The Open Dort Podcast

Bedford Dort, Chelsie Dort
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Welcome to The Open Dort Podcast. Join us as we swing wide into the world of parenthood, from the squeaky hinges of being a blended family to the key to effective co-parenting in a mixed family. Whether you're a new parent just turning the handle or a seasoned pro ready to kick open new strategies, we’ve got the tips, tricks, and stories to help you navigate every creak and slam along the way. So, grab your favorite soda, coffee, or whatever else, and let’s open some doors to laughter, learning, and maybe even a few surprises! Maybe we'll even unlock the secrets to parenting! (maybe not)

  1. Quality Time in Relationships: Learning to Understand Each Other’s Needs

    03/17/2025

    Quality Time in Relationships: Learning to Understand Each Other’s Needs

    In this episode, we explore the importance of quality time in relationships, especially when it comes to balancing personal needs and family dynamics. Chelsea shares how she yearns for more one-on-one time with her partner, Bedford, and how they navigated their 9th anniversary celebration. Despite wanting to spend the week together, they faced challenges in making time work due to their children's presence and limited resources. Through this experience, they both reflect on their differing love languages and expectations for quality time. The conversation digs into how important it is to understand and communicate what quality time means for each partner. While Chelsea craved deep connection and uninterrupted time, Bedford had a different approach, often enjoying simpler moments, like watching TV together. Ultimately, the couple learns valuable lessons about how small moments of engagement can strengthen their bond, even if they don't look the same for both partners.

    46 min
  2. Teaching Kids About Race and Allyship

    02/17/2025

    Teaching Kids About Race and Allyship

    In this episode, we discuss the crucial conversations we're having with our children as they grow older and begin navigating the world more independently. With our 13-year-old, Jax, approaching the age where he’ll be spending more time away from us—like going to the movies with friends or hanging out at the mall—it’s more important than ever to have open discussions about race, racism, and how to be an ally.We focus on how we're preparing him to understand his role in standing up for others, particularly in situations where he might witness racism or inequality. We also address the need to teach him about the serious consequences of actions, using the example of blackface during Halloween. When a group of teens painted themselves in blackface and mocked Black history, we emphasize how harmful actions can affect not just the individuals involved but the broader community. These conversations are tough but necessary, as we work to raise a generation of empathetic and socially responsible kids.2. Suggested YouTube Title:

    59 min
  3. How to Talk to Kids About Race and Diversity

    01/27/2025

    How to Talk to Kids About Race and Diversity

    In this episode, we continue our conversation about how to talk to kids about race, diversity, and inclusion, diving into the important topics for children ages 5-9. As kids begin attending school, we see firsthand the experiences they face, especially in terms of bullying and diversity. Bedford shares his own childhood experiences at the same school our kids attend, providing a valuable perspective. We also address common misconceptions that some parents may have, like the idea that we shouldn't talk to our kids about race because it doesn't exist or because they don't see color. We debunk this myth by highlighting how ignoring race can actually perpetuate harmful stereotypes. Instead, we emphasize the importance of teaching kids to recognize and appreciate diversity, including understanding the science behind skin color and melanin. We touch on how to address bullying at a young age, especially the disproportionate bullying experienced by Black children. The episode serves as a guide to help parents navigate these conversations and teach their children how to embrace differences while fostering empathy and understanding.

    58 min
  4. Tips and Tricks for Raising Kids in a Diverse World

    01/21/2025

    Tips and Tricks for Raising Kids in a Diverse World

    In this episode, we discuss the evolving landscape of social media and how platforms like TikTok are on the brink of being banned. While TikTok isn’t our primary platform, we reflect on the potential impact on creators, especially those who have invested significant time and energy into building their presence. As we talk about TikTok’s future, we shift to a larger conversation about the importance of representation, particularly for our children.We dive into why it’s crucial to expose kids, especially from 0-4 years old, to diverse role models, both on-screen and in books. Representation goes beyond just showing characters who look different; it's about creating connections that resonate with our kids. We highlight the importance of using media to normalize diversity and inclusion, and how even simple shows like Doc McStuffins can have a profound impact on a child’s understanding of the world. We also touch on how early exposure to diverse people can shape a child’s approach to race, culture, and empathy as they grow.

    58 min
  5. Raising Mixed-Race Kids: Navigating Race, Identity, and Parenting

    01/12/2025

    Raising Mixed-Race Kids: Navigating Race, Identity, and Parenting

    In this episode of the "Open Door Podcast," Chelsie and Bedford dive deep into their personal goals for 2025, including business, family income growth, travel, and health. We reflect on the burnout of past years and the challenges of maintaining motivation through injuries. We share our "YOLO" approach to life, embracing experiences and making memories with their family. We also explore personal anecdotes, like our journey through parenting their mixed-race children, and the ongoing challenge of navigating race in our family. Chelsie reflects on her past work teaching about race, inclusion, and diversity, and they begin discussing how to talk to children about these important topics. The conversation also touches on their experiences living in Utah, often as the only people of color, and the awkwardness of racial dynamics in social settings. They emphasize how conversations about race are necessary to challenge stereotypes and foster understanding, especially for the next generation.

    1h 3m
  6. The Clap Back! 6 Things That We Do To Protect Our Marriage!

    12/15/2024

    The Clap Back! 6 Things That We Do To Protect Our Marriage!

    In this thought-provoking episode, we tackle the complexities of trust and boundaries in relationships. Reflecting on personal experiences and listener comments, we discuss why we avoid one-on-one time with members of the opposite sex and how this boundary strengthens our marriage. While some view this approach as overly cautious or insecure, we explain it’s about creating safety rails to prevent potential risks and protect our connection. The conversation delves into the emotional roots of infidelity, how small, seemingly harmless actions can lead to larger issues, and the importance of open communication and mutual respect. Through relatable anecdotes and honest reflections, we explore how transparency, shared access, and intentional boundaries create a foundation of trust and security. The episode also considers different relationship dynamics and acknowledges that what works for one couple might not work for another. It’s a candid and enlightening discussion on navigating modern relationships with intention. We then dive into the frustrations of dealing with faulty products, ineffective warranties, and customer service disasters. From personal experiences to wild stories, we highlight how broken systems often leave consumers feeling helpless and angry. One story recounts a healthcare mishap where medications were outrageously overpriced, leading to emotional and financial stress. Another centers on a car dealership that refused to honor a warranty for a faulty vehicle, prompting one man to drive his car straight into the dealership in protest. We share how these experiences affect everyday life, the emotional toll they take, and why knowing your rights is so important. While the stories are frustrating, they’re also sprinkled with humor and lessons about persistence and self-advocacy. The episode reflects on how broken systems, whether in healthcare, automotive services, or retail, force people to go above and beyond just to get what they’re owed. With laughter and relatable anecdotes, we discuss the small victories and the importance of standing up for yourself when the odds seem stacked against you.

    57 min
  7. 6 Things That We Do To Protect Our Marriage!

    12/09/2024

    6 Things That We Do To Protect Our Marriage!

    In this reflective and relatable episode, we discuss how we keep our marriage healthy, including the importance of openness and accountability. We share how having access to each other’s phones and passwords creates trust, removing the secrecy that can lead to tension. Touching on past experiences with infidelity and learning from those challenges, we explore how transparency and honest communication have strengthened our bond. The conversation also includes funny anecdotes, like navigating odd messages on social media, and advice on maintaining connection and security in a modern relationship.

    1h 4m
  8. Thanksgiving Tales: Family Traditions, Awkward Moments & Nostalgia

    12/02/2024

    Thanksgiving Tales: Family Traditions, Awkward Moments & Nostalgia

    In this lively Thanksgiving-themed episode, we share memories, traditions, and hilarious anecdotes tied to the holiday. From debating whether Thanksgiving is overrated to nostalgic stories of childhood gatherings, we reminisce about the food, games, and awkward family moments that make the day special. We also discuss cultural differences in how holidays are celebrated, recount our experiences with family expectations, and explore why certain traditions mean so much to us. It’s a mix of humor, nostalgia, and relatable reflections on what makes Thanksgiving both heartwarming and chaotic.

    45 min
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About

Welcome to The Open Dort Podcast. Join us as we swing wide into the world of parenthood, from the squeaky hinges of being a blended family to the key to effective co-parenting in a mixed family. Whether you're a new parent just turning the handle or a seasoned pro ready to kick open new strategies, we’ve got the tips, tricks, and stories to help you navigate every creak and slam along the way. So, grab your favorite soda, coffee, or whatever else, and let’s open some doors to laughter, learning, and maybe even a few surprises! Maybe we'll even unlock the secrets to parenting! (maybe not)

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  • Creator
    Bedford Dort, Chelsie Dort
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    20
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Bedford Dort, Chelsie Dort
  • Show Website
    The Open Dort Podcast