Oblivious Witness

Michelle Neeling

On the Oblivious Witness podcast, I talk to a new guest every week about the things they've witnessed while travelling around the world, and how those things have made them who they are. michelleneeling.substack.com

  1. 2d ago

    Inua Ellams FRSL FRSA

    In 2023, British-Nigerian poet, playwright and performer Inua Ellams was awarded an MBE for services to the arts. At first he didn’t want it. Given what he’d learned about the history of colonialism in Nigeria, accepting such an award felt like a betrayal.After consulting with some of his closest friends, however, Inua decided to accept the MBE so that he could be a signatory for other immigrants who needed someone to vouch for them. He also said to himself, “You’re always gonna create art that’s political, so you’re always gonna be viewed as a target by the establishment. You need to try and buttress yourself as much as possible, and an MBE might help.”Inua’s various invitations to Buckingham Palace in the years since his career as a poet, playwright and performer took off, have struck him as rather surreal, especially given that his journey to British citizenship took an incredible 26 years. With his family having been forced to flee Nigeria as a result of circumstances created by British colonisation, Inua says that such proximity to the heart of Empire is always an out-of-body experience. In this conversation, Inua tells us of his happy childhood in Nigeria, of his early years as a schoolboy in London, of the immigration debacle that forced his family to live in Dublin for three years, and of the sparkling literary career that began when he couldn’t afford to buy the art supplies he needed to fulfil his dream of becoming a visual artist.I hope you’ll enjoy this conversation with Inua Ellams as much as I did. For more about his incredible work and advocacy, go to his website or follow him on Instagram. And I’d love to hear your stories too If anything in this episode inspires you to see the world a little differently or to expand your own horizons in any way, I’d love to hear from you. Please drop a note in the comments or send me a message about a story you’d like to share. Every heart-squeeze and comment makes it more likely that someone else might happen upon a conversation that could just widen their world. MUSIC: Defining Life, by Bill ConnPHOTOGRAPHY: Michelle Neeling Written and produced by Michelle Neeling Oblivious Witness is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Oblivious Witness at michelleneeling.substack.com/subscribe

  2. Sep 21

    Janet de Neefe

    The woman behind southeast Asia’s most prestigious literary event When tragedy strikes in the world, whether it be through tyrannical governments, natural disasters or the acts of malevolent individuals, many of us shut down, thinking ourselves incapable of creating positive change. Today’s Oblivious Witness guest is a sparkling example of the opposite of that reaction. When the Bali bombings happened in 2002, Janet de Neefe, an Australian who had by then made Bali her home, responded by creating a human rights festival disguised as a writers festival. The Ubud Writers and Readers Festival is now in its 23rd year, and next month it will provide a stage for a host of extraordinary writers and thinkers, including UN Special Rapporteur on Palestine, Francesca Albanese, multiple award-winning Indian author Kiran Desai, and Indonesian journalist and film-maker Dandhy Laksono. In today’s conversation, Janet tells us about her first visit to Bali as a teenager, about a later trip to the island that changed the course of her life, about navigating cultural differences, about how it is travelling the world on a green passport instead of a blue one, and about running a literary festival that gives the world’s great thinkers a platform upon which to discuss the most pressing issues of our times. And I’d love to hear your stories too If anything in this episode inspires you to see the world a little differently or to expand your own horizons in any way, I’d love to hear from you. Please drop a note in the comments or send me a message about a story you’d like to share. Every heart-squeeze and comment makes it more likely that someone else might happen upon a conversation that could just widen their world. MUSIC: Defining Life, by Bill Conn Written and produced by Michelle Neeling Oblivious Witness is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Oblivious Witness at michelleneeling.substack.com/subscribe

    Janet de Neefe
  3. Sep 4

    Sandu

    The Man and the Musician Stepping into the presence of Sandu, international tabla player, is a beautiful experience. Sandu is immediately warm, kind and generous, and you can’t help but feel that you’re in the company of someone who cares about who you are. Sandu’s interest in the instrument with which he now travels the world began when he was just six years old. His parents, who were extraordinarily artistic, progressive and open-minded, encouraged his passion, which led to him touring with the tabla from a very young age. But there’s an unusual aspect to Sandu’s musical education. During our conversation, Sandu explained that his teachers’ first priority was always to emphasise the importance of kindness. They taught him that being a musician is a job, and like any other job, it’s possible to do it well or to do it badly. And the only way to do this particular job well is to be kind, compassionate and empathetic. It’s from that starting point that you can feel your way into the music, collaborate with other artists, and sense the needs of your audience. Having now lived that ideal for over 32 years, Sandu has gained international recognition and collaborated with renowned artists including Hans Zimmer and Bahramji. His work not only builds bridges between musical styles but also fosters deeper connections between people. For more about Sandu’s beautiful life, music and philosophy, check out his website at https://sandutabla.art, or follow him on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/sandu.tabla/ And I’d love to hear your stories too If anything in this episode inspires you to see the world a little differently or to expand your own horizons in any way, I’d love to hear from you. Please drop a note in the comments or send me a message about a story you’d like to share. Every heart-squeeze and comment makes it more likely that someone else might happen upon a conversation that could just widen their world. MUSIC: Defining Life, by Bill Conn PHOTOGRAPHY: Michelle Neeling Written and produced by Michelle Neeling Oblivious Witness is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Oblivious Witness at michelleneeling.substack.com/subscribe

    Sandu
  4. Aug 7

    Colin Archibald

    “I needed to understand where I was from before I could begin to understand where I was going.” When Colin Archibald moved from London to Perth twenty years ago, he started to reflect on all the many journeys that had led to him having the chance to do that. Through his research, he learned more about how his ancestors were taken from Africa and forced to cross the seas to Jamaica. He reflected on how strong they must have been to survive that journey, and recognised that he was standing on the shoulders of giants. He thought about how his parents, so many years later, had crossed back over the oceans, this time to the UK, to help rebuild the nation after the second World War. And when he himself decided to move from the UK to Perth, his eyes were opened to the lessons he could learn from the experiences of his forebears.Colin is now a storyteller, facilitator, and community consultant exploring identity, culture, healing, and lived experience. He writes essays, poetry, and reflections that sit between the personal and the political, centred on voice, belonging, and purposeful living. Please enjoy this conversation about the resilience required to cross continents and learn lessons from both your ancestors and from the ghosts of your former selves. And I’d love to hear your stories too If anything in this episode inspires you to see the world a little differently or to expand your own horizons in any way, I’d love to hear from you. Please drop a note in the comments or send me a message about a story you’d like to share. Every heart-squeeze and comment makes it more likely that someone else might happen upon a conversation that could just widen their world. MUSIC: Defining Life, by Bill Conn PHOTOGRAPHY: Michelle Neeling Written and produced by Michelle Neeling Oblivious Witness is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Oblivious Witness at michelleneeling.substack.com/subscribe

    Colin Archibald
  5. Jul 24

    Melati Wijsen

    I’m so excited to bring you a conversation with an extraordinary young woman who has dedicated her life to helping the world. I first met Melati Wijsen at the launch of her book, “Change Starts Now – 100 Lessons from a fulltime changemaker”. Soon after, I was lucky enough to see Melati speak to and inspire hundreds of students during a school visit, an activity which she says is central to the fulfilment of her purpose. A few weeks later, Melati spoke at the Ubud Writers and Readers Festival about the power of youth to shape a more sustainable future.Melati began her changemaker journey when she was twelve years old, when she and her sister created an organisation called Bye Bye Plastic Bags. Melati has since inspired audiences all over the world, with appearances on important stages including the General Assembly of the United Nations in New York, National Geographic’s Sustainability Week in Bangkok, and the Ziggo Dome in Amsterdam, where she opened for President Barack Obama. Melati’s three TED Talks have been viewed over two million times. When she was 18 years old, Melati founded Youthtopia, a free learning platform where young changemakers can come together and share the ways in which they’ve had an impact on a changing world. In this tumultuous time, I feel that it’s more important than ever to listen to the voices of young people whose vision, determination, optimism and sheer strength of character will be the building blocks of a more positive future. Melati’s is one of the most important of those voices. Please share this episode with your friends, and especially with the young people in your life. Learn more about Melati’s incredible work at https://www.youthtopia.world/ Oblivious Witness is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Oblivious Witness at michelleneeling.substack.com/subscribe

    Melati Wijsen
  6. 05/16/2025

    "You’ve got to put yourself out on the edge of the cliff, waiting to catch the wind."

    The artist is present There’s something incredibly special about recording a conversation in a podcast guest’s own home. For this episode, I was lucky enough to sit with Australian artist and illustrator Jeremy Ley in his studio, which is attached to the beautiful home he shares with his partner and two children in Kerobokan, Bali. During our conversation, Jeremy often picked up books or artworks he’d created, or pointed to boxes of memorabilia from his mum and his late wife. It was like having a brief and beautiful glimpse into his spectacularly creative and philosophical brain, and I feel so much richer for the experience.During our long conversation (which felt, in real time, as though it took only a few minutes!), Jeremy and I covered so many topics, including: * Jeremy’s early travels with his parents * The life and death of his beloved mother* The birth of his beautiful sons and the tragic death of their mum in her early thirties* His ability to put himself in the path of golden opportunities* His work in books, aged care and a hugely successful Australian start-up* His approach to life and travel* His openness to finding love and happiness after lossDo check out Jeremy’s Instagram to see more of his work.Please enjoy this conversation with the wonderful Jeremy Ley. And I’d love to hear your stories too If anything in this episode inspires you to see the world a little differently or to expand your own horizons in any way, I’d love to hear from you. Please drop a note in the comments or send me a message about a story you’d like to share. Every heart-squeeze and comment makes it more likely that someone else might happen upon a conversation that might just widen their world. MUSIC: Defining Life, by Bill Conn PHOTOGRAPHY: Michelle Neeling Written and produced by Michelle Neeling Oblivious Witness is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Oblivious Witness at michelleneeling.substack.com/subscribe

    "You’ve got to put yourself out on the edge of the cliff, waiting to catch the wind."

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On the Oblivious Witness podcast, I talk to a new guest every week about the things they've witnessed while travelling around the world, and how those things have made them who they are. michelleneeling.substack.com