Harsh Truths of Love

Harsh Truths of Love
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We share real stories, hard lessons and bold takes about love, so we can be smarter in life. Through video essays, commentaries, books and more, we explore a wide range of topics related to relationships, psychology, personal finance, well-being, and more. Most of all, we are a community where people can come together and support each other. Visit us at https://www.harshtruthsoflove.com/

Episodes

  1. 11/06/2024

    Should I take away my wife's access to our money?

    00:00 start 00:48 Am I wrong to tell my wife what to do with her inheritance? 04:55 I gave my ex-wife a large amount of money I won despite the anger of my girlfriend 08:49 I helped my friend hide money from his soon-to-be-exwife. Does that make me a criminal? 14:24 Should I take away my wife's access to our money? 20:36 Am I a bad person for not giving my ex wife money from the sale of my house? 23:15 My soon-to-be ex-husband is spending OUR money on his gf! What is a separate asset? What is a community asset? What kind of activities would change the nature of your separate asset like your inheritance? You can find answers to these questions through Anew. Anew is a technology platform that helps you sort out financial matters in a prenup and a divorce. It simplifies the complex legal process into a guided experience paired with financial analysis and on-demand consultations with attorneys. Go to https://www.loveanew.co/clarity for a free 7-day trial. Join 200+ people in our newsletter: https://www.harshtruthsoflove.com/

    28 min

  2. 10/30/2024

    the truth about divorce court

    When you think of the court, what comes to mind? Justice? Authority? Order? Courts are often perceived as the ultimate arbiters of fairness and legal resolution. However, when it comes to divorce court, the reality can be starkly different. Many assume that turning to the court for resolution in marital disputes will bring clarity and fairness, but this assumption can be misleading. If you rely on the court to figure out your marital finances and tell you what to do, you might find yourself entangled in a lengthy and costly process. To figure out marital finances and learn to discover your partner's financials, go to https://www.loveanew.co/discovery and use the code TRUTH for 20% off. Or go to https://www.loveanew.co/truth for a FREE 7-day trial. Join 200+ people in our newsletter: https://www.harshtruthsoflove.com/ Or share your story on our Reddit community https://www.reddit.com/r/HarshTruthsofLove/

    6 min

  3. 10/17/2024

    waiting out the prenup to divorce my cheating wife | Reddit stories

    Stories: 0:00 Start 0:50 I'm waiting out my prenup before divorcing my cheating wife 9:43 Am I the a*****e for "robbing" my wife's affair partner which has now led to his divorce? 14:48 Am I wrong for wanting a divorce from my husband who lost 200K on Bitcoin? 22:15 Should I tell my ex-wife's fiancee the truth about our divorce? 29:56 My wife quit her job to be a "tradwife," I want a divorce. Whether you are getting married or divorced, it all comes down to one thing: money. A prenup is about how you are going to divide up money in the case of a divorce. A divorce is about, well, it’s all about money. To figure out the marital finances, you can use Anew. It will help you sort out what’s marital and what’s separate, whether there should be any alimony, and what terms to avoid in a legal agreement. Go to https://www.loveanew.co/clarity and get your free 7-day trial. Join 200+ people in our newsletter: https://www.harshtruthsoflove.com/ Or share your story on our Reddit community https://www.reddit.com/r/HarshTruthsofLove/ Story sources: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1blzc1k/aitah_for_waiting_out_my_prenup_before_divorcing/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1cajlmm/aitah_for_robbing_my_wifes_affair_partner_which/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/btbdd6/aita_for_wanting_a_divorce_from_husband_who_lost/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1cocv9z/aita_for_telling_my_exwifes_fiancee_the_truth/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1c397zy/aita_for_threatening_my_wife_with_divorce_after

    43 min

  4. 10/08/2024

    the price tag of an affair | divorce money diary

    So, you've been cheated on. Have you ever considered how much your spouse spent on the extramarital affair? The silver lining is that whatever your spouse spent can be claimed as credit for you, as spending on affairs is often deemed "wasteful spending" in divorce court. This can be viewed as "marital asset dissipation," potentially reducing your spouse's share of the marital assets and income in the divorce. However, the downside is that the affair could result in significant attorney fees for both you and your spouse. For anyone who left their marriage for an affair partner, is it really worth it? To figure out marital finances and learn to discover your partner's financials, go to https://www.loveanew.co/discovery and use the code TRUTH for 20% off. Or go to https://www.loveanew.co/truth for a FREE 7-day trial. Join 200+ people in our newsletter: https://www.harshtruthsoflove.com/ Or share your story on our Reddit community https://www.reddit.com/r/HarshTruthsofLove/

    9 min

  5. 10/01/2024

    husband wants divorce after my cancer diagnosis | Reddit story

    At our wedding, we promised to stand by each other in sickness and in health. But what happens when those vows are tested? How do we come to terms with it when our partner abandons us in our time of greatest need? If your spouse wants to leave, let them. Just don't let them take away your money. Protect your financial security through Anew. Go to https://www.loveanew.co/truth and get your free 7-day trial. Join 200+ people in our newsletter: https://www.harshtruthsoflove.com/ Or share your story on our Reddit community https://www.reddit.com/r/HarshTruthsofLove/

    9 min

  6. 09/24/2024

    for months, my husband hid money from me | Real Stories

    Infidelity comes in many forms, and while we often think of it as a physical or emotional betrayal, financial infidelity can be just as, if not more, devastating. Discovering that your partner has been hiding money or lying about finances can shake the very foundation of your relationship and your belief in the "partnership." If you have any suspicions, this video will guide you on the steps to take next. To figure out marital finances and learn to discover your partner's financials, go to https://www.loveanew.co/discovery and use the code TRUTH for 20% off. Or go to https://www.loveanew.co/truth for a FREE 7-day trial. Join 200+ people in our newsletter: https://www.harshtruthsoflove.com/ Or share your story on our Reddit community https://www.reddit.com/r/HarshTruthsofLove/

    6 min

  7. 09/17/2024

    ashamed of money fights in the divorce? don't be.

    Tacky. Improper. Embarrassing. Those are the words associated with money fights in the divorce. So, we try to avoid looking like we're arguing about money. But the reality is, divorce is about money. The important thing is how we handle it – there’s a right way and a wrong way to go about it. To get the facts straight and have a game plan for a "good" money fight, use Anew. Go to https://www.loveanew.co/discovery and use the code TRUTH for 20% off for the financial discovery guide. Or go to https://www.loveanew.co/truth for a FREE 7-day trial of the financial discovery platform. Join 200+ people in our newsletter: https://www.harshtruthsoflove.com/ Or share your story on our Reddit community https://www.reddit.com/r/HarshTruthsofLove/

    7 min

  8. 09/10/2024

    the biggest misconception about alimony

    Alimony might not be what you think. Celebrity divorces and TV shows often create the impression that alimony is automatic whenever there's an income disparity. In this episode, we delve into the common misconceptions and cognitive biases surrounding alimony. We also discuss how ineligible alimony requests frequently appear in divorce court due to the misaligned interests of attorneys (and matrimonial judges). Anew’s financial disclosure platform helps you comb through your net worth and income & expenses, which are fundamental factors that determine the legitimacy of alimony requests.Go to https://www.loveanew.co/truth and get your FREE 7-day trial. If your spouse is pretending to be poor with the intention to get alimony, you can use Anew’s Financial Discovery Guide https://www.loveanew.co/discovery to uncover hidden income and assets and demonstrate the truth of your marital finances. Use code TRUTH for 20% off. Join 200+ people in our newsletter: https://www.harshtruthsoflove.com/ Or share your story on our https://www.reddit.com/r/HarshTruthsofLove/

    6 min

  9. 09/03/2024

    my ex-husband tried to financially rob me through the divorce

    "What's mine is mine, and what's yours is also mine." What if your marriage was just a financial scam, and the divorce turned into a financial robbery? How do you come to terms with the fact that the person you thought you'd spend the rest of your life with never wanted the "everlasting"? Even more painfully, you might just want to write a check to end it all, but what if you don't have the money they want, leaving you stuck in a never-ending divorce? There is a way to defend against financial robbery. Go to https://www.loveanew.co/discovery and use the code TRUTH for 20% off for the financial discovery guide. Or go to https://www.loveanew.co/truth for a FREE 7-day trial. Join 200+ people in our newsletter: https://www.harshtruthsoflove.com/ Or share your story on our Reddit community https://www.reddit.com/r/HarshTruthsofLove/

    6 min

  10. 08/27/2024

    multi-millionaire husband still charges me rent after 17 years together | Reddit story

    A top story from the subreddit https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/ features a wife still being charged for rent by her multimillionaire husband after many years together. The core issue revolves around handling significant income disparities and wealth gaps in long-term relationships. Once again, it shows us how money shifts the relationship dynamics. How do we ensure our partners feel valued while balancing differing attitudes toward wealth? Is there a fair arrangement beyond sharing everything equally? And what truly undermines trust when love and money intersect? To figure out marital finances and learn to discover your partner's financials, go to https://www.loveanew.co/discovery and use the code TRUTH for 20% off. Or go to https://www.loveanew.co/truth for a FREE 7-day trial. mk0Join 200+ people in our newsletter: https://www.harshtruthsoflove.com/ Or share your story on our Reddit community httghbps://www.reddit.com/r/HarshTruthsofLove/

    16 min

  11. 08/21/2024

    a man's alimony vs. a woman's fertility value in divorce court

    What is the value of a woman's fertility in a divorce? Currently, matrimonial courts deem a woman's fertility value irrelevant in the legal proceedings, despite the established costs associated with fertility preservation such as egg freezing. The law lags so far behind that a man's alimony request based on a short marriage is often considered more relevant than a woman's financial needs for fertility preservation. Is this yet another form of gender bias, where men face no consequences while women bear the loss of their fertility? Should a woman's fertility be considered in divorce negotiations? To defend against unreasonable demands in a divorce without draining your financial resources, you can figure out the finances and legal frameworks through a tool like Anew. Go to https://www.loveanew.co/truth and get your free 7-day trial. Join 200+ people in our newsletter: https://www.harshtruthsoflove.com/ Or share your story on our Reddit community https://www.reddit.com/r/HarshTruthsofLove/

    9 min
  12. i married a man with no money. here's what i learned.

    08/08/2024

    i married a man with no money. here's what i learned.

    What happens when you thought you were marrying for love, only to find out your spouse was actually in it for the money? How do changing financial dynamics affect a relationship? When a previously struggling partner achieves financial success, will they stay committed, or will they seek something - or someone - "better?" Through a real-life story, we share the hard lessons learned when a woman marries a man with no money.

    7 min
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We share real stories, hard lessons and bold takes about love, so we can be smarter in life. Through video essays, commentaries, books and more, we explore a wide range of topics related to relationships, psychology, personal finance, well-being, and more. Most of all, we are a community where people can come together and support each other. Visit us at https://www.harshtruthsoflove.com/

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