Christians Who Date

Andrea Alley, Kalli Christofferson, and Lauren Bournique
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Join 3 best friends over 30 as they take on the dating world with jokes and Jesus.

  1. 12/02/2025

    When Things Get Serious: Pacing & Communication in the Committed Stage

    How long should you date before getting engaged? When do you introduce someone to your family? What do communication and conflict look like in the serious dating stage? We talk through all of these questions and how we're currently navigating moving from “getting to know you” to “we're really doing this.” If you’re dating seriously, or hoping to be soon, this one's for you.

    1h 9m

  2. 11/25/2025

    Does "The Ick" Mean It's Over?

    You're dating someone, everything's going great, and then it happens: you get "the ick." He wore the wrong shoes. She chewed with her mouth open. Can you come back from this?! Kalli, Lauren, and Andrea talk through these burning questions.

    39 min

  3. 11/18/2025

    Dating Apps: From Profile Mistakes to First Dates

    If you've ever wished someone would give you the full deets on how they approach dating apps - this is your episode. In this 1.3-hour-long episode, Lauren and Andrea break down everything: what makes us swipe left, how we’ve built our own profiles (and why), what we actually say when messaging someone new, and what we look for before a first date. We cover: • The biggest profile red flags ✋ • Biggest bio mistakes we see • Our top prompts and photo rules • The emotional highs, lows, and “Lord… give me strength” moments Grab your coffee and your phone- we’re going in.

    1h 23m

  4. 11/11/2025

    🫖 Tuesday Tea: The Podcast Hits Unprecedented Times

    History has been made, folks. For the first time ever, all three Christians Who Date are in relationships at the same time.  We’re spilling all the tea on: - Kalli's ginormous news - Andrea's pickleball romance - Lauren's dating bootcamp Grab your favorite mug, your emotional support water bottle, and strap in for some major life updates and plenty of jokes.

    52 min

  5. 11/04/2025

    Have We Prayed for Our Husbands?

    We grew up hearing we should pray for our husbands. There are entire books and journals around it. But what has it actually looked like? This week, we're unpacking what it's looked like for us to... Toe the line between praying for marriage and idolizing it.Ask boldly for something that was God’s ideaTrust that God's not waiting for you to get married before healing your loneliness, fear, or pain. If you’ve ever wondered: “Is it okay to want marriage this much?” or “What do I pray while I wait?” - this one's for you!

    31 min

  6. 10/28/2025

    Do Our Callings Have to Match?

    As Christians, we can get really fixated on finding someone with the same “calling.” But how much does that actually matter? In this episode, we talk about the balance between making your calling too big of a deal and not making it a deal at all. If someone’s dream is to live overseas and yours isn’t, that’s probably a no-go. But we’ve also seen people (and been people) who take this idea to an extreme that it doesn’t need to go. We dig into how our Christian culture talks about calling, how that’s shaped the way we date, and how much pressure is too much pressure in this area.

    43 min

  7. 10/21/2025

    When You're "Just Friends" But You're Not

    What happens when you're "just friends" with someone and... They have a crush on youYou have a crush on themYou both have a mutual crush on each other, but you're in denialKalli, Lauren, and Andrea sit down to answer this topic idea thrown out to us by one of you 🎉 : "Healthy friendship boundaries between single guys and single girls." How do you take care of your own heart and the other person's heart inside of a friendship that has the potential to be more than a friendship?

    1h 7m

  8. 10/14/2025

    From Relationship Anxiety to Married & Engaged in 2 Weeks (with Joy and Mathieu Rossignol)

    Does anxiety in a relationship mean it's not from God? This week, we sit down with our friends and dating experts, Joy and Mathieu Rossignol. After experiencing their own anxiety throughout ten months of dating, they were finally able to work through it and get married and engaged IN TWO WEEKS. Joy is a marriage and family therapist, and together, she and Mathieu have coached hundreds of people experiencing dating anxiety. If you’ve ever found yourself constantly questioning a relationship or wondering if it’s God’s will, this one’s for you! Follow Joy on Instagram: @joyrossignol Check out Joy and Mathieu's Podcast: When You Don't Know Apply for 1:1 Coaching Apply for Relationship Anxiety Academy

    1h 14m
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Join 3 best friends over 30 as they take on the dating world with jokes and Jesus.

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  • Creator
    Andrea Alley, Kalli Christofferson, and Lauren Bournique
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    64
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Andrea Alley, Kalli Christofferson, and Lauren Bournique
  • Show Website
    Christians Who Date