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Discover your true potential with the Stand Up Dude Podcast, the ultimate guide for men seeking purpose, meaning, and direction in today's complex world. Hosts Tim Bisagno and Stewart White dive deep into personal growth, leadership, and faith, offering insights and strategies to help you become the best version of yourself. Whether you're feeling stuck or yearning for more out of life, this podcast empowers you to break free from life's endless cycles and step into your true calling. Join a community of like-minded individuals on a journey to discover truth, embrace freedom, and find life-changing answers. Tune in to the Stand Up Dude Podcast and start your transformation today. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-stand-up-dude-podcast--6143975/support.

  1. 1d ago

    AI Is Becoming a God to This Generation | Veteran Ben Peterson on Faith, Dopamine and Identity

    AI is becoming a spiritual guide for an entire generation, and most Christian men have no idea it is happening. In this episode of Stand Up Dude, Stewart White and Pedro LaTorre sit down with combat veteran Ben Peterson, founder of Engage Your Destiny and author of "When Intelligence Isn't Human: Navigating Your Faith in the Age of AI," to talk honestly about artificial intelligence, faith, and what it is quietly doing to men. Barna found that 39% of Gen Z and 44% of millennials now take spiritual guidance from AI. They treat ChatGPT like a pastor. Ben explains how we got here. The smartphone rewired the dopamine system between 2010 and 2015. Social media was built on the slot machine model of trigger and reward. Now AI has learned enough emotional intelligence to make a lonely man feel seen in a way no human can match. This is not an anti-technology rant. Ben uses AI every day and builds it into his ministry. His warning is about the line most of us cross without noticing, when a tool quietly becomes a guide, then a god, then a substitute for relationship. 📖 GET (Pre-order Until Aug 25th) BEN'S BOOK: When Intelligence Isn't Human: Navigating Your Faith in the Age of AI: https://amzn.to/4xdqAc7 🎖️ Learn about Ben's ministry to the military: https://engageyourdestiny.org 🧢 Get a TN HAT, the ones we wear on the show 🧢: https://tnhat.shop/collections/frontpage 👉 Never Miss An Episode: Get Our Newsletter: https://missionxmission.eo.page/sud-newsletter 👉 Ready to recenter your life on Jesus? https://standupdude.com/standup 👉 Free tools for authentic growth: https://standupdude.com/be-more 👉 Support Stand Up Dude and Mission X Mission: http://MissionXMission.org/donate Ben went to Iraq at 21 and lost seven of his guys in his first week. He came home carrying things no 22-year-old should carry, and what saved him was not a screen. It was a mentor who picked up the phone at three in the morning and pointed him to Jesus. That is the whole argument of this conversation. We were built for costly, inconvenient, human connection, and we are trading it for something that feels better and delivers nothing. He walks through the science without making it a lecture. Why dopamine is a chasing chemical rather than a pleasure chemical. Why social media crashes you when you put it down and a real conversation lets you off gently. Why every third or fifth Reel is deliberately worse than the last one. Why your wife is on her phone in the passenger seat every single time, and what is actually happening in her nervous system when you feel her check out. CHAPTERS 00:00 The Men Building AI Are Not Followers of Christ 00:16 Meet Ben Peterson 01:33 Combat at 21 and Seven Brothers Lost in One Week 05:19 Engage Your Destiny and a World Without Military Suicide 06:10 "If You Were Satan, How Would You Destroy This Generation?" 08:38 Tennessee Hats 08:58 39% of Gen Z Take Spiritual Guidance From AI 09:32 The Anxious Generation and the Smartphone Rewire 10:09 Conditioning: The Word That Explains Your Phone Habit 11:09 Social Media Was Built on the Slot Machine Model 13:32 Constantly Entertained, But Never Satisfied 14:16 Weak AI Is Learning You Right Now 14:54 The Tower of Babel Problem 15:46 The Chatbot Case Every Parent Should Know About 17:14 Why AI Tells You Exactly What You Want to Hear 20:06 Fire Is a Great Tool Until It Burns the House Down 21:32 Don't Outsource Your Identity in Christ 23:18 Why AI Can Never Be a Relationship 28:35 Why Boys and Girls Get Pulled in Different Directions 29:56 Fight or Flight and Why You Reach for the Phone 31:26 "What Are You Actually Searching For?" 36:15 The Attorney Who Could Not Stop Working 36:58 How Were You Initiated Into Manhood? 39:43 A Music Class at Nine and an Identity Built on Performance 41:50 40,000 Veterans at Daytona and the Empty Morning After 42:39 Galatians 2:20 and the Only Identity That Holds 43:47 The Intentional Father and the Initiation Most Men Never Got 46:06 A Fair Word About the Boomers and the WWII Generation 50:51 Two Antidotes: Go Long Form and Get a Real Hobby 54:21 When Intelligence Isn't Human 54:51 How to Self-Check Whether AI Has Crossed the Line 55:12 A Five Minute Meeting With the King of the Universe 56:22 Get Ben's Book 57:00 If You Want to Know Jesus 🌟 LINKS 🌟 📖 Ben's book: https://amzn.to/4xdqAc7 🎖️ Engage Your Destiny: https://engageyourdestiny.org 🧢 Tennessee Hats (as seen in the episode): https://tnhat.shop/collections/frontpage ⚡️ Connect & Take Action: Connect with the Stand Up Dude brotherhood: Email: dudes@standupdude.com Website: https://standupdude.com/ Instagram: instagram.com/standupdudeofficial Facebook: facebook.com/standupdude 🔗 All links & socials: https://linktr.ee/standupdude 🎵 Theme Music: Prodigal by Arrows in Exile: https://open.spotify.com/track/0Qbpjwsb1Z9XuES9yqKQoz?si=8deed3f6cd2548cf If you or someone you know is struggling, call or text 988 in the US to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Veterans can press 1. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-stand-up-dude-podcast--6143975/support. ⚡️ Engage & Take Action: Drop a comment, Like, subscribe, and share. 🔗 All links & socials: https://linktr.ee/standupdude 🎵 Theme Music: Prodigal by Arrows in Exile: https://open.spotify.com/track/0Qbpjwsb1Z9XuES9yqKQoz?si=8deed3f6cd2548cf

    AI Is Becoming a God to This Generation | Veteran Ben Peterson on Faith, Dopamine and Identity
  2. Jul 15

    Escaping the Porn Trap Pt3 | Why THIS Finally Sets You Free | It's Not What You Think!

    If you've tried everything to quit porn and nothing has stuck, this is the episode you've been waiting for. In Part 3 of Escaping the Porn Trap, the finale, Stewart White and Pedro LaTorre lay out how a Christian man actually breaks free from porn addiction for good. Not another 30-day challenge, not more willpower, not another shame speech. On the Stand Up Dude podcast, they walk through a clear, gospel-centered path out of pornography: telling the truth, seeing the trap, naming the craving, finding the real need underneath, walking in the light with real brothers, building wise walls, and anchoring your identity in Christ instead of your streak. This is an honest, non-graphic conversation about freedom from porn, repentance, and the power of the gospel to make a man new. If you're ready to stop managing your sin and actually walk out of the prison, start here. 📖 THE BOOK: Men of Purity: A Christian Man's Way Out of the Porn Trap by James Mercer: https://www.amenandash.com/products/menofpurity?variant=44193660698675 🧢 Get a TN HAT — the ones we wear on the show 🧢: https://tnhat.shop/collections/frontpage 👉 Never Miss An Episode: Get Our Newsletter: https://missionxmission.eo.page/sud-newsletter 👉 Support Stand Up Dude and Mission X Mission: http://MissionXMission.org/donate Most men have been handed the wrong tools: more apps, more filters, more white-knuckling, and a weekly accountability check that only ever asks "did you mess up." Stewart and Pedro explain why that keeps failing and what real freedom actually takes. They get into telling God the truth without agreeing with the condemnation, the cross as your sin at its worst and your Savior at His best, the "little monster" craving that impersonates your own voice, and why a craving is not a command and a temptation is not an identity. They cover how the algorithm is built to keep you hooked, why one host walked away from social media entirely, the difference between walls that are wise and walls you start to worship, and the truth that your deepest problem was never porn at all. It was a worship problem only Christ can heal. This is the final episode of a three-part series. Part 1 exposes the lie that porn is giving you anything real. Part 2 uncovers what porn is really replacing in a man's heart. If you're new here, start with Part 1. 📖 THE BOOK: Men of Purity: A Christian Man's Way Out of the Porn Trap by James Mercer: https://www.amenandash.com/products/menofpurity?variant=44193660698675 CHAPTERS 00:00 Porn Is Not Your Master (The Real Way Out) 01:41 Escaping the Porn Trap Part 3 (Watch Parts 1 & 2 First) 03:00 Step 1: Tell the Truth and Come Out of Hiding 04:44 The Cross: Your Sin at Its Worst, Your Savior at His Best 07:18 Step 2: See the Porn Trap Clearly 09:02 Step 3: Name the Craving (The "Little Monster") 12:12 Step 4: Find the Real Need Underneath the Urge 13:46 Step 5: Walk in the Light With Real Brothers 15:57 A Hard Word for Married Men 17:38 Step 6: Build Wise Walls Without Worshipping Them 20:33 How the Algorithm Feeds Your Porn Addiction 22:17 Why Quitting Social Media Set Him Free 24:51 Step 7: Feed the Real Life 26:06 Step 8: Your Identity Is Not Your Streak 28:44 Your Real Problem Isn't Porn, It's This 29:38 Been Hiding? Come Home to the Father 30:57 One Step to Freedom Today (Series Finale) ABOUT THE SHOW Stand Up Dude is a gospel-centered men's podcast hosted by Stewart White and Pedro LaTorre. Every week we sit down with men who are learning to follow Jesus honestly, lead their families well, and stop performing for approval they already have. Subscribe and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode. 🌟 LINKS 🌟 🧢: Tennessee Hats (as seen in the episode) 🧢: https://tnhat.shop/collections/frontpage Ready to recenter your life on Jesus? https://standupdude.com/standup Free tools for authentic growth: https://standupdude.com/be-more ⚡️ Connect & Take Action: Ready to take your first real step toward freedom? Share it in the comments, like & subscribe, and forward this to a man who needs a way out. Connect with the Stand Up Dude brotherhood: Email: dudes@standupdude.com Website: https://standupdude.com/ Instagram: instagram.com/standupdudeofficial Facebook: facebook.com/standupdude 🔗 All links & socials: https://linktr.ee/standupdude 🎵 Theme Music: Prodigal by Arrows in Exile: https://open.spotify.com/track/0Qbpjwsb1Z9XuES9yqKQoz?si=8deed3f6cd2548cf #StandUpDude #EscapingThePornTrap #QuitPorn #PornAddiction #ChristianMen #FreedomInChrist #Purity #IdentityInChrist #ChristianPodcast #MensMinistry Get vidIQ to grow your channel faster! 🚀 https://vidiq.com/StandUpDude Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-stand-up-dude-podcast--6143975/support. ⚡️ Engage & Take Action: Drop a comment, Like, subscribe, and share. 🔗 All links & socials: https://linktr.ee/standupdude 🎵 Theme Music: Prodigal by Arrows in Exile: https://open.spotify.com/track/0Qbpjwsb1Z9XuES9yqKQoz?si=8deed3f6cd2548cf

    Escaping the Porn Trap Pt3 | Why THIS Finally Sets You Free | It's Not What You Think!
  3. Jul 8

    Escaping the Porn Trap Pt2 | Why THIS Keeps You Trapped | It's Not What You Think!

    If you keep going back to porn even though you hate it, the problem might not be lust, alone. It might be loneliness. In Part 2 of Escaping the Porn Trap, Stewart White and Pedro LaTorre go underneath the urge to expose what porn is really replacing in a man's heart. On the Stand Up Dude podcast, they break down why so many Christian men who want to quit porn are actually starving for real intimacy, rest, and purpose, and why porn is a counterfeit that leaves you lonelier than before. This is an honest, non-graphic conversation about porn addiction, the male loneliness epidemic, shame, and real freedom in Christ. If you feel unknown, exhausted, or numb, and porn has become the fake door you keep walking through, this episode will help you name the real need underneath and bring it to the One who can actually meet it. 📖 THE BOOK: Men of Purity: A Christian Man's Way Out of the Porn Trap by James Mercer: https://www.amenandash.com/products/menofpurity?variant=44193660698675 🧢 Get a TN HAT — the ones we wear on the show 🧢: https://tnhat.shop/collections/frontpage 👉 Never Miss An Episode: Get Our Newsletter: https://missionxmission.eo.page/sud-newsletter 👉 Support Stand Up Dude and Mission X Mission: http://MissionXMission.org/donate Porn never shows up in a vacuum. It grabs a real, God-given need and points it at a fake door. Stewart and Pedro walk through the four counterfeits every man needs to recognize: fake rest for the man who is exhausted on a soul level, fake intimacy for the man who is married and still lonely or single and aching for real brotherhood, fake aliveness for the man who is bored and numb, and fake escape for the man carrying wounds he has never brought into the light. They get into why intimacy without vulnerability is really just control, how numbing your pain works like a spiritual leprosy that kills real connection, why a man with no mission goes looking for stimulation, and the "little monster" you keep feeding that only grows bigger. The shift that changes everything is learning to ask what the craving is really counterfeiting, then bringing that real need to Christ instead of the fake door. This is Part 2 of a three-part series. Part 1 exposes the lie that porn is giving you anything real. Part 3 lays out the path to walk free for good. 📖 THE BOOK: Men of Purity: A Christian Man's Way Out of the Porn Trap by James Mercer: https://www.amenandash.com/products/menofpurity?variant=44193660698675 CHAPTERS 00:00 The Craving Isn't What You Think It Is 01:52 Escaping the Porn Trap Part 2 (Watch Part 1 First) 03:23 Porn Never Shows Up in a Vacuum 05:41 Why Porn Is a Heart Problem, Not Just Behavior 07:36 What Your Desire for Intimacy Was Really Made For 09:06 Fake Rest: Why Exhausted Men Turn to Porn 12:33 How to Actually Pray When You're Struggling 15:15 Fake Intimacy: Why Loneliness Keeps You Trapped 17:32 How Porn Numbs You and Kills Real Connection 20:12 Fake Aliveness: Porn, Boredom, and the Numb Man 22:28 Why a Man With No Mission Looks for Porn 23:38 Fake Escape: Using Porn to Numb Old Wounds 28:07 How Shame Keeps You Stuck in the Cage 29:39 The One Question That Changes Everything 30:46 The "Little Monster" You Keep Feeding 31:57 Bring Your Heart to Christ (Watch Part 3) ABOUT THE SHOW Stand Up Dude is a gospel-centered men's podcast hosted by Stewart White and Pedro LaTorre. Every week we sit down with men who are learning to follow Jesus honestly, lead their families well, and stop performing for approval they already have. Subscribe and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode. 🌟 LINKS 🌟 🧢: Tennessee Hats (as seen in the episode) 🧢: https://tnhat.shop/collections/frontpage Ready to recenter your life on Jesus? https://standupdude.com/standup Free tools for authentic growth: https://standupdude.com/be-more ⚡️ Connect & Take Action: Has this episode named the real need underneath your struggle? Share your story in the comments, like & subscribe, and forward this to a man who's fighting for his freedom. Connect with the Stand Up Dude brotherhood: Email: dudes@standupdude.com Website: https://standupdude.com/ Instagram: instagram.com/standupdudeofficial Facebook: facebook.com/standupdude 🔗 All links & socials: https://linktr.ee/standupdude 🎵 Theme Music: Prodigal by Arrows in Exile: https://open.spotify.com/track/0Qbpjwsb1Z9XuES9yqKQoz?si=8deed3f6cd2548cf #StandUpDude #EscapingThePornTrap #QuitPorn #PornAddiction #ChristianMen #MaleLoneliness #Purity #FreedomInChrist #ChristianPodcast #MensMinistry Get vidIQ to grow your channel faster! 🚀 https://vidiq.com/StandUpDude Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-stand-up-dude-podcast--6143975/support. ⚡️ Engage & Take Action: Drop a comment, Like, subscribe, and share. 🔗 All links & socials: https://linktr.ee/standupdude 🎵 Theme Music: Prodigal by Arrows in Exile: https://open.spotify.com/track/0Qbpjwsb1Z9XuES9yqKQoz?si=8deed3f6cd2548cf

    Escaping the Porn Trap Pt2 | Why THIS Keeps You Trapped | It's Not What You Think!
  4. Jul 1

    Escaping the Porn Trap Pt1 | The Real Reason You Can't Quit | It's NOT Willpower!

    If you've tried to quit porn and keep ending up right back where you started, this episode is for you. In Part 1 of Escaping the Porn Trap, Stewart White and Pedro LaTorre take on the lie that keeps Christian men addicted to pornography: the belief that porn is actually giving you something. It isn't. On the Stand Up Dude podcast, they break down why willpower, filters, and streak-counting keep failing, why the problem was never really the behavior, and why most men who can't stop watching porn are not broken beyond repair. This is an honest, non-graphic conversation about porn addiction, shame, and real freedom in Christ. If porn has left you feeling divided, exhausted, and stuck in a shame cycle you can't break, you'll finally start to see the trap clearly, and see the door Jesus is opening to walk out free. 📖 THE BOOK: Men of Purity: A Christian Man's Way Out of the Porn Trap by James Mercer: https://www.amenandash.com/products/menofpurity?variant=44193660698675 🧢 Get a TN HAT — the ones we wear on the show 🧢: https://tnhat.shop/collections/frontpage 👉 Never Miss An Episode: Get Our Newsletter: https://missionxmission.eo.page/sud-newsletter 👉 Support Stand Up Dude and Mission X Mission: http://MissionXMission.org/donate Most men fighting porn are swinging at the behavior and never landing a hit on the lie underneath it, so willpower runs out and the shame cycle starts over. In this episode we expose that lie head-on. Porn is a trap, and the power of a trap is the bait. It latches onto real, God-given desires for intimacy, purpose, and rest, then hands you a counterfeit that creates the very craving it pretends to cure. Stewart and Pedro get into the empty-calories and tight-shoes analogies from the book that reframe the whole fight, why a divided man loses the strength a free man carries, and the truth that most men are not porn addicts so much as men medicating a deeper pain. There's a raw moment on an accountability partner who counted 90 sober days and still fell, and the question that changes everything: what if God was never counting your days? If you feel exposed listening to this, that conviction is not God rejecting you. It's the Father calling you home. This is Part 1 of a three-part series. Part 2 goes underneath the urge to what porn is really replacing in a man's heart. Part 3 lays out the path to walk free for good. 📖 THE BOOK: Men of Purity: A Christian Man's Way Out of the Porn Trap by James Mercer: https://www.amenandash.com/products/menofpurity?variant=44193660698675 CHAPTERS 00:00 Why You Can't Stop Watching Porn (The Real Reason) 01:29 Escaping the Porn Trap: A 3-Part Series Begins 02:34 The Silent Battle Christian Men Fight Alone 04:02 Porn Is Sin, But Shame Isn't Conviction 05:09 Why Men Keep Going Back to Porn They Hate 07:19 Why "Just Try Harder" Never Sets You Free 09:51 How the Porn Trap Works: The Bait Is Real Desire 12:35 Exposed Young: How Shame Grows in the Dark 15:21 Porn Gives You Nothing: The Empty-Calories Lie 18:40 It Creates the Craving It Pretends to Cure 24:05 You're Not a Porn Addict, You're Medicating Pain 25:34 How Porn Hollows a Man Out and Divides Him 29:12 Why Willpower and NoFap Aren't Enough 35:28 What If God Was Never Counting Your Days? 38:40 The Free Man Walks Out of the Open Cage 40:52 Porn Is Not Your Master (Watch Episode 2) ABOUT THE SHOW Stand Up Dude is a gospel-centered men's podcast hosted by Stewart White and Pedro LaTorre. Every week we sit down with men who are learning to follow Jesus honestly, lead their families well, and stop performing for approval they already have. Subscribe and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode. 🌟 LINKS 🌟 🧢: Tennessee Hats (as seen in the episode) 🧢: https://tnhat.shop/collections/frontpage Ready to recenter your life on Jesus? https://standupdude.com/standup Free tools for authentic growth: https://standupdude.com/be-more ⚡️ Connect & Take Action: Has this episode exposed the lie underneath your struggle? Share your story in the comments, like & subscribe, and forward this to a man who's fighting for his freedom. Connect with the Stand Up Dude brotherhood: Email: dudes@standupdude.com Website: https://standupdude.com/ Instagram: instagram.com/standupdudeofficial Facebook: facebook.com/standupdude 🔗 All links & socials: https://linktr.ee/standupdude 🎵 Theme Music: Prodigal by Arrows in Exile: https://open.spotify.com/track/0Qbpjwsb1Z9XuES9yqKQoz?si=8deed3f6cd2548cf #StandUpDude #EscapingThePornTrap #QuitPorn #PornAddiction #ChristianMen #Purity #FreedomInChrist #ChristianPodcast #FaithAndMasculinity #MensMinistry Get vidIQ to grow your channel faster! 🚀 https://vidiq.com/StandUpDude Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-stand-up-dude-podcast--6143975/support. ⚡️ Engage & Take Action: Drop a comment, Like, subscribe, and share. 🔗 All links & socials: https://linktr.ee/standupdude 🎵 Theme Music: Prodigal by Arrows in Exile: https://open.spotify.com/track/0Qbpjwsb1Z9XuES9yqKQoz?si=8deed3f6cd2548cf

    Escaping the Porn Trap Pt1 | The Real Reason You Can't Quit | It's NOT Willpower!
  5. Jun 17

    He Had $20,000 Outfits and Nowhere to Go: Manwell Reyes on Fame, Money & Real Identity

    Manwell Reyes of Group 1 Crew sits down with Stewart White and Pedro LaTorre on the Stand Up Dude podcast for one of the most honest Christian testimony conversations we have ever recorded. Best known for his music with Group 1 Crew and for being the husband of comedian and actress Anjelah Johnson-Reyes, Manwell opens up about the man underneath the output. This is a raw conversation about faith, forgiveness, and identity in Christ for Christian men who are tired of performing. Manwell shares how he went from carrying guns in the streets to a vision of Jesus that changed everything, why he chooses to support his famous wife instead of competing with her, and how he learned that who you are is never determined by what you do. If you have ever wrestled with your worth, your faith, or your identity, this episode is for you. 🧢 Get a TN HAT — the ones we wear on the show 🧢: https://tnhat.shop/collections/frontpage 👉 Never Miss An Episode: Get Our Newsletter: https://missionxmission.eo.page/sud-newsletter 👉 Support Stand Up Dude and Mission X Mission: http://MissionXMission.org/donate Manwell's story moves from a military childhood in Germany to a brief life on the streets, to a senior-year encounter with Jesus at a church camp, to twelve years of grinding before Group 1 Crew ever got signed. Along the way he unpacks the vision of two roads that taught him to lead with forgiveness, the day a $50,000 loan turned him into someone else's villain, and what it actually looks like to be the head of a household when your wife is more successful than you are. This is a conversation about real manhood, contentment, and the freedom that comes from being loved by God before you ever earn it. CHAPTERS 00:00 A Vision of Jesus and the Night Everything Changed 00:29 The Man Underneath the Music and the Applause 01:01 When Your Faith Becomes a Performance 05:41 Who Is Manwell Reyes? From the Streets to Group 1 Crew 06:52 The Year Off That Led to a Million Dollar Record Deal 11:11 Learning How to Cry and Choosing Optimism 15:59 The Vision of Two Roads: Bitterness vs Forgiveness 22:22 Lending $50,000 and Being Made the Villain 30:13 Marrying Anjelah Johnson and Learning to Support Her 34:57 Writing His Wife's Hit as a Joke and the Warner Deal 44:51 From Carrying Guns to a Vision of Jesus at Church Camp 52:37 The Fight That Healed Him and His Father 56:09 Why He Refuses to Live as a Victim 1:01:53 Identity Given Before You Ever Earn It 1:14:37 $1,000 Shoes and Nowhere to Go: When Having It All Feels Empty ABOUT THE SHOW Stand Up Dude is a gospel-centered men's podcast hosted by Stewart White and Pedro LaTorre. Every week we sit down with men who are learning to follow Jesus honestly, lead their families well, and stop performing for approval they already have. Subscribe and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode. 🌟 LINKS 🌟 🧢:Tennessee Hats (as seen in the episode): 🧢: https://tnhat.shop/collections/frontpage Ready to recenter your life on Jesus? https://standupdude.com/standup Free tools for authentic growth: https://standupdude.com/be-more ⚡️ Connect: Has this episode exposed an idol or false security in your life? Share your story in the comments, like & subscribe, and forward this to a man fighting for his faith. Connect with the Stand Up Dude brotherhood: Email: dudes@standupdude.com Website: https://standupdude.com/ Instagram: instagram.com/standupdudeofficial Facebook: facebook.com/standupdude #StandUpDude #ManwellReyes #Group1Crew #ChristianTestimony #ChristianMen #AnjelahJohnson #IdentityInChrist #Forgiveness #FaithPodcast Get vidIQ to grow your channel faster! 🚀 https://vidiq.com/StandUpDude Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-stand-up-dude-podcast--6143975/support. ⚡️ Engage & Take Action: Drop a comment, Like, subscribe, and share. 🔗 All links & socials: https://linktr.ee/standupdude 🎵 Theme Music: Prodigal by Arrows in Exile: https://open.spotify.com/track/0Qbpjwsb1Z9XuES9yqKQoz?si=8deed3f6cd2548cf

    He Had $20,000 Outfits and Nowhere to Go: Manwell Reyes on Fame, Money & Real Identity
  6. Jun 10

    When Your Passion Has Become Your Idol | Pastor Daniel Morris Interview

    What happens when the "good things" in your life like ministry, work, family, even your platform quietly become the thing that takes God's place? In this episode of the Stand Up Dude Podcast, hosts Pedro LaTorre and Stewart White sit down with Pastor Daniel Morris, Senior Pastor of Cultivate Church in Nolensville, TN and international missions leader, for an honest conversation about identity in Christ, church hurt, spiritual leadership, and what it really means to live as a son rather than a servant grinding for approval. Daniel gets transparent about his own path. Childhood wounds, ministry performance, rejection, and the slow grace of God dismantling every false identity along the way. If you've ever wrestled with people-pleasing, burnout from church culture, or the creeping suspicion that your worth is tangled up in what you do instead of who God says you are, this conversation is for you. It's a call for Christian men to stop achieving their worth and start receiving it. 👉 Never Miss An Episode: https://missionxmission.eo.page/sud-newsletter 👉 Support Stand Up Dude and Mission X Mission: http://MissionXMission.org/donate 👉 Discover Cultivate Church: https://www.cultivatechurch.org/ WHAT YOU'LL TAKE AWAY: Daniel's unfiltered story of how wounds, rejection, and church betrayals nearly stole his faith, and how God redeemed all of itA clear-eyed look at the subtle idol of "doing for God" and why God will graciously dismantle anything competing for your heartFreedom from the pressure to scale, perform, and "build the brand," plus what authentic discipleship actually looks likeBiblical truth about modern idolatry and how to spot the false gods hiding behind success and approvalWhy the desert seasons (failure, loss of plan B, being stripped down) are often God's deepest invitationsA practical roadmap for building rhythms of open space with God so you can lead your family and community from overflow instead of emptyHonest words for men carrying church hurt, and a vision for surrendered leaders who build communities that heal instead of harm WHO THIS IS FOR: Christian men wrestling with identity, performance, and people-pleasingPastors, leaders, and entrepreneurs feeling the weight of "building the brand"Anyone carrying church hurt who still longs for authentic faith and communityHusbands and fathers wanting to lead from intimacy with God instead of exhaustion This is a battle cry to abandon self-made performance, embrace sonship, and walk as dangerous men of faith in a culture obsessed with achievement. God doesn't want your résumé. He wants you. 🌟 EPISODE LINKS & RESOURCES: Ready to recenter your life on Jesus? https://standupdude.com/standup Free tools for authentic growth: https://standupdude.com/be-more Discover Cultivate Church or connect with Daniel Morris: https://www.cultivatechurch.org/ ⚡️ Connect & Take Action: Has this episode exposed an idol or false security in your life? Share your story in the comments, like & subscribe, and forward this to a man fighting for his faith. Connect with the Stand Up Dude brotherhood: Email: dudes@standupdude.com Website: https://standupdude.com/ Instagram: instagram.com/standupdudeofficial Facebook: facebook.com/standupdude Thank you for walking with us as we call a generation of men out of passivity, compromise, and false strength. Back to Christ, back to truth, and back to the real life only found in surrender. You were not made to juggle, impress, or build a platform. You were made for intimacy with your Creator. Stay surrendered.  Timestamps: 00:00 Fear of rejection and ministry motivation 06:40 Career pivot and self-reflection 12:25 Healing wounds through faith 16:51 Ministry as identity and idolatry 21:36 Questioning Personal Faith 30:17 Questioning faith and finding more 31:41 Finding unexpected community connections 36:46 Relating to Theo Vaughan's podcast rant 44:15 Struggles shape biblical leaders 51:32 The life of shepherds 52:43 Struggling with modern comfort expectations 01:00:35 Living from identity in Christ 01:04:01 Living with faith and tension Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-stand-up-dude-podcast--6143975/support. ⚡️ Engage & Take Action: Drop a comment, Like, subscribe, and share. 🔗 All links & socials: https://linktr.ee/standupdude 🎵 Theme Music: Prodigal by Arrows in Exile: https://open.spotify.com/track/0Qbpjwsb1Z9XuES9yqKQoz?si=8deed3f6cd2548cf

    When Your Passion Has Become Your Idol | Pastor Daniel Morris Interview
  7. Jun 3

    The Raw Letter He Wrote His Wife That Saved Their Marriage | Lucas LeFevre

    What if the version of you nobody knows is the very thing standing between you and the life God has for you? In this Stand Up Dude Podcast episode, hosts Pedro LaTorre and Stewart White sit down with Lucas LeFevre, founder of Holy Work and former design lead at Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace University, for one of the most raw conversations we've ever recorded on Christian marriage, hidden addiction, hearing God's voice, and the spiritual discipline of daily journaling. Lucas opens up about the moment he was about to leave his wife Mandy at 29, the secret p*rn addiction nobody knew about, the supernatural "giant thumb" moment on a Nashville run when he heard "be still and know that I am God," and the raw letter he wrote his wife that saved their marriage — and changed his life. 👉 Follow Lucas LeFevre on Instagram & DM him "STAND UP" for the free HolyWork 7-day challenge: https://www.instagram.com/lucasplefevre/ 🧢 Get a TN HAT — the ones we wear on the show 🧢: https://tnhat.shop/collections/frontpage This conversation goes deep on how Christian men can quiet the noise, hear God's voice, recognize the 8 core feelings (from Chip Dodd's work), break free from hidden shame, and finally answer the question most guys never sit still long enough to ask: what do you actually want? 👉 Subscribe & Never Miss an Episode: https://missionxmission.eo.page/sud-newsletter 👉 Support Stand Up Dude & Mission X Mission: http://MissionXMission.org/donate 🚀 Get vidIQ to grow your channel faster! https://vidiq.com/StandUpDude WHAT YOU'LL TAKE AWAY: A real-world testimony of how confession, journaling, and radical honesty restored a marriage on the edge of divorceA practical framework for quieting the noise, hearing God's voice, and knowing what you actually wantThe "epidermis layer journaling" technique that gets the surface chatter out so your deeper self and God can show upA clear-eyed look at how hidden addiction and unspoken thoughts erode a Christian man from the insideThe 8 core feelings every man needs to name before they run his lifeWhy setting a real one-year vision beats chasing the next cultural milestone every timeA biblical reframe on work, creativity, and ambition through the lens of Bezalel in Exodus 31 WHO THIS IS FOR: Christian men in marriages that look fine but feel stuck, restless, or distantHusbands, fathers, and creatives wrestling with hidden addictions or shame they've never said out loudAnyone who's tried prayer, church, and discipline but still can't seem to hear GodMen who chase the next milestone and quietly suspect they don't know what they actually want TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 The Words That Stopped Him From Leaving His Wife 00:17 Why Most Christian Men Are Quietly Falling Apart 01:30 Meet Lucas LeFevre: Founder of Holy Work 03:00 "I Dared God to Rock My World" — The Prayer That Started It All 05:30 Working for Dave Ramsey at Financial Peace University 07:30 Hidden Addiction, Discontent, and Blaming His Wife 09:45 The Run That Changed Everything: "Be Still and Know I Am God" 12:00 The Raw Letter He Wrote His Wife That Saved Their Marriage 14:30 5 Years of Daily Journaling — The Surprising Transformation 17:30 The Holy Work Framework: How to Quiet the Noise 22:50 Pedro's "Glass Jar" Analogy for the Inner Work Most Men Avoid 27:00 The Wife He Almost Left Got Breast Cancer 12 Years Later 30:30 The Sprinkler Brochure Story That Changed His Work Forever 33:00 "Your Family Isn't in the Way — They ARE the Way" 38:00 What Lucas Wrote About His Stepfather That Broke Him Open 43:00 The 8 Core Feelings Every Christian Man Needs to Name 50:00 Setting a One-Year Vision: What Do You Actually Want? 53:30 The Cultural Trap of Always Chasing the Next Milestone 56:00 Why Christian Men Shouldn't Fear Building Real Wealth 58:30 Bezalel: The First Person Filled With the Spirit (Exodus 31) 1:02:30 A 7-Day Challenge for Men Who Want to Hear God's Voice RESOURCES & LINKS: Follow Lucas on Instagram & DM him "stand up" for the free 7-day challenge: @lucasplefevre Holy Work platform: https://holywork.com Start your journey with Jesus: https://standupdude.com/standup Free resources for growth: https://standupdude.com/be-more Get a TN HAT: https://tnhat.shop/collections/frontpage ⚡️ Engage & Take Action: Drop a comment: what did Lucas say that hit you hardest? Like, subscribe, and send this to the man in your life who's quietly falling apart while everything looks fine on the outside.  🔗 All links & socials: https://linktr.ee/standupdude 🎵 Theme Music: Prodigal by Arrows in Exile: https://open.spotify.com/track/0Qbpjwsb1Z9XuES9yqKQoz?si=8deed3f6cd2548cf #StandUpDude #LucasLeFevre #HolyWork #ChristianMen #ChristianMarriage #HearGodsVoice #Journaling #DaveRamsey Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-stand-up-dude-podcast--6143975/support. ⚡️ Engage & Take Action: Drop a comment, Like, subscribe, and share. 🔗 All links & socials: https://linktr.ee/standupdude 🎵 Theme Music: Prodigal by Arrows in Exile: https://open.spotify.com/track/0Qbpjwsb1Z9XuES9yqKQoz?si=8deed3f6cd2548cf

    The Raw Letter He Wrote His Wife That Saved Their Marriage | Lucas LeFevre
  8. May 27

    Hit Disney Music Producer Reveals What's Secretly Destroying Modern Artists and Men

    What if AI isn't the only thing destroying modern artists, and what if the same forces are quietly hollowing out men, too? In this Stand Up Dude Podcast episode, hosts Pedro LaTorre and Stewart White sit down with hit Disney music producer, songwriter, and author Adam Watts — the producer behind Jeremy Camp's first two records, co-writer of Jesse McCartney's "Beautiful Soul," and the man behind hits for Switchfoot, High School Musical, Camp Rock, Miley Cyrus, and Demi Lovato. After 20+ years inside the machine, Adam pulls back the curtain on the corporate music industry, the spiritual cost of celebrity, the rise of AI in music and art, and the near-fatal health crisis that almost ended his life. This is a brutally honest conversation about creativity, faith, manhood, mental health, fatherhood, and why every man needs to rediscover what Adam calls "soul nutrition." 👉 Take Adam's free artist assessments: https://myartistdna.com 👉 Read Adam's AI manifesto: https://bit.ly/WattsAITheory 🧢 Get a TN HAT — the ones we wear on the show 🧢: https://tnhat.shop/collections/frontpage Adam opens up about the parathyroid tumor that took five months to diagnose and brought him to the edge of his own life, what it means to make art "as unto the Lord," and why he believes if Kurt Cobain and Jimi Hendrix had the tools he's now building, they'd still be here. Together, they wrestle with the addictive pull of AI, the danger of letting your creativity atrophy, the difference between a craftsman and someone who's just "crafty," the Myth of the Tortured Artist, and the daily fight against compartmentalization that's quietly killing the modern man. 👉 Subscribe & Never Miss an Episode: https://missionxmission.eo.page/sud-newsletter 👉 Support Stand Up Dude & Mission X Mission: http://MissionXMission.org/donate 🚀 Get vidIQ to grow your channel faster! https://vidiq.com/StandUpDude WHAT YOU'LL TAKE AWAY: A rare, behind-the-scenes look at the Disney and Christian music machines from a producer who built hits inside bothA raw, unguarded testimony of hidden illness, mental darkness, and where God actually showed upA clear-eyed framework for using AI without letting it hollow out your creativity, your work, or your soulWhy "art that looks real but is empty" is the spiritual warning sign for our generationThe "Myth of the Tortured Artist" debunked by a man who lived it — and survived itA "balanced diet" model for the relationships, rhythms, friendships, and rest every man needs to stay wholeWHO THIS IS FOR: Christian men, creatives, songwriters, producers, and entrepreneurs wrestling with calling, identity, and the pressure to performAnyone navigating hidden suffering or a faith that feels thinner than they thought it wasMen who feel quietly empty in a season of outward success and don't know whyAnyone trying to figure out how to use AI without losing what makes them human TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 "I didn't know you could be alive and be this dead" 00:51 Meet Adam Watts: Disney, Jeremy Camp, Switchfoot, "Beautiful Soul" 02:30 Why entrepreneurs, moms, and tradesmen are artists too 04:36 Doing your work "as unto the Lord" 06:00 The creationist theory of art (and why AI breaks it) 10:00 The hidden tumor doctors missed for five months 13:14 At the edge — and the two things that kept him here 14:50 When you realize your faith was thinner than you thought 16:50 Where God actually shows up when everything falls apart 19:48 Why tears are a "beautiful confession" — and why men avoid them 22:50 The Myth of the Tortured Artist 24:00 Why pain has to go somewhere (the MMA analogy that nails it) 26:30 Art as "soul nutrition" 28:00 What he saw working with Miley Cyrus at 12 and Demi Lovato at 14 30:30 The uncomfortable truth about the Christian music industry 34:00 The 10 Artist Types and the new MyArtistDNA platform 37:50 Building an "electric fence around your humanity" 41:30 Watts AI Theory: a framework for the unprecedented 44:30 Why AI is more intoxicating than any drug we've ever made 47:00 Wall-E, atrophy, and the death of effort 48:30 The Golden Calf warning every modern man needs to hear 51:00 Heaven and hell aren't "out there" — they're already here 51:55 What art actually does for a man 55:30 The balanced diet of relationships every man needs 58:30 Why decompartmentalizing is the work of modern manhood 1:00:00 "If Kurt Cobain and Hendrix had this, they'd still be here" RESOURCES & LINKS: Start your journey with Jesus: https://standupdude.com/standup Free resources for growth: https://standupdude.com/be-more ⚡️ Engage & Take Action: 🔗 All links & socials: https://linktr.ee/standupdude 🎵 Theme Music: Prodigal by Arrows in Exile: https://open.spotify.com/track/0Qbpjwsb1Z9XuES9yqKQoz?si=8deed3f6cd2548cf #StandUpDude #AdamWatts #ChristianMen #AIandArt #ChristianMusic #DisneyMusic #Songwriter #JeremyCamp #MentalHealth #Fatherhood #Creativity #Vocation Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-stand-up-dude-podcast--6143975/support. ⚡️ Engage & Take Action: Drop a comment, Like, subscribe, and share. 🔗 All links & socials: https://linktr.ee/standupdude 🎵 Theme Music: Prodigal by Arrows in Exile: https://open.spotify.com/track/0Qbpjwsb1Z9XuES9yqKQoz?si=8deed3f6cd2548cf

    Hit Disney Music Producer Reveals What's Secretly Destroying Modern Artists and Men

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Discover your true potential with the Stand Up Dude Podcast, the ultimate guide for men seeking purpose, meaning, and direction in today's complex world. Hosts Tim Bisagno and Stewart White dive deep into personal growth, leadership, and faith, offering insights and strategies to help you become the best version of yourself. Whether you're feeling stuck or yearning for more out of life, this podcast empowers you to break free from life's endless cycles and step into your true calling. Join a community of like-minded individuals on a journey to discover truth, embrace freedom, and find life-changing answers. Tune in to the Stand Up Dude Podcast and start your transformation today. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-stand-up-dude-podcast--6143975/support.