Architect of Calm

Felisa Wiley
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Formerly: PausePoint- The Podcast Architect of Calm is a conversation-driven podcast exploring how specialists, researchers, and practitioners actually build calm into their lives, not as an aspiration, but as a system.Each episode, host Felisa Wiley sits down with the people who study human behavior, performance, and well-being for a living and asks the question most podcasts skip: what does this look like in your own life?Honest, interview-format conversations with the people who know this work from the inside.

  1. Sep 29 ·  Video

    E17: A Sleep Scientist on What Rest Actually Does with Dr. Alen Juginović

    Overview In this episode of PausePoint: The Podcast (soon to be Architect of Calm), we sit down with a guest who spends his days sleep-depriving mice to answer a question that should unsettle anyone skimping on rest: does poor sleep actually cause cancer, not just correlate with it? This conversation moves through circadian rhythm, why your wearable's sleep score might be lying to you, and why the supplement aisle's favorite fix, melatonin, is being misused by almost everyone who takes it. Guest Bio Dr. Alen Juginović is a Harvard-trained sleep scientist, physician, and founder whose research bridges neuroscience, gut health, and peak performance. His lab studies the mechanistic link between poor sleep and disease, including ongoing research into whether sleep deprivation causally contributes to colorectal and breast cancer. He works with athletes on sleep optimization and is the author of the forthcoming book on sleep science. What You'll Discover This Week: The Cancer Connection: Alen breaks down early findings from his lab linking sleep deprivation to cellular damage and DNA misrepair in the intestines, and why researchers still can't say whether the link to colorectal cancer is causal.Your Wearable Might Be Wrong: Sleep trackers are good at telling you when you're asleep, but only 60 to 70 percent accurate at identifying sleep stages, and Alan explains a real condition, orthosomnia, caused by obsessing over your sleep score.The Melatonin Mistake: Why most people reaching for melatonin don't actually need it, and why the 50-milligram bottles on store shelves are doing more harm than good.Every Cell Has a Clock: Alen explains why sleep isn't just a brain function, every single cell in your body runs on its own circadian clock, and misalignment ripples out to nearly every system you have.Shoot us a text & share your thoughts! ------------------------ Architect of Calm Where Mindfulness Meets Mastery in Work-Life Balance Connect With Us: Subscribe: Tune in on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for insightful episodes.Follow Us: Stay updated via Instagram & LinkedInContact Us: Have questions or feedback? Reach out directly at info@pausepoint.io

    E17: A Sleep Scientist on What Rest Actually Does with Dr. Alen Juginović

  2. Sep 22 ·  Video

    E16: Your Job Isn't the Problem, Your Open Tabs Are with Mary (Wendroff) Petto

    Overview In this episode of PausePoint: The Podcast (soon to be Architect of Calm), we sit down with a guest who makes the case that burnout, quiet quitting, and workplace disengagement aren't really about hours or workload, they're about leaky energy, unprocessed turmoil, and a culture that hasn't yet learned business is fundamentally about relationships. This conversation moves between hard science and something closer to energy work, and lands on tools you can use the next time you're heading into a tense meeting. Guest Bio Mary is a certified mindfulness teacher, master Reiki healer, and vibrational energy coach who brings corporate mindfulness training to organizations looking to reduce turnover, burnout, and disengagement. She's also a specialist in Rapid Resolution Therapy, a technique she uses to help clients clear stuck anger, grief, and trauma outside of traditional talk therapy. Mary is the author of The Family Guide to the Law of Attraction, and works with both corporate teams and individuals through self-paced programs. What You'll Discover This Week: The Leaky Tab Theory of Burnout: Mary explains why work often gets blamed for suffering that's actually coming from unresolved inner turmoil, and how closing those "open tabs" restores the energy you thought your job was draining.Quantum Leaps Start With Leadership: Why company culture shifts the moment leadership stops treating people as output machines and starts treating business as what it actually is, a network of relationships.The Zip-Up Intention Exercise: A practical, slightly unconventional technique Mary uses before high-stakes meetings to set her energy and walk in already resourced, regardless of who or what she's about to face.Why Neutral Beats Positive: Mary makes the case that toxic positivity isn't the goal, neutrality is, and explains how becoming an objective observer of your own reactions is the real foundation of a mindful workplace.Shoot us a text & share your thoughts! ------------------------ Architect of Calm Where Mindfulness Meets Mastery in Work-Life Balance Connect With Us: Subscribe: Tune in on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for insightful episodes.Follow Us: Stay updated via Instagram & LinkedInContact Us: Have questions or feedback? Reach out directly at info@pausepoint.io

    E16: Your Job Isn't the Problem, Your Open Tabs Are with Mary (Wendroff) Petto

  3. Sep 15 ·  Video

    E15: Storytelling Tools For Mindfulness And Mental Health with Maia Kinney-Petrucha

    Overview  In this episode of PausePoint: The Podcast (soon to be Architect of Calm), we're joined by Maia Kinney-Petrucha, storyteller and cognitive neuroscientist, to talk about what OCD actually looks like from the inside, not the punchline version, but the real one. Maya unpacks intrusive thoughts, compulsion cycles, and the stigma that keeps people from recognizing a serious anxiety disorder for what it is. This conversation connects hard science with honest storytelling and leaves you with tools you can actually use.  Guest Bio  Maia Kinney-Petrucha is a storyteller and cognitive neuroscientist whose work bridges mental health education, theater, and brain science. She uses sketch-style storytelling to externalize the OCD voice, making complex psychological experiences more accessible and less isolating. Her approach draws on what performance and neuroscience share: attention, empathy, and emotional regulation, to create mental health content that's both rigorous and deeply human. What You'll Discover This Week: What OCD Actually Is: Maia cuts through the "neat freak" stereotype to explain how intrusive thoughts latch onto what you value most, why compulsions feel like relief, and what makes OCD a serious anxiety disorder, not a personality quirk.Science Meets Storytelling: Learn how Maia uses theater and sketch comedy to externalize the OCD voice, and why grounding tools like sensory meditation, physical anchors, and breathwork can shift your nervous system when spirals start.Rest as Resistance: Maia shares what changed when she stopped making downtime productive, and how unstructured time, nature, and play became the foundation of a more sustainable life.Shoot us a text & share your thoughts! ------------------------ Architect of Calm Where Mindfulness Meets Mastery in Work-Life Balance Connect With Us: Subscribe: Tune in on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for insightful episodes.Follow Us: Stay updated via Instagram & LinkedInContact Us: Have questions or feedback? Reach out directly at info@pausepoint.io

    E15: Storytelling Tools For Mindfulness And Mental Health with Maia Kinney-Petrucha

  4. Sep 8 ·  Video

    E14: The Marine Who Became a Neuropsychologist: Fasting, Jung, and the Science of Sitting Still with Dr. Ciro Visone

    Overview  In this episode of PausePoint: The Podcast (soon to be Architect of Calm), we sit down with a guest whose path into brain science started with watching fellow Marines come home from war with injuries no one fully understood. This conversation moves fast, from ghrelin and cortisol to Carl Jung to why the people we love most are usually the ones we project onto, and lands on a simple idea that ties it all together: what you eat, how you sleep, and how honestly you sit with your own mind all shape the same outcome. Guest Bio Dr. Ciro Visone is a clinical and rehabilitation neuropsychologist, forensic psychologist, and Army Reserve soldier who spent years as an active-duty Marine before pivoting into brain science. He's a professor of cognitive and affective behavioral neuroscience at the University of La Verne and teaches forensic psychology at Southern New Hampshire University, while also practicing in a brain and spinal cord injury rehabilitation hospital. His work bridges neuropsychology, nutritional psychiatry, and mindfulness, and he's currently developing a supplement line rooted in what he calls nutritional replacement therapy. What You'll Discover This Week: The Diathesis Stress Model: Why we all carry vulnerabilities to stress and disease, and how daily choices, not just genetics, determine whether those vulnerabilities stay dormant or take over.Fasting as a Cognitive Tool: Ciro breaks down what an 18-hour daily fast actually does for hormone regulation, mental clarity, and emotional resilience, and why the hardest part is never the biology.Vipassana and the Loudest Silence: How sitting with negative emotion instead of suppressing it, and learning that it will pass, became one of the most effective tools he uses with veterans facing PTSD.Jung's Shadows and Who We Project Onto: Why the people closest to us usually absorb our unresolved patterns, and what it actually takes to recognize you're doing it in real time.Shoot us a text & share your thoughts! ------------------------ Architect of Calm Where Mindfulness Meets Mastery in Work-Life Balance Connect With Us: Subscribe: Tune in on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for insightful episodes.Follow Us: Stay updated via Instagram & LinkedInContact Us: Have questions or feedback? Reach out directly at info@pausepoint.io

    E14: The Marine Who Became a Neuropsychologist: Fasting, Jung, and the Science of Sitting Still with Dr. Ciro Visone

  5. Sep 1 ·  Video

    E13: What If Your Body Knows The Truth First with Deb Glassman

    Overview  In this episode of PausePoint: The Podcast (soon to be Architect of Calm), we sit down with a guest whose path through medical training led her straight to mindfulness and never really back out. She shares what a real, imperfect practice looks like: breath, movement, journaling, gratitude, and learning to meet your thoughts without catastrophizing. This one is for anyone running on fumes and tired of being told to just slow down. Guest Bio  Deborah Glassman is a physician, yoga teacher, actor, and playwright whose career spans medicine, movement, and the arts. Stress and anxiety during medical training drew her to yoga, meditation, and therapy, and those tools became the foundation of both her personal practice and professional perspective. She brings a grounded, unsentimental approach to mindfulness: presence over perfection, awareness over performance, and honesty over toxic positivity. What You'll Discover This Week: Mindfulness That Actually Fits Your Life: Deborah breaks down a real practice, breath, movement awareness, nightly journaling, morning gratitude, and why presence matters more than doing it perfectly.The Cost of Perfectionism: From medical training to everyday burnout, Deborah unpacks why the pressure to be infallible backfires, and how saying "I don't know" can actually build more trust than having all the answers.Becoming Through Unbecoming: Her reframe on growth, the process of becoming is unbecoming, cuts through standard self-help noise, and gets honest about letting go of who you thought you had to be.Shoot us a text & share your thoughts! ------------------------ Architect of Calm Where Mindfulness Meets Mastery in Work-Life Balance Connect With Us: Subscribe: Tune in on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for insightful episodes.Follow Us: Stay updated via Instagram & LinkedInContact Us: Have questions or feedback? Reach out directly at info@pausepoint.io

    E13: What If Your Body Knows The Truth First with Deb Glassman

  6. Aug 25 ·  Video

    E12: Healing Starts When You Stop Guessing with Lisa Marie Anzaldua

    Overview  In this episode of PausePoint: The Podcast (soon to be Architect of Calm), we're joined by Lisa Marie Anzaldua, a holistic psychotherapist and neurodiverse couples counselor who works with couples in which one partner is autistic and the other is neurotypical. Lisa unpacks the hidden mechanics behind relationship rupture, mismatched emotional processing, theory-of-mind gaps, and the stories we tell ourselves when a partner can't show up the way we need. This conversation is about clarity, nervous system regulation, and what real repair actually looks like.  Guest Bio  Lisa Marie Anzaldua is a holistic psychotherapist, spiritual guide, and neurodiverse couples counselor specializing in ASD-neurotypical relationships. Her work sits at the intersection of trauma-informed healing, nervous system regulation, and practical communication tools that help couples stop interpreting each other and start translating. Lisa brings both clinical expertise and spiritual depth to her practice, guiding clients toward self-awareness, repair, and lasting relational change. What You'll Discover This Week: The Truth About Neurodiverse Relationships: Lisa breaks down why relationships don't fall apart over big blowups, they erode through small moments that land on an already-braced nervous system, and why understanding that distinction changes everything.Stop Interpreting, Start Translating: Learn why vague requests like "just be there for me" consistently fail ASD partners, and how specific, concrete communication creates a roadmap that actually works for both people.When the Diagnosis Comes Late: What happens when autism is identified 10, 15, or 20 years into a marriage, and how to untangle accumulated hurt, hardened conflict patterns, and even stress-related health symptoms without assigning blame.Mindfulness as Repair: From breathwork to inner-child work, Lisa shares trauma-informed tools that fit into real life, and why self-love isn't a concept but a daily practice you can return to when you're triggered or overwhelmed.Shoot us a text & share your thoughts! ------------------------ Architect of Calm Where Mindfulness Meets Mastery in Work-Life Balance Connect With Us: Subscribe: Tune in on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for insightful episodes.Follow Us: Stay updated via Instagram & LinkedInContact Us: Have questions or feedback? Reach out directly at info@pausepoint.io

    E12: Healing Starts When You Stop Guessing with Lisa Marie Anzaldua

  7. Aug 18 ·  Video

    E11: Show Up And Stay True with Corey Williams

    Overview  We kick off Season 2 with Corey Williams, SoulCycle instructor and Philadelphia native, whose journey through movement, family, and intentional living is a masterclass in showing up authentically — even when it's hard. Corey opens up about rebuilding after dark seasons, resisting hustle culture, and staying present in a world designed for distraction. Guest Bio  Corey Williams is a Philly-based SoulCycle instructor whose path to the bike wound through Arizona and back home. With roots in karate, gym culture, and cycling, he brings a multi-disciplinary lens to movement as mental health practice, showing up with the same energy for one rider or a full room, grounded in intention, self-compassion, and authenticity over performance. What You'll Discover This Week: Movement as Mental Health: How cycling, karate, and the gym function as daily anchors for stress relief, emotional regulation, and resilience — not just fitness. Navigating Darkness: Corey gets honest about heartbreak, hard seasons, and why self-compassion isn't a luxury — it's the foundation. Discipline Without Burnout: How single-task focus and a simple daily plan build real consistency — without the grind.Shoot us a text & share your thoughts! ------------------------ Architect of Calm Where Mindfulness Meets Mastery in Work-Life Balance Connect With Us: Subscribe: Tune in on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for insightful episodes.Follow Us: Stay updated via Instagram & LinkedInContact Us: Have questions or feedback? Reach out directly at info@pausepoint.io

  8. Aug 18 ·  Video

    E10: You Cannot Control Life, Only Your Response with Lauren Garner

    Overview  In this episode of PausePoint: The Podcast (soon to be Architect of Calm), we sit down with a guest who makes the case that burnout, quiet quitting, and workplace disengagement aren't really about hours or workload, they're about leaky energy, unprocessed turmoil, and a culture that hasn't yet learned business is fundamentally about relationships. This conversation moves between hard science and something closer to energy work, and lands on tools you can use the next time you're heading into a tense meeting. Guest Bio  Lauren Garner is the former VP of Demand Generation and Partnerships at Ascent Funding, where she leads in a remote-first, high-pressure environment that demands both performance and presence. Her approach to mindfulness is grounded in reality, scheduled one-on-ones, intentional boundaries across time zones, and small pauses that add up to clearer thinking and healthier teams. Lauren brings a hard-earned perspective from her professional and personal life, including her fertility journey, which shaped her views on vulnerability, support, and what it means to not carry stress alone. What You'll Discover This Week: The One-Breath Reset: Lauren explains how a single pause before responding to an email, a message, or a moment can reduce reactivity, shift your energy, and change the tone of your entire workday.Leading Without Burning Out: From intentional one-on-ones to lunch breaks that actually happen, Lauren shares the specific habits that protect her team's wellbeing without sacrificing standards or performance.Anxiety vs. Intuition: Lauren breaks down why fear and gut instinct can feel identical in the body, and how tools like the body sway technique help her check in and make decisions from a clearer place.Shoot us a text & share your thoughts! ------------------------ Architect of Calm Where Mindfulness Meets Mastery in Work-Life Balance Connect With Us: Subscribe: Tune in on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for insightful episodes.Follow Us: Stay updated via Instagram & LinkedInContact Us: Have questions or feedback? Reach out directly at info@pausepoint.io

    E10: You Cannot Control Life, Only Your Response with Lauren Garner
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Formerly: PausePoint- The Podcast Architect of Calm is a conversation-driven podcast exploring how specialists, researchers, and practitioners actually build calm into their lives, not as an aspiration, but as a system.Each episode, host Felisa Wiley sits down with the people who study human behavior, performance, and well-being for a living and asks the question most podcasts skip: what does this look like in your own life?Honest, interview-format conversations with the people who know this work from the inside.

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  • Creator
    Felisa Wiley
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    18
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © 2026 Architect of Calm
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