The Grammar of Us

Megan Hulme
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Why do we keep having the same arguments? Why do we feel truly seen by some people and misunderstood by others? "The Grammar of Us" is a podcast that decodes the hidden language of human connection. We go beyond the surface of relationships to explore the underlying behavioral patterns—the unspoken rules, the recurring cycles, and the subtle communications that define how we treat each other. Each week, we break down the syntax of love, conflict, and everything in between. Whether it's with a partner, a family member, a friend, or a colleague, we'll provide you with the tools to identify your own relational patterns, break negative cycles, and build more conscious, compassionate, and resilient connections. Tune in to rewrite your relational grammar and build a more fulfilling "us." We invite you to tune in, engage, and connect with a community that celebrates the beautiful complexity of being human. Let’s embark on this journey together!

  1. 5D AGO

    A Different Kind of Christmas Gift: Letting Go of What Doesn't Serve You

    This holiday season, the most profound gift you can give yourself isn't wrapped in paper. It’s the gift of release. In this deeply personal and empowering episode of The Grammar of Us, we talk about the difficult but liberating grammar of the heart: letting go of the people who no longer belong in your sentence. We’re discussing relationships—romantic or otherwise—that do not serve you, where you’ve felt undervalued, disrespected, and unappreciated. As we gently unpack this tender topic, we invite you to be compassionate with yourself. We’ll explore the strength it takes to close a chapter that isn't honoring you, and we’ll affirm a crucial truth: you are so much stronger than your real eyes often realize. This is about more than just ending things. It’s about claiming the space for what you truly deserve. You deserve a partner who is emotionally present and free—not held hostage by family dynamics. You deserve a partner who can and will support you when you need it most. You deserve a partner who truly sees you, who appreciates you, and who consistently has your back. Join us for a conversation that’s part reflection, part validation, and part roadmap to a future where your peace is the priority. This Christmas, give yourself the gift of knowing your own worth. Your new beginning is waiting. Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions about emotional neglect and ending relationships. Support the show Thanks to our sponsor Pleasure & Intimacy: https://pleasureintimacy.com/ Use code: SexTherapy for discount at checkout. Shop intimate pleasure toys and lubrications for solo or partnered pleasure. Pleasure & Intimacy are stockists of the world's premium pleasure toy collections. Follow: https://www.instagram.com/themeghulmepodcast Thanks for joining me and supporting me on this journey! MH xx

    11 min

  2. DEC 16

    Rebuilding on Solid Ground: Setting Boundaries, Demanding Accountability, and Choosing Your Partner

    Before you can build a healthy relationship with someone else, you need a new blueprint. This episode deconstructs the pillars of that design. First, we dig into the why behind strong boundaries—they're not walls to keep people out, but the integrity of the home you're building. Second, we dissect real accountability versus performative guilt, and how to require it. Finally, we explore the radical act of choosing: how to move from a place of neediness or reactivity to a place of clear-eyed, values-driven selection. Let's rebuild your approach from the foundation up. A huge thank you for spending your time with us today. Before we go, we’d like to extend a special thanks to our sponsor, Pleasure and Intimacy, a U.S.-based adult pleasure store dedicated to enhancing connection and well-being. For curated, quality products, visit them at www.pleasureintimacy.com. We're so grateful you tuned in, and we can't wait to be with you again next time. Support the show Thanks to our sponsor Pleasure & Intimacy: https://pleasureintimacy.com/ Use code: SexTherapy for discount at checkout. Shop intimate pleasure toys and lubrications for solo or partnered pleasure. Pleasure & Intimacy are stockists of the world's premium pleasure toy collections. Follow: https://www.instagram.com/themeghulmepodcast Thanks for joining me and supporting me on this journey! MH xx

    13 min

  3. DEC 10

    The Red Flags I Chose to Ignore: A Hard-Won Relationship Wisdom

    Sometimes the clearest signs are the ones we look past. In this weeks hard-won lesson, we are getting honest about the grammar of red flags - those glaring punctuation marks in a relationship story that we often edit out. This episode is a deep dive into the three major red flags I consciously ignored and the painful wisdom that followed. We will unpack how to spot these warnings, and more importantly why we convince ourselves to stay. We're talking about the crucial moments when your boundaries are compromised, when disrespect and a lack of appreciation become the norm, and when emotional maturity is conspicuously absent. It's a conversation about turning hindsight into a new set of principles. Join me as we learn how to stop overlooking the bold, italicised and underlined warnings, and start writing a healthier story for ourselves. Support the show Thanks to our sponsor Pleasure & Intimacy: https://pleasureintimacy.com/ Use code: SexTherapy for discount at checkout. Shop intimate pleasure toys and lubrications for solo or partnered pleasure. Pleasure & Intimacy are stockists of the world's premium pleasure toy collections. Follow: https://www.instagram.com/themeghulmepodcast Thanks for joining me and supporting me on this journey! MH xx

    19 min

  4. NOV 12

    Consideration: The Highest Form of Love

    In this enlightening episode of The Grammar of Us, we delve into the profound idea that consideration is the highest form of love. Join us as we discuss why being considerate is not just a skill to revisit from time to time, but an integral part of who we are and a reflection of our character.  We’ll explore how practicing consideration can transform our relationships, leading to deeper connections and more meaningful interactions. Through engaging anecdotes and insightful discussions, we'll examine how small acts of thoughtfulness can make a monumental difference in expressing love and care—both for ourselves and others. Tune in as we uncover the nuances of consideration, its impact on empathy and understanding, and how fostering this essential trait can enrich our lives and the lives of those around us. Let’s redefine love together by embracing the beautiful power of being considerate! Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation about why consideration is essential to nurturing love and connection. Let’s refine our understanding of each other and explore the "grammar" of relationships that allows them to flourish! Support the show Thanks to our sponsor Pleasure & Intimacy: https://pleasureintimacy.com/ Use code: SexTherapy for discount at checkout. Shop intimate pleasure toys and lubrications for solo or partnered pleasure. Pleasure & Intimacy are stockists of the world's premium pleasure toy collections. Follow: https://www.instagram.com/themeghulmepodcast Thanks for joining me and supporting me on this journey! MH xx

    12 min

  5. OCT 1

    The Rise of Modern Misogyny: From Sports Arenas to Everyday Life

    Welcome to The Meg Hulme Podcast, where we explore the intricate dynamics of our society and its impact on our lives. Today, we're diving into a critical and timely topic: the rise of modern misogyny. This disturbing trend has become increasingly prevalent across various spheres of life, from social media platforms to everyday interactions, and it demands our attention and understanding. In this episode, we’ll not only explore the manifestations of modern misogyny but also examine the psychological profile of a modern bully. What drives individuals to embrace and perpetuate such harmful behavior? We’ll investigate the concept of malignant narcissism—how it shapes relationships and enables toxic environments—and discuss its role in fueling a culture of cowardice that allows misogyny to thrive. Join us as we engage with experts, dissect real-life examples, and work to understand the connections between these psychological dynamics and the societal structures that support them. Whether you're seeking to educate yourself, find ways to challenge these attitudes, or simply gain a deeper understanding of the culture we're living in, this episode will provide valuable insights into the complexities of human behavior in our modern world. Let’s get started! Support the show Thanks to our sponsor Pleasure & Intimacy: https://pleasureintimacy.com/ Use code: SexTherapy for discount at checkout. Shop intimate pleasure toys and lubrications for solo or partnered pleasure. Pleasure & Intimacy are stockists of the world's premium pleasure toy collections. Follow: https://www.instagram.com/themeghulmepodcast Thanks for joining me and supporting me on this journey! MH xx

    13 min

  6. SEP 25

    Growing Up Means Tuning In: Why Discernment is Your Most Important Muscle

    In today's thought-provoking episode of The Meg Hulme Podcast, we dive into a crucial yet often overlooked topic: the power of discernment and why it’s considered our most important muscle. Join me as I explore how discernment impacts every aspect of our lives—from our relationships and decision-making to our personal values and integrity.  Discover the true meaning of discernment and learn why developing this skill is essential for navigating the complexities of modern life. I'll be sharing insightful tips on how to strengthen your discernment in a world filled with distractions and conflicting opinions, helping you to maintain clarity and authenticity. Tune in for engaging discussions, practical advice, and real-life stories that inspire you to cultivate this essential muscle. Whether you’re seeking to improve your relationships or simply looking to align your actions with your values, this episode will empower you to embrace discernment as a guiding force in your life. Don't miss this enlightening conversation—let's unlock the transformative power of discernment together! Support the show Thanks to our sponsor Pleasure & Intimacy: https://pleasureintimacy.com/ Use code: SexTherapy for discount at checkout. Shop intimate pleasure toys and lubrications for solo or partnered pleasure. Pleasure & Intimacy are stockists of the world's premium pleasure toy collections. Follow: https://www.instagram.com/themeghulmepodcast Thanks for joining me and supporting me on this journey! MH xx

    14 min

  7. SEP 12

    The Silent Relationship Killers: How Neglect, Poor Communication, and Interferences Slowly Pull Partnerships Apart

    In today’s episode, we’re delving into a topic that often flies under the radar but can silently erode even the strongest of partnerships: neglect, poor communication, and the subtle interferences that pull us apart.  Relationships demand attention and care, but life’s distractions can lead us to overlook the very connections we cherish. Join me as we explore how neglect manifests in our relationships, the impact of miscommunication, and the insidious ways that external interferences can disrupt our bonds. Through insightful discussions and real-life examples, we’ll uncover practical strategies to address these silent relationship killers and foster deeper connections. Support the show Thanks to our sponsor Pleasure & Intimacy: https://pleasureintimacy.com/ Use code: SexTherapy for discount at checkout. Shop intimate pleasure toys and lubrications for solo or partnered pleasure. Pleasure & Intimacy are stockists of the world's premium pleasure toy collections. Follow: https://www.instagram.com/themeghulmepodcast Thanks for joining me and supporting me on this journey! MH xx

    23 min

  8. AUG 12

    The Insidious Cowardice of Emotional Abuse

    Welcome to this episode of The Meg Hulme Podcast.  Today we will be exploring an often-overlooked subject: the insidious cowardice of emotional abuse. We’ll explore the subtle yet devastating tactics used in these damaging dynamics, including the silent treatment, ghosting, breadcrumbing, and gaslighting. While physical abuse may be more visible and easily identifiable, emotional abuse can be just as harmful, leaving lasting scars on mental health and self-esteem.  Join us as we unravel these behaviors, shedding light on their motivations and effects, and empowering listeners to recognize and combat them in their own lives. Together, let’s shine a light on this critical issue, fostering understanding and resilience in the face of emotional manipulation. Stay tuned, and let’s get started! Support the show Thanks to our sponsor Pleasure & Intimacy: https://pleasureintimacy.com/ Use code: SexTherapy for discount at checkout. Shop intimate pleasure toys and lubrications for solo or partnered pleasure. Pleasure & Intimacy are stockists of the world's premium pleasure toy collections. Follow: https://www.instagram.com/themeghulmepodcast Thanks for joining me and supporting me on this journey! MH xx

    17 min
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Why do we keep having the same arguments? Why do we feel truly seen by some people and misunderstood by others? "The Grammar of Us" is a podcast that decodes the hidden language of human connection. We go beyond the surface of relationships to explore the underlying behavioral patterns—the unspoken rules, the recurring cycles, and the subtle communications that define how we treat each other. Each week, we break down the syntax of love, conflict, and everything in between. Whether it's with a partner, a family member, a friend, or a colleague, we'll provide you with the tools to identify your own relational patterns, break negative cycles, and build more conscious, compassionate, and resilient connections. Tune in to rewrite your relational grammar and build a more fulfilling "us." We invite you to tune in, engage, and connect with a community that celebrates the beautiful complexity of being human. Let’s embark on this journey together!

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  • Creator
    Megan Hulme
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    43
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © 2025 The Grammar of Us
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