Hear Where You Belong

Dea Irby, THE Belonging Strategist

Embark on an inspirational journey with guests from diverse backgrounds, sharing stories of triumph, resilience, and faith, reiterating the common human longing for belonging. From dreamers to doers, believers to seekers, uncover the extraordinary in ordinary moments and the purpose within every life. Open your heart, mind, and ears to resonate with stories reminding you of your significance, belonging, and purpose. Welcome home to 'Hear Where You Belong'.

  1. When Family Breaks—and God Restores: A 22-Year Estrangement Rewritten by Grace | Ashley Kinkead

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    When Family Breaks—and God Restores: A 22-Year Estrangement Rewritten by Grace | Ashley Kinkead

    What happens when the people who are supposed to be “home” feel like strangers—or are absent altogether? In this deeply moving episode of Hear Where You Belong, I sit down with author and recovery leader Ashley Kinkead, whose story speaks directly to anyone carrying the quiet grief of family estrangement, unresolved pain, or long seasons of no contact. For 22 years, Ashley was estranged from her parents. What followed was not bitterness—but a slow, faithful journey through recovery, obedience, and radical trust in God. In 2024, something remarkable happened: reconciliation. Across three states and decades of hurt, Ashley and her parents began rebuilding trust—one honest step at a time. Ashley is the author of After the Locusts: A Story of Hope for Anyone Estranged or No Contact with a Parent, a book born from both heartbreak and healing. Through her work at Lakepointe Church in Dallas, Texas, she now leads a Regeneration twelve-step recovery group, walking alongside others who are learning that freedom in Christ is always possible—even when reconciliation isn’t. In our conversation, we explore: Why recovery—not reconciliation—is the true starting point How Christian community creates belonging when family relationships are broken What it means to grieve what was while still trusting God for what can be Why completing a 12-step recovery program became Ashley’s greatest accomplishment How Isaiah 43:19 became a lifeline: “I will make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert.” Ashley’s story is honest, compassionate, and grounded in hope. Whether you are estranged, rebuilding, or simply longing to belong without pretending everything is “fine,” this episode will remind you: God is still writing new chapters—especially in the wilderness. 🎧 Listen in, and be encouraged to find belonging, healing, and peace—right where you are. #HearWhereYouBelong, #FamilyEstrangement, #ChristianRecovery, #FaithAndHealing, #AfterTheLocusts, #HealingJourneys, #ReconciliationStory, #12StepRecovery, #ChristianPodcast, #BelongingMatters, #TraumaHealing, #HopeAfterLoss, #FaithOverFear, #RecoveryCommunity

    36 min
  2. MAR 3

    Comparison is the Thief of Joy: Why Listening Deeply Creates True Belonging (with Loren Richmond Jr.)

    What if the secret to keeping the next generation in church isn’t better programs… but simply learning to listen? In this powerful Episode 85 of Hear Where You Belong, pastor, strategist, and host of the Future Christian Podcast, Loren Richmond Jr., pulls back the curtain on the real crisis facing the church today: 70% of kids raised in church walk away and never come back. Loren and Dea dive deep into: Why long-term marriage and big accomplishments aren’t about the mountaintop moment, but the daily micro-commitments most people never see The one practice that makes people feel instantly seen and valued (hint: it’s not more events—it’s listening) How “comparison is the thief of joy” is destroying our peace—and the simple mindset shift that brings it back Why churches must stop “protecting the brand” and start confessing publicly if they ever want to feel like family again The uncomfortable truth about institutional church vs. authentic family—and how to have both without losing your soul If you’ve ever wondered why people leave church the moment life gets hard, or how to create a community where everyone—from the quiet introvert to the skeptical Gen Z—actually feels like they belong, this conversation will light your heart on fire. Hit play and remember: the church still matters… but only when we learn to truly listen. #TrueBelonging, #HearWhereYouBelong,, #ChurchBelonging #FutureChurch, #ComparisonIsTheThiefOfJoy, #ListenToBeHeard, #ChurchLeadership, #ChristianPodcast, #FaithAndFamily, #SpiritualGrowth, #GenZFaith, #ChurchRenewal, #AuthenticFaith , #ChristianCommunity, #PodcastForBelievers

    31 min
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Embark on an inspirational journey with guests from diverse backgrounds, sharing stories of triumph, resilience, and faith, reiterating the common human longing for belonging. From dreamers to doers, believers to seekers, uncover the extraordinary in ordinary moments and the purpose within every life. Open your heart, mind, and ears to resonate with stories reminding you of your significance, belonging, and purpose. Welcome home to 'Hear Where You Belong'.