Hear Where You Belong

Dea Irby, THE Belonging Strategist

Embark on an inspirational journey with guests from diverse backgrounds, sharing stories of triumph, resilience, and faith, reiterating the common human longing for belonging. From dreamers to doers, believers to seekers, uncover the extraordinary in ordinary moments and the purpose within every life. Open your heart, mind, and ears to resonate with stories reminding you of your significance, belonging, and purpose. Welcome home to 'Hear Where You Belong'.

  1. 6d ago

    "Jesus, If You're Real I Give You 6 Months — and Boom, I Was Sober" | Ep. 112 with David W. Ebel

    He walked into church drunk, high, and on his way to his fifth suicide attempt. He raised his hand for Jesus because he was too obliterated to put it back down. And the moment he prayed — boom. Instantly sober for the first time in three years. That was 1973. And David W. Ebel has never stopped since. In Episode 112 of Hear Where You Belong Podcast, host Dea Irby sits down with David — Christian life coach, pastor, evangelist, author, chaplain, grief and trauma counselor, disaster responder, photographer, Salvation Army officer, church planter, and the first Christian master clown recognized by Ringling Brothers professionals in the history of the world. Yes. You read that right. David opens up about growing up with birth defects and chronic pain — bullied, depressed, alcoholic, suicidal — before Barbara the candle shop girl flirted him into church on a Tuesday night in Detroit. He shares the moment a youth pastor supernaturally knew his name, his birth defects, his hemorrhaging ulcer, and his plan to kill himself that Saturday — and said God did not want him to die. He talks about 12 years on the road with the Kids Celebration Circus — 49 youth camps, global ministry, 100 conversions on a New Jersey boardwalk including four rabbis and two Sikh leaders — before his birth defects finally forced him off the road. And the 28,000 square feet of debt-free space God built through a man who had never built anything more than Lincoln Logs. His slogan is the one I want ringing in your ears: God did not send His second cousin Louis to the cross. He sent His best. How dare we offer less? And his parting word — straight from Romans 12:1-2 — is the one that has been his compass for fifty years of faithful, fearless, full-throttle ministry. The greatest distance in the world? Twenty million miles — and seven inches. From the head to the heart. Find David at GodSaysYesPodcast.com — and download his book When the Doctors Say No, God Says Yes FREE when you join his mailing list. 💛 #HearWhereYouBelong, #YouBelong, #DavidWEbel, #WhenTheDoctorsSayNo, #GodSaysYes, #GodSaysYesPodcast, #FirstChristianMasterClown, #RinglingBrothers, #HowDareWeOfferLess, #Romans12, #BornToBeRestored, #RenewRestoreRebuild, #SalvationArmy, #ChristianLifeCoach, #NewEpisode, #ChristianPodcast, #NeverTooFarGone, #FromHeadToHeart, #KidsCelebrationCircus, #BelongingMatters

    "Jesus, If You're Real I Give You 6 Months — and Boom, I Was Sober" | Ep. 112 with David W. Ebel
  2. Sep 22

    "She Started Drinking at 14 to Numb the Hurt — 30 Years Later Her Dad Went to Get Her" | Ep. 111 with Robert Ruesch

    She started drinking at 14 to numb the hurt. Thirty years later — her dad went to get her. In Episode 111 of Hear Where You Belong Podcast, host Dea Irby sits down with Robert Ruesch — author, writer, husband, and father whose family has walked through more than three decades of addiction, heartbreak, hope, and ultimately recovery. His award-winning book The Long Road Home: A Family's Journey Through Addiction is available on Amazon now. Robert opens up about the prayer he prayed on a Monday night in tears — and the letter from his high school sweetheart that arrived on Friday after twenty-five years apart. The midnight phone call telling him Jennifer had stopped breathing — and the four doses of Narcan that brought her back. The code messages, the garbage bags, the two squad cars outside the house in San Antonio the morning they finally brought her home. Teaching his forty-eight-year-old daughter to drive. And the periodontist who restored her smile for a fraction of the expected cost. She just wanted her smile back. His favorite quote from Hemingway — anybody can write, all you have to do is open a vein and bleed — explains everything about how he finally wrote the book God told him to write. And his parting word is the one that will carry every parent, every family member, and every person who has ever loved someone through addiction: Never give up hope. Never. Prayer is the most powerful thing in the world. There is always a long road home. 💛 📚 Find The Long Road Home on Amazon🌐 Find Robert at his author page #HearWhereYouBelong, #YouBelong, #RobertRuesch, #TheLongRoadHome, #NeverGiveUpHope, #AddictionRecovery, #FamiliesOfAddicts, #SheJustWantedHerSmileBack, #YMCAoftheRockies, #JimIrwinApollo15, #PrayerChangesThings, #ForgivenessIsNotPoison, #HighSchoolSweethearts, #GodIsTheAuthor, #NewEpisode, #ChristianPodcast, #HopeForFamilies, #LongRoadHome, #NeverStopPraying, #FaithAndRecovery

    "She Started Drinking at 14 to Numb the Hurt — 30 Years Later Her Dad Went to Get Her" | Ep. 111 with Robert Ruesch
  3. Sep 17

    They've Never Asked Me — Uncovering the Extraordinary Stories Hidden in Ordinary Lives | Ep. 110 with Kelsey Billingsley

    She was just another baseball mom. Until Kelsey Billingsley got curious and asked a question. What followed was the story of a woman who survived a civil war, fled in the middle of the night after her father was killed, spent five years in a refugee camp digging through bread every morning looking for poison — and built a beautiful ordinary life that nobody around her knew anything about. When Kelsey asked why her closest friends had never heard the story, the answer stopped her cold: They've never asked me. In Episode 110 of Hear Where You Belong Podcast, host Dea Irby sits down with Kelsey Billingsley — wife, mother of three, and host of the award-winning Unspoken Lives Podcast — a show built on one powerful conviction: every person you walk past today is carrying an extraordinary story. And most of them are just waiting for someone to care enough to ask. Kelsey opens up about the waitress named Miracle — declared brain dead, family about to pull the plug, who woke up the moment they went to do it. The friend who lost her young son and said pain is a microphone. The Uber driver from South Africa who asked every single passenger the same first question: do you believe in God? And the spiritual war dream that woke her up in her college dorm and launched everything. She also shares practical wisdom for anyone thinking about starting a podcast — from zero experience to award-winning, one Tuesday at a time. Her favorite quote — carried since childhood, written on sticky notes and given to friends: When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life in such a manner that when you die, you rejoice and the world cries. This episode is for everyone who has been walking past extraordinary people without ever asking. 💛 🎙️ Find Unspoken Lives Podcast at UnspokenLives.com and on all major platforms

    They've Never Asked Me — Uncovering the Extraordinary Stories Hidden in Ordinary Lives | Ep. 110 with Kelsey Billingsley
  4. Sep 8

    "I've Been Saving These — 17 Quotes From Our Guests That I Cannot Stop Thinking About" | Ep. 109 with Dea Irby

    What if the most powerful thing you could do today was slow down and sit with a few extraordinary words? In this special solo episode of Hear Where You Belong Podcast, host Dea Irby does something she has never done before — she pulls back the curtain on 17 of the most powerful, memorable, and soul-stirring quotes shared by guests across the seasons. Words she has been carrying around, writing down, and thinking about in the car, in the middle of the night, and while washing dishes. Some of these will make you laugh. Some will make you sit very still. And some — she is just going to warn you — are going to hit somewhere deep. From Benjamin Disraeli to Maya Angelou. From Miles Davis to Elisabeth Elliot. From Cheri Baugh Woods to Alison Gieschen. From cotton mill villages to the open sea. These are the words that stopped Dea cold — and she has been saving them just for you. Quotes about belonging. Faith. Suffering. Purpose. Courage. Comparison. Calling. And the kind of wisdom that only comes from people who have actually lived it. No guest today. Just Dea. And 17 quotes worth slowing down for. 💛 There are seven days in a week — and someday is not one of them. Today is the day. Go listen. 💛 #HearWhereYouBelong, #YouBelong, #IveBeenSavingThese, #17Quotes, #SoloEpisode, #SpecialEpisode, #BelongingMatters, #QuotesOfWisdom, #ChristianPodcast, #NewEpisode, #MilesDavis, #MayaAngelou, #ElisabethElliot, #FaithAndBelonging, #WordsThatChangedMe

    "I've Been Saving These — 17 Quotes From Our Guests That I Cannot Stop Thinking About" | Ep. 109 with Dea Irby
  5. Sep 1

    Don't Mistake the Fire for the Finish Line — Your Story Is Not Over | Ep. 108 with Cheri Baugh Woods

    Divorce. Widowhood. Leukemia — twice. Multiple brain surgeries. A bone marrow transplant. Any one of those would shake most people's faith to the ground.Cheri Baugh Woods has walked through all of them. And she is still standing.In Episode 108 of Hear Where You Belong Podcast, host Dea Irby sits down with Cheri — author, speaker, retired educator, and International Impact Book Awards Author of the Year finalist — whose memoir Win-Win: Miracles Still Happen has already traveled to the Frankfurt Book Fair and the London Book Fair before it ever officially launched in the United States.Because it is not her book. It is God's book. And He took it exactly where He wanted it to go.In this episode, Cheri opens up about the marriage that fell apart six months in — when she discovered her military husband had quietly married another woman in a different state while still married to her, and was engaged to a third. She shares the leukemia diagnosis that came decades later — and the moment God spoke to her in the hospital and said: if I take you home, that is the ultimate win. But if I keep you here — you win again. Because I still have a purpose for you.She also shares the miracle of her brother — a retired Navy SEAL — being a 100% bone marrow match. The surgery that literally changed her blood type from O-positive to A. And why she now calls herself a Navy SEAL by proxy. 😄Her greatest accomplishment? Seeing God use every single chapter of her journey — the ugly ones, the hard ones, the ones she never planned — to give hope to others.Her parting word is the one I want ringing in your ears:Don't mistake the fire for the finish line. This is a chapter — not your whole story.And her free 3-day mindset reset is waiting for you at CheriBaughWoods.com.Choose hope. Your story is not over. 💛#HearWhereYouBelong, #YouBelong, #CheriBaughWoods, #WinWinMiraclesStillHappen, #DontMistakeTheFireForTheFinishLine, #YourStoryIsNotOver, #ChooseHope, #NavySEALByProxy, #MiraclesStillHappen, #LeukemiaSurvivor, #BoneMarrowTransplant, #NewCreationInChrist, #GodHoldsThePen, #FaithThroughHardship, #NewEpisode, #ChristianPodcast, #BelongingInChrist, #WinWinMindset, #KeepShowingUp, #Romans8

    Don't Mistake the Fire for the Finish Line — Your Story Is Not Over | Ep. 108 with Cheri Baugh Woods
  6. Aug 25

    "You Don't Have to Earn Your Place — You Were Born Enough" | Ep. 107 with Carlene Marie

    Do you rewrite a text three times before you send it? Say yes when every part of you wants to say no? Feel like you have to earn your rest? That is not who you are. That is a story you absorbed somewhere along the way. And it can be rewritten. In Episode 107 of Hear Where You Belong Podcast, host Dea Irby sits down with Carlene Marie — master mind power coach, keynote speaker, and author of Enough Already: Release Self-Doubt, Reclaim Your Worth, Remember Your Light. Carlene grew up as the oldest daughter in an Irish Catholic family outside Boston — the strong one — where she unconsciously fused her worth with achieving, pleasing, and never falling short. She lost her father at 18, carried everything with dignity and pride, built a life, raised children, and then found herself at a crossroads she never expected — an empty nest, a ended marriage, and the question she had never let herself ask: Who am I — without all of it? The answer changed everything. And now she helps others find theirs. In this episode, Carlene opens up about the quiet not-enough script that runs in the background of most people's lives without them even knowing it. She unpacks the neuroscience of why positive thinking alone doesn't work. She walks through her signature Compass Method — Connect, Calm, Curious, Claim — a four-step tool rooted in science and spirit for any triggered moment. She shares the Viktor Frankl insight about the space between stimulus and response where all our power lives. And she tells the story of using her own compass on a Sunday afternoon with her husband — box breathing quietly on the couch — in a moment that made her laugh and proved the whole thing works. 😄 Her favorite quote right now is from St. Catherine of Siena — and it will stay with you: Be who God meant you to be — and you will set the world on fire. And her parting word is the one she leaves with every client and every room she walks into: Your name has only ever once been spoken by God. Your time is now. Remember your light. 💛 📖 Enough Already — available September 22nd on Amazon🌐 Find Carlene and the Compass Method at her website #HearWhereYouBelong, #YouBelong, #CarleneMarie, #EnoughAlready, #CompassMethod, #YouAreEnough, #ReleaseSelfdoubt, #ReclaimYourWorth, #RememberYourLight, #MindPowerCoach, #LimitingBeliefs, #NewEpisode, #ChristianPodcast, #WomensMinistry, #BelongingStartsWithin, #SetTheWorldOnFire, #SacredReturn, #InherentWorth, #StopProvingStartLiving, #YourTimeIsNow

    "You Don't Have to Earn Your Place — You Were Born Enough" | Ep. 107 with Carlene Marie
  7. Aug 18

    There Are No Wrong Notes — What 100,000 Business Phone Calls Taught Me About God | Ep. 106 with Tom Vander Well

    At 14 years old, Tom Vander Well had a vision — standing in a pulpit, hearing God say: you are going to proclaim my word. He just had no idea what that would actually look like. In Episode 106 of Hear Where You Belong Podcast, host Dea Irby sits down with Tom Vander Well — CEO of Intelligentix, Amazon international bestselling author, speaker, actor, playwright, and host of the Wayfarer Blog and Podcast. Over thirty years, Tom has analyzed more than 100,000 business conversations across every industry imaginable — and discovered something nobody expected: Every great customer service principle traces back to Scripture. Tom opens up about preaching across the state of Iowa at 15, the six years of pastoral ministry that were — in his words — awful, and the divine appointment with his old mentor Chuck that redirected his entire life into business. He shares how God taught him spiritual truths through phone calls, collections teams, and corporate America. How a chapter-a-day blog he started in 2006 now reaches readers in Hong Kong, Singapore, and China. How his daughter told him his grandchildren and great-grandchildren will one day hear his voice and know him through those 5,000-plus posts. He also shares the Miles Davis story — and the three words that became his favorite quote and the most beautiful picture of God's grace he has ever encountered: There are no wrong notes. Because God redeems every single one. The wrong chord Herbie Hancock played on stage. The six years in the wrong pulpit. The divorce. The detour. All of it — redeemed. His parting word is the one he has been living for twenty years: Be faithful to what God calls you to do. Live for something eternal. And somewhere in Hong Kong or Singapore or China — someone reading a chapter-a-day blog is proof that faithful is enough. 💛 📚 Find This Call May Be Monitored on Amazon🌐 Join the chapter-a-day journey at tomvanderwell.com🎙️ Find the Wayfarer Podcast on Spotify, Apple, and all major platforms

    There Are No Wrong Notes — What 100,000 Business Phone Calls Taught Me About God | Ep. 106 with Tom Vander Well
  8. Aug 11

    "If You Have a Pulse, God Has a Purpose — Finding Your Gold Thread" | Ep. 105 with Jason Ward

    What if every seemingly random moment of your life — the teacher who handed you a piece of paper, the girl you met in an ice cream shop, the photography class you never meant to teach — was never random at all? That is what Jason Ward discovered standing on a mountaintop in Oklahoma, coffee in hand, asking God: how did I get here? And God answered. In Episode 105 of Hear Where You Belong Podcast, host Dea Irby sits down with Jason Ward — creative director, photographer, entrepreneur, author, and founder of Storm the Beach Advertising. An Appalachian boy from Paintsville, Kentucky, and the first man in his family in more than a century not to become a coal miner, Jason spent more than twenty years chasing success in advertising, education, and business — only to discover that where he truly belonged was where God had been leading him from the very beginning. In this episode, Jason shares the piece of paper his seventh grade science teacher handed him that set his entire career in motion. The NASA letter that arrived on his birthday and launched his art career. The grad school door God tried to close politely — and Jason put his boot through anyway. The girl in a Fort Worth ice cream shop who brought him back to God. The photography class he was handed on a Friday afternoon that started on Monday whether he was ready or not. And the mountaintop moment where God showed him — in a single compressed vision — how every single thread of his life had been woven together with precision. He also introduces the concept that has been reshaping the way he helps people: the gold thread. The unique story God has been weaving through your life all along. And the black threads — the adversary's attempts to choke it out. His free 12-question AI quiz at jasondward.com will help you find yours. His favorite quote from a recent sermon stopped him cold: If you have a pulse, God has a purpose. And his parting word — the truth God dropped on him in the editing stage of his own book — is the one every creative, entrepreneur, and dream-chaser needs to hear: Your true calling will never be self-serving. This episode is for everyone who has been pulling a plow when God built them to run. 💛 📚 Find Find Your Gold Thread on Amazon and Audible🌐 Take the free gold thread quiz at jasondward.com #HearWhereYouBelong, #YouBelong, #FindYourGoldThread, #IfYouHaveAPulseGodHasAPurpose, #JasonWard, #StormTheBeachAdvertising, #GoldThread, #BlackThreads, #RacehorseNotAPlow, #TrueCallingNeverSelfServing, #AppalachianBoy, #NASALetter, #CreativeEntrepreneur, #NewEpisode, #ChristianPodcast, #FaithAndPurpose, #GodWovenPlan, #FindYourCalling, #BelongingMatters, #YouWereBuiltToRun

    "If You Have a Pulse, God Has a Purpose — Finding Your Gold Thread" | Ep. 105 with Jason Ward
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Embark on an inspirational journey with guests from diverse backgrounds, sharing stories of triumph, resilience, and faith, reiterating the common human longing for belonging. From dreamers to doers, believers to seekers, uncover the extraordinary in ordinary moments and the purpose within every life. Open your heart, mind, and ears to resonate with stories reminding you of your significance, belonging, and purpose. Welcome home to 'Hear Where You Belong'.