Established Family Podcast

Derek Palizay
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The Established Family Show is your go-to podcast for biblical wisdom on marriage, restoration, and building a God-centered family legacy. With real, raw conversations, we challenge common misconceptions about love, covenant, and healing. Join us as we dive deep into spiritual truths, practical steps for restoration, and the pursuit of generational transformation—anchored in faith, powered by the Holy Spirit. This isn’t just about marriage—it’s about family revival.

  1. 9H AGO

    The Eternal Cost of Remaining Spiritually Blind in Marriage

    We are entering into a time where the weight and gravity of spiritual blindness in marriage is increasing.Many spouses are quietly grieving the life, covenant, and intimacy they once had… while simultaneously learning how to maintain the appearance of a functioning marriage.An external adornment is created to hide an internal condition.A public image replaces consecration.Performance replaces obedience.Narratives replace repentance.But the Spirit of God is confronting this in the church today.In this teaching, Derek walks through the biblical reality that many marriages are not failing because God has abandoned them — they are suffering because spouses are unwilling to be taught by Him.

    48 min

  2. 5D AGO

    16 False Doctrines Satan uses against Christian Marriages | Marriage Wisdom Series

    Scripture warns repeatedly about false doctrines, seductive teachings, and persuasive philosophies that slowly lead believers away from truth (2 Corinthians 10:5, 1 Timothy 4:1, Colossians 2:8).And today many Christian marriages are quietly operating under belief systems that never came from God.Some of these doctrines come directly from secular culture.Others have been slowly repackaged with Christian language.But all of them distort God’s design for covenant.In this episode, we expose 16 false doctrines that are quietly destroying marriages.THE 16 FALSE DOCTRINES DESTROYING CHRISTIAN MARRIAGESThe Doctrine of Divorce as a Biblical EscapeThe Doctrine of Weaponized NarcissismThe Doctrine of Attachment Theory as Moral AuthorityThe Doctrine of Personality Identity Over Spiritual TransformationThe Doctrine of Relational Equity Over Covenant RighteousnessThe Doctrine of Conditional SubmissionThe Doctrine of Restructured Families & Blended CovenantThe Doctrine of Verbal Repentance Without FruitThe Doctrine of Spiritual Practices Without the Fear of GodThe Doctrine of Performance-Based RestorationThe Doctrine That Marriage Can Remain Spiritually NeutralThe Doctrine of Conditional Healing After InfidelityThe Doctrine of Selective Law-Keeping in MarriageThe Doctrine That Trauma Removes Moral ResponsibilityThe Doctrine of Isolated ChristianityThe Doctrine of Communication Tools Without Spiritual RenewalMany of these ideas are widely accepted in modern Christian culture.But when belief systems contradict the truth of Scripture, they slowly reshape the way spouses interpret sin, repentance, forgiveness, covenant, and restoration.And when that happens, the foundation of the marriage begins to collapse.If a marriage is going to be restored according to God's design, false doctrines must be confronted before truth can rebuild what has been broken.Watch the full teaching to understand how these belief systems take root — and how to return to the truth that restores covenant.📖 Key Scriptures Discussed:2 Corinthians 10:51 Timothy 1:3-71 Timothy 4:1Colossians 2:8Ephesians 4:14Galatians 1:6-72 Peter 2:1Titus 1:10-112 Corinthians 3Revelation 3:16

    2h 4m

  3. FEB 26

    You Shouldn't Feel Defeated in Your Marriage | Marriage Wisdom Series

    Brought to you by ⁠The Marriage Academy⁠https://university.establishedfamily.com/marriage/ Exhaustion in marriage can be righteous.Defeat is not.In this teaching, I make the case from Scripture that defeat is not a condition designed for sons and daughters of God. It is the eternal position of the enemy. And when we align our mind, will, emotions, and conduct with the defeated one, we begin to inherit his verdict inside our marriage.

    20 min

  4. FEB 24

    When a Marriage Lives Under a Curse Instead of the Promises of God

    Brought to you by ⁠The Marriage Academy⁠https://university.establishedfamily.com/marriage/ Your marriage was never designed to operate under the law.In this free release from The Marriage Academy – Semester 3, Module 1, we uncover what the promises of God actually are over your family… and why so many Christian marriages are unknowingly living under a curse instead of walking in dominion.

    47 min

  5. FEB 20

    22 Violations Against "Standing for Marriage" God's Way | Marriage Wisdom Series

    Brought to you by ⁠The Marriage Academy⁠https://university.establishedfamily.com/marriage/ Are you actually standing for your marriage… or just calling it standing?In today’s episode of Marriage Wisdom, we confront a hard truth: not every “stand” is righteous. Not every effort to hold a marriage together is aligned with the heart of the Father.

    33 min

  6. FEB 18

    The Devil Trains Your Senses to Hate Your Spouse

    ➡ Join The Marriage Academyhttps://establisheduniversity.com/marriage Most spouses think their frustration, irritation, numbness, or contempt is just “normal marital tension.”It’s not.When the enemy gains a foothold — what Paul calls topos — he does not waste it. He uses it. He builds on it. And over time, he trains your senses to respond unrighteously to the very covenant you once prayed for.This episode unpacks how temptation becomes sin, sin becomes open doors, open doors become transgression, transgression becomes iniquity… and eventually strongholds. And strongholds are not passive. They are fortresses set up against the righteousness of God — fortresses that begin shaping how you perceive, feel, interpret, and react to your spouse.Scripture shows us repeatedly that unclean spirits manifest in the temple — in the physiology and biology of the human body. They influenced strength (Mark 5), convulsions (Luke 9), infirmity (Luke 13), muteness and blindness (Matthew 9, 12), even overpowering aggression (Acts 19). The body responded to the presence of the spirit.So what makes you think they cannot condition your nervous system to feel anger at the sound of your spouse’s voice… numbness at their touch… exhaustion when peace is possible… or desire for what is outside your covenant?

    52 min

  7. FEB 15

    Marital Blindness: The Hidden Stages BEFORE a Marriage Falls Apart

    Most marriages do not collapse overnight. They decline in stages. In this episode, we uncover the biblical progression of spiritual destruction in marriage — not through psychology, not through cultural language like “drift” or “backsliding,” but through Scripture. We walk through the spiritual sequence that begins with failed temptations and trials and, if left unaccounted for, progresses into sin, open doors, footholds, transgression, iniquity, strongholds, oppression, and ultimately apostasy. Not all bondage is at the same level. But every level must be brought into the light. Ephesians 5:13 says that everything exposed by the light becomes visible. Many spouses do not recognize the depth of spiritual captivity operating in their marriage until it has already borne destructive fruit. By that point, blame is amplified, condemnation is exchanged, and the focus shifts to “what they did” instead of asking where blindness first began. We teach through the five stages that lead to marital destruction: • Spiritual Blindness• Spiritual Hiding• Spiritual Agreement• Spiritual Rebellion• Spiritual Destruction And we make something very clear: the first stage is blindness. Every person listening was blind, or is blind, in some area. We also break down the theological difference between trials and temptation, using Strong’s, Thayer’s, and the TDNT to show how God proves character while the flesh and the enemy seduce it. A trial reveals what is inside. A temptation exposes what has not been strengthened. When trials come and there is no character, sin follows.When temptation comes and there is no resistance, open doors form.And when sin is not repented of or renounced, it progresses. This episode is not about diagnosing your spouse. It is about bringing your own life into the refiner’s fire and asking: Where have I failed the trial?Where have I allowed the door to open?Where have I agreed with something that grieves the Father? We also confront a hard truth: many spouses elevate their personal grievances above what grieves God, condemning their spouse with a weight that was never theirs to carry, while simultaneously asking for mercy themselves. The law condemns. The Spirit brings life.The letter kills. Christ redeems from the curse. Today’s activation will lead you through identifying where you have participated in these stages and writing a letter of repentance to your spouse — not from shame, but from freedom. If you are serious about growing through the stages of marriage toward God’s design, this teaching will expose what must be exposed before restoration can deepen.

    1h 13m

  8. FEB 12

    Is Divorce Biblical? The Truth About Biblical Outs | Part 1 | Marriage Wisdom Series

    Brought to you by ⁠The Marriage Academy⁠https://university.establishedfamily.com/marriage/ Is divorce biblical?Are there really “biblical outs”?And if there are… should you take them?

    32 min
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The Established Family Show is your go-to podcast for biblical wisdom on marriage, restoration, and building a God-centered family legacy. With real, raw conversations, we challenge common misconceptions about love, covenant, and healing. Join us as we dive deep into spiritual truths, practical steps for restoration, and the pursuit of generational transformation—anchored in faith, powered by the Holy Spirit. This isn’t just about marriage—it’s about family revival.

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  • Creator
    Derek Palizay
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    50
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Derek Palizay
  • Show Website
    Established Family Podcast

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