To All The Girls Out There

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Hey love, welcome to To All The Girls Out There (TATGOT), a space for real conversations about womanhood, self-worth, and navigating life’s ups and downs. We’re learning from the women who’ve lived it, those who have been through the struggles, found their strength, and have stories that will leave us inspired. Expect deep conversations, wisdom, and the kind of advice that makes you see life differently. And when I’ve got something on my heart, I’ll be here with solo episodes too. This is for the girls who want more for themselves, who are growing, healing, and figuring it all out. You’re not alone in this journey🩷

  1. 1D AGO

    Stop Comparing Yourself to Her — We Can Both Be That Girl (S1:E5)

    Four episodes into this season of To All The Girls Out There, I felt called to pause and reflect. In this solo reflective episode, I’m unpacking the comparison trap in the social media era and asking some real questions about where our confidence actually comes from. We talk about: Comparing your everyday life to someone else’s highlight reelInternal vs external validationConfidence built on complimentsWhy another woman’s beauty or success doesn’t cancel yoursHow we can coexist instead of competeYou are not behind. You are not lacking. And you don’t need to dim your light because someone else is shining. We can both be that girl. Ramadan Mubarak to my Muslim girls listening 🤍 Referenced Episodes: If this conversation resonated with you, you may also love: • My episode with Laiba on accepting yourself  • My conversation with Miss Probett on women coexisting instead of competing You can find both episodes linked on the blog post for this episode. Leave a message! contact📞: contact@toallthegirlsoutthere.com website👩🏽‍💻: toallthegirlsoutthere.com Be a Guest! google form

    35 min

  2. FEB 17

    “Celebrate Yourself Like You Celebrate Others”: Changing Your Life, Healing & Acceptance | Laiba Waseem (S1:E4)

    In this episode of To All The Girls Out There, I’m joined by returning guest Laiba Waseem, and honestly… this conversation is one every girl needs to hear. Laiba opens up about what it really means to change your life, why healing isn’t about fixing yourself, and how learning to accept who you are can be more powerful than constantly trying to improve. We also talk about: Healing your inner child and moving forward after traumaPeople pleasing, self-worth, and fear of disappointing otherslearning the power of saying noSetting boundaries (even with family)Leaving home and starting over in a new cityWhy it’s never too late to start healingOutgrowing friendships and toxic dynamic🩷 If you enjoyed this episode, share it with a girl who needs it and leave a review — it helps the podcast reach more girls who need these conversations. Laiba's Linked In Page : Here Leave a message! contact📞: contact@toallthegirlsoutthere.com website👩🏽‍💻: toallthegirlsoutthere.com Be a Guest! google form

    1h 34m

  3. FEB 4

    Be Yourself. Learn to Love You: Boundaries, Confidence & Being Misunderstood – with Sharon Talbot (S1:E3)

    In this episode of To All The Girls Out There (S1:E3), I sit down with one of my secondary school teachers, Sharon Talbot, a woman who played a huge role in shaping who I am today. We have an honest, heartfelt conversation about growing up as a girl in a world full of pressure — from school, friendships, and identity, to social media, comparison, and the feeling of always having to be “on.” We explore how constant phone use, instant gratification, and online culture can disconnect girls from themselves, and how to reclaim a sense of freedom and confidence while staying true to who you are. Sharon shares her wisdom on learning when to speak up, when to let things go, and how not to take on other people’s stress or stories. Beyond self-worth and boundaries, we talk about community, roots, Black identity, and how understanding where you come from can ground you in a world full of noise. This episode is especially for the girls who feel misunderstood, overwhelmed, or like they’re constantly being pulled to become someone they’re not.  Leave a message! contact📞: contact@toallthegirlsoutthere.com website👩🏽‍💻: toallthegirlsoutthere.com Be a Guest! google form

    1h 57m

  4. JAN 20

    Women Are Not Your Competition: Friendships, Anxiety & Comparison – With Sally Probett (S1:E2)

    What does it really mean to grow up as a girl today? In this episode of To All The Girls Out There, I sit down with my secondary school form tutor for an honest and grounding conversation— about anxiety, comparison, friendships, womanhood, and learning to trust yourself. We talk about why so many girls feel pressure to grow up too fast, how anxiety can turn into being “addicted to stress,” and why perfectionism can stop you from actually living your life. From struggling to make decisions, fearing getting things wrong, and feeling like you always need to explain yourself — to learning how to give yourself grace and breathe again. My secondary school form tutor shares her perspective as a teacher and a woman, opening up about anxiety, therapy, confidence, and why healing doesn’t erase who you are — it helps you become more yourself. We also talk about why women are taught to compete with each other, how patriarchy shows up in subtle everyday ways, and why women are not your competition. We get into: Anxiety, stress, and feeling scared to make decisionsGrowing up too fast and the pressure to be perfectFriendship struggles, comparison, and girlhood at schoolAsking for what you want and being more directWomanhood, confidence, and choosing your own pathWhy healing doesn’t mean losing your personalityFinding your people after leaving schoolLearning to appreciate the small moments in life🤍 Connect with Sally I’m so grateful to Sally for this conversation and for the impact she’s had on so many young people — in and beyond the classroom. You can find her here: LinkedIn: Sally ProbettHer business: Her Sunday Society— a brilliant platform she co-founded with her friend, doing meaningful work to support Women🌱Leave a message! contact📞: contact@toallthegirlsoutthere.com website👩🏽‍💻: toallthegirlsoutthere.com Be a Guest! google form

    1h 36m

  5. JAN 3

    The Power of Inner Work: How It Can Change Everything for You (S1:E1)

    Hey lovely, welcome to the first episode of the new season of To All The Girls Out There! 🌸 This season is all about inner work—understanding yourself, raising your standards, and becoming the best version of you. In today’s solo episode, I’m sharing my personal inner work journey: how I went from insecure and overwhelmed to confident, grounded, and intentional in my friendships, relationships, and life. You’ll hear how small, conscious actions can shift your mindset, confidence, and even the people and opportunities you attract. I’ll also give you a simple exercise to start bridging the gap between your current self and your ideal self, helping you take your first step toward clarity, confidence, and empowerment. 🩷 Listen, learn, and get inspired—because it’s possible for you too x ✨ Links mentioned in this episode: Private Podcast – my personal inner work journey, guiding you through self-worth, confidence, and standing on business. Listen here →  Standing on Business: Wake-Up Call (Free Guide) – see where you’ve been settling, recognise your patterns, and take your first steps to change. Download here →  Standing on Business Guide (Full Guide) – for girls ready to take action, raise their standards, and embody a woman who doesn’t compromise on self-worth. Get the guide →  Blog: The “Men Are Trash” Mindset – understand how this belief might be keeping you stuck, and why it’s holding back your relationships and growth. Read here → Leave a message! contact📞: contact@toallthegirlsoutthere.com website👩🏽‍💻: toallthegirlsoutthere.com Be a Guest! google form

    46 min

  6. 04/08/2025

    The Truth About the ‘Men Are Trash’ Mindset

    Sis, I know too many of us have been hurt by guys, and sometimes it just feels easier to say, “men are trash” and keep it moving. But is that belief really protecting you… or is it keeping you stuck? In this episode, I talk about how this mindset forms, what it’s really doing to you, and how you can start to shift it — not for them, but for you. 📝 Share your story anonymously: google forms link 📥 Download the free Standing On Business: Wake-Up Call guide (plus access private bonus podcast episodes): Standing On Business The Wake Up Call Guide You deserve better. You deserve to stand on business.💗 Leave a message! contact📞: contact@toallthegirlsoutthere.com website👩🏽‍💻: toallthegirlsoutthere.com Be a Guest! google form

    31 min

  7. 04/04/2025

    To All The Girls Out There Is Entering a New Chapter—And You Can Be Part of It

    Welcome, Lovelies! 💕In today’s episode of To All The Girls Out There (TATGOT), I’m sharing an exciting update on the direction of the podcast. Don’t worry, the heart of the message stays the same. I’m still here to help you heal, know your worth, and grow into the best version of yourself. But now, we’re doing it in an even deeper and more exciting way!!!! ✨ Want to be a guest? If you have a story, insight, or experience that could empower another girl’s journey, don’t hold back! Just fill out the form, and if it’s a match, I’ll be in touch. You never know whose life could change because of your story. So if you're thinking about it go for it girll 💗 Sign up here. If you want deeper, raw advice, get access to my private podcast, where I share exclusive insights, real-life experiences, and practical tips for the girls who are truly ready to do the inner work and transform their lives. Join here. I can’t wait to step into this next chapter with you. Stay shining, Queen! 👑🩷 Leave a message! contact📞: contact@toallthegirlsoutthere.com website👩🏽‍💻: toallthegirlsoutthere.com Be a Guest! google form

    6 min

  8. 03/19/2025

    Why Taking Care of Your Looks is an Act of Self-Respect (Hijabi or Not)

    In today’s episode of To All The Girls Out There (TATGOT), we’re diving into something so important—why investing in yourself and your looks matters. As a Muslim woman wearing hijab, I know the struggle of balancing modesty with the desire to honour my beauty, and I’m here to remind you that looking after yourself is a form of self-respect. Whether you’re a hijabi or not, this episode is for every woman who needs a reminder that your body deserves love, care, and honour. 1:1 Coaching Ramdan Guide Leave a message! contact📞: contact@toallthegirlsoutthere.com website👩🏽‍💻: toallthegirlsoutthere.com Be a Guest! google form

    21 min
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Hey love, welcome to To All The Girls Out There (TATGOT), a space for real conversations about womanhood, self-worth, and navigating life’s ups and downs. We’re learning from the women who’ve lived it, those who have been through the struggles, found their strength, and have stories that will leave us inspired. Expect deep conversations, wisdom, and the kind of advice that makes you see life differently. And when I’ve got something on my heart, I’ll be here with solo episodes too. This is for the girls who want more for themselves, who are growing, healing, and figuring it all out. You’re not alone in this journey🩷

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  • Creator
    Fatima
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    15
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 To All The Girls Out There
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