening up about how I broke free from the expectations and narratives that kept me trapped and started rewriting my story—a story that feels like mine. I’ll share the questions I asked myself to get unstuck, the small but powerful actions that changed everything, and why it’s never too late to turn the page. Whether you’re feeling stuck, questioning your path, or just curious about what it means to live authentically, this episode is for you. Let’s explore how you can take control of your narrative and create a life that truly fits who you are. Plus, I’ve got details on my free Authenticity 101 webinar and my brand-new eBook, Dying Inside: The Cost of Living Inauthentically. 🎙️ Hit play and start writing your next chapter—one that’s all about YOU. 💌 Connect & Engage: Visit biggayoverallspodcast.com AUTHENTICITY 101 WEBINAR REGISTRATION  https://bookme.name/lisakirkman/authenticity-101 Dying Inside Ebook Amazon Stores US https://a.co/d/54QZFo6 AU  https://amzn.asia/d/2Hc9Cww UK https://amzn.eu/d/jefXR2x CA https://amzn.eu/d/jefXR2x 📲 Follow on socials @biggayoverallspodcast for more stories, insights, and conversations. If you’d like to connect with me, collaborate, or explore ways we can work together—whether it’s for coaching, storytelling projects, or speaking engagements—I’d love to hear from you!  Visit www.biggayoverallspodcast.com or email me directly  Let’s create something meaningful together! Join our supportive community: Embracing My Big Gay Overalls Skool  https://www.skool.com/embracing-my-big-gay-overalls-7167/about Subscribe, like, and share if you found this episode meaningful!  And please leave me a 5 Star Rating and Review if you love the Podcast! Connect with me Email Lisa@biggayoverallspodcast.com

    27 min
  7. BGO E21 - From Quiet Suffocation to Bold Authenticity: The Hidden Cost of Hiding Yourself

    11/30/2024

    BGO E21 - From Quiet Suffocation to Bold Authenticity: The Hidden Cost of Hiding Yourself

    In this week’s episode of The Big Gay Overalls Podcast, Lisa gets real about the unspoken cost of living inauthentically. Drawing from her own journey, she paints a vivid picture of what it feels like to wear the "wrong outfit" in life—the quiet suffocation, the bone-deep exhaustion, and the constant hum of anxiety that comes from pretending to be someone you’re not. But it’s not all heavy. Lisa shares the life-changing shift that happens when you start embracing your true self—step by tiny step. With her trademark humour and vulnerability, she explores how authenticity is more than just a buzzword; it’s a liberation that impacts your relationships, your health, and your happiness. Whether you’re struggling with identity, stuck in a career that doesn’t feel right, or just feeling like life isn’t fitting quite right, this episode will resonate. Lisa also gives practical tips for beginning the journey toward your truth, no matter how daunting it feels. As she celebrates her 50th birthday, Lisa reflects on the life she’s curating with intention, freedom, and love—and invites you to start curating yours. 🎙️ Listen now, and start shedding the layers that no longer serve you. Your most authentic self is waiting. 💌 Connect & Engage: Visit biggayoverallspodcast.com 📲 Follow on socials @biggayoverallspodcast for more stories, insights, and conversations. If you’d like to connect with me, collaborate, or explore ways we can work together—whether it’s for coaching, storytelling projects, or speaking engagements—I’d love to hear from you! Visit www.biggayoverallspodcast.com or email me directly  Let’s create something meaningful together! 🌟 Connect with us on social: IG, Threads, TikTok: @biggayoverallspodcast Join our supportive community: Embracing My Big Gay Overalls Skool  https://www.skool.com/embracing-my-big-gay-overalls-7167/about Subscribe, like, and share if you found this episode meaningful!  And please leave me a 5 Star Rating and Review if you love the Podcast! Connect with me Email Lisa@biggayoverallspodcast.com

    30 min
  8. BGO E20 - Getting Real: My Journey to Living Authentically and Why It’s So Worth It

    11/25/2024

    BGO E20 - Getting Real: My Journey to Living Authentically and Why It’s So Worth It

    In this episode of Big Gay Overalls, I’m diving into something close to my heart—authenticity. For years, I lived a life that looked great on the outside but felt completely out of sync with who I really was. It wasn’t until I hit my mid-40s that I started doing the hard, messy work of figuring out who I truly am and living in alignment with that truth. I’m sharing my story—the ups, the downs, and the lessons I’ve learned along the way. From facing my fears to peeling back years of conditioning, it’s been a wild ride, but I can tell you this: living authentically has been the most freeing, joyful, and meaningful thing I’ve ever done. I’ll also talk about the little steps you can take to start showing up as your true self, even if it feels scary as hell. Whether it’s journaling, having those tough conversations, or just looking in the mirror and saying, “I’m enough,” there’s a way forward for you. So, grab your overalls (metaphorically or literally!) and join me for this deep, honest chat about what it means to live your truth. I hope my story inspires you to take that next step toward your own authenticity—because you deserve it, and the world needs your magic. Let’s do this together. Keep your overalls on and press play! Join the conversation, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs it. Together, let’s own our stories and make authenticity contagious. Keep your overalls on and dive in! If you’d like to connect with me, collaborate, or explore ways we can work together—whether it’s for coaching, storytelling projects, or speaking engagements—I’d love to hear from you! Visit www.biggayoverallspodcast.com or email me directly  Let’s create something meaningful together! 🌟 Connect with us on social: IG, Threads, TikTok: @biggayoverallspodcast Join our supportive community: Embracing My Big Gay Overalls Skool  https://www.skool.com/embracing-my-big-gay-overalls-7167/about Subscribe, like, and share if you found this episode meaningful!  And please leave me a 5 Star Rating and Review if you love the Podcast! Connect with me Email Lisa@biggayoverallspodcast.com

    28 min
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My story as a someone who has come out later in life, and navigating my way to finding love, not only with another but also finding it for myself and accepting my whole self. A place to share stories to show those on the path that it can be a happy journey and worth the first steps.

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