The Rural Well

The Rural Well featuring Bridgette Readel and Lauren Van Ewyk

Welcome to the Rural Well! Your hosts Bridgette Readel and Lauren Van Ewyk are thrilled to have you join in our discussion. We have the well being of rural areas like yours in mind when building this podcast. We know the ag industry has its challenges, but we’re right alongside you and cannot wait to connect and inspire one generation's legacy to the next. Let's get started!

  1. Episode 30 - Farm Rescue with Tim Sullivan

    Jun 18

    Episode 30 - Farm Rescue with Tim Sullivan

    What happens when a farm family faces a medical emergency, serious injury, or natural disaster and the crops still need to go in? In this episode, we sit down with Tim Sullivan, Executive Director of Farm Rescue, to talk about what it really means to show up for farm families in crisis. Farm Rescue is the only nonprofit of its kind in North America sending volunteers and equipment directly to farms to plant, hay, harvest, haul commodities, and feed livestock at no cost to struggling families. Since 2005, they've helped over 1,300 farm families across 11 states keep their operations running when everything else is falling apart. Tim and the team at The Rural Well explore the intersection of operational support and mental health, because for a farm family, losing the crop doesn't just mean financial loss. It can mean losing the land, the identity, and the legacy that holds a family together. In This Episode - What Farm Rescue does and how to qualify for help - The emotional and mental health weight that farm families carry through crisis - How volunteers become a lifeline - practically and emotionally - Why operational support is also mental health support - How to get involved as a volunteer or supporter - Tim's perspective on what farm families need most in their darkest moments About Our Guest Tim Sullivan serves as Executive Director of Farm Rescue, a nonprofit he has helped grow into a $6 million organization powered by 700+ volunteers operating across 11 states. Farm Rescue provides free planting, haying, harvesting, commodity hauling, and livestock feeding to farm and ranch families facing injury, illness, and natural disaster. 🌐 [farmrescue.org](https://www.farmrescue.org) Key Takeaways - Farm Rescue provides free operational support - no cost to the family, ever. - They operate in 11 states and have assisted over 1,300 families since founding in 2005. - Hardships they respond to include: illness, injury, accident, and natural disaster. - Volunteers are always needed - equipment operators, mechanics, drivers, and more. - Asking for help is one of the hardest things for farm families to do — and one of the most important. Links and Resources: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.nfmha.ca/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- National Farmer Mental Health Alliance ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lilaclanemedia.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - Lilac Lane Media Facebook -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email: info [at] theruralwell.com

    37 min
  2. Episode 29 - Communication, Mental Health & Marriage with Kate Nesheim

    May 22

    Episode 29 - Communication, Mental Health & Marriage with Kate Nesheim

    In this episode, Bridget and Lauren sit down with Kate Nesheim, founder of Solid Signal Communication, who shares her personal story of navigating marriage, mental health, and loss. Kate's husband Matt, a two-tour Iraq and Afghanistan veteran, developed psychosis years after his service, turning their communication-strong marriage upside down. Kate shares what she learned, what she wishes she'd known, and the practical tools she now teaches others. In this episode: How psychosis slowly dismantled communication in a marriage built on itThe biggest warning sign Kate missed — and what to watch forWhy "clear periods" between episodes are precious and how to use themBuilding a family team when one person can't carry it aloneThe "upstream thinking" strategy: having hard conversations before hard times hitHow to name an elephant in the room — and ask permission before doing it"The problem is not the person" — holding someone accountable without blameWhat 40% of the US military and rural communities have in commonThen we delve into a quote by Simon Sinek on why communication is the foundation of leadership Connect with Kate: Website: www.solidsignalcommunication.com Email: kate@solidsignalcommunication.com Links and Resources: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.nfmha.ca/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- National Farmer Mental Health Alliance ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lilaclanemedia.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - Lilac Lane Media Facebook -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email: info [at] theruralwell.com

    42 min
  3. Episode 28 - Farm Family Coaching with Elaine Froese

    Apr 25

    Episode 28 - Farm Family Coaching with Elaine Froese

    Welcome back to the podcast! In this episode 28, we're blessed to introduce you to our guest Elaine Froese. Elaine isn't just a wealth of information, but she also connected us together to help get this podcast started! In this episode, you will hear: What are spiritual dynamics of transition on the farm?Farmers suffer from being overwhelmed, leading to stress and anxietyDealing from resistance from family or business connectionsfear hurt and frustration are key principals to deal withWhat does your frustration really mean? How do you provide clarity and step back from your circumstances?Do we need to do a deep dive and play detective?Age does play a part in thinking and planning over the yearsHow to plan for succession planningHow we change how we ageThere’s a change of roles, not a change of importanceHow do you find your purpose no matter what age you are?How do non-farm or married in family members communicate about being part of the operation, or what their role could be?People can have participatory anxiety - how you anticipate the worst and worry about it.Tools for Transition - workbook Elaine uses We end with a Quote:  “Healthy succession is a long strategic process, rather than an event of choosing the next leader” Don't forget to listen right to the end as we throw out a fun question to answer! For more about Elaine, visit ⁠https://elainefroese.com/ Links and Resources:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.nfmha.ca/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠-⁠ National Farmer Mental Health Alliance⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lilaclanemedia.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...⁠ Lilac Lane MediaFacebook -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  / theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  ⁠Instagram -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  / theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  ⁠Twitter -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...⁠TikTok -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  / theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  ⁠Email: info [at] theruralwell.com

    37 min
  4. Episode 27 - The Recovering Farmer: Gerry Freisen

    Apr 1

    Episode 27 - The Recovering Farmer: Gerry Freisen

    Welcome back to the podcast! In this episode 27, we introduce you to our guest and author of "The Recovering Farmer" Gerry Freisen. Gerry is known to Lauren and he's a wealth of knowledge! In this episode, we talk about recovering well from addiction, powerful tools to equip you as you seek to move forward, and the reality that farmers face challenges many don't. Also that farmers need to encourage each other as they often times choose to suffer in silence. We also delve into anxiety and depression, Bridgette shares a quote and asks a fun question at the end. Be sure to stay with us right to the end! For more about Gerry, visit http://www.gerryfriesen.ca and for his book, visit https://www.amazon.ca/Recovering-Farmer-Journey-Labyrinth-Depression/dp/1038306132 Links and Resources:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.nfmha.ca/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- National Farmer Mental Health Alliance⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lilaclanemedia.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠... Lilac Lane MediaFacebook -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  / theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Instagram -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  / theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Twitter -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...TikTok -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  / theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Email: info [at] theruralwell.com

    35 min
  5. Episode 26 - Step-Parenting

    Mar 14

    Episode 26 - Step-Parenting

    Sorry the first 1 minute was missing our banter video, be patient, it does start! In this episode, we talk about the blessings and complexities that come with step-parenting. There are many problems and pitfalls that can come with this dynamic situation and there is no "one stop shopping" answer. It's both complex, yet can be very rewarding if you are intentional and have a game-plan as spouse and former spouses. Let's discuss! We also talk about the quote "A step-parent is so much more than just a parent, they made the choice to love, when they didn’t have to." Lastly, we want you to chime in on our last question: If you were to be gone tomorrow, what would you want people to remember you most of all? As always, we thank you for coming along with us on this journey and look forward to hearing from you, our loyal listeners. Links and Resources: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.nfmha.ca/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- National Farmer Mental Health Alliance ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lilaclanemedia.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - Lilac Lane Media Facebook -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@theruralwell⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email: info [at] theruralwell.com

    26 min

Ratings & Reviews

5
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About

Welcome to the Rural Well! Your hosts Bridgette Readel and Lauren Van Ewyk are thrilled to have you join in our discussion. We have the well being of rural areas like yours in mind when building this podcast. We know the ag industry has its challenges, but we’re right alongside you and cannot wait to connect and inspire one generation's legacy to the next. Let's get started!