Minding Her Own Business

Victoria

Minding Her Own Business is the antidote to surface-level success content.  Host Victoria Mariscal brings you unfiltered conversations with women who've built something meaningful without sacrificing their sanity. From C-suite executives to creative entrepreneurs, we explore the messy middle of building a profitable and purposeful life. New episodes drop Tuesdays, real talk for women who know that messy progress beats perfect plans every time.

  1. What Happens When You Stop Playing Small: An Unfiltered Conversation With Brit Perkins

    6D AGO

    What Happens When You Stop Playing Small: An Unfiltered Conversation With Brit Perkins

    Welcome back to Minding Her Own Business. Today we have Brit Perkins, a wedding and personal branding photographer who works globally capturing entrepreneurs, influencers, and life's biggest moments. Brit's work has been featured in Vogue, People, and Boston Magazine, and she's built a thriving photography business while raising two daughters. In this episode, we’ll get to know her story, dive into how she built her business from the ground up, and uncover the lessons she’s learned along the way. If you're ready to stop playing small and start showing up even when it terrifies you, this episode is for you.  In this conversation: Brit started photography out of necessity: she was broke and literally just wanted enough money to buy her kids Starbucks cake pops without stressing about itBuilding a personal brand happened organically before she even knew what personal branding was. The pivot from weddings to personal branding happened during COVID when she photographed local businesses and realized how fulfilling it was to help other small business owners succeedRunning a photography business as a hobby versus a real business requires a fundamental decision: you need systems, workflows, clear monthly revenue goals, and an actual plan instead of just shooting blanks and hopingYour goals will evolve as you level up and enter different rooms. What seemed impossible five years ago, becomes your baseline when you surround yourself with people achieving moreFear isn't actually about being scared, but it's about letting go of your ego and the fear of looking bad in front of other people, which is exactly what's holding you back from the rooms that will change everythingYou'll walk away with permission to start messy and build your personal brand before you even know what that means, a framework for deciding if your creative passion should become a real business with actual revenue goals, the reminder that consistency in the boring stuff is what builds the career and life you actually want, and that serving people well while doing excellent work is the simplest formula for success. Plus, you’ll gain the mindset shift to stop letting fear or ego keep you out of the rooms that are meant for you. Connect with Brit: Instagram: @britperkins_ Website: www.britperkinsphotography.comLet's Connect! Website: https://www.victoriamariscal.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_mindingherownbusiness/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoria-m-mariscal/

    29 min
  2. If He's Not Matching Your Energy, Stop Texting First: The Honest Truth About Dating After 30

    FEB 17

    If He's Not Matching Your Energy, Stop Texting First: The Honest Truth About Dating After 30

    Welcome back to Minding Her Own Business, today we’re talking about one of the most relatable topics for women in their thirties: the absolute chaos of modern dating. This is an honest breakdown on what works (and what definitely doesn't), why is it important to have clarity about what you want, and that the right person will show up when you're actually working on becoming your best self. In this conversation: Dating in your thirties means everyone's in wildly different places; some have kids, some are divorced, and income gaps between potential partners can be massive for the first time in your lifeThe pandemic created a weird dating fatigue where people are craving human connection but are so burned out by casual dating culture that they've stopped putting themselves out thereActions speak louder than words. If you're always initiating conversations and making plans, pull back and see if they match your energy before assuming they're equally interestedOnline dating apps are going out of style as people seek more intentional connections through social clubs, coffee meetups, and platforms that skip the endless swiping and set you up on actual datesYou can't truly test a relationship until you've seen how someone processes conflict and deals with hard emotions: avoiding difficult conversations creates toxic patternsPersonality compatibility, shared values, and aligned life goals matter more than physical attraction or financial status when building something that actually lastsYou'll walk away with a framework for evaluating compatibility beyond surface-level attraction, permission to stop dating when you're not ready instead of forcing it, and the confidence to have honest conversations about values and goals early on without scaring people away, plus the reminder that you deserve someone who puts in the same energy you do. Let's Connect! Website: https://www.victoriamariscal.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_mindingherownbusiness/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoria-m-mariscal/

    16 min
  3. You've Been Training AI for Free for Years: How to Finally Make It Work for You Instead

    FEB 10

    You've Been Training AI for Free for Years: How to Finally Make It Work for You Instead

    Welcome back to Minding Her Own Business. In this episode we’re diving into one of the most polarizing topics in business right now: artificial intelligence. What it really means for your career, how to use it, and the uncomfortable truth: you've been training AI with your data for years. We’re also going to break down the practical realities of leveraging AI as your competitive advantage while staying aware of the legal gray areas, ethical considerations, and the difference between using AI smartly versus using it sloppily.  In this conversation: AI isn't replacing jobs, it's replacing people who refuse to learn how to use it as a competitive advantage in their careersYou've been training AI and giving away your data for free for years through Amazon, Spotify, Instagram, and every online platform you touchThe biggest risk isn't using AI, it's using it sloppily without checking output quality or understanding when you're sharing proprietary informationAI forces you to think critically and ask better questions instead of just memorizing information or going through repetitive motionsThe global workforce is now truly borderless, which means top talent can live anywhere and companies can source skills from anywhere at different price pointsUsing AI for therapy, love advice, or medical guidance is a dangerous gray area; it mirrors your own biases back to you and shouldn't replace professional helpIf you're ready to stop being scared of AI and start using it strategically, this episode is for you.  You'll walk away with a clear understanding of where AI fits ethically in your workflow, how to protect yourself from legal and professional risks when using these tools, and the mindset shift to see AI as your competitive edge rather than your replacement, plus the honest truth about what you're trading when you input your data into these platforms. Let's Connect! Website: https://www.victoriamariscal.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_mindingherownbusiness/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoria-m-mariscal/

    18 min
  4. Welcome to Season 2: The Messy, Unfiltered Truth About Why We're Here

    FEB 3

    Welcome to Season 2: The Messy, Unfiltered Truth About Why We're Here

    Welcome back to Minding Her Own Business. Today's a special solo episode where I'm pulling back the curtain on why this podcast exists, what "minding her own business" really means, and how I went from being the kid told to stay quiet to building a community for women who refuse to be put in a box. This is Season 2's kickoff, and it's time you knew the real story. In this episode: The three powerful meanings behind "Minding Her Own Business"  and how a phrase once seen as dismissive or negative was transformed into a philosophy for living authentically. Why taking a year off Instagram as a content creator wasn't career suicide, it was the reset that saved my integrity and sanityHow the pressure to perform a "perfect life" on social media was creating a version of myself I didn't recognize, and the moment I decided to delete the appWhy doing "all the things" is actually your superpower and the liberation that comes from being a multi-hyphenate woman who refuses to niche downHow to build a business and brand that respects your privacy while still showing up authentically for your audienceWhy this podcast exists as a safe space for the messy middle, where you're supposed to have it all figured out but you're still scared as hellIf you're tired of performative success content and ready for real talk about building a life that's actually yours, this episode is for you. Here I’ll tell you my journey from  being told to stay quiet as a child, to building a platform that celebrates unfiltered voices and proves that your "too much" is exactly what someone else needs to hear, and that you don't need anyone's permission to take up space. You'll walk away with permission to stop performing, clarity on how to protect your peace while building in public, and the reminder that being multi-faceted isn't a liability, it's your competitive advantage. Plus, you'll understand why this community exists: not just as a podcast, but as the safe space you wished you had when you were going through it. Let's Connect! Website: https://www.victoriamariscal.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_mindingherownbusiness/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoria-m-mariscal/

    16 min
  5. One Year of MHOB:  Burnout, Boundaries, and Building What Actually Matters

    08/05/2025

    One Year of MHOB: Burnout, Boundaries, and Building What Actually Matters

    Welcome back to Minding Her Own Business – today we have something truly special as we celebrate our one-year anniversary! I'm your host Victoria, and instead of bringing you another incredible guest, I'm opening up about my own journey as a founder, podcast host, and woman doing all the things.  This episode is my most vulnerable yet, sharing the raw reality of what this year has taught me about burnout, boundaries, and building a business that aligns with who I actually am.  In this conversation:  How saying "yes" to everything led to physical and mental breakdown – and the wake-up call that changed everythingWhy aligning professional goals with personal values is non-negotiable for sustainable successThe three core things that bring joy to work: developing people, creative storytelling, and building communityHow burnout forced a complete business pivot from survival mode to intentional, purpose-driven workWhy taking care of yourself isn't selfish – it's the foundation for taking care of everyone elseThe power of getting intentional about your goals and creating daily reminders that keep you accountableIf you're ready to stop operating in survival mode and start building a business and life that actually fulfills you, this episode is for you. My journey from saying yes to everything to finally asking "what do I actually want?" proves that burnout doesn't have to be permanent, and that clarity comes when you're brave enough to pause and listen to yourself.  You'll walk away with permission to prioritize your well-being, a framework for evaluating whether your goals align with your values, and the confidence to make changes that serve your future self – plus you'll hear exactly what's coming next for our Minding Her Own Business community as we expand to YouTube, live events, and deeper connections. Let's Connect! Website: https://www.victoriamariscal.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_mindingherownbusiness/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoria-m-mariscal/

    27 min
  6. How to Design Your Career Around Your Passions with Dr. Sophia Visanji

    07/22/2025

    How to Design Your Career Around Your Passions with Dr. Sophia Visanji

    Welcome back to Minding Her Own Business, today we have Dr. Sophia Visanji, an optometrist practicing in Manhattan and the founder of Aliana Rose Eyewear, a vintage-inspired eyewear line made from Italian acetate. She's also been a fashion blogger for over 10 years under the alias "The Monocle Muse," proving that you can successfully blend traditional professional careers with creative entrepreneurship. In this conversation: How to recognize when your traditional career isn't fully filling your cup and what to do about it without abandoning financial security.The strategic approach to building multiple income streams - from content creation to product development - while maintaining your primary profession.The importance of scheduling self-care like business meetings to prevent burnout before it happens, not after you crash.How to leverage your unique professional background as your competitive advantage in saturated markets.If you're ready to design a career that truly fulfills you without sacrificing stability, this episode is for you. Sophia's journey from feeling unfulfilled in her optometry practice to building a thriving eyewear brand while still seeing patients proves that you don't have to choose between financial security and creative fulfillment, and that your professional expertise can become your secret weapon in entrepreneurship. You'll walk away with practical strategies for building multiple income streams, a framework for bootstrapping product development, and techniques for maintaining your mental health while juggling multiple businesses, plus the mindset shift that will help you see your current career as an asset rather than a limitation. Connect with Sophia: Instagram: www.instagram.com/themonoclemuseAlianna Rose Eyewear Instagram: www.instagram.com/alianaroseeyewearWebsite: www.alianaroseeyewear.comLet's Connect! Website: https://www.victoriamariscal.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_mindingherownbusiness/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoria-m-mariscal/

    30 min
  7. The Audacity Factor: Yana Williams on What It Takes to Scale Beyond Your Dreams

    07/15/2025

    The Audacity Factor: Yana Williams on What It Takes to Scale Beyond Your Dreams

    Welcome back to Minding Her Own Business, today we have Yanna Williams, the founder behind House of Audacia, a management company for founders ready to scale beyond the business they built.  Yanna is a former professor turned multi-million dollar business builder who's helped secure over $6 million in funding. She's the woman power players call when they're ready to become the face of their brand and turn audacious dreams into action.  In this conversation:  Yanna transitioned from academia to entrepreneurship after realizing the limitations of her academic salaryMultiple streams of income are crucial for financial stability and successUnderstanding your business inside and out is essential for successful grant writingWomen often play small in negotiations; it's important to advocate for yourselfBuilding relationships in business requires a balance of friendliness and professionalismKindness in business must be balanced with accountability to ensure successIf you're ready to stop playing small and start asking for what you deserve, this episode is for you. Yanna's journey from academia to building a multi-million dollar business proves that the security of a traditional job is often an illusion, and that real growth happens in the messy middle of entrepreneurship. You'll walk away with practical grant writing strategies that could secure your funding, leadership insights on balancing kindness with accountability, and the mindset shift to channel "white man audacity" in your business decisions. LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kalyannawilliams/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hausofaudacia/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yannabeans/?hl=es-la Let's Connect! Website: https://www.victoriamariscal.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_mindingherownbusiness/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoria-m-mariscal/

    32 min
  8. From Stay-at-Home Mom to Brand Strategist: Building a Business on Reputation with Cynthia Maselli

    07/08/2025

    From Stay-at-Home Mom to Brand Strategist: Building a Business on Reputation with Cynthia Maselli

    Welcome back to Minding Her Own Business! Today, I'm sitting down with Cynthia Maselli, the brand strategist who transformed from a stay-at-home mom to building a thriving referral-based business that speaks for itself. What started as a life pivot during motherhood became a masterclass in reputation-building, where word-of-mouth isn't just marketing—it's everything. Cynthia's approach to client relationships, conflict resolution, and the delicate art of over-delivering without losing your boundaries offers a refreshing take on sustainable business growth. Her new workbook, 'The Iconic Brand,' distills years of hard-won wisdom into actionable tools for entrepreneurs ready to build something that lasts. In this episode: How Cynthia transitioned from motherhood to brand strategy entrepreneurshipWhy reputation and referrals trump traditional marketing for sustainable growthThe art of handling client conflicts with grace while strengthening relationshipsBalancing over-delivery with healthy boundaries to prevent scope creepLeadership strategies that create positive company culture and employee satisfactionNavigating the ongoing challenge of work-life balance as an entrepreneurHow 'The Iconic Brand' workbook empowers entrepreneurs with practical business toolsShare this episode with that friend who's been building their business the hard way—chasing leads instead of cultivating relationships. Whether you're struggling with client boundaries, wondering how to build a referral-based business, or seeking that elusive work-life balance, Cynthia's authentic approach to entrepreneurship will give you the clarity and confidence to build something truly iconic. Website:  www.thebrandstrategist.co  The Iconic Brand Blueprint: https://www.thebrandstrategist.co/theiconicbrandblueprint Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebrandstrategist.co Let's Connect! Website: https://www.victoriamariscal.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_mindingherownbusiness/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoria-m-mariscal/

    34 min

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Minding Her Own Business is the antidote to surface-level success content.  Host Victoria Mariscal brings you unfiltered conversations with women who've built something meaningful without sacrificing their sanity. From C-suite executives to creative entrepreneurs, we explore the messy middle of building a profitable and purposeful life. New episodes drop Tuesdays, real talk for women who know that messy progress beats perfect plans every time.