The Family Financial Conversation

The Family Financial Conversation is a podcast that examines the financial decisions families face as they age, often shaped by factors that go beyond just money.

  1. 07/10/2025

    Episode 15 - Fight Club at 55: Generation X Advisors and the Midlife Sucker Punch

    Tom West is a Senior Partner with Signature Estate & Investment Advisors, LLC, providing personalized financial planning and investment services to families in the Washington DC metro area. Suzanne Schmitt is a financial wellness expert with nearly two decades of industry experience in consumer insights, product development and positioning, and marketing and market enablement in financial services. In this episode of The Family Financial Conversation, Tom and Suzanne turn the spotlight on Generation X advisors, exploring the unique pressures and possibilities facing professionals in this overlooked cohort. Drawing from personal experience and industry observations, they unpack how Gen X advisors—many now in their 50s—are grappling with the “midlife sucker punch”: career transitions, technological shifts, sandwich generation pressures, and self-funded futures. From healthcare costs to student debt, this generation has been shaped by financial shocks and institutional shifts, and their clients often mirror those same challenges. The conversation touches on the distinct value Gen X advisors bring to the table—from their adaptability and critical thinking to their ability to “speak Boomer” and guide meaningful family conversations about trade-offs and legacy planning. As institutions embrace AI-driven solutions, Tom and Suzanne call on Gen X advisors to stay involved, not just to survive but to lead. They close by teasing their next project, Longevity Strategists, which will focus on equipping advisors—especially those in Gen X—with the tools and frameworks needed to help clients age well, live independently longer, and make confident decisions in uncertain times. Resources: Signature Estate & Investment Advisors, LLC.

  2. 06/06/2025

    Episode 14 - The Challenger Sale and What the Market is Telling Advisors about AI

    Tom West is a Senior Partner with Signature Estate & Investment Advisors, LLC, providing personalized financial planning and investment services to families in the Washington DC metro area.  Suzanne Schmitt is a financial wellness expert with nearly two decades of industry experience in consumer insights, product development and positioning, and marketing and market enablement in financial services. In today’s episode of The Family Financial Conversation, Tom and Suzanne build on their discussion of The Challenger Sale by exploring how artificial intelligence intersects with the evolving needs of aging clients. Drawing from Tom’s presentation at the Global FinTech Conference, they emphasize that clients are signaling a desire for broader, more holistic engagement that goes beyond portfolio management. This shift, they argue, is best understood through the lens of “age-weighted revenue”—a metric that tracks where revenue is coming from by client age and helps advisors anticipate future revenue drop-offs. AI, when used well, can be a catalyst for scaling personalized advice, improving discoverability, and allowing advisors to meet clients where they are—especially as aging-related challenges become more central to the advisory relationship.  Using the five archetypes from The Challenger Sale—challenger, relationship builder, lone wolf, hard worker, and reactive problem solver—the hosts explore how AI can enhance (or threaten) each style. For instance, AI can help reactive problem solvers automate crisis responses and relationship builders personalize outreach, while hard workers risk being outpaced if they don’t adapt. Tom and Suzanne stress that challengers, in particular, can use AI to anticipate problems before clients even realize them, reinforcing their value. They close by previewing their upcoming project, Longevity Strategists, which will further explore how technology and advisor archetypes converge to meet the needs of aging clients and their families. Resources: Signature Estate & Investment Advisors, LLC.

  3. 02/10/2025

    Episode 10: Your Future Self Hates You and Why Advisors Should Care

    Tom West is a Senior Partner with Signature Estate & Investment Advisors, LLC, providing personalized financial planning and investment services to families in the Washington DC metro area.  Suzanne Schmitt is a financial wellness expert with nearly two decades of industry experience in consumer insights, product development and positioning, and marketing and market enablement in financial services. In this episode of The Family Financial Conversation, Tom and Suzanne explore forward temporal discounting – why people tend to prioritize immediate gratification over long-term financial well-being – and how advisors can help clients bridge the gap between their present and future selves. Also discussed: Why many people perceive themselves as younger than they actually are and how this affects financial decision-making.The impact of delaying major life milestones, such as homeownership, on long-term financial security.How futurecasting exercises can help clients better visualize their aging process and financial needs.The power of using past financial regrets and successes (either personal or from family members) to inform smarter choices today.Practical strategies for financial advisors, including scenario planning, pre-commitment techniques, and visual aging tools like AgingBooth and FaceLab.The importance of framing financial planning as a partnership with both present and future clients to drive better long-term outcomes. Resources:  Signature Estate & Investment Advisors, LLC.

  4. 11/20/2024

    Episode 9 - The Perils and Opportunities of Unretiring with Tom West & Suzanne Schmitt

    Tom West is a Senior Partner with Signature Estate & Investment Advisors, LLC, providing personalized financial planning and investment services to families in the Washington DC metro area.  Suzanne Schmitt is a financial wellness expert with nearly two decades of industry experience in consumer insights, product development and positioning, and marketing and market enablement in financial services.   In this episode of The Family Financial Conversation, Tom and Suzanne discuss the concept of unretirement, where retirees return to work due to financial insecurity, unexpected healthcare costs, or the need for social connections. Topics discussed: Financial insecurity, healthcare costs, and the social benefits of work are key drivers of unretirement, with family caregiving responsibilities also playing a significant role.How better financial planning might reduce the high unretirement rate, noting that it’s important to account for family dynamics in retirement strategies.Wealth illusion is discussed, where high earners may rely on expected inheritances to fund their lifestyle, which can lead to unrealistic financial expectations.Phased retirement, though popular, is considered unfeasible in many professions, and clients should examine the root causes, such as financial needs or psychosocial factors.The critical role of healthcare planning in retirement, advising that healthcare concerns should be a primary focus in financial planning, especially in relation to family dynamics. Resources:  Signature Estate & Investment Advisors, LLC.

  5. 08/22/2024

    Episode 8 - Nobody Cares About Your Advice and It’s Okay with Tom West & Suzanne Schmitt

    Tom West is a Senior Partner with Signature Estate & Investment Advisors, LLC, providing personalized financial planning and investment services to families in the Washington DC metro area.  Suzanne Schmitt is a financial wellness expert with nearly two decades of industry experience in consumer insights, product development and positioning, and marketing and market enablement in financial services.   In this episode of The Family Financial Conversation, Tom and Suzanne explore the crucial role of understanding and addressing clients' emotional and financial mindsets in building stronger, trust-based relationships in financial advising. Topics discussed: The challenges financial advisors face when clients aren't receptive to advice, particularly during transitions.Experiences offering well-researched financial advice that clients were not ready to hear, emphasizing the importance of timing in giving advice.The importance of listening and understanding clients' "money scripts," unconscious beliefs about money that influence their behavior.Four types of money scripts are discussed: money avoidance, money worship, money status, and money vigilance, each affecting how clients respond to financial advice.Being present and emotionally attuned during client transitions, rather than pushing advice when clients are not ready to hear it.The value of patience and active listening in advisory roles.The podcast also explores the evolving role of financial advisors, suggesting that they need to develop soft skills and emotional intelligence to meet changing client expectations and improve retention and organic growth. Resources:  Signature Estate & Investment Advisors, LLC.

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The Family Financial Conversation is a podcast that examines the financial decisions families face as they age, often shaped by factors that go beyond just money.

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