Magnetic Communication

Sandy Gerber
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The Magnetic Communication Podcast helps you to quickly improve your communication skills in your professional and personal relationships. When it comes to communication, we all tend to think we’re pretty good at it. But most of us have not been trained. We can speak with someone every day and still communicate badly. Anyone married?! Every week, listeners get simple communication tips including body language cues, listening tools, conflict resolution, self-talk and workplace communication training to use right away to connect better. I’m Sandy Gerber, your host. I’m a Certified Communication Trainer, Keynote Speaker, Best-Selling Author, and TEDx Speaker. As a single mom, I’ve owned three successful businesses, grew my agency from my bedroom to a Top 100 Fastest Growing Company with magnetic communication, and after two failed marriages (and 20 years of communication training), married my prince charming and we’ve been happy for 11 years. I also count winning a limbo contest at 14 as one of my greatest achievements. Real, helpful, and engaging, this show helps people to feel more confident and successful in their communication. Follow me on Instagram @sandy_gerber_official or my site Sandygerber.com

  1. 5d ago

    Stop Negative Self-Talk When the Voice in Your Head Gets Mean

    How to stop negative self-talk is easy to teach and much harder to do when you're the one sitting on the couch, run down and believing every word your inner critic says. In Episode 116 of the Magnetic Communication Podcast, communication coach and emotional intelligence trainer Sandy Gerber shares what happened after a run of powerful events was followed by the flu and a lupus flare-up. As her body recovered, her mind went somewhere dark, and the voice in her head started telling her she was behind, she wasn't helping enough people, and she had no business teaching anyone. So Sandy turned one of her own tools, the Honest Sandwich, on herself. She walks you through the list of feelings she wrote down, the surprising difference between what she thought she needed and what she needed emotionally, and the options she's choosing from to move forward. You'll leave with three questions to ask yourself the next time your inner voice gets mean, plus one simple test that changes how you talk to yourself. If you've ever felt like your worth disappears the moment you stop doing, this one is for you.

    Stop Negative Self-Talk When the Voice in Your Head Gets Mean

  2. Oct 20

    Emotional Outsourcing: Why You’re Telling Everyone But Your Partner

    Emotional outsourcing is one of the biggest relationship trends of 2026, and there's a good chance you're doing it without realizing it. Have you ever vented to your best friend, your group chat or even a chatbot about something your partner did, and realized later that the one person you never told was your partner? In this episode, Sandy Gerber explains why so many of us share our feelings with everyone except the person they're about, and how that quietly leads to drift. Sandy shares the story of her daughter's friend, who spent six months in a situationship, talking through every feeling with friends and co-workers but never with the person it was really about. She also brings in new research, including a Stanford study published in Science that found AI chatbots affirm people far more than humans do, and that just one flattering chat made people less willing to repair things with the person they were in conflict with. In this episode, you'll learn: What emotional outsourcing is and why it's trendingHow situationships make it even harder to say how you feelHow emotional outsourcing leads to driftWhy you should never open with "We need to talk"Difficult conversation starters you can use this weekThe Honest Sandwich, a simple tool for getting clarity in a situationshipHow emotional outsourcing shows up at work, and starters for talking to your boss or a co-worker directlyIn a situationship? Listen to Episode 66 next for more tools on dating and texting with confidence. Wondering if you've started to drift? Take Sandy's free Relationship Connection Quiz at sandygerber.com/drift-quiz

    Emotional Outsourcing: Why You’re Telling Everyone But Your Partner

  3. Oct 11

    What to Say When Someone Is Being Passive-Aggressive

    What to say when someone is being passive-aggressive, and how to say it without starting a fight or letting one little comment sour your whole day. "Must be nice to have time for that." Most of us have heard a comment like that and spent hours replaying it, wishing we'd said something. A passive-aggressive comment is a difficult conversation someone started through the side door, and in this episode Sandy Gerber shows you how to answer it with kindness and courage. Sandy shares the one question she asks when someone gets snarly with her, and why it almost always turns the moment around. She also brings in surprising survey numbers on how common passive aggression is and why so many of us absorb it instead of addressing it. In this episode, you'll learn: What to say when someone is being passive-aggressive, with real phrases you can use in the momentHow to check whether you've read someone right without accusing themWhat to say when someone says "I'm fine" and clearly isn'tHow your words change with a partner, a co-worker or a bossWhat to do when the comments keep happeningThe common responses that backfireThe one question that tells you when to let it goReleased a few days early so you can practice before Thanksgiving dinner. For workshops and webinars on navigating difficult conversations, visit sandygerber.com/workplace-communication-training/

    What to Say When Someone Is Being Passive-Aggressive

  4. Oct 6

    Handle Difficult Conversations: The Step Everyone Skips

    How to handle difficult conversations: you've rehearsed it in the shower, in the car, and at two in the morning. Then they say one sentence and your perfect script is gone. You skipped a step. Almost everyone does. In this episode, Sandy shares the moment she was tested on her own tool, in a conversation with a friend she loves, after hearing a comment that hit harder than she expected. She walks you through exactly what happened and the tool that kept her from firing back. You'll learn the first level of a connected conversation, the one most of us skip, and the EQ Switch, an emotionally intelligent communication tool you can use before you knock on someone's door or in the middle of a tense meeting without anyone noticing. With Mental Illness Awareness Week starting and World Mental Health Day on October 10th, Sandy also talks about the hardest difficult conversation of all: the one where you're worried about someone. If you've ever wondered how to handle a difficult conversation like that, this one's for you. Pick the conversation you've been avoiding. Then press play. If you or someone you know is in crisis, in Canada you can call or text 9-8-8, any time, day or night. Workshops, courses and webinars on difficult conversations at work: sandygerber.com/workplace-communication-training/

    Handle Difficult Conversations: The Step Everyone Skips

  5. Sep 29

    Emotionally Intelligent Written Communication Tools

    Emotionally intelligent written communication gets your message answered instead of ignored. This one's coming back by popular demand, one of the most requested episodes we've done, and after last week's rejection email breakdown, it felt like time to pull it back out. Two tools. Both simple. Both things you can use today. The CLEAR Email Method walks you through five steps so your messages actually get read, not skimmed and forgotten. The Draft and Delay Rule is the one that stopped a deputy chief from torching a major relationship over a furious email he almost sent. And there are three small connection cues in here too, the kind that make your writing sound like an actual person wrote it. A lot of the time, it doesn't. If you've ever hit send and instantly wanted it back, or couldn't figure out why your "short and efficient" note came off cold, this one's for you.

    Emotionally Intelligent Written Communication Tools

  6. Sep 22

    7 AI Writing Tells In One Rejection Email

    AI writing tells are easier to catch than most people think, once you know what you're listening for. This week I got a rejection email that read perfectly. Every sentence in place, every word doing its job. And on the second read, I knew a person hadn't written it. In this episode, I walk through the exact moment I caught it, why it stung more than any no I've had in twenty five years of doing this, and the seven easy, obvious signs that tell you a message came from AI and not a human being. I also get honest about my own mixed feelings on where all of this is headed, and I hand you one simple move you can use before you send anything hard, so your own messages never read as hollow as the one I got. If you use AI at all in your day to day writing, at work or anywhere else, this one's going to change how you read everything that lands in your inbox.

    7 AI Writing Tells In One Rejection Email

  7. Sep 15

    The One-Sentence Tool for Instant Connection

    How to make instant connection comes down to one sentence, and most of us never say it. Last week, a client introduced Sandy Gerber at a webinar not as her coach, but as her "bestie," the person she hears from every week teaching her one new way to have a better conversation. Sandy was speechless, which almost never happens. In this episode, Sandy breaks down Impact Out Loud, a tool from her Speak Brave program built for exactly this gap: telling someone, specifically and out loud, the effect they had on you. She shows what it sounds like using real messages she sent that same week, walks through a handful of openers you can use instead of one rigid script, and shares what happened when she told her husband the story over dinner. If you've ever felt grateful for someone and said nothing, this episode gives you the exact words to fix that this week. Sandy's Speak Brave program info is here: https://sandygerber.com/speakbrave/

    The One-Sentence Tool for Instant Connection

  8. Sep 8

    I Statements vs. You Statements: Say 'We' Instead

    I statements vs you statements: most people have heard of the swap, but there's a second step almost nobody teaches, and it's the one that actually keeps people at the table. In this episode, communication and emotional intelligence coach Sandy Gerber breaks down why "you" statements shut people down before they even hear what's being said, and why the standard fix, switching to "I," only gets you halfway there. She shares research out of UC Berkeley that tracked married couples' pronouns during real arguments and found something measurable in their heart rates and their marriages. She also walks through a client story about the danger of absolutes like "never" and "always," and how one small word swap turned a defensive spiral into an actual conversation. Sandy then shows how she uses "we" proactively, with her own kids and her team, long before there's any conflict to repair, and why that's the version of the tool most people never hear about. Then she takes it a step further, into the conversation people have with themselves when nobody else is listening. The same pronouns that keep another person in the room can keep you in the room with yourself too. For anyone who has said something completely true and still watched the room close off, this episode offers the exact word to reach for instead.

    I Statements vs. You Statements: Say 'We' Instead
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The Magnetic Communication Podcast helps you to quickly improve your communication skills in your professional and personal relationships. When it comes to communication, we all tend to think we’re pretty good at it. But most of us have not been trained. We can speak with someone every day and still communicate badly. Anyone married?! Every week, listeners get simple communication tips including body language cues, listening tools, conflict resolution, self-talk and workplace communication training to use right away to connect better. I’m Sandy Gerber, your host. I’m a Certified Communication Trainer, Keynote Speaker, Best-Selling Author, and TEDx Speaker. As a single mom, I’ve owned three successful businesses, grew my agency from my bedroom to a Top 100 Fastest Growing Company with magnetic communication, and after two failed marriages (and 20 years of communication training), married my prince charming and we’ve been happy for 11 years. I also count winning a limbo contest at 14 as one of my greatest achievements. Real, helpful, and engaging, this show helps people to feel more confident and successful in their communication. Follow me on Instagram @sandy_gerber_official or my site Sandygerber.com

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  • Creator
    Sandy Gerber
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    117
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Magnetic Communication
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    Magnetic Communication

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